₦airaland Forum

MrsChima:
She doesn't have to.

cyprus000:
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No.

Only legal to save the mother from death,physical health threat or mental health threat.

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So you can sue your GF if she murder your child.
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U made my day

Is abortion really legal in Nigeria?

ladyF:
To every action there are consequences...

That's a reckless action, when d normal path is easy.

Why risk your life for nothing.

It sounds stewpid sef

Mcslize:
snakie86 if u'r stil in dis nairaland come n verify dis story. Did u sell ur story to dis guy? Cuz I can stil remember very well all ur stories dat I've read.

MrsChima:
People should look before they leap and know whom they are sleeping with.

It is better to be safe than sorry. We don't know the man's reaction but marriage doesn't solve anything.

That's d point. She didn't wait for d man's reaction.

ladyF:
But u guys are not the ones going to carry a protruded belly for 9 months, u won't join her as she goes through the supposed *shame* and stigma that society will met out for *mothering* a child out of wedlock, the stigma wen they ask her how is *Oga*, and she has to explain that she's not married yet, how her parents will feel too....
I'm not saying she has the veto power, but I think the overall decision should lie with her. The OPs friend should just talk things through with the lady, put urself in her shoes too. Love supercedes all.
PS: I do NOT in any way support abortion.

The risk of losing her womb and life is more than stigma and shame

onemorepls:
Let him give her another one

Just like your display name. na so u dey give am around ?

MrsChima:
Men don't get it. Just because he is employed and has money means NOTHING. He loses his job then what? He leaves her for another woman then what? He decides he wants nothing to do with the kid then what?

Money is like fire it can be extinguished!

So based on your logic, people should not marry again.

or what makes you think he will not marry her if he knew she is carrying her baby?

MrsChima:
Don't mind these fools because there are many single mothers out there raising kids on their own even married women are raising kids on their own while the men can frollick around like rabid hyenas.

Not every man wants children especially by a girlfriend and not every woman wants children so they opt for abortion ( if they have used proper birth control then there would not be a need for abortion).

I don't care what anyone say if push come to shove...the woman is typically the one left with the kids if all else fails. If you are not about to care for your children give up for adoption but what African nation you know freely adopting babies? Exactly.

If all fails she can go for abortion. But now...nothing is failing...just short few quarrel break, she aborted.

My guy is single and has have a good job enough to take care of 4 wives, talkless of a single girl

And the lady is working too

Benignasweety:
plz how wld I go about it?? Am a big disappoint to my parents already bcuz I once had a son. I didn't knw why I made diz mistake twice. I guess mayb diz guy is loves me more dan I can imagine... Am confused nd abortion is d best cuz of my parents.

This is not best discussed here...

How financially bouyant is he? Is he ready to own up?

MrsChima:
Same as you.

smithsydny:
u are very stupid

hey no fighting here.

Oya hug each other

CecyAdrian:
The people dat are not happy with you have dia reason. I myself also do av my reason 4 liking what u did.
We are not all d same

Hmmm salute

CecyAdrian:
Lol.
Y?

Reading female comments will show you they were not happy with I did. But you are an exception.

dumo1:
You miss just earned my respect.

say wetin

PunkyVeer:
Some guys are funny. I'm sure if she'd told him about the pregnancy, he was going to think she was trying to trap him with a baby to remain in their obviously tumultuous relationship. He needs to get over it or end the relationship if he's bothered by what she did. They weren't talking, so maybe she thought there was no chance of a reconciliation & to save herself the stress of single parenthood, she made the decision to terminate. Her choice. Her body. A child deserves a stable environment. Full stop.

Why this unhealthy assumption ?

Its better to let him know. If something bad happens to her during the process of abortion, she is on her own.

MrsChima:
She doesn't need your consent to do anything to her body even if you are married. It is the same thing for men who do not have to be father's to their children. They can terminate their parental rights and move on.

It is a risk you take when you are in a relationship and date like minded to avoid conflicts.

See who we have here. MrsChima

Benignasweety:
Am in dxame shoes. I hvnt aborted mine bt my boyfriend isn't financially capable as he is still in his finals. I need help.

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Pls dont think of abortion. There are many ways to go about it

This happened to a friend of mine (an office colleague)


They were love birds for few months. They had a heated quarrel that lasted 4 months. One funny thing about the whole stuff is they work in the same office, but they were not talking to each other.

We noticed that the lady was seriously ill for like 2 months and nobody knew the nature of the sickness. Typhoid was her excuse then.

So recently, they settled their disputes and started going out again. One thing led to another, she confessed that it was abortion and not Typhoid that got hooked.

In fact its my friends 3 weeks pregnancy she removed.

My friend was like "Why didnt you tell me you were pregnant?"

"Why did you have to abort my pregnancy?"

The lady said "But we were not talking then and its stupid for me to come and approach you with pregnancy in such a sour relationship"

My friend is mad at her now. He has been behaving funny and not focus since Monday.

I personally think the lady is at fault.

Am I wrong?

Greeny02:
so what happens to the first girl or nah to continue to bang the 2 nd girl

why wont I bang her? That was then tho

CecyAdrian:
Lol.
Just great

From a lady. Sounds odd

sinestro24:
hahahah.

this comment made me burst out laughing at work
very witty comment

Lol

zoelife:
And the vicious cycle continues.

Thats life for you.

iLovePusssy:
hahahahaha. ... i love this guy! #no_homo

Your name and your DP tho

Eco2580:
Nice one Bro!
Thank you for teaching this method to nairalanders, i know many will try it.
If to say aint getting married next week i could have try it o. LolLol

Badooooooooo

Ollymurs:
Someone give this dude a high-five! I wldnt have done it differently either.... You the mahn broda, you the mahn!!!

Eddodoh:
U do not support greedy people. The girl messed up big tym.

Most girls take guys lyk fools or ATM. U claim hard to get for almost 6 months, or probably agree to date d guy n whenever u visit d guy u go wit ur friend. U wear iron pant to d guy's abode. Is it not wickedness? The funny thing is dat most of d girls have someone who care less about dem but dey give him everytin while dey deny d serious dude & still want 2 collect from him.

True oo...na street guys dey fck dat girl

EmmyDe25:
I owe that guy a bottle of orijin whenever we meet.

Gud..orijin is my best soft drink

EmmyDe25:
Nice one bro. good game you played. Had a date with a bae last week who came along with her friend. I wonder why a girl will go on a date with a lady finer than her. The lady was even the one doing all the questioning and chatting. I was pressed to get her her contact. But i decided to restrain myself. Just said i was going to ask her for the friend's pin today. I still havent forgiven myself for not making that bold move.

Jaye jare...girls never learn

sbashir10:
Tuale baba, respect bro, you're now my new mentor and role model sef, tuale........ Baba alaye

Lol

hoobs:
don't they all?

True

trigar12:
U deserve an award ... You be correct guy mehn

I am not proud of myself...but I had to do that...