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Idowu116:
Hello Everyone,am new here and I see the way people share opinion about what they are going through in life so I decided to share mine too.

This is a little bit long please bear with me.
Am a 22 year old undergraduate.I finished my secondary School in 2017 but couldn't further my education because my parents (father particularly) are financially down.

I didn't even attend my graduation party party because my dad refused to get me the clothes we chose to wear in my class.

So out of shame,I didn't attend the party and I haven't even collect my certificate and testimonial till today.

Later in November that year (finished school in September),I decided to start looking for a menial job so a friend helped me with work at a particular market in Lagos, where I wash shoe for shoe sellers.

I did this till 2020 in March before the Corona virus issue started.

So around December I resumed the work again till early April, this year.

A friend of my mom helped me get a job at a bank,to work as a cleaner.

All this while, my dad and mom had a serious fight and my dad stopped living with us.

My father is a stubborn and who fornicates and my mom is not happy with it.

So luckily,I got the job and I started working that same month, paid 25k.
With this 25k, a take transport everyday #400 (200 go,200 come)and I feed from it too.i give my mum 5,000 from it too but am not happy and comfortable with it because before the month ends I end up having nothing, trekking to work and have not to eat talk less of saving to further my education.

Working as a cleaner, people use to take advantage of me a lot and a person,I have studied my nature well.I don't like people sending me on errands,I hate it but that is the nature of the job.

People take me for granted, some abuse me then I would cry and wish I never existed.

Sometimes I think of committing sucide but I later do keep my cool.I am an introvert but I have decided to start talking back at people and refusing to answer their message but am scared I might loose my job even though am not happy with the job.

Am also thinking of stopping the job myself but am scared of poverty.

I don't want to go back to the shoe washing job too because it is too stressful and I get sick when doing it

Please what should I do

Take N5,000 from ur salary every month to buy cheap crpto currencies while using your phone to search for other jobs... You are just begining life don't e thinking about suicide, there are people with far better qualifications than you who are doing far worse jobs and many of the will make it in life... Stay strong.

They better use that money very well.

He is scared of wearing the red black and green... Bleep buhari.

akpunda86:
Good morning fellas and compliments of the season. Some are happy some are not but we all thank God for life.
Happy Christmas all.

Well fellas sincerely wish I have the power to terminate my marriage I'm fed up 200%.

Is Christmas season of love all families stay together but my wife left home to her villa to see mum, yeah is a gud stuff going home to see parents, but if well planned. We planned after 25th she can go at least stay with the kids, suddenly she said she wanna go, I let her go, just yesterday wanted to eat, our helper said no soup in freezer, Kai I have to go buy soup outside. Today 24th, I'm gonna go to market to buy soup stuff.

It is very painful. I regret getting married cos in this season any sensible person knows families gonna be together. In fact kids need to enjoy it as we did during our time.

Salad we can't do, not that I don't have the money but I can't do it.

Her mum I told I'm not against ur daughter coming to see you, but she has to put her house in order first before embarking on a long journey.

Makes me regret a lot of stuff marrying outside my state, infact one can remarry, my spouse no go pass Enugu/Anambra.

Her mum sick, going see her I'm not against, my kids all crying all day long mummy mummy, I try pacify them.

Every December Na stress. It is true it is women that are mostly good in taking care of parents though we guys also do our best, but my wife has 3 brothes all married, as it is Xmas none of the wives is around so the daughters fall on.

I'm not writing this long epistle just that I feel bad as I don't know wat to do, sexually I gain noting from her, financially she doesn't support, it is only challenges she brings to me. If it continues like this, I'll leave the house for months 4 her and let her brain reset.

When you get old those children will be more interested in their mothers wellbeing than it's and that's a fact... So try to fix ur marriage and if it's not working do whatever makes you happyeven if it means breaking up with her, you only have one life and you can't afford to spend now in all that discomfort and old age in abandonment.... Whatever makes you happy.

This country is a death trap

Those of you guys wen dey put woman for head... Dey buy iPhone, gold chain, and fine fine things for babes make una continue oo....

That camera man complete goat....
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Very useless and wayward human being.
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Wow onto you... Idiot.

T0T0fucker:
good day all,

I really do need your mature opinions on this issue, I'm a young man in my early 30s. due to my personality am the kind of guy that flex alot. night life parties, clubbing and the rest.sometime last year I happened to be at the club, just like any other day..I took a girl home. (one night stand) we had sex and in the morning she left after I sorted her out.

She took my number though and from there we started chatting, due to how we clicked easily.. just like every other guy..I decided turn her to a friend with benefits...from friend with benefits....she started acting all up like a girlfriend. (coming to my house to pass the night and she can decide to leave whenever she wants) during this period, we had consexual sex raw because I was beginning to trust her a little.... that she wasn't really that bad.

Fast forward to the ending March this year, one issue led to another...and she stopped coming to my house...though we still talked sometimes on phone... later I got to know she got hooked with one rich yahoo boy.( which I didn't Care, because me na block on my own)

Next thing I saw on her whatsapp status was her traditional introduction rights, inviting her friends and well wishers, I congratulated her and moved on. after some time I saw her upload a pics of her baby bump.

Na wa o, na so it dey quick, fast forward to yesterday evening she just put to birth... which she also sent on her whatsapp status. retweeting her friends who congratulated her on her status.

Now, I haven't congratulated her yet, this has got me worried.. thinking.... "WHAT IF THIS CHILD IS MINE" I have every reason to believe it's mine.

1) calculating the month we broke up and had sex last to this December she gave birth is like few days pass 9 months.

2) the way she acted on the issue that made her stop coming to my place again... showed she already had this planned out (picked the yahoo boy over me because she knows am not going wife her...due to how we met )


3) the baby she uploaded is quite fair, and I also am fair in complexion. (her man is black)

With this I have every reason to believe that child might be mine.... but am really confused don't know what to do... have been thinking ever since yesterday night.

Can I fight this now or I should wait till the baby is grown?


Moving on when I know I have a child somewhere, my offsprings is not an option.. because I feel scammed already.

Meet her one on one and explain you thoughts to her, make her understand that the child looks more like you than her husband, tell her you are willing to keep things low and away from her husband of she agrees to a secret paternity test for you and the baby and also tell her that if the paternity test shows you are the father you would not make any claim for now... Make her understand the chaos that could come up between her and her husband if she doesn't comply to your request and you are forced to make your concerns known to her husband.

How's that a big business when I can't even count one customer.

Happy Birthday baba

Make she show covid 50 symptoms na her problem be that... That s l u t....

meobizy:
Lol. See her rough face in the second picture. Isn’t this woman forty years of age next year? Why hasn’t her body bulked up from adulthood? Somebody should lock her in a fattening room so we can finally identify her as an adult female.

Sierra Leonian father and a Nigerian mother. She’s full West African to me. I don’t see anything special about her heritage. If colonization never happened we’ll have plenty more like her in the country.

She is 32

Flash in the pan

Anybody wen campaign or vote for APC in the next election, na Ogun, Olokun and Shango go combine kill am...
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I don talk am.

Ikea81:
My brother I fear who no fear this chidinma . All our mind join together no reach

I dey tell you.

moralistic:
hahahahahahaha...this one pass your own abi

I dey tell you brother.

When will you people stop calling this old man Wizkid...

Sentence the girl to life imprisonment in a men's prison abeg.....
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Make those guys wen never see woman for years handle her yansh... Shebi she like pr1ck.

Hmmmn... Na wah. I think say as a Bini boy I get mind...