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Lol, I dont even know who or what's in charge of my life.
I know that I dont even have time for favourite meal, I have sacrificed romance, I sacrificed family, i dont have screentime, i neglect my health, no time watching any favourite station, even to sleep long i no fit cos my heart beat will wake me up, I starve enjoyment all to build an intimidating career for my unborn children

And to think I may not even live long to enjoy it is risibly rich, though I kinda find fulfilment in it.

Magnoliaa:
Keep thirsting, puppet.

damn... U really have strength replying every mention.

I dont even check my mentions, let alone replying

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Everybody go collect

Sunshineace:
I'm not the kind of man wey go leave house chores and taking care of my kids to my wife alone, so I will ask u what u will bring to the table

I am not the kind of woman that is lazy, I work for my money too.
So if u want to help in house chores, I'll definitely want to help pay the bills

Magnoliaa:
If you drag feminists here, you'll hear* it from me. She didn't call herself a feminist, I said she's not a feminist and she hasn't disagreed with me.

Abeg, abeg, as the public relations office of Feminism Nigeria Chapter, on this one ooo, this topic and poster - I am saying it has nothing to do with feminism.

She's a true traditional woman that wants a traditional man like y'all. Na your person. Hold am.

I am not feminist. Maybe a pseudo-feminist lolz.
The thing is that most of ya'll didnt get my message,
I either want responsibilities to be shared or each person role should be defined, they keep saying women doesn't know their role, a typical man feels his role is to provide money and the woman should take care of the home bla bla, I just agree with them, I am getting all these insults because I agreed too much

I dont discuss on NL but a particular comment triggered me to create this account and discuss on this

That was how 2019 election was

Magnoliaa:
Can you cook, go to the market, wash, bath, look after the kids/raise them, and do other domestic duties? Share 'burdens' with her?



Why do you even want to assist at all? Is he ever going to assist you? Importantly, why are you supposed to be working? Because you mentioned earning more than he does as a probability. So you're saying, if a woman earns more than her husband, then in that case, she's supposed to bring something to the table? Earning more as a woman negates your premise that women shouldn't contribute.

Should WORKING or EARNING MONEY not be for men? Whatever would make you start earning money as a woman has already sullied your premise that women are multipliers who shouldn't bring money.

If you're also going to be contributing in other aspects, emotionally, spiritually, etc., - why should those non-monetary duties of a woman not count as bringing something to the table?

You sef, everything you're saying is confusing.

lolz, wahala

luminouz:
Bring money biko.

All this your talk no work.

I didn't say I won't bring, I said I won't share financial responsibilities as u people keep saying.

Both men and women have roles to play, helping is a thing but to share ur responsibilities while I carry my own burden all by myself? Hell no.
Even in govt, there is division of power.
Most men feel as long as they bring money, thats the ultimate but they forgot that there are other roles to play and they turn blind and deaf and allows the woman to bear all the burden.

Paxxcarl:
But please don’t bring problem to the table
Women are fond of that

Lolz, problems is relative

Zionzoom:
E no go funny o
Cos I no get singlet and boxers abi

she go buy u from wetin she fit afford to spend.
Even if na okrika boxers

ProphetofOdin:
Una like trouble for this forum ehn!!!!
Where una dey even get power for these online quarrels?

lolz, it keeps the body and soul 2geda

Phaantom22:
I thought what a man can do a woman can do better? You better wakeup from your slumber.

a woman will be glad to change roles with a man, can we say same for a man?

Ok

GoodHardDick:
This is the most useless thread I have ever read on nairaland.

You weren't created to bring anything to the table, but you were created to take abi? Entitlement mentality kill you there. Mumu.

This is why they'll keep on using you girls to do rituals. Relax and be waiting for a SIMP man to come find you so he can be doing everything for you. I pity Simps!

I keep saying it,
Dating a Nigerian girl is a complete waste of time, energy and resources. They have absolutely nothing meaningful to offer a man in a relationship apart from their over used pussies.

Date a Nigeria girl at your own peril.

I really do not answer these kinda comments filled with indults but I'll answer urs.
First, I work and get paid, I have my own dreams, goals and aspirations. I dont need a man to give me food before I eat

UnusualEmissary:
People ask what a woman is bringing in terms of finance; as if finance is all that is needed to run a successful union

A woman does bring her share to the table. What she does in the home, the efforts she takes, the sacrifices she makes to ensure the well-being and happiness of the husband and the children is worth as much or maybe even more than finance.

My Lady, the future of women who think like you do is bright in The New Era. Keep it up.

thanks dear, at least there is someone who understands. Not the wannabe redpillers who has redefined redpill to suit their own narratives

UnusualEmissary:
My Lady, to a great, notable extent, you are right.

The Unity will be proud of women like you.

thanks dear

Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

Hello NL, I am new here, though I have been a guest on NL for up to three years.

So the question is, have u ever been so attached to ur life goals that u begin to question ur sanity?

Like talking to urself, even in public without realising u are in public