₦airaland Forum

Creamypie:
They will still vote apc

So there would no more be kidnappers and criminals again if the ruling party is not APC?

Is it APC that's kidnapping people or are they not wicked Nigerians like you with low IQ ?

It is just an honorary appointment, it is even Charity work from those appointed.

Such a useless appointment.

Bimseyy:
What a downgrade

He is more successful than you that has been a fervent Christian so it is not a down grade

SalamRushdie:
Another made up story ...Camara from Mali indeed...I wonder why Yorubas love shielding Islamic terrorist?

If it was really terrorist attack you think the losses wouldn't be greater ? Terrorists would have targeted a public place with a lot of people not just some buildings.

It is what you wish for south west most of you are projecting but the bad you wishes is only going to be on yourself.

PROUDIGBO:
You engage in wanton greed and covetousness, and when those being cheated complain you get furious! That Arandel, i only started hearing of them after Tinubu stole the presidency and became president! Just a few weeks after Tinubus' unfortunate swearing in, all of a sudden we hear Oando has bought the assets of Agip Nigeria PLC, and we saw demonstrations by its staff who weren't happy with the takeover! Seplat, a coy in which some Igbo own large (if not controlling interests) has been trying for years to buy the onshore assets of Mobil, yet have been frustrated and oppossed all the way by the same Nigerian gov'ts (Buhari and now Tinubu) that sees nothing wrong with the rushed acquisition of Shell and Agip by coys owned mainly by Yoruba (both acquisitions happening after Tinubu became president)! Yet you get angry when this obvious fact is pointed out!? It's clear to even the blind that the APC and Buhari/Tinubu gov'ts are anti-Igbo and primarily interested in using their control of the federal gov't to favour their own ethnic groups first before others get a look-in!

https://www.channelstv.com/2023/09/08/agip-staff-protest-acquisition-of-company-by-oando-in-port-harcourt/

https://www.lawyard.org/news/court-stops-exxonmobil-from-selling-1-28bn-assets-to-seplat/

https://www.reuters.com/business/energy/nigerian-president-withholds-approval-exxon-mobils-asset-sale-2022-08-11/#:~:text=ABUJA%2C%20Aug%2011%20(Reuters),refused%20to%20give%20its%20consent.

So you really think it was the government that influenced the decision of the court to stopped Seplat ? This your if it didn't favor us then it must be rigged against us mentality is annoying.

So you really think Hausa Fulani are stupid to be handling assets like that to Yoruba companies ?

You think Buhari wouldn't hand something like that to his brothers first if it was because of tribalism he was withhelding the sales ?

In this country Yoruba are just better in business and the economy of this country is majorly in Yoruba hands, so Yoruba will always have a slight advantage in something like this. The faster you know this the better for you, instead of all this incessant wailing and victimization.

During the 6 years of GEJ and 8 years of Buhari. It is a well known fact that Yoruba dominated most of the companies operating in Niger delta, if all these companies are just springing out of no where recently then you might have a point but those companies have been doing business in Niger delta for long. It is the right decision to hand over to them because they are already familiar with the environment, Yoruba just happened to dominate, there is no conspiracy everything is just in your head.

cucumbar:
This surffering and smiling corn-eating animal is here again, calling people that are way smarter than anyone in his linage idiot.

How are you zombies even wired sef?

Your father and mother at home is a corn eating animal and zombie.

You want to watch me raw dog your mother ? Ipobic loser with fermented brain

Successdude:
If you're not unapologetically an idiott (and a very present goát in times of reference), you should highlight any of the embolden that you guys have started with .... Please do. We are waiting....save yourself from that tag.

You are the idiot here that believe things mustn't be happening because it's not on the media and social media. Even if it was you would just dismiss it as propaganda.

Funkyswagzz:
Bro you just said everything I discovered about them. No wonder they envy igbos leaving in lagos

How can we envy who are beneath us in all aspect of life ?

Only typical losers wail like you guys.

PROUDIGBO:
The OP is being economical with the list! I just saw a report of the aquisition on AriseTV News, and 50% of the names listed there were Yoruba......Dr Layi Fatona, CEO of Arandel, and Engr Bayo Ojulari were omitted by the OP. The Mr Eberechukwu Oji that the OP prominently listed first is just the MD of ND Western Petroleum while Mr Samuel Aworet is the Chairman. Engr Tony Atta (i think he's the former MD of LNG) and Mr Abdul' Isa, Chairman of Waltersmith, are the only two from the north. They found a way to get in a Igbo name just to make people like you think it's a fair and balanced WAZOBIA list and the Igbo are among!

By the time Tinubu has finished achieving what he came into power to achieve, that's when the scales will fall from your eyes! Buhari has done his own and handed the baton over to him!

How does this concern Tinubu or is it Tinubu that is buying it on their behalf ?

Have any other Igbo business men show interest but were rejected ? All you know is victim mentality. Anything that is not in your favour must be rigged against you, typical losers mentality.

Antiurchins:
That's Terrorist attack Mr governor.....
Southwest is no more safe

You wish

Idiot like Obi talking
Who asked you ? or what did you do when awkuzu sars was dumping the corpses of igbo youths inside river

Moshybear:
Reading comments with keen interest

I was expecting to see a bear on your profile

Vinnie2000:
OP, Number 7 is on point.

When you ROMANTICALLY HARASS a lady to an Extreme extent, some of Them will begin to Fall for you.

It doesn't say to romantically harass women, are Nigerians really this daft ?

It is just one way to show confidence. Your facial expression, the way you talk, body language etc will be all on point if you know or convince yourself that the girl already like you. If you get rejected you will still take it graciously but as you think you shall become.


Many guys sabotage themselves because they think the girl won't like them but it is totally different if you think they like you.

Nazgul:
Your number 1 and your number 4 contradicts each other.

Besides whenever you want to copy and paste a romance article, look for one written by a Nigerian. That way your points would be more realistic and easily understood.

If you don't get it because it is too large for your brain, it doesn't mean others wouldn't get it. Don't tell me what to copy and paste online.


There is no contradiction, you are the one that didn't get it. It said you have to strike a balance between real and fake, an average chump like you wouldn't get it.

For example some guys won't show much emotions and enthusiasm even though they are very happy to go out with a girl. The post said to show more excitement, that's being real.

If you are normally talking loudly or you are just too quiet or a glutton, you don't want to be like that on a first date. That's what the post is talking about not being yourself, women do it all the time. You won't know the real characters of a women even after several months of dating and they seduced several men with it.

Some Essential Dating Advice for Men
by Mike Pilinski

If you're a single guy still looking for your dream girl, I'm sure you've absorbed lots of advice on how best to meet and date women by now. A lot of it is "common sensical" as you well know.

Therefore, assuming you know enough not to show up on a first date looking like you just combed your hair with an M-80 or wearing cowboy boots and shorts, maybe a few of the following ideas can give you just enough of an edge to make the difference between Date #2 with an exciting little fox -- and a date with ol' Rosie Palm instead. Check these out:

1) Don't Try to Act Like a Fake on the First Date

A woman often makes a far more profound emotional investment into a relationship than a man does. So for her, TRUST is an immensely important issue. Dating is not just a convenient way to get her rocks off, it's a case study in the male psyche.

Can she trust you to ever be a good future father? Don't laugh, unless she's middle-aged and well beyond the kids & husband phase of her life, this "mating calculus" is ALWAYS running somewhere in the back of her mind.

Acting like a phony with an obviously fake 'come-on' personality only demonstrates how easily you are willing to embrace deception in order to get something you want. To any woman other than the sad exception of the chick who's looking for another loser for her next AA reclamation project (maybe 10% to 15% of the female population), you are TOTAL POISON. A potential cheater and heartbreaker just waiting for his next victim to arrive.

She may dump you right away, OR depending on the depth of her general bitterness towards men, keep you around to engage in a little recreational tease and torturing if she's got a vendetta to settle with a guy like you. Beware!

2) Create New Memories Instead of Swapping Them

Here's the very best dating advice I can ever give anyone: in order to make any date memorable and fun, spend 90% of your activities in the present moment.

It's easy to get caught up in the "talking trap" on a date -- where the two of you sit around and get lost in deeper and deeper conversation. These 'chatting dates' can slip out of control and become subtle passion-killers though, especially if you're not careful to keep the big picture in focus. Before you know it, you're spilling your guts about Father Hamhands from your altar boy days or waxing poetic about your hemorrhoids and how they love to swell up in the springtime. Yeesh. As Joey from the TV show Friends once scolded his buddy Chandler, "... ok, that's TOO MUCH information!..."

For a seduction to go off like a thing of beauty, you must reveal yourself SLOWLY -- bit-by-bit -- as you gradually come to know her. Think of dating as an emotional veil dance... a striptease -- the point of which is to make her anticipate when the next Veil of Male Mystery will come off! This is the kind of thing she's been DREAMING about all her life. Why? Because it makes everything that's to follow (including the sex) all that much more delicious for her.

So put ACTION ahead of endless yakking. Stay active on a date (it doesn't have to be an extreme sport-fest or anything, just visiting a flea market will do...) so that you are BUILDING a memory with her instead of SHARING one. Focus on having experiences with her that the two of you can reminisce about some day in the future -- instead of spending time caught up in a lot of drawn-out amateur psychotherapy sessions in a bar somewhere.

Conversation is very important in any new relationship, and is the pathway to her eventual sexual surrender, but you must provide her with a REASON to want to know so much about you *FIRST* before opening your soul. Never forget the importance of your veil dance.

3) Don't Be a Bore

A boring person is anti-charismatic -- which is to say that, instead of making people feel GOOD about themselves by acting interested in them, the boring person makes us want to run away screaming from the agony of having to listen to another second of his self-absorbed droning!

The point of conversation should always be focused on drawing HER interests out instead of dwelling on your own (but don't come across like a ruthless Nazi interrogator -- go easy on the unbroken string of questions). Share a little -- but keep YOUR interests lost in the background.

Her response to a few casual queries about her life or current dreams holds clues to your *LifeLine*. Cling to it tightly and work on expanding its scope. Submerge your own ego for the first few dates. Don't worry, when you finally hook her she'll begin questioning you intently... maybe TOO intently! But that probably won't happen until after you've had sex. (Then get ready for the onslaught!)

4) Forget About Trying to Act "Like Yourself"

The standard dating advice of "being yourself" or "acting like yourself" (whatever the hell that means) is pure "Oprah-istic" B.S.

Learn to strike a balance between coming on like a phony-baloney (which we talked about earlier), and seeming too safe and friendly. Seduction is a delicate bubble that can be burst with increasingly less effort as it ripens. A first date is NOT the place to remain in the role of your everyday average old sort of guy... that's spells B-O-R-I-N-G. A spark must be present to ignite the *fires of desire* in the old primal portion of her brain.

So that means you have to be EXCITED to be out with her! When you think about it, it should be easy to get juiced up... dating someone for the very first time is not something that happens every day in anyone's life. Face it, ordinary life sucks.

Romance is a fantasy voyage, an escape from the 9 to 5 daily drudgery of work, etc. Treat this rare event for what it is... something unique, unrepeatable and potentially unforgettable. Even if she seems too cool to care, trust me... her romance motor is humming along in high gear.

5) Five Minutes of Nerves Is Normal, Then Calm Down

After some initial awkwardness due to understandable jitters, you should be able to calm down and hit your stride. If you have a real problem controlling automatic body reactions to nervousness (bad sweating, stuttering, facial twitching, etc.) my best advice is to get a book on yoga and practice it WITH AN OPEN MIND.

You don't have to go nuts and join the Green Party or anything, but DO try some of the deep breathing and relaxation techniques. They really work and can give you the self-control edge you might need. This will project through in your attitude as a cool confidence that is the unmistakable sign of a High Status Male!

Learn to always keep your movements around the women you're trying to seduce graceful and deliberate like a snake charmer. Modulate your voice in a throaty style (lowered volume) and keep the tone of your words sounding a little bit "conspiratorial" (without going overboard and making a fool of yourself). A squeaky voice spells fear and sounds adolescent, so strive to keep it in check. Be self-aware.

6) Obsession Is the Hallmark of the Weak Male

Dominant males will show an interest in any attractive woman they encounter because they are highly sexually driven. But -- because they have many options with females open to them -- they do NOT act obsessive about any *particular* woman. So don't be obsessed with her... just be interested.

Proclaiming ridiculously inappropriate nonsense like "...I love you" or "You're the girl I've been searching for my whole life..." on a first or second date is the frightening talk of the potential stalker. You become RADIOACTIVE to women once word of your engaging in this kind of bizarre behavior spreads. And it will spread... women gossip like demons. So chill the subservient groveling and act like you've been down the dating & mating road a few times already.

7) No Matter What Happens, Assume She Likes You... and Believe It

I'm not kidding here... this is an essential Jedi mind trick that you MUST somehow learn to play on yourself. Simply ASSUME that any woman you're working will *always* like you -- and do whatever the hell it takes to sell this idea to your unconscious mind!

Women can become mesmerized by men who seem to be captivated by them. But this kind of 'vibe' can only shine through your body language if it's GENUINE -- and for that to happen, you have to believe that she will respond favorably to you... *no matter what*.

Remember... ATTITUDE + UNCONSCIOUS BELIEFS = THE TRUTH.

Your attitude is a naked expression of your unconscious beliefs about yourself. Therefore, it is interpreted BY OTHERS as revealing the absolute truth about you... whether YOU like it or not. Control the self-image that you project to the world by pushing the crappy beliefs about yourself out of your brain, and replace them with empowering ones that will advance your own personal 'cause' for a change. Strive to deliberately manipulate this critical part of your consciousness, and watch your world change before your eyes like magic.

Before long, you'll soon have your pick of all the best looking women in YOUR world!

Mike Pilinski is the author of "Without Embarrassment: The Social Coward's Totally Fearless Seduction System"... a unique method of meeting girls that will have you making up for wasted time spent living in shy-guy hell from the very first moment you test it out.



https://www.sosuave.com/articles/essential.htm

Some Essential Dating Advice for Men
by Mike Pilinski

If you're a single guy still looking for your dream girl, I'm sure you've absorbed lots of advice on how best to meet and date women by now. A lot of it is "common sensical" as you well know.

Therefore, assuming you know enough not to show up on a first date looking like you just combed your hair with an M-80 or wearing cowboy boots and shorts, maybe a few of the following ideas can give you just enough of an edge to make the difference between Date #2 with an exciting little fox -- and a date with ol' Rosie Palm instead. Check these out:

1) Don't Try to Act Like a Fake on the First Date

A woman often makes a far more profound emotional investment into a relationship than a man does. So for her, TRUST is an immensely important issue. Dating is not just a convenient way to get her rocks off, it's a case study in the male psyche.

Can she trust you to ever be a good future father? Don't laugh, unless she's middle-aged and well beyond the kids & husband phase of her life, this "mating calculus" is ALWAYS running somewhere in the back of her mind.

Acting like a phony with an obviously fake 'come-on' personality only demonstrates how easily you are willing to embrace deception in order to get something you want. To any woman other than the sad exception of the chick who's looking for another loser for her next AA reclamation project (maybe 10% to 15% of the female population), you are TOTAL POISON. A potential cheater and heartbreaker just waiting for his next victim to arrive.

She may dump you right away, OR depending on the depth of her general bitterness towards men, keep you around to engage in a little recreational tease and torturing if she's got a vendetta to settle with a guy like you. Beware!

2) Create New Memories Instead of Swapping Them

Here's the very best dating advice I can ever give anyone: in order to make any date memorable and fun, spend 90% of your activities in the present moment.

It's easy to get caught up in the "talking trap" on a date -- where the two of you sit around and get lost in deeper and deeper conversation. These 'chatting dates' can slip out of control and become subtle passion-killers though, especially if you're not careful to keep the big picture in focus. Before you know it, you're spilling your guts about Father Hamhands from your altar boy days or waxing poetic about your hemorrhoids and how they love to swell up in the springtime. Yeesh. As Joey from the TV show Friends once scolded his buddy Chandler, "... ok, that's TOO MUCH information!..."

For a seduction to go off like a thing of beauty, you must reveal yourself SLOWLY -- bit-by-bit -- as you gradually come to know her. Think of dating as an emotional veil dance... a striptease -- the point of which is to make her anticipate when the next Veil of Male Mystery will come off! This is the kind of thing she's been DREAMING about all her life. Why? Because it makes everything that's to follow (including the sex) all that much more delicious for her.

So put ACTION ahead of endless yakking. Stay active on a date (it doesn't have to be an extreme sport-fest or anything, just visiting a flea market will do...) so that you are BUILDING a memory with her instead of SHARING one. Focus on having experiences with her that the two of you can reminisce about some day in the future -- instead of spending time caught up in a lot of drawn-out amateur psychotherapy sessions in a bar somewhere.

Conversation is very important in any new relationship, and is the pathway to her eventual sexual surrender, but you must provide her with a REASON to want to know so much about you *FIRST* before opening your soul. Never forget the importance of your veil dance.

3) Don't Be a Bore

A boring person is anti-charismatic -- which is to say that, instead of making people feel GOOD about themselves by acting interested in them, the boring person makes us want to run away screaming from the agony of having to listen to another second of his self-absorbed droning!

The point of conversation should always be focused on drawing HER interests out instead of dwelling on your own (but don't come across like a ruthless Nazi interrogator -- go easy on the unbroken string of questions). Share a little -- but keep YOUR interests lost in the background.

Her response to a few casual queries about her life or current dreams holds clues to your *LifeLine*. Cling to it tightly and work on expanding its scope. Submerge your own ego for the first few dates. Don't worry, when you finally hook her she'll begin questioning you intently... maybe TOO intently! But that probably won't happen until after you've had sex. (Then get ready for the onslaught!)

4) Forget About Trying to Act "Like Yourself"

The standard dating advice of "being yourself" or "acting like yourself" (whatever the hell that means) is pure "Oprah-istic" B.S.

Learn to strike a balance between coming on like a phony-baloney (which we talked about earlier), and seeming too safe and friendly. Seduction is a delicate bubble that can be burst with increasingly less effort as it ripens. A first date is NOT the place to remain in the role of your everyday average old sort of guy... that's spells B-O-R-I-N-G. A spark must be present to ignite the *fires of desire* in the old primal portion of her brain.

So that means you have to be EXCITED to be out with her! When you think about it, it should be easy to get juiced up... dating someone for the very first time is not something that happens every day in anyone's life. Face it, ordinary life sucks.

Romance is a fantasy voyage, an escape from the 9 to 5 daily drudgery of work, etc. Treat this rare event for what it is... something unique, unrepeatable and potentially unforgettable. Even if she seems too cool to care, trust me... her romance motor is humming along in high gear.

5) Five Minutes of Nerves Is Normal, Then Calm Down

After some initial awkwardness due to understandable jitters, you should be able to calm down and hit your stride. If you have a real problem controlling automatic body reactions to nervousness (bad sweating, stuttering, facial twitching, etc.) my best advice is to get a book on yoga and practice it WITH AN OPEN MIND.

You don't have to go nuts and join the Green Party or anything, but DO try some of the deep breathing and relaxation techniques. They really work and can give you the self-control edge you might need. This will project through in your attitude as a cool confidence that is the unmistakable sign of a High Status Male!

Learn to always keep your movements around the women you're trying to seduce graceful and deliberate like a snake charmer. Modulate your voice in a throaty style (lowered volume) and keep the tone of your words sounding a little bit "conspiratorial" (without going overboard and making a fool of yourself). A squeaky voice spells fear and sounds adolescent, so strive to keep it in check. Be self-aware.

6) Obsession Is the Hallmark of the Weak Male

Dominant males will show an interest in any attractive woman they encounter because they are highly sexually driven. But -- because they have many options with females open to them -- they do NOT act obsessive about any *particular* woman. So don't be obsessed with her... just be interested.

Proclaiming ridiculously inappropriate nonsense like "...I love you" or "You're the girl I've been searching for my whole life..." on a first or second date is the frightening talk of the potential stalker. You become RADIOACTIVE to women once word of your engaging in this kind of bizarre behavior spreads. And it will spread... women gossip like demons. So chill the subservient groveling and act like you've been down the dating & mating road a few times already.

7) No Matter What Happens, Assume She Likes You... and Believe It

I'm not kidding here... this is an essential Jedi mind trick that you MUST somehow learn to play on yourself. Simply ASSUME that any woman you're working will *always* like you -- and do whatever the hell it takes to sell this idea to your unconscious mind!

Women can become mesmerized by men who seem to be captivated by them. But this kind of 'vibe' can only shine through your body language if it's GENUINE -- and for that to happen, you have to believe that she will respond favorably to you... *no matter what*.

Remember... ATTITUDE + UNCONSCIOUS BELIEFS = THE TRUTH.

Your attitude is a naked expression of your unconscious beliefs about yourself. Therefore, it is interpreted BY OTHERS as revealing the absolute truth about you... whether YOU like it or not. Control the self-image that you project to the world by pushing the crappy beliefs about yourself out of your brain, and replace them with empowering ones that will advance your own personal 'cause' for a change. Strive to deliberately manipulate this critical part of your consciousness, and watch your world change before your eyes like magic.

Before long, you'll soon have your pick of all the best looking women in YOUR world!

Mike Pilinski is the author of "Without Embarrassment: The Social Coward's Totally Fearless Seduction System"... a unique method of meeting girls that will have you making up for wasted time spent living in shy-guy hell from the very first moment you test it out.



https://www.sosuave.com/articles/essential.htm

You have failed in life as a man, if this is what you can proudly come out to defend.

Men like you can not raise a daughter or any child. If you have a daughter you will encourage her to be a Prostitute because in your delusional mind every regular girl is worse than Olosho, her mother would probably be a Prostitute too, giving birth to numerous Prostitutes and cultists for many men including you.


You need therapy and need to check your brain at a psychiatric hospital. The worse thing that can happen to a man is to not have any value and virtue. People like you should not be allow to raise children, you will definitely be the one pimping out your daughter, because you see nothing wrong in Prostitution.

Godada:



For a relationship to work, there is need for authenticity.

I have a very good friend. When we started it was awkward. But she responded with the same energy that I was giving her.........

If you enter a relationship with games in mind, it could go south.....

Well girls will always play games to test your manliness and it is stuff like that that get them turn on. A man have to just stay rock solid without caving and dominate her in her own games but the amount of games they will play depend on the interest they have in you. When they totally submit it mean they have already fall for you and the interest level is very high.

Girls playing games just mean they aren't convince you are the one yet and probably stringing you along to cure boredom, you can convince them you are the real deal by beating them at their games without caving or just ignore them and look for a girl with high interest that won't play too much games.

He might also be busy.


Guys are not very difficult to handle, if you are interested in him just keep up with his energy, reply his message when you can, respect him as much as you can and let plans between you work.

Any games you want to play means you are not interested in him enough and should look elsewhere.

okunwaye:
sharrap ewedu miscreant them no born hausa man to claim anything for igbo land

What is there to claim in a barren land ?

Even your people want to claim Lagos and South west, no be so daft akpu muncher.

intruder15:
You clearly don't have a child yet. When you are married and have your first child, we can then revisit this quote.

shut up

It is because of guys like you that tolerate every bullshits that women continue with the stupidity.

She probably noticed how daft you behaved and catered to all her unreasonable request when she was first pregnant, that's why she will continue with it when she become pregnant again.

Wotowotoman:
It is a PUA site. It has been around for several years..

Well it is not all about PUA and it have both blog and forum

Wotowotoman:
Now tell me this is not one of the blogs that these idiots that claim to be successful with women get their contents from.

It is not a blog but an international forum for men

FINAL THOUGHTS (FINALLY!)

All of the tactics you will find on this site are merely tools to convey your personality. But beware! This knowledge can be a double-edged sword, because while it empowers your confidence, you can also end up neglecting your greatest strengths, trying to play someone else’s game and then wondering why it works for them and not you.

Case in point:

I studied so many techniques here that I could give you precise definitions and personal experiences that corrolate with every acronym in the book! From C&F to DHV to SS, I have tried it all. Did it help? To a certain extent, yes....because I had something to fall back on, which is better than nothing. But as time went on, I got tired of doing things this way because they seem so damn mechanical and calculated and just NOT ME. Frustrated with the moderate results I was getting from these techniques, I decided to give them up completely and focus on my strengths.

For example, I happen to be a damn good artist. Sketching has always been a passion of mine but for the last few years I have totally slacked on it. Recently, the passion has been rekindled and I now carry around a small sketchpad in case inspiration strikes. One of my favorite subjects are, you guessed it, beautiful women! Lately I been sketching a lot of them..on the street, on the bus, etc.. and after making one particularly stunning sketch, I decided to share my artwork with the subject. She absolutely LOVED it and begged for my number so I could paint her.

I could go into detail about the nude painting session that ensued, but thats not really necessary. My point is that this has become one of my favorite and most effective approaches because it reflects the very essence of who I am! I attract women doing something that comes naturally to me...go figure.

I have had similar experiences when I honed in on my other strengths (storytelling, music, dance, massage, etc) Makes me finally see that I don’t have to "attract" women if I am already attractive. Once she is hooked, all I gotta do is take control of the situation, and lead her all the way to my bedroom! Sometimes it happens instantly, other times it can take me weeks, and yes, there are times when I fail miserably and have a good chuckle at my own expense. Either way, I walk away happy.

Now before some of you start takin drawing/dancing/massage lessons and turning this idea into a technique, stop for a second and think about what YOU truly have an interest in. Take the things that distinguish you from the next man and incorporate THAT into your game.

"The best way to find the women of your dreams is to become the man of your dreams."

What is keeping you from being that man? Fear? Shame? Laziness? Dig deep into your soul and delete the bad programming that is holding you back.

Afraid? Remember that you are in this for the sheer FUN of it.

Ashamed? Remember that there is nothing wrong with being what nature created.

Lazy? Just envision me bítch-slapping you repeatedly and remember that you are not gonna live forever. Better to die having taken the risks, than live with the burden of your regrets!

Lastly, and most importantly...

Don’t take anything too seriously, especially yourself. Cuz ironically enough, when you sincerely don’t give a fúck, you are much more likely to get one!

FINGZ ------ out

https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/the-ten-commandments.56631/

10. THOU SHALL BE REAL
None of us is perfect, so don’t try to act like you are the SupremeAlphaMaleOfTheUniverse. Women come equipped with state-of-the-art BS detectors and can smell posers a mile away. Don’t get so absorbed with not being “AFC” that you set off their “Poser Alert” and blow your chances. Give a compliment or show some vulnerability for chrissakes!

Being an uber-Don Juan at all times is just as sad and ingenuine as being an average frustrated chump! Once she has passed your screening and you feel a connection, start to open up a little. Let her see that there is more to you than meets the eye.

Women LOVE to discover the vulnerable chinks in your armor, especially after you have established yourself as a confident, dominant fella. It triggers their maternal instincts to care for the wounded child that no one else can see. It also gives dimension to your character and blesses them with the rare gift of AUTHENTICITY.

Ya see, sincerity is so hard to come by these days that when it does, it is a breath of fresh air. Society has us all wearing masks and playing roles so often that we forget who we really are. As a seducer, it is your job to get people to discard those masks, lose their inhibitions and feel more like themselves than they have in ages. It is not as easy as it sounds because most folks are followers. Once again, it’s up to you to set the frame by being, you guessed it, genuine and uninhibited!

9. THOU SHALL ISOLATE AND CLOSE
Social programming is a powerful thing. No matter how much a woman may be feeling you, her fear of looking like a slut is often far greater than her desire to hook up. This is why your goal is to remove her from the prying eyes of society so you can both get lost in the sweet chemistry of animal lust!

Take her by the hand and lead her to another place so she gets the feeling of you two being “together”. The more places you lead her to, the more time will distort so it seems like you have known each other longer. If you can’t get her to leave the venue, then take her to a more intimate spot where less people will notice you, then draw her into a comfy, private niche in your world.

Once you are in a relaxed state together and totally vibing, its time to forget all the seduction techniques you ever read and put yourself on “autopilot”. Allow your consciousness to wander from your head, into your body so you can really enjoy the sight of her eyes wondering “who is this perfect stranger?”, the smell of her neck, emitting a plethora of pheremones as you excite her more and more, the feel of her warm, silky skin, etc....you get the picture.

While you’re at it, imagine all the naughty things you want to do to her. Let her see your eyes and feel your touch as you are thinking these things! You shouldnt have to tell her that she looks delicious enough to eat with whipped cream. The way you look, talk and carry yourself should let her know the deal. Pure, unadulterated SEX should be the force that sweeps the two of you along the interaction.

Now pay attention, cuz this next bit is VERY important. As you progress, you must learn to recognize the windows of opportunity. These are the magical moments when you simply MUST make your move or she will give up on you, thinking you are either gay or just not interested! I can’t tell you when these moments will happen, you will have to develop and rely on your gut instincts.

For instance, let’s say you have reached a point where you finally got her alone. you are physically close to each other and the atmosphere has become more intimate. There is a brief pause of silence as you simply enjoy each other’s presence. She looks, feels and smells AMAZING and despite your calm facade, you can hear a small voice in your head screaming “KISS HER, YOU FOOL!” This is when its time to face facts, God has already blessed you with the best seduction tools to close the deal, they are called BALLS... use them and take that chance!

8. THOU SHALL DOMINATE.
The sexiest thing you can do for a woman is LEAD her.

From the moment they set eyes you, chicks can tell if you are dominant or submissive to them.

Dominant = Masculine = Potential Lover.
Submissive = Feminine = Uhh...Let’s just be friends!

In other words, establish your role from the get-go. Don’t be afraid to lock eyes with her, because the instant you look away, she will see that you are intimidated by her and this is not attractive. Girls are supposed to be intimidated by us, not vice-versa!

So let’s say you do the approach and game her enough to get the number. Before you decide to call, have a master plan in place because for a woman, it is a huge turn off when you say shít like “I dunnooooooo...what do you want to do?”

It’s also not attractive when you look for her approval with questions. She ain’t your momma, so don’t go looking for permission! There is a world of difference between ASKING her “Will you go out with me?” and TELLING her “You seem pretty cool. Let’s hang out sometime...” Let her know exactly what is gonna happen and how much fun it will be, or better yet, just take her hand and MAKE it happen right then and there!

As the man in this mating game, it’s your job to call the shots. You decide where the conversation goes. You decide when/where to meet. You decide when its time to switch venues. You set the frame of the interaction. Keep in mind that chicks get off on submission, it is their nature to be penetrated physically, emotionally and spiritually. They honestly can’t help getting extremely turned on when they relinquish their control to a man who HANDLES them.

Thing is, even after they have decided they want you, they STILL wont make that first move. They are simply waiting for you to show dominance and simply TAKE what you want!