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Kobojunkie:
You mentioned earlier that you respect your aunt? Are you sure that is all you feel towards her?

Hahaha! Guy abeg nw na morning. Dis kind question fit make me to begin dey admire my aunt, but God 4bid. I still respect her. Shes a very strong woman. She gave me d courage to start all over nd am glad am really doing well too.

donPhill:
Nothing new again bro, you just never paid attention...
Asked yourself why those matured men pays any amount for those oloshos? They really do crave for s#x

Its well. I just hope d man keeps his ego low nd seal his lips. Cos dis family is a well knwn nd respectd family in oyigbo. If he eventually leaks outside, its gonna bring shame.

Kobojunkie:
Your mum is directly involved how? Does she use some form of remote control to feed commandw to the man and your aunt or something?

So, because you don't want people to find out that your mum linked the man with your aunt, you took it upon yourself to directly inject yourself into their relationship? Which kain thing be this?

Dis guy self, its like u neva encounter people b4. God4bid say dis thing cast nw, u no think say people go drag my mum put abi? Like dis self, if my dad eventually hear dis kind thing, hmm... No whalm sha.

MufasaLion:
Let me finish your story for you. The man is sleeping with your aunt and you want to know if you should tell your mom (and possibly family) or not.

Guy u fit dey predict football matches oo!

donPhill:
if I get you right your uncle died 18 years ago? Baba free this woman na, abi you Wan help am de shine d Congo?
Bannies wey their husband de alive still de collect from outside even twice on a weekend not to talk of the widows...

My advice, just relax and gather yourself before you lose everything, don't build any imaginary walls xos you will be at the receiving end.

Am too big 4 that. Am only concernd abt my mum incase tins go down south. But initially, I was shockd. Neva believd such cud happen. I am just learning how important sex is. Even women in dia 60s still luv sex. Na wah oh. Nobdy holy pass.

SavageResponse:
You're an id1ot!

Time you should be using to organise your life you're using it to monitor another person's life.

The woman's husband has been dead for 18 years and you're here raising eyebrows because she wants to move on with her life.

She's a human being just like the rest of us.

Once again you're a bumbling idle id1ot!!!

Can u talk reasonably without being abusive? Na me go Bleep her? She has her pussy 2 Bleep all she wants. But it cud hv been beta outside. So na my mum go come recommend man wey go dey Bleep my uncle wife 4 him house? Pls think.

vibbb:
So how's all this affecting the business you are planning to start ? Sometimes we tends not to face our business and put more energy on things that those not concern us as an individual. If you put the same energy on your establishment / business by now you would have recover all your previous lost.

Its very easy 4 u to give ur opinion online without tryin to first imagine urself in someone's shoe. My mum brought d man. My mum is directly involved here. What if my aunts children or even people around town finds out, how do u think dis will nt result to a very big family crisis? Do u knw d traditional implication of dis? Mind u, am nt interestd in her affairs. Am an adult nd so is she. But sometins hv to be done d right way.

To my shock, on friday nite, because I always sleep with my ear-piece on listening to 92.3 fm(9jeria info) every nite through the morning. That friday nite, somethin happend. While I was tryin to change my position to another on d bed, my hand mistakenly pulled my ear-piece out 4rm my ears. Jesus! I was hearing my late uncle's wife moaning seriously. Immediately I jumpd up 4rm bed. Listend again 4 some minuetes just to make sure am not dreaming. She was really being ponded by dis strange man. To fully clear my doubt, I came out 4rm my room, sat out side, minuetes later, dis man came out 4rm my aunty's room to get water 4rm d tap to drink. Seriously till nw, I couldn't believe what happend. I feel betrayed. I wantd to call my mum today but Am givin it a second thought. What wud my late uncle's children do if they find out? Am nt yet convinced on hw to handle this. What wud d church leadership do if they find out. I feel betrayed. I cnt trust women.

For over 4 months nw, there's dis strange man I have been seeing around us. Last month, d man startd living with us. She gave him a room. Aaah! The way my aunty treats dis man bcame too enviable. The house help makes food 4 him every mornin b4 he wakes up. At nite also he gets served too. I became very uncomfortable that I wntd to knw who he was. So, I confronted him one evening. The man said my MUM Recommended him to my uncle's wife to help him with a job. He said he use to grind pepper nd tomatoes in d market, thats where he met my mum. Hmm, seriously, I bcam furious nd angry. I calld my mum nd she comfirmed same. My mum said she was only trying to help. I kept mute nd let it slide over. do u knw that dis man has startd living like a king in d house. Passing orders around. Using my late uncle's private bathroom. Eating with his private plate. Gaining access to rooms dat even me that is bloodly relatd havn't been to b4. Infact to make things worse, dis man no longer talk to me.

My Dad's elder brother died about 18yrs ago. And am currently living with the wife in the big family house for some months now because my shop got demolished in PH durin Covid-19 Lock down, so I had to come to Oyigbo to re-establish and start all over.

Now, this my uncle's Children are nt around. One in the UK, two still in the university. This my uncle's wife has always earned my respect as par how she was able 2 retain and multiply my uncle's wealth single handedly without gettin married to anoda man.

Infact, shes a decoaness in one Assemblies of God church here in oyigbo. All the while I have knwn her. Shes very churchy, too strict and disciplined.

Therez no day I dnt get erection readin posts on Nairaland. If una no spoil me, una no go rest.

U dey insult nd abuse DJ switch, yet u no want insult 4rm other people. Nkita racha_kwa gi anya. May my God kill u!

U 4got 2 add whr she spoilt u with SEX too. Biko, if u have gud plans 4 ur self, beta stop feedin some1 else's daughter whn u knw u r nt bold financially. Saving #500 everyday won't do u any harm. Be wise.

How many of nigerian females have a good private home? Its either they r 7 in number living in a room or they still live with dia parents. Besides that, shame 4rm neigbours won't allow dem to welcome guys because of their multiple boyfriends nd infidelity.

ThatFairGuy:
The well packaged fraud from Alaigbo

Dis ain't about ethnicity bro, else every tribe shud be guilty of fraud nd corruption. Be transpirent atleast, if u haue to be Thatfairguy.

Father I thank u 4 good health. Despite d economy, u have kept me in sound health. For over 15yrs nw, non of my family members have been hospitalised neither have we had any emergency health challenges. Lord am xo xo grateful. Thank u!

We dwell in a difficult nd trying times, yet God's love, grace nd outstretched hands has never ceased to do wonders in our various lives and in different ways. So as such, we owe him gratitude. Please lets use today's opportunity to share nd show appreciation to God.

Iyaebe:
e sweet me, e sweet you but na you dy pay money come still dash gift join.Abegi

Kikikiki! We r just helpin u people's ministry. LMAO

Iyaebe:
You don't like truth bdat

Ur generalisation, makes u wrong. Redpillers, don't trade money 4 sex. No budget 4 olosho. Don't 4get, "e sweet me, e sweet u" (50/50)

They say "patient dog eats d fatest bone" but in dis particular case, "hunger don already kill d patience dog" what a waste of time nd resources.

Iyaebe:
Truly men are really facing a lot to meet their financial needs,but you didn't state the cut for olosho,why did you hide that aspect? You see most of these present day young men ehn,even if they receive 10naira monthly they will still cut olosho own aside like 3naira from the 10naira and tell their parents they are receiving 7naira as salary.

I wntd 2 buy u a wine, but u ended up showin ur real self with d inclusion of OLOSHO at d later part of ur comment.

thebosstrevor1:
If you want to die, you are free to do it alone...stop involving others or brainwashing people into stupidity

Are u beta than those who died last year? Those who gave up dia jobs, families nd bed to stay all day nd nite fighting 4 justice, equity nd a beta 9jeria? Bro, nbdy is forcin u, its nt 4 everybdy. Its 4 HEROES!

Antoeni:
Parents Warn your Children Not to Allow Themselves Be Brainwashed, By
Falana, Sowore , Deji

Its beta to Die on ur feet than to live on ur knees. Don't be a COWARD son.

Very beautiful nd inspiring.

God Save Our Soul. We dont knw who to trust.

Its almost legal 4 a female to enroll into prostitution, but 4 a guy 2 bcm a cultist, watch hw security forces will frustrate u. females always playin d victim card. A boy child of 12yr old is already told 2 be takin responsibilities, while a female child even at d age of 35 Still lives comfortably, feeding 4rm d parents.

Iyaebe:
I cried while reading this lol.

Keep cryin until u girls stop sexualizin urself. Until u learn hw to take responsibilities nd be proactive with high level of productivity, u will 4eva remain subjectd. And try being a male too, if u also think its a cruise ride 4 us.

Danjikanbauchi:
What a suiting words. It's not easy at all, thank you very much.

I have an elder brother that don't care, he can stay a year without calling anybody and he never agree he have one Naira.

So the whole family calls me for anything, himself also calls me to demand for assistance. That was how I became first born.

Uneasy lies d head dat wears d crown.

Oldoinyolengai:
Thanks for the message,
I feel as if you were targeting me.
Kudos Man.

We r all in dis together bro, u r not alone! Keep pushing.

Audacious19:
I have given up already, when ever i think about my life tears just come down.
Life is myth where some are it's benefactors

Cry if u have to, but please n please, don't ever give up. Like I said, keep striving. Make sure u remain positive. It may tarry, but it must come to pass. #believe

Mercychen:
Who do you this strong this early momoh?
SMH.

By the way who are you? Please don't mention me again. Biko.

K