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Too long. But thank God ur alive.

Iamcool82:
I don't know the right section for this.
Mods please push to the right section.


We both have been legally married for 9years+ now. Met in 2002 so I can say we've been together for almost 15 years.
No kids yet. He's certified fertile. I am not. He has shown me love thru it all. I was even certified hiv positive but with low viral load. We've never used a condom as a couple. He still accepted me. Even though he remains hiv negative from 2002 that we started dating before we got married in 2007. I have been on drugs for many years till date.

He has never beaten me or molested me. However, I live with too much guilt and I'm depressed constantly when I remember he is 46 years old without a child. It's my fault.

He has slept with other ladies several times before and on one occasion my maid who he was sleeping with became pregnant for him. I was Very Happy. Finally, he would have his own offspring. I showed her so much love and assured her she is safe with me. I kept telling myself, if I truly love my husband (soon to be ex), I am to support him even if he gets many women pregnant. After all, he has only shown me love since I met him.

Unfortunately, the maid had early pregnancy complications and we lost the baby. Thank God she herself is alive. I encouraged him to stick to her after the pregnancy loss but the girl said she will never date him again because of me. I became more depressed when she left for holidays and never came back.
Another lady he dated who he told about his childless state tried to put another person's pregnancy on him. He got to find out from her close friend.

Today, I have asked him for a Divorce. I cannot continue to waste his time and life after trying to get pregnant for almost a decade(in marriage) & almost 15 years (together) . Even ivf is not working out. He had tried too much for me. I can't live to see him age further childless.

We started a business together before we got married. It has become the family business. I am ready to be a business partner and no longer a wife.

Any lady he gets can be comfortable he's divorced than knowing he's married. Also it's easier to have a wide figure inside same house with him to give him a child Instead of a side chick. After all, he's very fertile.

This is the point life has pushed me to but I'm putting all my energy into much more financially productive things and hoping to live happier knowing I have set him free to remarry and have his own kids.


Sorry to bore you Nairalanders with this long post. I needed to say my thoughts out but no one to talk to personally.

Good move. But if he truly loves you he would decline.

Without pictures or videos or any proof. She is lying.







Seeking attention.

seguno2:
Has Maryam Abacha being arrested?

She didn't loot. Her husband did

i Wonder why this woman is still walking freely get her arrested and jailed

Its funny how people use the word love. 2 Months and he is already in love... Ex husband number 3 loading.

to me she is not beautiful that's my opinion.

For those of you considering suicide this is the pain and shame you put your family when you die.

BigBelleControl:
With no visible development?

did you just wake up from a coma or you have been living on the Moon? because everyone on earth knows that the Boko Haram menace has been significantly tamed.

Sai baba

[quote author=nemynely post=54890047][/quote]what happened Tu BaBa I thought you were in Spain. Is everything alright?

DollarAngel:
Going through those jargons you put there, shows how your Parents have failed on their parental duty to train you, or probably you are a product of a broken home and destitute, stop pouring your frustration here on Nairaland, it won't make you feel good, seek for help, you are in need of one

E PAIN Am

What is super Eagles? someone should please explain to me.

DollarAngel:
Maheeda wey no blow by going nak**

She is probably Richer than your father and surely more popular than ur family.

Kennitrust:
That meheeda, no make sense at all

Mumu ... Dem fence your eyes?

soberdrunk:
This Maheeda fine sha!!

She sabi make up

Tazdroid:
Then what next op, what next?

Abeg hep me ask am.

What is the mumu guy forming sef...

Chrisozone:
Old man dey misbehave because of Money


respect to pete Edochie !!!

He is doing his job you gay donkey.

Any one who doesnt find this Funny is a sadist.

why is she Shouting like that? is this the first time she is seeing Tuface?

Kennitrust:
That meheeda, no make sense at all

I bet she make sense pass your babe.... If you have any.







Her husband no mind

castel428:
which one be 'huna'. Are you a stammerer?

He dey form Falz the bad guy.

They got their building materials from ABA....

May God protect us and our family