₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
Whether you discuss it or not with them, they'll know. Abi are you going alone to marry a wife?

I don't know where you are from, but It doesn't happen in Igbo land, you must come with parents, elders and close family members. A male representative and a female one.

Your dad will sit with you, battling it out with Umunna.

Your mother will be with the Umuadas, checking if their rice, onions, tin tomatoes, stella pomade and groundnut oil is complete and of premium quality.

There are things a young modern man who only knows about Kepa, Kante and Lampard would struggle to handle on his own- this is one of them. Your degree and big prick cannot help you when those angry relatives start with you and your incomplete list. Only another experienced and versed elder can save you.

Call your father and tell him whatsup. It is even good as it will portray you people as united there. Not the one that you'll be talking A, your dad will be on M, all because you didn't carry him along with your plans.

Talk to your father, let him give you orientation- before they'll give you tray of kolanut there, you will na pick first and start eating it.

Please don't be fed up, them no dey marry wife finish. Na continuous process.

Thanks

nlPoster:



Do you mean you want to renegotiate the brideprice with your fiancee's family?

Your thread title sounds like you're a lady who disagrees with her folks on the brideprice they're requiring from her intended groom.

No I'm the intending groom

Good evening fellow nairalanders
I'll just go straight to the point and not bore you with lengthy write up.
My marriage is coming up next month and my in-laws have told me what to pay.
However the amount is way too high and I'm thinking of discussing it with my dad if he can help in renegotiating the price.
I want to know if that's right because I'm confused right and almost fed up right now

Stupid award given on the bases of highest bidder.

ayodijex:
Lagos state will not pay her but the school itself are under normal circumstances supposed to pay her.

What if it's a public school?

Fellow corpers on NL,
My wife was recently redeployed to Lagos and posted to a privately owned school.
I want to know if the Lagos state government pay corps members serving in private schools or it's just the normal federal allowee of 19,800.
I need honest advice from experienced corps members.
Thank you.

@Op I've read through your post and replies to your post as well as your response/defense.

To be frank with you only matured and sincere people will tell you the bitter truth. Funny enough you don't want to hear it you prefer people massaging your ego.
I'll ask you few questions before dropping my 2 cent.
1. What are you doing/expecting from a 19 years old at your age?
2. What happened to all the protective/preventive measures?
3. Why did you ask her to keep the pregnancy when she opted for abortion and doubting the paternity?
4. Why do you defend her image online?
5. You don't like her state of origin and she's not your kind of girl, why were you sleeping with her?

My bro I think the problem you have is not loving her but she not being in your preferred class which of course you can work on. Also by your level of exposure you'll definitely have a rub off on her.
You can touche her up, discipline and establish her to your taste.

I'm not going to condemn nor tongue lash you.
Going to the family to tell them you can't marry their daughter after impregnating her is not only insulting but demeaning.
Trust me that girl is carrying your child/ren and they can be prominent personalities tomorrow.
I'm sure you've heard of witch hunting?
It's for real don't let the girls family or the lady herself toll that path just because of you.
As to marrying the girl, it's entirely your decision to make. However note that it's better to marry someone who loves you more than you do love them. Also marry someone who gives you peace of mind. Looking for smart lady isn't bad just pray you don't get the wrong one.
Lastly stop insulting people and take blames for your action where you need to.

[quote author=SavageSavior post=80015260]She's not my sister so i don't care.[/quote

You'll when someone does same to your daughter tomorrow nitwit.

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klas:
What sort of news is this?

Why would FG seek the help of someone who was sent packing since January in an on-going case? He doesn’t sit to hear the case, he didn’t constitute the panel, of what relevance is he, to the case?

They want him to be the one to deal the destructive blow. They want to use him against the PDP.

MikeBetty:
Do We Still Have Subsidy In Nigeria? APC Is Pure Scam And Led The Most Corrupt Govt In Nigeria. We Were Told That There Is Nothing Like Fuel Subsidy In Nigeria. After Jerking Petrol Price From #89 To #145 In The Name Of Subsidy Removal We Are Still Hearing Subsidy Removal. Apc E No Go Better For Una.

They even fought the previous administration because of subsidy
Karma is indeed a bitch

Let them be deceiving themselves. Mobil is not leaving yet they keeping giving out their filling stations and mini depots as franchise just like Mr Biggs.
I hear

How genuine is this?

If this true I'll be the happiest guy

O thought they've postponed the resumption date.
Also I want to know if it's possible to skip like five days from the exercise[color=#550000][/color]

O thought they've postponed the resumption date.
Also I want to know if it's possible to skip like five days from the exercise

Wanted to comment initially but a look at the source, made me reserve my comments.

I know for sure this news will be refuted by INEC in no distant time

factorial1:
Registration now ends 20th of March.

How true is this info

Since you've completed your school registration I will advice you deferred the admission and take up the airforce job then later while still on the job you can lobby to be transferred to the state where you gained admission and continue with your sch that's if you insist on studying full time alongside your job.

Bastards they should be left to rot in jail

May God grant them eternal rest

TonyeBarcanista:
How would an "Attestation Certificate" be issued when the supposed ORIGINAL certificate is still with the "military board"?

Did Buhari claim that his original was missing for them to issue the new one? IF YES, then it amount to perjury for him to LIE under oath that the certificate is with the military board.

Thank God we still have some sane minds in this country. With people like you in this country, I believe there's still hope

modestbrowser:
Wow.... See suya.
Just need Wizzy stew now and better rice to down this suya.
Well I no b cannibal sha.

It's either you are insane or mentally deranged.

mirexxx:
guys dont care! some might grab the babe and bleep her

the only lady that mistakenly saw my joystick got bleeped by me instantly

Pvin:
Mrs. President doesn't nag, rather she stands as a strong pillar beside the husband. A quality I love so much in her. (in every Union, one must come out stronger and the other weaker)

I advice you go for such woman if you want to go far because any man who is scared of marriage is weak.

you are right bro