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The first place you need to head is your family. And having a stable source of income guarantees that. Don't be a head somewhere and be a nobody at home because of not being able to feed your family. A company that owes it's staff if they like let them make you the managing director, they will owe you too.

If I must change my current place of employment, the first thing I should ask myself is if my new job can guarantee my pay as at when due. I am not moved by positions because with your work experience all you need to do is adjust your CV to meet any managerial position you applying for. Stay where you are. Be the best there and see God complete the rest. I don't know you but I see promotion coming shortly from where you want to leave. Stay put

Try reading the Bible at night. Don't read any books just the Bible. If it doesn't work , no drugs can. I have tried it and it worked for me.

Davindal:
Oga! Must u always talk poo?

For your information I am one of very few Nlander's who comments on people's issue. Count it worthy that I responded to your plight. That said, I stood with my late ex who had to battle cancer till her death. When her beauty faded and she was looking like a ghost, with her hair completely fallen off. I stood and God knows I kept on reassuring her. Her parents saw it. Mind you we still dating not married. So if at 35 years of age I took time off to deposit some wisdom into a non functional, irrational and a fascadious brain of yours, you need to do a thanks giving in church. Same vituperation you have been throwing at whosoever tries to talk to you. Good luck to you as you decided on what to do with her. # Davindaldecides#

Well I don't blame you. Some of us are praying God for a wife not a girl friend or miss world with slim figure at 35 and you here spewing thrash. Get something into your "ideal" description of who to marry, they fail after the first five years of marriage. Beauty is vain, favour is deceitful but a woman that fears God, she will be praised. And Solomon a chronic womanizer Advices your type that let her breast satisfy you at all times. You know why? All breast will eventually sag, it's just a matter of time. Now get out. You still a child and shouldn't be talking about marriage in the comity of ready to settle down bachelors

Please improve your use of English. One can sense a mother tongue interference in your use of English. example "collected 3 or 4 years". Haba age is not an item.

Ever heard about the pen being mightier than the sword? Not a fan of both but believe me it's easier and way too easier for Linda to bring Wizkid down. There are information at her disposal which could even cost Wizkid some endorsement deals. Thread gently boy. In terms of fan base Wizkid may have more fans than Linda but in terms of BUSINESS, ECONOMIC OR MEDIA CLOUT Linda wins here. And whosoever controls the media can control a nation. For those who must have read George Orwell' 1984. Both should sheath their swords

The last I heard Lil Bow Wow has grown up to a man. When will this kid grow up? If he has legal advisers, they will quickly tell him to retract the statement of asking his 16 year old cousin to beat Linda up. That's enough evidence to get Linda's legal team rolling.

Sommyangel:
Where's his wife

Nice question.

Just trace corruption to the military. They taught the civilians how to move money abroad without fear. I am sure in the next ten years from now, we will still come back to another looted fund being repatriated to Nigeria

You are 90% right. I wouldn't say 100. As an undergraduate the first thing I told myself from when I stepped inside the University in 2002 was relationship, a no no. I just knew I wasn't ready. I had lots of females wanting a relationship. I stuck my ground that I wasn't ready. Not really because I came from a poor home but mentally I just knew I wasn't ready. The truth is a girl at 18+ is ready for it but it will take most men say mid 20's to early 30 to actually come to grasp with manhood or maleness. Having a phallus doesn't make you a man. Nice write up.
Lastly in individuals there could be variations. So my 90%.

Great piece of advice.

Tell that to his landlord. Who first class help? My rent too is due and am doing all I can to pay. We have talented 3rd class who are doing exploits and some others who if given the opportunity will perform better.

Achuwa1:
This gurls picture has appeared on NL some months back,,,,
. Pls you apc e-rats & Aisha rice eaters should stop deceiving ppl on here with an old picture..

You are spot on bro. Something tells me APC are just trying to do damage control with this.

kunlesuccess:
Prior to Ur Job Application,Ur invited for interview Thur 11/02/16 by 9am @16 Ondo Str Ebutemeta WESTApapa Rd, Mashalashi Bus/stop Costain. CHR3177... please is this not a scam msg?

Spot any difference? I have a job and if I am going for another, I know the type that I should be looking out for

Prior to your job application, you will be interviewed on THUR 11/02/16 by 9AM@16 Ondo Str, behind Keystone Bank,Mashalashi B/Stop, Apapa Rd,Costain,Lagos ADTU1

God make this dream come through for me this year.

elantraceey:
Why not, the so called experienced guys today were once virgins.

We have a lifetime to teach ourselves,no rush.

That's wisdom my dear. Sex is not the be all in marriage. Other things matter.

OK. We have heard. There's truth in some of what was revealed.

Man Up.

Hahahaha, people have turned God to be a lottery maker. Bro God doesn't work like that. Seed time and harvest are two things in life. The young man is reaping what he sowed. The God I know is a workaholic who created the world in 6 days and rested. This young man didn't work and when he's supposed to be resting needs a miracle.
I have been in your shoes in2002 as an undergraduate. Few weeks to my first semester exams in 100 level, I had an attack. More like a migraine but difficult. I was running mad each time I look at the book. I failed all my department courses and only passed some electives before the illness. I was mocked. Second semester 4 days to the exams I was admitted. I cried to God for a way out. The exams were postponed by two weeks. I recovered and read. I didn't make a 2.1 but I had a strong second class upper and was among the best.. I read. No extra year. Tell your father what's up. Your mother didn't help you. God will restore you if you Go to him. This is not a church. (uquote author=mrZENographer post=41417235]If you can heed my advice, come to The Lord's Chosen Charismatic Revival Movement crusade at Mgbidi Imo State 2016, 2nd, 3rd, and 4th of January 2016. Title What God has determined shall be done. You shall receive your miracle after that.

My pastor says "Even though you are not qualified, 'The God of Chosen' will qualify you".[/quote]

Change is possible. I have seen introverts become extroverted. You both have not stretch the limits of your temperament to actually say if both of you are the way you are. Again, there's the Spirit-filled or controlled temperament that will work for anyone. I recommend you both read Tim LaHaye's Spirit-Controlled Temperament. I am a product of such but now I cannot even tell which I belong cos I have a blend of most if not all.

Oga just say you don't want to marry the poor girl. Excuses. And why bother uploading the pictures? To humiliate her. You don't need the approval of naira landers cos that's what I see you doing. Man up! Am in my mid thirties so if you waiting for teenagers online to ridicule you by asking you not to, bro you wrong. That's why opposites attract. Where she's weak, you are strong.

And you think a woman's role in marriage alone is keeping your house clean. Save the lady the stress abeg. Someone else needs her

The average man on the street doesn't care what happened in the past. He's more concerned with what his future will be. Am surprised Aisha Buhari knows these 7persons. Please tell your husband that we know all these things already. What we don't know is what your husband is bringing to the table.

The economy wasn't as bad as he met it. If he can't improve on what he met, please tell him not to make it worse.

It's a question of definition. You being able to define your present reality from the past. No matter how deep a friend is with you, the moment he/she begins to make Marital preparation you just need to subconsciously create space. Things will never be the same. I have been there. I usually take the first step. Give as enough space as possible. A friend's wife got to the point of reporting her husband to me and began to wonder why her husband didn't emulate some of my good qualities. I knew somewhere that something is wrong. I gave space. You will one way or the other be linked to issues in their marriage. So take the easy way out. It's a normal thing.

First which of the two places draws you closer to God. Consider the insecurity in the North. Wic is more expensive setting up a business in Lagos or Abuja. Apart from ministries, what's the job opportunity in Abuja? Here in Lagos, you have two offers and you still didn't see God telling you that your Canaan is in Lagos.

I think you are mistaking the fact that you are in your family house as the reason for wanting Abuja. Analyze things clearly and make up your mind. I live in Lagos alone and working as well.

Finally, the decision is yours to make.

This is super story. Bros you can lie

Having read extensively some comments on this, I humbly submit that
1: it depends on who you dealing with male or female.
2: age is also another determinant.
3: purpose, vision and character is another. You know who you are and what you want, private or public.
4: be security conscious male or female. Take note of the address, have a close confidant send it to the person. Don't make it a private issue. That's for ladies. With the accusations and counter accusations of rape, guys make sure a responsible adult, know she's coming. Be detailed. Private information comes latter when you both can trust each other.
5: ladies also try and invite him over if you are of age. I prefer to be invited over. If she has responsible people or family, they will be the first to assess me and tell her.

There is nothing private about visiting or outing. We all should not abuse motive. Happy Sunday

Being a great year. Made some strides in some areas. Took life changing decisions. I won't say I didn't meet up with expectations, maybe there was an over expectations in some areas. Things still went according to plans. And three weeks to the New Year, the God of Shiloh still got something great in store.

In between I think some of what the guy posted looks edited as if some things were taken off. The paragraphs don't seem to align.

Please am having a challenge with Etisalat getting the 1gig monthly data on my Infinix hotnote. Guess it selects.

Nobody should deny another what they duly deserve. 7 years ago as a corps member I was envious of the amount paid to these set of people while the rest of us wia earning peanuts. Looking back now, I see no reason why I should be.
Why collect that as a medical doctor. I rather go to schools and render my services freely.