₦airaland Forum

1x2x3:
Your level of reasoning is worrisome. You brought the current disaster and now you want another pending disaster to come rescue you.

enobong18:
Too many weak men, see the man with the balls

Bluntguy:
Him and Tinubu's lives depend on it. They see the Nigerian presidency as an entitlement rather than a call to serve. Let's vote Peter Obi.

wealth2u:
Suspension of Agbero for main time

squash47:
comrade calm down.

squash47:
This shop don dry. U don chop everything wey dey ur mama shop finish. And u say u be G boy wey dey catch work for Quora dey cash out for PayPal.

Oboy, go begin learn work o. If na barber at least u go dey touch the hairs of people wey get sense. Maybe sense fit enter ur own head through there.

Davies25:
I can't make a head or a tail out of this story.
I just hope i can be coherent enough.

Okay, I'm 30. I've been through some serious shit like I'll health, several near death experiences, severe poverty, betrayal in every form n shade, dysfunctional family, loneliness and addiction. I hope you don't judge me if i come out as unserious and confused. Seriously, it's the effects of the things I've been through.

So, I need to make a life defining decision and i need to make it urgently. But i don't know how to or what to do.

I took a loan from a commercial bank ( the loan went bad and i couldn't pay. My business was almost dead. I had to take initiative and kickstart it again, diverting from the original plan. It worked. I started making a few hundreds a month. I started repayment of my loan but, unfortunately, the loan has already carried too much interest. Everything I'm paying goes to interest. Loan amount not really reducing.

I need to pick up other skills or just have another stream of income since I'm free most of the day..
So, I'm thinking of getting a laptop ( my baby damaged my previous one).
And learning forex trading, cryptocurrency.
Or learn a few programming language ( i don't like programming from onset).
Or learn any other skill you suggest.
My other option is to go back to school. School of nursing or msc. But money would be a bit of a challenge here.

Or travel to the US using illegal means ( i hate this option).

I have a sister in the USA who entered through F1 dependent visa. She's been there for about 4 years now. Is there a way she could help me move?
She has been on my neck for relocation but she's not giving me money for the things i need to put in place to make relocation possible. My funds are too tight to fund travelling.

My last option is to face my business squarely and try to grow it ( but Nigeria scares me. I've seen people struggle for decades. I don't want to make that mistake).

I don't know what to do. Sincerely.

Note: I'm a sickle cell. I had congestive heart failure earlier this year. I don't even know if i will survive the next few years.

Leading me to the next question; SHOULD I MARRY N HAVE KIDS? knowing my health status. Is it wise?
Note: my baby is a 3 n half old. She's adopted.
Her own case is another story entirely.

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Candidlady mariahAngel
hsapien Richy4
emmanuelbrown26
Beremx. Channah1
Lastbornbuns
NoToPile
RoyalRoy I need as many people on this as possible. Please.

Omodua:
See my rascallity and misguided mascot threatening fire and brimstone. You think everybody is cheap and slavish like my papa. You want a terminally sick and insentient human vegetable like my father to lead me again. Like Buhari?
Thunder fire me and my generation!

PointZerom:
Can you imagine who you want as a president in this 21st century?

PointZerom:
You can't do shi.. Shi.

specialmati:
Jagaban you want incase of next time. No be everybody want to see old people working instead of resting and enjoying their old age

Ibrahimcoomasie:
BAT

LegendHero:
Lol if 60% is non-indigene, then Yoruba should be the 4th largest tribe.

Maybe you’ve killed all Yoruba finish and replaced them with non-indigene.

I always laugh at those who inflate Igbo people number in the SW. Eveb in Lagos, with how the Igbo vote bloc for PDP, if they come close to 25% in that state, they would have been selecting Lagos governor.

This is the maths.
You have Northerners and the rest of the SS tribe in Lagos too. You will also have Yoruba that are PDP so if you add them to that numbers, PDP candidate should be getting at most 45% in every election in Lagos.

It is only a dunce that will think non-indigenes are more than indigenes in the SW. you my brother, I’m sure you’re not one.

Totilopussylick:
I had a dream last night that Peter obi is not going to win the next elections in Nigeria


Atiku is the next president of federal republic of Nigeria.

NaijaRoyalty:
He was in Osun all through the campaign and till the election eve and still he couldn't influence anything as the so called jagaban of nonsense

Don't also forget that Oyetola is Tinubu cousin and Osun state is Tinubu maternal home