₦airaland Forum

Nooil:
The child could be a product of abortion

Ihatefeminist:
when una go don abort countless souls commot now you are praying for a baby
You go wait tire

Katier00:
Test again after 3 days, maybe it is too soon. Are you on any fertility drugs? Sometimes it messes your circle .I pray it comes out positive. Plenty baby dust to you. Our coro baby. May God use this period of lockdown to visit as many couple looking for a fruit

yinkaadesegha:
Sir.., that spirit husband of your wife is definitely at work, if care is not taken things may get worse, engage in midnight prayers read psalm 51,103, 100,19,8 and pray with Obadiah 1.17 and Exo 14.14. Pray pray pray sir. Thanks

ednut1:
i see a woman trying to con you and looking for something to blame it on. She may have no womb

uboma:
1,000,000 likes for your comment.

@ Op, heed the quoted words very seriously.

The kind of movies (especially the home videos that features spiritism) can make your wife have these kind of dreams/thoughts. Does she view these kind of movies?

madridguy:
I guess this is what you want to hear. You ignored every suggestion and jumped here. Just be very careful.

Omololaeni:
I can remember my aunt had this same problem some years back, she went spiritual about it and she was told she had spiritual husband called oko orun in Yoruba. Her dream range from getting married, having sex and making babies but naturally she wasn't pregnant. She was asked to do some things sha and we didn't hear if it again.

movement2020:
Good the court are not in process. Good, you also have patience to ask on how to handle it perfectly. I appreciate that in you. You are manly.

Now, to the solution. It's going to be a hard one. I don't know how you can handle what am about to advise but with your patience and manly stand, I think you would be able.

Op, this life, we are faced with different tribulations. Yours will differ from mine. To be frank, you went too far and now you have to be bold enough to face the consequence. It's just like couples checking each other's phone. They will definitely see something they never planned. Either get depressed or break up.

You have two options but before you take any, let the children in question be your first reason to decide

The first option is, tell your wife and seek for divorce. If you divorce, your daughter would live separately which is a problem to you because rarely would have the chance to train her.

Second, take it as your destiny. The greatest secret you will take down to your grave. Accept fate, forgive and move on as if nothing happened. It's easy said than done but that's the truth. We all have secrets and this should be added to yours. Love your wife as well.



What if tomorrow the father of the boy decide to come for his boy?

Ausrichie:
How does long hair mean you look unkempt. This doesn't answer the question. If the hair was untidy then that is a different case but seeing how the parents handled things I highly doubt that.

Ausrichie:
This thread shows how ignorant many Nigerians are. What is wrong with hair I keep asking myself but no one can ever answer it reasonably
Africans self ehn.

sassysure:
If a parent decide to grow her child's hair, what biz is that to the oversabi Nigerian teacher?

Oversabi yet we are the poorest country in the world.
Mtcheew

suzzyboss:
After I pay my child's school with my hard earned money buy school uniform buy books pay lesson money, pay transportation fee e.t.c one mumu teacher will now come and shave my child's her ..my child ooo, what if it's dreadlocks I want for my child.. Na my child.. Why can't she come and tell me first.. 5 year old for that matter