₦airaland Forum

WomaninherPrime:
In truth, I'm more inclined to Nedu and Denver.

As for Nedu, he's not a poor man per se. He's just starting off with his career and he earns slightly higher than I do. I don't know what he does with his money, but he's living like someoone with no source of livelihood. If I have to make excuses for him, then it's probably because he got into some huge financial mess last year that he's still offsetting.

As for Denver, yes, it worries me so much about his level of education. I don't want him getting intimidated tomorrow. Yes, he's doing okay today... and would even be bigger tomorrow. But I like a man I can look up to. If he's unable to measure up beyond what his bank account states, I fear we might have problems in future. It may be him feeling left behind and refusing to encourage my growth... or me feeling like he just doesn't measure up. I like him today... but what about longterm?

If I were U, I would go with Nedu.

sageb:
Yes! Rivers resources should benefit Riverians. Resource control is what we need.

Una don dey wake up. When the biafrans were telling U guys in 1966, U guys said Igboman is ur enemy and that fulani/hausa is ur friend. Una eye don clear now. If U want resource control, come n take it.

ibizgirl:
This has always been the norm. In fact third term fees are paid together with 2nd term fees

The norm where? I have never heard of such here in Nigeria.

Lisabi01:
Good morning family. I need your advice. This post might be long. Kindly ignore my jargons.

I and my fiancée have been dating for years now (childhood love). 4 years ago, we broke up for like a year due to her infidelity. During that time, I was with different girls who are worse, except a girl (Bisi) who was a friend then, and was in a relationship as at then (I'll come back to this).

Back to 4 years ago, after we (i and my fiancée)broke up, things starts falling in its place, and I started living large. It all ended after we got back together, and I was back to square one. I thought it was because I was still in school, but it continued after school.

I met another girl last year, we were just friends, no strings attached. This girl told me that I have a problem, and that I'm not bothered about it. My response was that we all have different problem and that this was my trying times. She responded saying "is this how your life was few years ago?" She asked me to go out to a pastor and make my own findings. I've never seen this girl prior to this, we just talk on phone.

As per her advice, I went out to seek for a divine solution (I never believed in seeking spiritual solution from a pastor, Alfa or a traditional worshiper, but I did this time around). I was told that when things was good for me, I had a girl that I dated throughout that time, and that I should try and connect her again. I thought about it, and they were actually right. It was when I stopped calling this girl that things went south for me. I told them I don't have any connection with her again and that i can't connect her. I was later told to be observant, and that I'll meet another girl, and that thing will change for me.

Back to my friend, Bisi..... She was in an open relationship. I envied their relationship then, and I was crushing on her secretly ( I and my fiancée wasn't together then). I met Bisi recently and she told me she broke up with her boyfriend. We became friends again, and we started getting closer. She doesn't live in my town, and we don't see at all because I don't have the time. But I noticed she's all I want in a woman, and since I met her, my pocket never runs dry. I don't have that intention of dating her at first until I noticed my pocket.

Now that I'm engaged, my introduction is coming up soon, and my extended family members and my fiancée's are all aware of the date. I should have done the introduction months ago before this pandemic, but my fiancée said some hurtful and hateful words to me which I still remember and I'm still keeping it to myself. She also have some attitudes I've been correcting but never takes to correction.

I know you'll say when I noticed all the above, why can't i bail out? There's a saying : the devil you've known for long is better than an angel you just met. She's that devil I've known for long and she's been known and has the support of family and friends.
You'll also ask: will they live together with us? My answer is so dumb cos I thought I can't find anybody better than her, even though my pocket runs dry. And one of the pastors said things will get better with her.

The dilemma I'm in now is should I put the introduction on hold, or I should go ahead with it for further observation on Bisi, or I should just carry my cross and work things out with my fiancée.... A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage, so they say.

Insults are welcomed, just for me to be a better me.

NB: I'm not in a relationship with Bisi (not her real name)

I will advise u from expirience to terminate and not go ahead. De red flags are being ignored and it will end in tears. U are not at peace with this intended marriage and u want to go ahead. Ur problem is U dnt know ur worth. U want to manage a girl u are not comfortable with. My dear, dem no dey manage marriage. Bail out now before U commit.

MelesZenawi:
I don't have Xtra time to spare for ipobs miscreants or their likes from Abia state.

. Online stipend receiving miscreants talking without facts to justify their monthly stipend.

Mmuoojukwu:
History can't change. Have you heard about Baba Tunde too? It is in their blood.

. What the hell is in the body of a 73year old that will cause a man to have erection. It's nothing but demon possession.

MelesZenawi:
Look well, they are Yorubas just that you guys aren't good in historical research.

Ikwerres are Yorubas... through Edos..The history of Edo will not be complete without Yorubas..


Infact Bini is an expansive Yoruba Kingdom. So safe to say that before Ikwerres left Ife to Bini and to the present location, they were originally yoruboid.

. What are the evidences of Ikwerre being yorubas? Where are the links and the traces? As for yorubas and Benin, the connection is there. Anybody linking Ikwerre to yorubas or Benin are among the pathological liars trying hard to turn facts and history on it's head because of their morbid fear and hatred of Igbos. Those guys are clearly Igbos.

Atigba:
Ameachi don't represent the Ikwerre people, he is speaking for himself.

Ikwere are not Igbo

And it is you that is mandated to be speaking for Ikwerre ba? Between you and Amechi who has de pedigree, clout and deep knowledge to speak for Ikwerres? I dnt think you can be considered to be his P.A. and you see yourself as Ikwerre historian and spokesman.

Parisian:
You have lots of Germans, Spanish, British, African Americans etc who have been in America from anywhere between 400 - 700 years yet these people know their history.

They know from whence they came. Their culture, language, traditions may have been completely eroded but they still know and can trace the origin of their ancestors.

This is the same with the ikwerres. You can't say "oh they have a similar culture and language to the igbos and hence must be igbos".... that is a primitive way of reasoning.

What matters and will always matter is where the ikwerres migrated from. If they migrated from the Bini kingdom like they say then they are rightly descendants of the Binis.

It is foolish to think you can know more about a people than the people themselves.

However, i think what can finally lay this issue to rest is an ancestry DNA test but even at that the igbos will say the test has been compromised by igbo haters that is if the test results show that the ikwerres are Binis by extension.

But many Ikweres claim to be Igbos. Its not just Amechi. This is just an ego trip. I have been living amongst the Ikwerres for long and also many Etche people, claim they are of Igbo heritage. All these nonsence confusion creating history to massage the ego of some wannabe historians. I have not seen anything in Ikwerre culture and traditions linking them to bini and yoruba.

Hellraiser77:
We ikwerre have half Bini half Yoruba ancestry, we borrowed Igbo language for awhile, we will return it after we learn our Bini/Yoruba language

bwahahahahaha. Return de language or.......

If U are not ashamed to post this ur nonsence postulations as history, then U need serious deliverance. Nonsence and rubbish history. It sounds hilarious when some Ikwerres deny being Igbos. I have spent all my life among de Ikwerres and Igbos and I have not seen any difference between Ikwerres and Igbos. Even Amechi has been sounding it clear that as an Ikwerre man, he is of Igbo heritage and therefore Igbo.

If U are not ashamed to post this ur nonsence postulations as history, then U need serious deliverance. Nonsence and rubbish history. It sounds hilarious when some Ikwerres deny being Igbos. I have not seen any difference between Ikwerres and Igbos. Even Amechi has been sounding it clear that as an Ikwerre man, he is of Igbo heritage and therefore Igbo.

Simplyleo:
In the said video, ipob miscreants were seen drinking Sowore's urine.

Reno said the video was characterized by dishonest editing for malicious intent.

Now, between sowore, the newly enthroned god of ipob lunatics and Reno, a long time god of ipob miscreants, which side will the miscreants be?

Only time will tell.

. Little boy, this your tribal rants are becoming irritating. Can't you say something worthwhile? Must everything be painted with the colours of tribe. Making it look like you have nothing in your head.

Dpsychologist:
Sometimes i wonder why it is a requirement for a model to be very slim.
I don't like it when ladies are skinny

Just like me. Find it very unpleasant.

iceboy4752:
Her Tweet.

Some ladies and show off ehhnn!

that was a faked account of that lady. She was not de one dt made dt post. It was a faked account. Once she was alerted, she reported and de account was taken down. THAT IS THE TRUE STORY.

Simplyleo:
Ipob miscreants succeeded in misleading Obaseki. Obaseki should have learnt from saraki, dino melaye, athifku and sani shehu.

Insulting everyone is the type of politics ipob miscreants are good in playing. That brand of of politics will earn you more enemies than friends. Such is the case with any politician supported by ipob miscreants.

. How is ipob involved in Edo politics? Does Obaseki make contact with nnamdi kanu or ipob members before taking decisions? You just comment nonsense with the free mb they dash you. If there was anybody that emboldened Obaseki and pushed him on, it was his deputy, Philip. You just put all your frustrations on ipob. Tueenhhh.

Maxymilliano:
Sufferheads ...

Chai I weep for Nigerians and their stupidity.

AhmedEmeka:
Person no fi stock?

Stock fifteen packets? Puna na food? Okayooo.

kestolove95:
my husband don't like wearing it and I am tired of using drugs to prevent pregnancy, it's very good d one my sis sent mi from u.k is finished I need another packs Cox me ND my husband have sex everyday

Kesto girl.. so you are married? Never thought of you as being married.

Carchoice:
I was at shoprite yesterday evening, I bought other stuffs and 10 packs of durex condom. At the point of payment, all the stuffs I shopped were on the counter and all eyes were on it. I could hear murmurs and giggles. Even a lady I perceived to be a baby mama sef join dey laugh.

As a careless Nigerian that I am, I went back to the condom shelve and added 5 more packs. E shock them.

Why the hypocrisy? For the background they are sharing HIV and donating pregnancy here and there.

. Bros it's not abnormal for people to wander what you would be doing with ten packets or even fifteen. They 'd be like this man go kill the woman today!!!

fergie001:
Igbere.....I had once attacked you but that was an unnecessary error in judgement. You are doing well.

Judges give your all without fear or favour.

God Bless Abia
God Bless Nigeria.

. Are they going to fly the cars on the air when the state has the worst road network?

vastolord4:
Nothing can break that relationship! That's called violent love.

. VIOLENCE JAMS VIOLENCE!

Zzor:
mtchew she will regret this later,nonsense

. You are just jealous. I like the girl for her boldness. That's the real gender equality. Big up for the strong girl!

Amotolongbo:
truth is relative and subjective.
What you called truth can only be the truth to you and doesn’t depict the fact.

Your truth isn’t the fact

. My sister forget argument. We know what is right and wrong. Even though we may still be doing it but that doesn't make wrong right. No true and serious pastor or prophet should be on bbnaija. That pastor is just an Abuja guy man pastor simple and short.

Amotolongbo:
Are you God?
Is God you?

Did God tell you he has nothing to do with the program or not?

. That is an immoral program and if God is to pick interest in it, it should be to flog all the people participating in it. What is a pastor or prophet doing with bbnaija for God's sake? It's an anti-gospel program from my own understanding. Anyway it's all these Abuja scam pastors.

Otuamaka:
[s] [b] your mama toto

U are one of those useless kids that peep at their mum's unclothedness. Thats why U re so obsessed with ur mother's.

helinues:
Guys, if you want to live long, avoid dating/marrying a lady like Tonto Dike

. Very important information.

Otuamaka:
[s] [b]your mama toto

Because of hunger, U re looking for imbeciles U would scam on nairaland. Keep deceiving yourself.

seunmsg:
Tinubu should ignore this attention seeking short man.

You have become Tinubu's political adviser? Tinubu does not know you exist, so save your energy to help ur life. For ur info Tinubu and Ngige are still friends and united in living off our commonwealth. Save ur energy.

myboy2111:
Tinubu actually rescue the serial betrayer called Ngige from Obasanjo?

If not inferiority complex, why would Ngige brought Tinubu name up?

You nairaland e-warriors can be daft and hollow. Where in the write-up was it stated that Tinubu rescued Ngige from Obasanjo. Simple comprehension is an uphill task.