Not being Specific or explicit in this matter may keep us out of track, and unfocused. A girl may decide to play the hard way, because she wants to keep her dignity. I for one, will not be too happy to accept a girl who will just say "YES" to my proposal, without giving a second thought. You must always understand that what is got cheaply will be taken away cheaply. If you strain to get a girl, u may be a bit confident that any other boy will strain to get her, keeping u on the safe side. If u are the sensitive type, even when a girl plays hard, u'll understand if she is 4 u or not. The only aspect I'll have to castigate squarely, is turning u down in Pride. Afterall, sometimes u are turned down because of the way u started the show urself

How Do You Know Your Friend Really loves You?

How do you know that a girl or a boy has a true love for you? Too many sweet words have turned the world of love into a world of delusion. Sometimes I get confused about whether a girl really loves or likes. What are some of the symtoms of real love?

If u loved him, or feel u were only being infatuated, rather than love, simply tell him the reasons for which u want to call of the relationship.Tell him to his face, that for the following reasons, u just feel the relationship should be broken, b4 it gets too late, and things begin to go wrong.
SMS will do no good to the situation.It's a situation that needs a tete a tete.

WHAT IS A QUALIFICATION FOR INDECENT DRESSING

Many a times, we have over laboured the topic of indecent dressing in our societies. But the Multibillion dollar question still lingers in my mind every day. what is indecent dressing? how well should a girl or a boy dress to make everybody appreciate the outfit.how short or transparent is a dress to be considered indecent. I want to know so we can put an end to this everliving but no impact topic

If you call your girlfriend and a man picks up the phone, what will you do?

Hey Guys,

Should you call your girlfriend one day, and a man picks the phone with a warning that you should never call that line again, what will you do? Secondly, if you meet that very girl in your own house, on your own bed with another man, who will you attack - the man, the woman,or both. I long for sincere answers.

Should Reverend Fathers Get Married?

In 1 Corinthians 7, Paul talks about marriage. In that same verse, he puts it clear that if you can not be like him, it is better to get married, than to mess yourself up.

I have heard several cases, home and abroad, where Reverend fathers and sisters commit untold sins, fit enough to make any pagan vow to remain in paganism. And I have asked many a times without a cogent answer as yet. Must you be a celibate, before you can serve God? Where did did catholics get the doctrine of mandatory celibacy, for reverend fathers, even when they are conspicuously not keeping to it?

As usual, I beg for fathomable answers please.

Loneliness in singlehood, all depends on what the individual wants a friend for.It could also have a bearing on how the former friend, or date, if you don't mind, treated him or her..I'm only saying that if you are looking for a friend or date for companionship, or if you had one that was a real companion to you, there is no doubt that you will be secluded to loneliness, when the companion is no longer there. But if you are looking for friends for sex partner, the loneliness is out of question here because there are so many coquettes out there waiting for you to go along with. In a nutshell, lonliness counts, if it has to do with companionship

I'm sure any sincere person will agree with me that our educational system is a sad story to tell.

[list][li]University lecturers spend their time taking money and sex from students instead of doing the work they are paid for.[/li][li]Students on their part do not read any longer because they understand their money can buy their way out.[/li][li]"Waec Supervisors", as they are called, pay huge amounts of bribe to get a position in the exam session, with the hope of extorting the money in hundred folds back from the students in the halls they call exam centers.[/li][li]We have more schools than countries like Ghana and Cameroon, but can't dream of comparing the academic standards.[/li][/list]

It if for all this, that I say without fear nor favour, and owe no appology to any one that in Nigeria, we have schools but no education. If you have a contrary opinion, let us know your mind.

Oju you spoke well, but did answer my question.the question is can a non christian go to heaven?if yes why, and how? if no, then clear the air for all.

In john14: Jesus said he is " the Only way" in acts 4:12,no other name by which men shall be saved.and the references are just too many.But now the multibillion dollar question stands all day long! Can a non christian who does not believe in christ go to heaven?. I'm talking about Muslims and other religions like the bahi and judaism. Can a well thinking person answer me without any atom of fanaticism. I need cogent proves.

In john14: Jesus said he is " the Only way" in acts 4:12,no other name by which men shall be saved.and the references are just too many.

But now the multibillion dollar question stands all day long! Can a non-christian who does not believe in Christ go to heaven? I'm talking about Muslims and other religions like the bahi and judaism. Can a well thinking person answer me without any atom of fanaticism? I need cogent proofs.

First of all, we must admit that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. you may see a girl or boy as being ugly, but the lover sees what you are not seeing with your superficial eyes.We must also understand that the beauty of ladies or men are judged with many different criteria. I may be interested in the hips of ladies,and their face, and of course i really am, but the other guy will be interested in the legs of what ever. My combination, when complete makes a girl beautiful to me.Above all, the inward person-I mean the character of the individuals. if we bring all these points to cognizance, then no girl or guy will be considered as being ugly.

getting a girl u just saw 4 the first time is even a wrong idea. It will be nothing short of infatuation.If you see a girl for the first time, what u need do is to start knowing her better, by coming close to her. If u asked how to make yourself used to a girl you saw for the first time, i should have been in a good possitioon to help you. I cant help you "get" a girl you have never known b4 in ur life,for that will be tantamount to helping you dig your grave.

Many a times I wonder why men tend to be unfaithful with women. I know too well, that every girl can offer what the other could offer. So, can a good philosophical thinker give me a rational reason why most men, if not all, are unfaithful?

Maybe he wants to be a bit natural, and nhimself. But I must confess the pic he has placed on the advert, has nothing to write home about. If a girl should date who she has not seen eye 2 eye, is pic should be an outstanding one, good enough to win her attraction. Away from that, he is just too young to start feeling frustrated about love, to the extent of placing an advert in a site. I really wonder how his parents will feel if they saw this! If the parents will not do anything, even if they saw it, then i think any girl going into such family should be careful to the extremes. Todays girls as i have come to knowing, Love responsible guys for a responsible life to make responsible families
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Oh yes!every couple needs to court before they get married, so they can really know whom they are. I personally think the period of courtship depends largely on the individuals descretion, but i may suggest two years is a good period. But in general, anything short of one year, should be considered as infatuation, not love. And doom is closely iminent