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societal pressure

I'm not interested in going to heaven abeg... The criterias are too hard, I can't come and kill myself ...
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Don't fornicate
Don't adultery
Don't drink alcohol
Don't this don't that....
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If I miss heaven I will chill out with my other niggas in hell abeg... I go dey sip beer and Suya for hellfire Make una dey eat mango and banana for heaven...

Since she left that show she has been anonymous and unknown, hunger don dey beat her now and all those who advised her don run leave her for trenches na now her eyes open....
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Greenfaces:
No one cares about you

YOU THINK I GIVE A FCK?

THIS IS WHY NIGERIANS ARE HATED AROUND THE WORLD, SOUTH AFRICANS HATE NIGERIANS, INDIANS HATE NIGERIANS, INFACT AN INDIAN MEMBER OF PARLIAMENT SAID NIGERIANS ARE LIKE CANCERS, NIGERIANS ARE HATED AROUND THE WORLD AND I UNDERSTAND.... MOST NIGERIANS DO EVERYTHING THEY CAN TO BAN NIGERIANS GOING TO THOSE COUNTRIES AS SOON AS THEY LAND IN THOSE COUNTRIES....
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THIS BASTARD TIAMIYU EMDEE IS AN ABSOLUTE REPRESENTATION OF THE AVERAGE NIGERIAN... I LIVE IN NIGERIA AN I HATE NIGERIANS SO MUCH AND IF I LEAVE THIS COUNTRY I WILL AVOID NIGERIANS AT ALL COST... SO I AM NOT SURPRISED.
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ALL I AM SAYING IS THE NEXT TIME YOU SEE NIGERIANS BEING KILLED IN OTHER COUNTRIES YOU THINK ABOUT THE RUBBISH THIS FOOL HAS DONE AND IMAGINE THE SAME RUBBISH NIGERIANS ARE DIING IN OTHER PEOPLES COUNTRIES...
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THIS SAME WAY IT GOES FOR OTHER NIGERIANS... AS SOON AS NIGERIANS SEE ONE PERSON DOING SOMETHING AND MAKING PROGRESS FROM IT EVERYONE WILL START JUMPING IN UNTILL IT BECOMES TOO SATURATED FOR ANYONE TO MAKE A PROFIT OUT OF IT. I HEAR LONDON IS NOW THE NEW OSHODI, PEOPLE GOING THERE WITH THEIR ENTIRE VILLAGE, SOME ARE EVEN DEMANDING MONEY FROM STRANGERS JUST TO ADD THEM AS THEIR DEPENDANTS...
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THIS IS WHY I KEEP SAYING NIGERIA WILL NEVER MOVE FORWARD BECAAUSE THE PROBLEM WITH THE COUNTRY IS NOT JUST THE POLITICIANS THE PROBLEM IS THE MENTALITY OF NIGERIANS. THE PEOPLE WHO WERE SCREAMING FOR A BETTER GORVERNANCE 20 AND 30 YEARS AGO ARE THE PEOPLE IN POWER TODAY AND NIGERIA I STILL IN A MESS AND THE PEOPLE....
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SO THIS COUNTRY IS FV[center][/center]CKED TOP TO BOTTOM.

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Madam go and bring the money where you hid it abeg... Which super story be that... Dem suppose tie you down rub pepper for ur kpekus them leave you under sun until you talk where you hide the money.

He didn't forget anything he was just looking for the worst adjective to describe the current mess the country is going through...

This

This thing has appeared on my phone's screen for days now.

maikbanj:
Good morning dear Nairalanders,

Thank you for being there in the past with your timely advise(s). I am here again just to get some more on a case.

I have a girlfriend which I plan getting married to as both families are all involved. My girlfriend has had a bad past. She was once abused and all but then I was able to help shape her when I got into her life. I have been there for her in my own little way but lately, she has not been behaving too well and I am not happy about that fact.I will itemize these:

1. She once borrowed her friend her school fees to rent an apartment with the promise the friend was going to pay her back before exams started. Her friend failed to pay her back and I had to provide her with the money in order not to miss her exams. Note, the said friend is a female.

2. Second semester, her pops gave her school fees which I saw the alert. Yea,she travelled down to see me from Lag and she spent some but then I told her she would not have spent her school fees to come see me. Infact at that time I never knew she was going to come because I was sick but she did. So I told her not to touch her school fees again that I was going to refund her the money. She left and I refunded. I paid her flight back to Lagos.

I later found out my girlfriend didn’t pay that school fees. She spent it and when it was time to pay she kept complaining. I was mad at her wondering what she must have used it for. I scolded her and gave her part of the money.(N100k)

3. I have paid several debts for her as she made some mistakes in her online business and was swindled. The most recent one now, she went to get loans from apps online. I don’t even know what would have made her do that as I try assist her when she’s in need. I have warned her severally against borrowing but she went to borrow and now she’s into debt.

I have asked what she used the money for but she can’t even point to one thing. She said she used the initial loan for her personal needs and when she couldn’t pay back, she had to borrow from another app to pay and all. That’s how she kept borrowing to pay another till she borrowed from over 15 loan apps and her debt is running into 350k as at today.

I honestly can’t pay such an amount as I have my own personal problems to carry. I was mad because in the past I have warned her against borrowing and all. Now she’s in trouble and they’ve been threatening her to pay back.

I have told her I don’t have such monies to pay back and even if I had I won’t pay back. I have advised she talk to her parents and siblings about it but she has been scared. I have that money but I can’t pay back as I have more pressing needs to attend to. Since she has refused to tell her parents, I am thinking of telling her parents. I am very close to her family.

This is someone I wanna get married to but with all I’m seeing, I am already having doubts.

She’s from a very good home. Deep down, I love her and she does too. But why these problems, I don’t understand.

Please I seek your advice on how to handle this as I can’t pay such debts. I have done several in the past

Thanks

Brother we all want a woman who will stand by us and accept our flaws and try to help us change, it is your turn to be that man. If she is a good lady from a good home like you said and hlshe loves you as much as you love her, please don't leave her because she needs you. Device a means on how to make her change, it's gonna be difficult but you have to try, there are no perfect human beings, I am sure she knows she needs help. Don't leave her.

22o62021:
South side

Osakpolor, you must wash that toilet oo

I dey clear you..

Born2winnx:
The wedding is holding today and have made up my mind not to attend because the dude invited me through WhatsApp. It annoys me how children of this days has no regards or character for their elders. they are changing everything all in the name modernization.

How can someone, I know the exact date he was born be inviting me through WhatsApp, no respect at all, sending the scanned card copy there.. what happened to the hardware copy he printed? I had to tell him, he laughed it off saying bros nor vex the 500 copies he printed was not enough to share self. I didn't want to press the issue farther my mind is already made up.
He won't see me there today.

When I did mine, I knew how far distance I trekked to invite his elder brothers face to face, bought several drinks.

I just hope he invited his in-laws through WhatsApp too

Nairaland is filled with teenagers who know nothing about respect and courtesy... So ignore the comments here. You did the right thing. He disrespected you.

SmartyPants:
Well, it is a fact - anthropologically proven that the Edo and Yoruba are separate groups who had interactions. The original settlers of Edo never came from Ife, but rather a prince from Ife settled in igodomigodo, the original name of the place.

As you have mentioned, the name of Benin (not Edo) was given by the same yoruba prince, who left the place in frustration, naming it ile ibinu, meaning house of anger.

So, no the edoid peoples are not a yoruba sub-group. Please don't repeat that outside.

But yes, the Edo did colonise Lagos, and it may interest you to know that the name Eko is derived from a bini word that means village.

Eko means "war camp" in Bini

Come to my area in Lagos let us appreciate you...
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Don't come with your security oo....

Many men don't know they have high blood pressure or hypertension that any sustained pressure on the heart can kill them... You dey bang small girl and she dey shout fck me fck me harder you wan show the girl say na man you be..... You go just die throway.

What kind of gambling?

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Beware of village people...

" ...if you seek his trouble one fold, he will give it back to you in hundred folds, that makes him a kind of dangerous human being, and my life and that of my wife will be at stake considering the fact that he has mingled with several bad boys in the hood..."

With this above quote I will advise you to mind your business for your safety and that of your family... You can't change people like these without getting your fingers burnt... Let someone else help him... I understand ur love for him but I am also sure a lot of people have tried to help him. He is into drugs and drug dealers and user also carry other deadly baggages along... There are people you want to keep as far away from you as possible... Drug dealers, drug users, Yahoo boys area boys in ur area and single moms.

phranco:
I am in a relationship with a girl I'm planning to get married to. I love her and we vibe together and play most times. From my own assessment, she is good, down to earth, knows how to cook, humble, respectful, and she is also very beautiful naturally, infact she passed 70% quality of the kind of woman I want in my life.

The problem is that I'm not attracted to her sexually. She has a small body, and doesn't have nyash or should I say small nyash (sorry for the offensive word). I'm not aroused if I'm with her. I can manage to have sex with her just once, even if she will stay five days with me, and I know this gives her concern.

I like ladies with backside, height and chubby. but the ones I have come across doesn't even measure up to this my girl in character.

Does sex Matter so much in marriage? Cos I'm afraid I may cheat on her or get sexual satisfaction outside our marriage. I'm just confused right now.

Take a look at her mother, the way her mother looks now is her your girlfriend will look in future. Then make up your mind from there.

NeroPapas:
He is more than stupid, foolish and senseless, coming here to tell people not to marry because of one useless woman he can't tame. Nonsense

Woman leave ya house, leave pikin, even get the guts to call and tell you... And the mugu still allow the woman inside hin house... Ha, tie ti ta!!

I'm sure you're one of such who married because you had money and not because you understand you place as a man. Alaye, suffer your suffer in peace Jo.. Don't come and tell people not to marry. Many average men out here in charge of their home you dey here dey cap careless

I dey tell you brother