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Celebrities › Re: Queeneth Agbor: The Day My Igbo Boyfriend Slapped Me Becos I Kissed In Movie by Prospero01(m): 8:22am On Oct 31, 2015

Obviously there must have bin a scene in the movie wia she was slapped. The guy only re-enacted Acts2 scene 1.

Romance › Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by Prospero01(m): 5:52pm On Jul 02, 2015

It all depends on the guy's value system, his sense of identity which he has imposed on himself not thru the lens of society but for me thru God's word (Jer 9:23) and if the guy has a working brain to pursue purpose and vision and not be narcissitic(if U know the word narcissism) about his looks. I don't think any human being on the face of the earth is ugly. Beauty or bin handsome is a relative concept. Make I no attack the op but encourage am.

Family › Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by Prospero01(m): 10:16am On Jun 19, 2015

humilitypays:
What you said is true but I think Nigerian ladies caused this over time.

But then, it is always the ladies who bring up the idea of visiting a man in his house if the guy is rich or comfortable.

Because I am very sure that most rich and comfortable guys living in good apartments (flats or duplex) don't even like girls visiting them in their house on first date. They can only take u to their house if they are sure that u aren't a gold-digger...so your observation is kind of skewed towards student guys and struggling guys
From the original write-up to the comments that followed, below is my verdict:

1. The poster is a girl in her early 20s, who's probably a student dealing mostly with her fellow hungry students and guys who see no good in her beside having sex with her.

2. The poster has been unfortunate with male admirers and dates

3. The poster seems to always appear like a gold-digger to her male admirers.

Now, I want to tell you that most often when a Nigerian lady meets a rich guy, they are always the first to ask the question:

“when are u taking me to your house?”

Ladies usually form strict and strong-head when they meet young guys who are still struggling financially but when Nigerian ladies meet financially buoyant guys, they usually forget their decency and principle.

I have observed that in Nigeria, poor guys spend more on women than the rich guys.

Poor guys will spend their last card trying to make a Nigerian girl happy yet, she will never appreciate him but a rich guy will spend nothing except fuelling his nice car, and the girl will be excited and satisfied.

Pity poor, and financially-struggling guys in Nigeria; they have passed through hell in the hands of Nigerian women and reason most men act hostile towards women and treat them like people with no value because 80% rich men in Nigeria today were once broke or poor and did experienced the ill-treatment from Nigerian ladies so when they become rich, they see it as a pay-back time.

My advice to Nigerian ladies:

Start behaving normal and start treating all men with respect and value irrespective of his present financial status and over time, you will see Nigerian men change automatically and start to treat Nigerian women with honour.

Nigerian women over time abused the good-heart of Nigerian men and the aftermath is what Nigerian women are reaping today.

In conclusion, I don't see this trend ending soon until Nigerian girls/ladies/women start behaving well and not being after money and with the mentality of milking guys at any given opportunity because when you chop Mr. Peter and treat Mr. Paul nice, and another girl chop Mr. Paul & treat Mr. Peter nicely, somehow, Mr. Paul and Mr. Peter will get to hear about it and start to maltreat other ladies they come across which may end up being YOU!

As a lady, don't take anything from a guy you don't like and intend not to date!

Be principled and always stand by your word and decision no matter his push!

If ladies start to do all these, believe me, just a matter of time and the guys will conform.

And lastly, if a guy u just met invites u over to his house, there's no need of flaring up or going bananas about it, kindly tell him NO that u can't come to his house on first date, and if he doesn't like it, let him go!

So don't make it a general thing because some ladies prefer meeting their dates in his house for many reasons best known to them, and most especially if the guy appears to be financially rich or comfortable. So speak for your own self and don't generalise it or make it seem like a big deal!

All the same, nice topic for discussion

Ladies shape the society...it is women who shape the men into who they become over time, go figure out!

Well said. Couldn't have said it any better. I am not a Yoruba boy, but I like the Yoruba mom or dad. They will be the ones to ask dia daughters if the man they re dating has a house. Even an average Igbo parents will ask the same to be sure that the man is not squatting with his friend. U know why? In case of eventuality. But before they will ask dia daughter such question, be sure that the child is matured and ripe for marriage. And when we talk about dating, it is pity that every tom,dick and harry now dates. Dating should be confined to those willing to marry and be financially responsible to themselves and dia partners. I think ladies who have issues with this post, re just emerging out of dia teenage years. Even a core Deeper life( am sorry no evil intention meant on any religious sect) will go and see what the broda's house look like. My advice for ladies who keep meeting a guy @ eatery, know his place, see if he's neat or not, know if the house was rented by himself or his rich broda rented the place for him. Be vigilant. Say no to sex till U re ready for it. And for me, it's in marriage. See what U can offer a man beside ur beauty and body. Don't come to the relationship table empty and expect the man to take U to the moon and back. Look @U can bless a man with and not ur body. Don't make a man ur burden bearer, he is not God.

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Family › Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by Prospero01(m): 10:14am On Jun 19, 2015

humilitypays:
What you said is true but I think Nigerian ladies caused this over time.

But then, it is always the ladies who bring up the idea of visiting a man in his house if the guy is rich or comfortable.

Because I am very sure that most rich and comfortable guys living in good apartments (flats or duplex) don't even like girls visiting them in their house on first date. They can only take u to their house if they are sure that u aren't a gold-digger...so your observation is kind of skewed towards student guys and struggling guys
From the original write-up to the comments that followed, below is my verdict:

1. The poster is a girl in her early 20s, who's probably a student dealing mostly with her fellow hungry students and guys who see no good in her beside having sex with her.

2. The poster has been unfortunate with male admirers and dates

3. The poster seems to always appear like a gold-digger to her male admirers.

Now, I want to tell you that most often when a Nigerian lady meets a rich guy, they are always the first to ask the question:

“when are u taking me to your house?”

Ladies usually form strict and strong-head when they meet young guys who are still struggling financially but when Nigerian ladies meet financially buoyant guys, they usually forget their decency and principle.

I have observed that in Nigeria, poor guys spend more on women than the rich guys.

Poor guys will spend their last card trying to make a Nigerian girl happy yet, she will never appreciate him but a rich guy will spend nothing except fuelling his nice car, and the girl will be excited and satisfied.

Pity poor, and financially-struggling guys in Nigeria; they have passed through hell in the hands of Nigerian women and reason most men act hostile towards women and treat them like people with no value because 80% rich men in Nigeria today were once broke or poor and did experienced the ill-treatment from Nigerian ladies so when they become rich, they see it as a pay-back time.

My advice to Nigerian ladies:

Start behaving normal and start treating all men with respect and value irrespective of his present financial status and over time, you will see Nigerian men change automatically and start to treat Nigerian women with honour.

Nigerian women over time abused the good-heart of Nigerian men and the aftermath is what Nigerian women are reaping today.

In conclusion, I don't see this trend ending soon until Nigerian girls/ladies/women start behaving well and not being after money and with the mentality of milking guys at any given opportunity because when you chop Mr. Peter and treat Mr. Paul nice, and another girl chop Mr. Paul & treat Mr. Peter nicely, somehow, Mr. Paul and Mr. Peter will get to hear about it and start to maltreat other ladies they come across which may end up being YOU!

As a lady, don't take anything from a guy you don't like and intend not to date!

Be principled and always stand by your word and decision no matter his push!

If ladies start to do all these, believe me, just a matter of time and the guys will conform.

And lastly, if a guy u just met invites u over to his house, there's no need of flaring up or going bananas about it, kindly tell him NO that u can't come to his house on first date, and if he doesn't like it, let him go!

So don't make it a general thing because some ladies prefer meeting their dates in his house for many reasons best known to them, and most especially if the guy appears to be financially rich or comfortable. So speak for your own self and don't generalise it or make it seem like a big deal!

All the same, nice topic for discussion

Ladies shape the society...it is women who shape the men into who they become over time, go figure out!

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Family › Re: Nigerian Men & 'Come To My House' Syndrome by Prospero01(m): 11:36pm On Jun 18, 2015

It all depends on the intention of the person inviting U. If it's for sex,my answer is a NO NO. For me, I rather ask if I can come to ur house. Since I know am looking for a serious date. That will give me an opportunity to know the kind of home such lady grew up or comes from. That is after we have gone on a date like 3 or four times. Intention is the watch word. Ladies be guided. Not every man is into sex.
A lady I met on FB has bin to my house like 3 or 4times and nothing. No sex,kiss or whatever. Pls don't make it look as if all men re sex freaks. As a lady if U re sure of him, invite him over if U scared of going to his place. Just know this whether he invites U or not, one day curiosity will take U dia. Whatever happens will be what U both intended.
Guide ur heart with all diligence. A man that cannot control his sex drive is not fit to be a man. Ability to control it is the only difference we against animals.

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Can I Correct My Interviewer's Grammatical Errors? by Prospero01(m): 8:27pm On Jun 13, 2015

Why not do urself a lil good by correcting ur own written English before attempting to correct ur interviewer. For a start, U don't use the small letter 'i' either in the Subject or Object position. It is always in the capital 'I'. Again ur use of concord is faulty. "Commits" and not "commit". Learn more on subject ,verb agreement. I too know. Whether na the job dey important or the English.

Sports › Re: Sweden Vs Nigeria (3 - 3) Fifa Women's World Cup On 8th June, 2015 by Prospero01(m): 9:36pm On Jun 08, 2015

Watching it online. Had to shut down. 2 nil. Naija girls can't defend corner kick.

Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Hungary (2 - 0) U20 World Cup On June 7th 2015 by Prospero01(m): 7:20am On Jun 07, 2015

U can watch the match or any other match @ www.gofeed2all.eu. Once U get dia go to the match U want to watch. It will bring U link1,link2 etc. Click on the links. It will start displaying and asking U to wait for 20seconds. Click close. It will pop up the live match. Dia will be few distractions though. Keep trying.

Romance › Re: Sex On The First Date; Yes Or No? by Prospero01(m): 1:39pm On May 09, 2015

When has sex become the requisite parameter for defining relationship? Sex on the first date shows both parties male or female have a poor sense of judgement. And those saying whether first or last and yet tagged it as relationship what U had was just an unwritten social contract involving time,emotions and finally the exchange of body. Until I see someone in love both without sex involve and the desire to be together , I won't call that relationship. All these attache we call relationship or love-money,beauty,sex,race,religion is just a means to an end and vice versa.
Show me a man(in the generic sense) that can be committed without sex, I will give him a thumbs up. All I see re post teenagers who claim they re adults. Some of us in our 30's should even know better. If the way U wia thinking in ur teenager years has not experienced a paradigm shift as an adult, better give up on urself. A 20 year old just won an election in UK parliament- a lady for that matter and became the youngest in 300 years. Still see some adults still see dia private organ as the most important part of dia body when rather the brain should be put to good use. That's why I hardly comment on NL but to read people's comment. My opinion though. And it's like a nose everyone carries one.

Romance › Re: Do You Ladies Ever Wished To Get Married To Virgin Males ? by Prospero01(m): 8:44pm On May 01, 2015

TheNaijan:
PS: I've seen virgin males who are physically, socially, and mentally ripped, but have made a decision not to taste the kitten(mainly religious). They don't masturbate, or watch porn (leading causes of premature ejaculation/bad ***), they are confident, cocky, funny, and have good people skills but have testosterone flowing in the brim. Most know bout the do more than even promiscuous guys...
They are not controlled by females, and don't put them on a pedestal...like other virgin males...
These guys are rare, but exist. Trust me.

Anyways, I'd always go for a virgin any day, anytime because of different reasons...
I can turn her to a beast in bed...she'd be submissive to me...
She'd not compare me to the others...Lade, Bambo, etc
She'd be loyal to me...etc

I don't want a girl that has ridden the c_ck carousal... Most are damaged.

Bro I got ur back covered on this one. When I told my late gurl( dead now) that am bent on abstinence not that am an impotent guy as some people will want to believe, she was more than happy. I told her to be honest I have this feeling of wanting to but self control was always dia. I joke about it that she can see it to confirm that the bros below dey kampe and ever ready but let's wait. Sex is a spontaneous thing. How do I know? I have a friend who was virgin till 27 lost it during NYSC and shared his experience. Who taught him? Instinct. Sex is instinctual and that's why it doesn't respect boundaries it can happen anywhere, anytime. Abegi leave mata for matias. From the data collected so far on this post, we have more responsible males than females on this issue. Happy Workers Day

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Politics › Re: Okorocha, Ikpeazu, Ishaku Win In Imo, Abia, Taraba Governorship Election by Prospero01(m): 11:34am On Apr 26, 2015

cy4cent:
M happy for Gov.Rochas, he sure deserved it.

Yes U right. Re U from Imo State?

Politics › Re: 17 Major Generals, 14 Brigadier Generals Retired From Nigerian Army by Prospero01(m): 10:08am On Apr 26, 2015

cy4cent:
Obviously GEJ is angry, and will not go down alone ,he will bring down as many people with him as he can, but one thing I have seen in this past few weeks is that, he could really be bold,if he wants to.

should have applied same boldness in governance all the while, corruption n insecurity would have been dealt a dirty blow.

U are definitely spot on here dear. He acted way to late. His bin meek costs him a lot and people interpreted it as bin clueless. Am sure a lot of people will latter admire him when he must have left and compared his administration to that of his successor. Between are U on Facebook,BMM or whatsapp? Like to add U

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Romance › Re: 5 Sure Signs He’s Losing Interest In The Relationship by Prospero01(m): 8:10pm On Apr 19, 2015

vjsmiles:
[size=14pt] what in the fvking world is wrong with this jejune?
my font my business my life how is that your fvvvking business....

shut the fvvk up demented slime [/size]

Ur font despite all the hardwork U put into constructing this piece defeats the purpose. People can't be struggling to read U. Also mind how U insult people. If ur font is ur business, then don't post to be read. Nice article though.

Politics › Re: I Will Prosecute Electoral Offenders – Buhari by Prospero01(m): 9:28am On Apr 12, 2015

My advice from his comments is that he should start thinking like the president of the Federal Republic of Nigeria and not the C in C of APC. Both parties re rigging elections here and there. We need to draw a line on what should be on our fledging democracy and not be partisan about it. So if as president any report of the opposition thrown as rigging will be welcomed? Pls Sir, we elected U as our President and not "necessarily" an APC thing.

Family › Re: Marriage With 80000 Salary Per Month? by Prospero01(m): 12:09am On Apr 10, 2015

Well I guess many of U guys re
1 Below 30 years
2 Still in school
3 Still bin feed by dia parents.
That said, 80K will sustain any family. Not disclosing how much I earn, my company just like every other company has an insurance scheme,health package wic allows me,my wife and four kids to free medical care among other benefits. Dia is also what the profit sharing @the end of the year. With 150k ur wife can start a good business. Many of U lots re day dreamer calculating this and that. Wait till U working. Thank God for who and wia I am. Wait till U earn 3m per annum before U marry. The most expensive thing in marriage is "YES I DO"

Politics › Re: Ambode Condemns Oba's Outburst In 'strongest Terms' by Prospero01(m): 3:23pm On Apr 07, 2015

The Igbos need to be wise in choosing who to vote for. Lagos belongs to all. Vote either of the two candidates.

Politics › Re: Nigerians Blast Oba Akiolu Over Threat To Igbos In Lagos - See Tweets by Prospero01(m): 7:26am On Apr 07, 2015

14DUI:
For your information, your forefather was ship via calabar cos geographically, it's the closest port to Igbo land and stop claiming Lagos belongs to all. That being said, you can't come from another land to install by cruck a PDP stooge in the person of Jimi just kidding on the people of Lagos state and when I said Lagos, I mean the Yoruba people, you can't repeat what your brethren did in eastern states and southern states in Lagos.
We all know you're not happy about APC winning the presidential election and you all have a plan to impose Agbaje on us, we won't alow it.
You can all come out to vote your PDP but you all will watch how APC wins.

Now I see how historically myopic U re about the slave trade. When U say we Yoruba people I laugh. So the Yoruba of Ogun,Oyo,Ondo,Osun extraction re now Lagosians? If everybody thinks the way U think, a certain ROTIMI(mind the name) wouldn't be governor. Even Rochas Okorocha has a dual parentage-half Igbo and half Hausa. Do U think we are in the Middle ages wia we practise a Feudal System of govt? Funny enough I have so many friends, Yoruba's who said they re voting JK to stop the over exploitation of Lagos by Tinubu and his cronies. Vote ur choice but don't threaten a tribe or coerce them into voting Ambode.

Politics › Re: Nigerians Blast Oba Akiolu Over Threat To Igbos In Lagos - See Tweets by Prospero01(m): 4:24am On Apr 07, 2015

I find it funny how some people who re suffering from "selective amnesia" re saying "how can some1 come from a strange land and install who rules dia". Have U bin to UK before? U need to know the number of Yoruba's dia. During election, dia votes counts either in manchester, north london or anywhere. Yet U won't see the Queen of England threatening them that they must vote the Labour Party in UK or risk bin deported. Migration,emigration,nationalisation re concepts wic has come to stay with us. If the Yorubas can vote in UK and everywia in the world, nothing stops an Ijaw man,Efik,Ibibio,Igbo,Hausa and even Yoruba from voting who they like. Mind U Lagos has a rich history of bin the port wia many of our fore fathers, urs included wia ferried or shipped as slaves to every part of the world. So when the grandsons gather in Lagos, it is to make a statement that wia we wia once shipped away can become a home away from home. Stop the hate, Lagos belongs to us all.

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Politics › Re: Guber Poll: Oba Of Lagos Reads Riot Act To Igbo... The Sun by Prospero01(m): 8:43am On Apr 06, 2015

This is not how politics should be. I know of so many Yorubas who voted for Buhari weeks ago but now insist that they re voting for Jimi( the candidate) and not necessarily PDP. Having seen the stats with wic APC won PDP in Lagos, the Oba has every reason to beg and not resort to threats. So many Yoruba's will be voting for Jimi as against what they did in the last election. That leaves Him and the APC to consider every available data before them and beg the people who can swing the votes either way. U can threaten later but not days to the election. All Ambode has to do is commit himself first to a four year contract with the aggrieved Igbos to make an impression that he is for real. Tell them what U will do for them as against what Fashola did. U will win them over. Like it or not they re the ones holding the Ace now. Don't allow pride to blow it up. For 34yrs now I have bin in this Lagos-Pri to Uni and working. I speak the language more that even the Yorubas. Yes they re accommodating, indeed, very accommodating. But please threat does no one any good.

Politics › Re: Akpabio Wins Senatorial Race, APC Calls For Cancellation Of Polls by Prospero01(m): 12:36am On Mar 30, 2015

pendy79:
The total vote in Akwa Ibom won't be up to 300,000 this is what we said. I have friends and former colleagues who.still reside in Eket, Oron and Uyo who voted in the Election.
There was large apathy in the election and there is no way Akpabio would have won because the Abak 6 group of local government government comprising of Ibibios Re against his usurping of the rotational senatorial arrangement with the Ikot Ekpene Annang group.
Same with oron nation, PDP stole ballot papers, incident forms and results sheets based on info I got so far.
He has 400,000 plus votes out of 440000.registered voters, just wait and watch how this result is thrown.away.and he is removed from the senate after finger print authentication.
What they did in Rivers, Enugu, Imo, Abia, Cross Rivers is what is being played out here.

In Imo Governor Rochas tore the result. Imo State will never vote APC, same with Enugu. So get ur facts right on those state U mention bro. This election I repeat is the election of the highest rigger. Who rigs highest wins. Both parties are currently rigging even as we type on NL. So may the highest rigger win.

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Education › Re: She Is 23 And Graduated With A Thirdclass Grade With Suicidal Attempts by Prospero01(m): 7:53pm On Mar 13, 2015

Well I know of a very good friend of mine who came out with 3rd class. The guy is an intelligent guy. He currently is working with Arik airline as a flight attendant. This jb he got without knowing or influencing it. So it is the quality of her brain and not her result

Christianity Etc › Re: How Famous Nigerian Pastors Met And Wooed Their Wives by Prospero01(m): 7:20am On Mar 09, 2015

Hmmm. It's interesting to know how the men of God here got married. My annoyance is them deciding for U or the lady who's good and not. Also the delay tactics which our christian sisters have come to learn from them. Before when U ask a lady out, she will be like" I will think over it". Now that has bin replaced by "I will pray over it". The one that may take a long time to respond is usually like" I will need to hear from God". We should all be sensitive to God's leading @every point and know when the right person shows up.
T.B Joshua's case seems funny. But in reality, If God is involved why waste all the time looking for what U shouldn't be looking for.

Politics › Re: APC, PDP, Civil Society, INEC Disagreed Over Card Reader Performance In Kano by Prospero01(m): 7:38am On Mar 08, 2015

The paintings on those hands is it synthetic? If not that's not the reason for it failure. I work in a smartcard company and 100% of what we do ends up with testing cards(ATM cards,mi-fare cards like what INEC is using cos of the chip encoded). INEC shud factor the reason and possible solutions because on the Election Day, people with all manner of finger print stains ranging from sweats and paintings will show up. Even some card readers with synthetic overlay covering the glassy surface still reads so INEC,JEGA,APC,PDP and all stakeholders need fix this ASAP. This election hass turned brothers into enemies. In our local parlance" abeg make we vote this vote quick and continue our life jare. Person wey go win don know since"

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Job Offer And I'm About Going For NYSC: What Do I Do? by Prospero01(m): 6:30am On Mar 03, 2015

First pray that ur NYSC posting is in a remote village. That will help U to facilitate anything U want to do as regards this offer. I bet U if U re posted to one village, U can meet U LI or ZI explain ur challenges to them. They can be receiving some of ur allowee while they will give U every cover U needed. Only that U will always report month end for clearance and go back to PH.
I made such a mistake then and after NYSC stayed @home for four years before getting a job. So wudnt want U to waste a precious one year. Most importantly ask for God's leading because INSTRUCTION is the only way out of DESTRUCTION.

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Family › Re: Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? by Prospero01(m): 9:28pm On Mar 02, 2015

This is Super Story. Well fabricated story. Nice one

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Politics › Re: 9 Year Old Girl Donates Her Lunch Money, Pocket Money To APC (read Her Letter) by Prospero01(m): 7:34am On Feb 26, 2015

I laugh in Spanish. APC got it all wrong here. Gradually turning politics to the Orwellian society in George Orwell's book 1984.

Family › Re: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by Prospero01(m): 11:53am On Feb 25, 2015

Well a similar thing happened to me. This is the story and how I handled it. I was squatting with a friend last year. He had a lady he was madly in love with. The lady took his love for granted and was into another guy.My friend decided to go for a professional exam and got the form for this lady.Now the state wia the exam was to take place happens to be where the lady's lover stays.Getting dia,the lady went to her lover's house for 3days.To cut a long story short,the relationship became bad.
My friend continued with his job and was doing successfully well. When the lady saw that my friend was doing well, she started frequenting his house to tie him down with sex and pregnancy. My friend by now was due for marriage. Because I knew what the lady was up to, I hatched a plan. I informed my friend's sis who knew abt all that happend. So they informed the mother. Anytime the girl is around, I will signal the sister who will give a call to the mom in the village. The mom with the wisdom of mothers took it up from dia. My friend is happily married last year Dec to a very good lady. He latter thanked me for saving him when he got wind of all that I did.
Dia must be somebody that ur friend listens to. Even the girl has her own fears but since she's not bin caught is bold abt it. Get maybe an elderly person involved who can handle it well. If not, they may start meeting in a hotel wia U won't know.

Romance › Re: Do Guys Like This Really Exist? by Prospero01(m): 3:27am On Feb 25, 2015

The question or truth is not if such men( deliberate use of the word men as against guys) exists but if the women will still love them no matter what condition they find such men. They re not in extinction as someone said or wud have people believe, but around U. That said I am a living witness.

Politics › Re: Two Retired Generals Contradict Each Other On Buhari's Certificate by Prospero01(m): 3:16am On Feb 25, 2015

The matter wey we see soo e tey wey e start. So if U ask me, na who I go ask?

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Romance › Re: Annoying Things Guys Do When Chatting With A Lady(1st Time) by Prospero01(m): 7:38am On Feb 23, 2015

Well ladies too request numbers @first sight. We like making a fuss out of nothing. Went for my international passport @Festac and a lady that collected her's the same day with me asked for my number. How? As we wia leaving, we decided to buy a pouch for the passport. I paid for her. Before going our separate ways, we exchanged numbers. I haven't called her till date except a message she sent me on whatsapp wic I replied. Matured guys or ladies have established strong business contact on some of the lines the Op failed to see. The world is not monolithic or defined by some set rules as people or pastors will have U believe e.g don't give ur numbers out bla bla. Abeg wetin go be go be.

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Family › Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Prospero01(m): 5:38pm On Feb 16, 2015

ladyabadi:
Men will always be men. This is Africa, its almost normal for a married man to cheat. I do not enjoy bn cheated on, and do not pray for a cheating man but if it happens then shit happens so? Ladies be realistic, if a man provides almost all my needs and that of the kids and family at large why should I worry? One rule, please remember to use protection and when you are caught my demands increases.

Seriously I find it funny when ladies have this mindset. What is a man suppose to do if not to provide for his family? What is a man suppose to do if not assume the responsibility of being a man,husband and father. That he gives U all this does not make him good because that is his social responsibility as a man. It's foolishness and insanity of the highest olympian height to imagine providing for my wife as a good thing. What makes it better and not good is respecting the marital vow. I fear women like U. So much to say... Let me stop here.

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Romance › Re: Help!! I Only See Him At Night by Prospero01(m): 8:13pm On Feb 14, 2015

1. If he is busy during the day working, do U have a job that keeps U busy? If not U won't be available for him @night except weekends.
2.If within two months he has had access to ur thighs @night, what makes U think he will want to change his winning formula? Am sorry for sounding this way because in ur maturity U made it known he has had sex with U. So am not slating U for it. Just cut the sex and get to know him for who he is.
3.Dia is something he's not telling U yet.
4.Most likely U may be a side chick. How? U are not compatible intellectually,professionally and maybe socially. So introducing U to people or walking with U during the day devalues his self esteem.
5.Sorry to say this, some doctors re into occultism. I used to have a family friend who happens to be a doctor. He specializes in D and C. He's like the person U just describe though varies a bit.
5.Try visit his office and see how he will receive U. That will tell U if U re just an object of sexual gratification or not.
Lastly my advice to U is engage urself in personal development and stop bin deceive by the doctor thing or my guy is a medical doctor. If a mechanic will make U happy, my sister go for it.

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