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Celebrities › Re: Idris Elba congratulates Davido At 02 Arena Backstage (Photos) by Protagonist(m): 10:38am On Jan 28, 2019

Baddiezz:
idris my former crush. Till I found out he bears the same name as boborisky

Lol. Can God ever forgive this your comment?? ��

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Celebrities › Re: Davido slam critics who compare him with Wizkid Over 02 Arena by Protagonist(m): 1:48pm On Jan 27, 2019

maybachstarboy:
First to comment on a Front page post for the second time since I became a nairalader in 2015. Now,is glaring to me that 2019 is my year of success. My dad was not wrong after all.

Happy Sunday guys! I made FCT.You can make it too. Seun where is my FCT prize ooo.

Back to the post.... Las Las Davido made it. Leave haters to keep wailing.

If you had said FTC, instead of the FCT you wrote, you for get prize and another 10k dolls. But, perhaps village pipu don get u. ��

Celebrities › Re: Davido slam critics who compare him with Wizkid Over 02 Arena by Protagonist(m): 1:47pm On Jan 27, 2019

maybachstarboy:
First to comment on a Front page post for the second time since I became a nairalader in 2015. Now,is glaring to me that 2019 is my year of success. My dad was not wrong after all.

Happy Sunday guys! I made FCT.You can make it too. Seun where is my FCT prize ooo.

If you had said FTC, instead of the FCT you wrote, you for get prize and another 10k dolls. But, perhaps village pipu don get u. ��

Back to the post.... Las Las Davido made it. Leave haters to keep wailing.

Politics › Re: FFK Stands By His Words On Tinubu, See Why by Protagonist(m): 3:32pm On Jan 11, 2019

afroniger:
FFK must be high on drugs. The Lagos APC governorship campaign flag-off and the inauguration of the APC Presidential Campaign Council at Abuja happened on the same day (7th of January), so how can Tinubu be at both places at the same time? FFK needs to check himself into a rehab facility because his condition is getting worse.

That's not true, my friend. The both events were a day apart.
FFK might have his sources.

Get brain abeg

Jokes Etc › Re: My Hilarious Chat With A Guy Who Wants To Sell His Kidney. by Protagonist(m): 3:46pm On Nov 04, 2018

F4wizzy:
Hello friend I want to attend to 5 emergency cases mostly serious that 5k can solve .. thank you. State your genuine reason and detail of account if you see alert fine but if you don’t see sorry yours was not so bad.

Someone should help me make this a topic.

Hi, good evening.
I'm an AYEEN (Africa's Young Entrepreneurs Empowerment Nigeria 2018) finalist. I have been going through the entire process without a sponsor.
I need to be in Lagos again for the Convention on the 25th of this month and I am totally sapped out. The 5k will do me a lot of good please.
My story is verifiable. Thanks

Celebrities › Re: Bbnaija Star Ifu Ennada Savagely Claps Back At Non-fan by Protagonist(m): 1:52pm On Oct 31, 2018

freezyprinzy:

Your profile status is the funniest I've seen. Ever

Jokes Etc › Re: You Will Be Forced To Laugh Away Your Sorrow by Protagonist(m): 5:46pm On Oct 27, 2018

Holatunde111:
WHO SAID EVERYTHING THAT HAS DISADVANTAGE HAVE AN ADVANTAGE
PLS WHAT IS THE ADVANTAGE OF BODY ODOUR?

You can't be attacked by Witches and Wizards ��

Politics › Re: PDP Primary: Tambuwal Finally Speaks On Loss To Atiku, Reveals Next Action by Protagonist(m): 7:41am On Oct 09, 2018

Tambuwal is matured. Unlike that 'woman' in Ekiti crying more than the bereaved.

Come to think of it, are you sure Fayose's ancestors are not angry with him?

The guy's been failing in all he puts his hands into recently. May JAH help him

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Good Evening,thread For Npower Applicant That Are Yet To Receive SMS . by Protagonist(m): 7:47am On Jul 22, 2017

I read Public Administration in school, but I applied for N-Power agro. I have not gotten any sms yet. I only saw the criteria today. Do I stand a chance?

Politics › Re: Open Letter To The Presidency By A Nairalander by Protagonist(op): 4:31pm On Jun 07, 2017

hucienda:
Neither here nor there.

Well, actually the previous one got attention

Politics › Re: Open Letter To The Presidency By A Nairalander by Protagonist(op): 4:30pm On Jun 07, 2017

sarrki:
Mr Ezra we Don hear you
Next

Politics › Re: Open Letter To The Presidency By A Nairalander by Protagonist(op): 4:29pm On Jun 07, 2017

Drabeey:
'I AM NOT A BUHARIST'
above statement nullifies all you have to even say

Please can you explain how?

Politics › Open Letter To The Presidency By A Nairalander by Protagonist(op): 1:44pm On Jun 07, 2017

OPEN LETTER TO THE ACTING PRESIDENT ON THE COMMEMORATION OF THE ADMINISTRATION’S TWO YEARS IN OFFICE:

My Faith Is Birthed and Solid, But Not Without Concerns.

Good morning to Your Excellency Sir,
I hope this letter met you in sound health and fitness?

First, before I begin baring my mind about your administration’s effectiveness and efficiency within the last two years, it is important that you know that this is my first open letter to the Presidency, but my second to President Buhari. I first wrote to the President a week before he was sworn in as the President. And whether a critical or I-don’t-care view of that letter will show I am not a BUHARIST; yet I hold no personal grief against the president or any other person in the presidency. This letter is written without any ulterior motive to it, but the expressed opinion of one Nigerian.

When the government was sworn in two years ago, I personally prayed the government flourishes, expected the worst, and never hid my pessimism and lack of confidence on the government, from people around me. That is because that was how I felt. And for some time, I was not disappointed. Within the first year, Nigeria had sunk in the melancholy of fast-fading goodness. Ills came, they multiplied before the earlier batch was tackled. I was strengthened to discuss my disgust further.

As a non-partisan political opinionist, you should see me discussing Buhari and his failing government, like other irrational youths are doing today. I had no option; perhaps because I was personally affected and could not see any succor as things were strangely getting ‘too easy’ for people around me, including my Benefactor, thanks to your administration’s policies. I held your administration tightly responsible, until I removed the block from my eyes to take a clearer view of things, especially the government’s efforts to try to lift the plights of all Nigerians, that I had previously denied to acknowledge. And in doing so, I saw through, saw through the smiley faces of government’s officials I see in TV, to the tireless efforts put in to achieve suffering-uplifting successes that have been largely undermined by a few but popular detractors of National progress.

I do not approve of your administration’s approach and tactics in executing some of its laudable policies, like fighting corruption and a few others.
About fighting corruption, I appreciate and commend your administration’s zeal and sustained enthusiasm in the fight, but this is largely undermined by the inability of coordinating agencies to carryout proper investigations before prosecuting, which then derails the administration’s genuine fight against the pest called corruption.

Another concern worthy of note is your administration’s non-adherence to court rulings. I take this time out to protest the continued detention of Col. Sambo Dasuki, Mallam El-zakzaky and others. Like the English proverb goes: ‘two wrongs do not make a right.’ Their continued unlawful detention wins them peoples’ sympathies which is not good for your administration’s genuine efforts to do the right thing. This is an area I advise your office to consider. An example is Mr. Nnamdi Kanu’s case. The government’s delayed compliance to court rulings attracted to him underserved popularity.

Yet, among these lapses and a few others, I have been able to realize that your administration is doing a great deal, putting efforts to actualize its mandate of bettering the lives of all Nigerians. And will achieve this faster with the full supports of the populace. I am not a BUHARIST, a sycophant and/or a blind follower of this administration, but I now believe in the objective and success of your administration.

My faith in this administration has been birthed, and will only grow solid, yet my concerns must be considered; because my faith is in the goodness of your administration while it is right, and will not tolerate mediocrity. It will commend as much as possible and critically, constructively but harshly criticize where it has to. One thing is clear, I have faith in what your administration has begun, can do and pray it rightly go through to achieve them. The mouth and hand that pointed your lapses, is fully in action to commend and point out your strengths. Is it not what makes one a patriot?

Until I write again, please ensure your administration works to justify our confidence. Also, my most sincere ‘Get-Well-Soon’ regards to Mr. President. I appreciate you all and pray you succeed. I will write again, whether to commend or not, till then.

God bless Nigeria.

Ezra Ajiboye

Romance › Re: You Expose Your Body Parts & Write 'Jesus Baby': See Response A Twitter User Got by Protagonist(m): 1:34pm On May 26, 2017

SAVAGE

Family › Re: Domestic Violence: The Guy With The Abusive Girlfriend by Protagonist(op): 4:27pm On Apr 26, 2017

baibrown:
You should grab her by the neck very hard and put her out of the house. Tell her that her behavior will change or she will be put out of the house forever. Then don't speak to her for several days. She needs to fear you at least a little bit

Violence? never. I don't have that impulse. It will just deteriorate the situation. Anyways, thanks for the advice

Family › Re: Domestic Violence: The Guy With The Abusive Girlfriend by Protagonist(op): 4:24pm On Apr 26, 2017

JerryTemi:
Fadamant no vex for me but you am right but as for the girl in question, let him be a man and seat her down,talk to her,tell her you are not enjoying her attitude towards you and the relationship that you want peace in your affair with her.Bros all the best.

I've tried severally, just didn't work out

Family › Re: Domestic Violence: The Guy With The Abusive Girlfriend by Protagonist(op): 4:24pm On Apr 26, 2017

JerryTemi:
Fadamant no vex for me but you am right but as for the girl in question, let him be a man and seat her down,talk to her,tell her you are not enjoying her attitude towards you and the relationship that you want peace in your affair with her.Bros all the best.

Bros, I've tried severally, just didn't work out

Family › Re: Domestic Violence: The Guy With The Abusive Girlfriend by Protagonist(op): 4:22pm On Apr 26, 2017

johnson232:
Jesus!!! I can't believe we still have these kind of men! Now i know why your girlfriend treats u like that....u are a whimp...a weak man. U aren't even bold enough to call it quit & move on...rather u wanna escape like a criminal....damn! i have read all of your posts on this thread & i must say u are a disgrace to men...Shame on u... whimp

Thanks for your advice Johnson232.

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Family › Re: Domestic Violence: The Guy With The Abusive Girlfriend by Protagonist(op): 4:14pm On Apr 26, 2017

JerryTemi:
You men don't like good,and nice ladies,you people treat them like trash as if you are doing them favour so bro enjoy but try talk to her

Thanks for your advice JerryTemi

Family › Re: Domestic Violence: The Guy With The Abusive Girlfriend by Protagonist(op): 10:29am On Apr 24, 2017

bigcp:
just listen 2 urself..."i love her. can't stay away n she knows that"...then stop complaining...until she stabs u 2 death....ok now tell me...u can stay away...so what do u wnt us to do 4 u?...since you've made up ur mind nt to walk away....No offense bross...u r so 4kn weak...n she knws that...that's why she'll continue 2 treat u like a trash until u start acting like a man with 2 balls...HuH...
i hate brothers like this...

Thanks for your advice bigcp

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Family › Re: Domestic Violence: The Guy With The Abusive Girlfriend by Protagonist(op): 6:13am On Apr 22, 2017

Purelady:
Op, pls your life is more important than this relationship that is not heading to any where. kindly flee this toxic relationship is not worth it. I had a girlfriend whose boyfriend was very volatile threatening bodily injury every time they have little disagreement, do you know that, one day he beat her to the extent that she lost an eye, pls, pls and pls let her go, to avoid stories that touch, Peace.

Thanks purelady. I will consider your advice

Family › Re: Domestic Violence: The Guy With The Abusive Girlfriend by Protagonist(op): 4:42pm On Apr 20, 2017

pcguru1:
You can't always run away from your problem, what happens when you marry. I sense you are a shy and someone who hates confrontation guess what you are going to be confronted one day. So wait for bae(whatever this millennial call it ) and tell her babe I don't like your attitude and am thinking of leaving you, I don't want to say Man up but at least voice your concerns some babes need such stance once in a while and stop allowing people walk all over you. You can't always run away from your problem

Thanks for your advice Pcguru. But if I told her that she won't leave. I have try such severally before now. All the same, thanks

Family › Re: Domestic Violence: The Guy With The Abusive Girlfriend by Protagonist(op): 6:35am On Apr 20, 2017

Fadamant:
Good idea, but you will still need to make good use of your power of will and made-up mind if she knew your office, because she will definitely come looking for you. So it's still about you putting your feet on the ground for yourself ( your life).

If you don't see her worth, then don't let her stay. Kick her out for your good.

Thanks Fadamant. Your advice is priceless. I won't let the house down

Family › Re: Domestic Violence: The Guy With The Abusive Girlfriend by Protagonist(op): 6:33am On Apr 20, 2017

limamintruth:
If all you said is true, for how long do you intend to continue enduring such abuse Is this the kind of life you wish to live in marriage? My advise is that you end that abusive relationship as soon as possible, because you also deserve to be happy.

Thanks Limamintruth. Couldn't have gotten better advice anywhere. Thanks Nairaland

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Family › Re: Domestic Violence: The Guy With The Abusive Girlfriend by Protagonist(op): 7:00pm On Apr 19, 2017

TheeDetective:
WHAT SORT OF SILLY LOVE IS THIS MATE? I’m going to be quiet brutal here dude . SOMETHING REALLY IS WRONG WITH YOU if you think it’s normal for you to remain in an abusive relationship with someone you are still in the courting stage with. Is it until she inflicts harm on you before you know it’s time to get rid of her? By then, it’ll be too late. IF YOU HAVE FAMILY MEMBERS AND YOU ALLOW THIS WOMAN TO KILL YOU, DO YOU KNOW HOW THAT WILL HURT YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS? You are selfish if you allow that to happen and put your family members into chaos especially since you could have avoided harm coming to you. IF YOU DON’T WANT TO HAVE PITY FOR YOURSELF, AT LEAST HAVE PITY FOR YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS ESPECIALLY YOUR MUM AND DAD. MAN-UP AND GET OUT OF THAT TOXIC RELATIONSHIP AND ENVIRONMENT NOW . If you like make you listen, if you like make you no listen nah your cup of tea be that, no say dem no warn you o. You take eye see am say people wey dey respond to you here dey tell you say make you run faster than Usian Bolt before had I known sets in. ENOUGH SAID.

Thanks for your help. I have deviced an arrangement. Since my rent will expire next month, I intend to quietly pack without her knowledge. Sounds childish, but that's all I've got. All the same, Thanks

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Family › Re: Domestic Violence: The Guy With The Abusive Girlfriend by Protagonist(op): 6:03pm On Apr 19, 2017

gbolahanoluyemi:
Married to an Adulterer?
How can the law help you?
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The law provides remedies for victims of extra marital affairs
In recent times, allegations of adultery by public personalities have occupied the social media. This no doubt changed the fact that many married persons are married to adulterous spouses. While some are aware of this fact, many are ignorant of the situation. This publication considers adultery under the Matrimonial Causes Act, how it is proved and the remedy available to a spouse who has been a victim of adultery.

The Court of Appeal in IBEABUCHI v. IBEABUCHI reported as (2016) LPELR-41268(CA) defined Adultery as consensual intercourse between two persons of opposite sexes, at least one of whom is married to a person other than the one with whom the intercourse is had, and since the celebration of the marriage.

Establishing adultery in a court of law is not as easy as it is in the cultural system. In law seeing your spouse hanging out with an opposite sex on a date with nothing more may not amount to sufficient proof of adultery. To successfully establish adultery, there must be sexual intercourse and the sexual intercourse must be voluntary and at least one of the parties must be married. Rape does not amount to adultery.

Adultery is one of the grounds permitted by law for the dissolution of marriages provided the adultery has not been condoned by the spouse. Adultery is difficult to be proved, judging by the fact that adulterers usually exercise extreme secrecy during the act. The law however allows it to be proved by inference from circumstances where it cannot be proved by direct evidence.

Proving adultery is not as easy as alleging adultery, the co-adulterer must be joined in the petition, under Islamic law, an allegation of adultery leveled against a woman must be proved by the testimonies of four unimpeachable Muslims who must have seen the adulterous act. However, in the secular court which applies the Matrimonial Causes Act, direct evidence which is very rare can be given, adultery can also be proved by circumstantial evidence that could be in various forms e.g. If the victim can prove that the spouse had contacted a sexually transmitted disease from a third party during the marriage, this will give rise to a presumption of adultery; If the victim proves that the spouse visits a brothel with an opposite sex, it will be presumed that such a spouse has committed adultery; confessions of spouse; birth of a child outside wedlock etc.

The law is that, a party to a marriage whether husband or wife may, in a petition for a decree of dissolution of the marriage alleging that the other party to the marriage has committed adultery with a person claim damages from that person who has committed adultery with his/her spouse. You can sue your husband's girlfriend and get damages, likewise husbands can get damages from their wives' boyfriends.

The purpose of the damages for adultery are not to compensate for the loss which the victim has suffered, even though the Court may consider matters such as damage done to the victim by the blow to his/her honour, the hurt to his/her family life and injury to his/her feelings, the court may give directives with regards the manner in which the damages awarded shall be paid or applied and may, if the circumstances warrant, direct that the damages be settled for the benefit of the victim or the children of the marriage.

It must be noted that, the Court will not grant damages in respect of an act of adultery committed more than three years before the date of the petition. To learn more or ask questions about marriages, divorce and the law, please send us an email via lawcandles@gmail.com or olivesandcandles@yahoo.com

Engaging in adultery cost us religious benefits and can also make us pay huge sums in damages. So when next you receive a proposal from a married person, think twice or better still, confide in a lawyer.

extracted from https://www.smore.com/scgxr

Wehdone Sir. Please use the door

Family › Re: Domestic Violence: The Guy With The Abusive Girlfriend by Protagonist(op): 6:01pm On Apr 19, 2017

Fadamant:
Okay. I tell you what. The reason it is difficult for you to break with her is that you've become too emotionally attached to her owing to co-habitating and frequent sex.

You need to man-up, stop having sex with her and finally kick her out. I recommend you take her out of your house and tell her plainly that you are breaking up, and don't listen to any pleas from her and don't believe any promises of change from her, because she will never change, except by God's intervention.

Do these for your life's sake. It is better to be safe , than to be sorry.

Thanks man

Family › Re: Domestic Violence: The Guy With The Abusive Girlfriend by Protagonist(op): 4:23pm On Apr 19, 2017

gbegemaster:
OP make dem nor kill you for nothing oh. If you die she will move on. Abi na veejay dey hold you hostage so? Abi she be Master of acrobatics? Abi na food? Abi na money? Wetin wan make you wan die inside this matter so?

Please force yourself and declare a break biko.

Seriously, not money, food or whatever. Just pure love. But my head is coming down now.

As for the acrobatics, lol. You have a point there grin

gbegemaster:
OP make dem nor kill you for nothing oh. If you die she will move on. Abi na veejay dey hold you hostage so? Abi she be Master of acrobatics? Abi na food? Abi na money? Wetin wan make you wan die inside this matter so?

Please force yourself and declare a break biko.

Seriously, not money, food or whatever. Just pure love. But my head is coming down now.

As for the acrobatics, lol. You have a point there

Family › Re: Domestic Violence: The Guy With The Abusive Girlfriend by Protagonist(op): 4:19pm On Apr 19, 2017

Fadamant:
This op is not serious at all. You call yourself a man and you see yourself as helpless before your girl friend? God forbid. KICK THAT GIRL OUT PERMENENTLY, before she kills you.

Fadamant, I'm really trying. But your encouragements will serve as strength. I promise

Family › Re: Domestic Violence: The Guy With The Abusive Girlfriend by Protagonist(op): 12:39pm On Apr 19, 2017

sinaj:
some people will notice the crazy tendency in their bf/gf nd still go ahead to marry thinking marriage will change it.

That's just why I feel no pity for those in abusive relationship.

I have tried severally to end the relationship, but she won't stop coming. Before you know it, we are on again. Last night's trouble left me with terrible injuries that I couldn't go to work today.
She has left, but I'm sure she will be here tomorrow, when she feels things have settled. And beg

Family › Re: Domestic Violence: The Guy With The Abusive Girlfriend by Protagonist(op): 12:36pm On Apr 19, 2017

Zeedarh:
No to any form of violence.
But bros, which kain vegetable you chop?

Don't get you.

Family › Re: Domestic Violence: The Guy With The Abusive Girlfriend by Protagonist(op): 12:35pm On Apr 19, 2017

DozieInc:
Violence and fits of anger are traits I will never tolerate in a relationship.

OP. You better do something, for your own good.

I am a private person and don't keep friends. The only friend I have stays in Lagos, while I stay in Abuja. So I can't escape to anywhere. Just trapped

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