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EreluRoz:
He's like an uncle and we love him so much, so I'm worried and concerned because we read different stories these days. Will your response be the same if it were uncle in this situation? The boy is so different from the rest of the kids, trust me when I said I've studied him from head to toe

Even if it really is what you are thinking that happened revealing it may cause more damage than good.

So if you really like the man as long as he is okay with his first born being so different and haven't complain to you or your family about it, leave him alone and let him live in peace if you really like him and moreover what if you are wrong ? no one bring out something like that without appropriate evidence.

It is just not sensible to meddle into something that can destroy a family without appropriate evidence, even if there is evidence it is just better to live in ignorance sometimes, they say ignorance is bliss.

Remijuice:
Wailing and discussion are two different things...

I don't see women wailing this much. It's always the men.

Before Igbo adage says 'nwoke rucha ogu, nwanyi enwere akuko'. Now it's 'nwanyi rucha ogu, nwoke enwere akuko'...

I don't perceive any wailing on this topic even if it is wailing it is allow as long as it is a romance topic.

You Nairaland women are just afraid of men knowing your games and secrets. Nairaland expose many games you guys plays and you don't like that, you don't want men to have you figure out so you can continue to play men, that's why you are all mad.

If you don't like men talking about women in romance section maybe you should advocate for Seun to delete the romance section.

Remijuice:
Nairaland should be nicknamed; land of wailing men...

For God sake , you guys are always wailing about women. Tufiakwa! This is no longer funny o.

God forbid!
There is no single day that nairaland men will not create topics about women .
You guys are so cheap o.

I spit on your empty skulllz

This is what Nairaland romance section Is for, we talk about opposite gender and anything related to romance.

You don't see men posting about stuffs like this in politics, business and other sections

You are the cheap one here wailing about reading romance topics in Romance section. It is just like accusing people of posting too much about politicians under politics section.

You are the one that is mess up in the head, if you are not interested in the topic don't comment under it just to wail and cry like a bitch it is just better to move on to other sections with different topics.

EreluRoz:
Leave women alone or have you seen a woman creating post about how men suddenly open legs small and pack their dicks up with their hands for no reasons?

This is nairaland romance section and this is what the section is for, we talk about opposite genders here and anything related to romance. The topic of discussion fit the section perfectly.

If women aren't posting with the same enthusiasm as men that's the problems of women.

You guys requesting for people to stop posting romance topics in romance section are really stupid, it is just like asking people to leave politicians alone in politics section or asking people to leave movies and music alone in entertainment section or asking people to leave footballers alone in sport section.

If you don't like it stop coming to romance section and go to other sections instead of whining like babies.

DystopianMuse:
Women this, women that. You guys should rest. Biko

This is Nairaland romance section and you will always see topics like this from men.


It is actually you guys that are complaining of posts like this that have problems.

How can you criticize posts about opposite genders in a section for it ? if you are not interested move to other categories or better log out of Nairaland and find something to do with your life.

It is just like people wailing that the politics section is always posting and talking about politicians or the entertainment section is always posting about movies and music etc.

LOVEALAIGBO:
Check the OPs recent topics! You’re spot on! He looks for negative news on Ndigbo/south-east to create threads on, while looking for positive news on the Yoruba/south-west that leaves them smelling of roses and goodness!

Insecurity in south east but you are all wailing about your Yoruba masters while also playing the victims your generation is well known for.

madridguy:
The Lagos State Commissioner for Environment & Water Affairs should calm down and take things easy. This is peoples solely source of income and I believe there should be time frame to this.

Hard drugs is also some people major source of income does that mean it mustn't be ban ?

As long as the harm it is causing to the general population and environment is more than the good, then it deserve to be ban without any warning or time frame or what's the timeframe for ? so the dealers can have more time to dispose it and cause more pollution ?

Many people survive on dealing with so many illegal things like drugs, fake goods etc does that mean the government should let them continue causing damage and continue to tolerate it because it is some people source of income and they may not survive otherwise ? even Okada that has been banned in Lagos recently is a major source of income for a lot of people too.

MF think singing for eternity praising a narcist in heaven is blissfull when it is just another torture and hell lol. I did rather die and have my peace forever.

According to Bible description of heaven it is just a boring place where you only exist to sing and praise a narcissistic entity for eternity. Staying dead is better, most Christians are just afraid of hell and its torture lol heaven is just another shittty place. Not that all of it exist it is all fairy tales.

successmatters:
Both of them.

Soyinka has successfully rubbished his entire hard work, he will die with so much negative consequences and a rotten image.

He rubbished his work because his opinion doesn't align with that of a nonentity like you that would never have the opportunity to be close to where ever he is even speaking.

But you, you are born a nonentity and will die a nonentity.

WakeUpNigerians:
Incredible things happen in Nigeria but this one is the craziest of all.


A Professor is supporting a Certificate forger to be his president.

Pls who is the fool between the 2 of them?

He forged certificate to you delusional people.

If they pick you up to prove all these allegations now you will cry oppression, what even Atiku couldn't prove with all the money he looted.

Wole Soyinka have the right to support who ever he like.

You are the fool here insulting someone you can never even have the privilege to speak too in life. If Someone of Wole Soyinka caliber is a fool what should we call your nonentity generation ?

Doolove:
I've been dating a staunch Nairalander for two years, and he also introduced me to the site. While I visit once in a while, he can't go a day without scrolling through the site and at times he draws my attention to some interesting topics and we would go through the comments together. I told him that I don't like the site due to the constant bashing of women that goes on here. To my uttermost dismay he has been so influenced by the red pill movement and it has left our relationship in tatters.

I can't remember the last time I felt pampered or got treated like a woman because he doesn't want to look like a simp. There is no love in the relationship anymore because he is always too hard on me and treats me like a man. My guy hardly ever apologizes to me, if he annoys me and I try to give him the cold shoulder he ignores me completely and moves about his business like I don't even exist. He calls my two exs simps because I gisted him about how they adored me and was always scared of losing me. It hurts me that the guy I am dating doesn't value me and is ready to move on immediately as I walk out the door.

He convinced me to come stay over at his place for a while because he wanted to train me for a remote job that he got for me which I am supposed to start next month. I objected because I know how he treats me each time that I am around but he insisted so I caved in. It's been one problem to the other since I came over. He faults every single thing that I do, I wore a cloth that a guy gifted me on our anniversary and I got the scolding of my life. I got moody and told him to avoid me when he tried talking to me later that day, he simply said okay and disappeared from the house till late in the night.

He sees everything as an insult to his person, he said it's disrespectful to pick calls from guys in his presence, he would still accuse me of cheating if I go outside to pick those calls. Just two days back I was angry at him because of something he did that I didn't like so I flung his hands away when he tried to touch my cheeks and play with me, Oga stood up and started ignoring me. I was just expecting him to apologize and pamper me but he just locked up and left the house to God knows where. When he returned, I dressed up to go out with a friend and he told me not to return to his house if I leave. He treats me like a piece of furniture and won't still let me go out with people that are ready to give me attention.

This issue is making me lose my feelings for him and he doesn't even care. We hardly have sex because his touch irritates me due to his attitude towards me. If I turn down his advance once he doesn't bother to try again for days. In my previous relationships the guys always comes crawling and begging at night to have sex but this one doesn't even send, he can lock up for two weeks which makes me wonder if he is gay sometimes. He came back home very late on Friday night because he was avoiding me, I hid the food in the house because I was angry at him and he went to bed hungry. He woke up late at night to boil potatoes and woke me up in the process, I told him where I kept the food and he told me to eat it alone.

He left home by 7am yesterday for his football training only to come back by 10pm leaving me all alone in the house. I had to go out with a friend only to come back and didn't still meet him at home. He came back, took his bath and left the house again. He came back one hour later and slept on the floor. I woke him up to eat because I cooked with the money he left at home and he rejected the food citing the previous incident of me hiding food from him so I should continue cooking and eating alone. I told him that the food would waste because I already enjoyed where I went to. He just said I was disturbing him and should have gone home with the guy instead. He keeps making me feel like I am not wanted, he would tell me that he has the right to do whatever he wants because it his house but I must abide by his rules because I am a woman. He can go out and come back anytime he likes but I can't do the same, if I try it he would ask me to leave as if I am an IDP. All my complaints about how bad he was treating me fell on deaf ears, he just ignored me and slept off. He woke up this morning and is keeping to himself.

Please is this what the red pill is all about? I keep craving attention and love from my man and it's not forthcoming, I would have broken up but I really need the job he promised me while I wait for service. Is there something that I can do to salvage this relationship?
Please I am sorry for the epistle and errors, I just needed to pour out my heart somewhere.

That guy is still a simp

He have boundaries you have to respect if you want to be in a relationship with him otherwise look elsewhere but you have been trying so hard to manipulate him to being your bitch and you disrespected him a lot.

He is still very afraid of losing you and he is still a very pathetic simp no real man would have tolerated half of what you said you did to him without breaking up with you and throwing you out because real men have options and it is more peaceful to replace you than to tolerate your manipulative attempt to frustrate his life.

The moment you started competing for authority with him in the relationship should have been when he should have dumped your manipulative ass. He already communicated what he want and don't want and if you are not happy with his rules and boundaries you should have left him and maybe go back to your exes that always begged you for sex and tolerated all your shitty and disrespectful behaviors but the funniest thing is that you still left them at last. You continuously violated his boundaries and disrespected him a lot. I wonder why he is tolerating you for that long, it mean you mean something to him and he can't easily get rid of you.


It's very disrespectful taking calls of other guys that are not your co workers or family in the presence of your partner and talking with them for a long time. He doesn't like it and it is part of his boundaries so it is really very disrespectful if you are trying to break that boundaries constantly.

It is also very disrespectful trying to manipulate him into begging and groveling at your feet for sex and other things because you can't control him no mature and sensible woman want a man they can control, you have been in a constant power struggle with him and he should have dumped you the moment you wouldn't surrender and follow his lead.

That man is the one taking so much shits from you and you wouldn't have last so long with a true red piller the moment you violated the boundary of a true red piller three times or he perceived a very disrespectful behavior from you like suggesting he should beg and crawl at your feet for anything the relationship is over even if you cry and beg him for 10 years.

It is better to just move on and channel your energy elsewhere.

These are part of the wages of simping, any girl that refuse to show up for any date physically is not interested in you or no longer interested in you.

Nigerian men pursue women too much and it is one of the reasons all these hoes feel so entitled and special.


The moment a woman is doing anything but not showing up for a date, it mean she have no interest in you and you should stop chasing her because everything else after that is going to be a waste of time and efforts even if she show up later it is because she has exhausted her options and you are still available as the spare tire and last option but not every man is going to be that lucky and even if she later give you a chance she is going to leave when she have the opportunity because you are not really her first choice and you will always be a spare tire and last option in her mind.

This year is for Yoruba success home and abroad

No gree for anybody, make them wail because of your success.

BloomingDale:
As if anyone wants to be associated with you guys. Lol

If anyone don't want to be associated with us we also don't want to be associated with him.

So it is not really a fight or tribalism, Gbadebo don't think in Yoruba or speak Yoruba so we Yoruba have also rejected him. He can go and become Governor in Anambra that he is associated with not Yoruba land.

If he started preaching Yoruba hate, we will dash him to Igbo too.

We have rejected Gbadebo in Yoruba land and he is politically dead in Yoruba land.

PrinceofSarcasm:
I knew it 🤣🤣🤣🤣

All the hype around the substandard trash our producers were making was all propaganda.

I knew they weren't getting good stream numbers. Why on earth will I use my hard earned Prime subscription to watch home videos ? All those She must be obeyed and tribe of judah nonsense are things I only watch from free of I ever want to watch such nonsense . I download them and watch free only

Tribe of judah was not released to any streaming platform, it was released only to the Cinema.

Only a wretched fellow would be so happy pirating the hardwork of others you can go to jail for that in developed countries like UK and US

BreconHills:
Richer than Bayo Ogunlesi?

No but he is as rich as Jay Z his net worth is 1.2 billion $ while his company is worth 3 billion $

Ofemannnu:
Even when Yorubas were greatly marginalised when Azikiwe,Igbos and the Northerners were in bed politically,Yorubas were the most progressive.
Yorubas don't depend,rely on govt like the Igbos.

You will see them claiming that they are not interested in the presidential seat but even long after the presidential election they just can't get over the loss.


Leave them alone and let them continue to play their bitterness induce type of politics, it is only going to consume them.

The style of backward politics they are introducing to Nigeria is going to be their biggest undoing where they attack every section that doesn't support them and even use unfortunate incident like the Ibadan blast to mock and shame people for their choice of vote forgetting that they will still need the same people in the future again, even if that Ibadan blast was really a terrorist attack does that mean they have to mock the victims and shame them for their electoral decisions or which kind of backward politics is that ? what would their lord Peter Obi have done differently wear bullet proof vest and carry guns to man everywhere himself ? they forgot the president is just a single man and not omnipotent.

I like the criticism of the government in other sectors because it at least put the government on their toes but using every unfortunate incident to play politics and then shame the victims for not voting for a man that couldn't have done any better belong to animals in human skin.

MrEverest:
Lol, when Jagaban stated years ago that he doesn't believe in Nigeria, Northerners thought he was joking. But everything is now playing out in HD😂

Your generation said more than that and insulted northerners for 8 years during Buhari's government now you are the one wailing on behalf of the same northerners you hate so much.

You are delusional if you think Tinubu or any one in the west is interested in championing any ethnic agenda, south west is just too bless but since your losers generation can't compete your jealousy and enviousness is pushing you to result to propaganda to sabotage the west.

GEJ sidelined Yoruba and put Igbo everywhere but it didn't stop Yoruba progress. Keep wallowing in your bitterness and jealousy it will only consume you.

Attack Yoruba for the next years but start seeking for their votes and start preaching love a few months to election.

PDP is planning to make a Yoruba man a VP in the next presidential election and even south west PDP is going to fight for the slot because Yoruba prefer to pull their weight and we also have the money to back it another Yoruba may become a VP again and even president after Tinubu exit without Igbo smelling that seat.

Insult and mock Yoruba very well so we can all know your true colour the moment everyone in the west see you for what you truly are is when you will know what tribalism really is.

MrEverest:
Finally, the propaganda and sabotage of Abuja has finally paid off. Just like Warri and Jos, it's deja Vu once again and Lagos is about to corner everything including FCT status.

Tinubu well done o.

You are delusional if you think anyone is interested in making Lagos FCT again

What she is really saying is that Nigerian men are the best simps, mugu and maga in the world but enjoy it while it last because red pill movement is taking over.

Number one sign a woman is only going to take you as a maga, they will avoid putting in any effort to make anything work you will be the one doing everything.

Only a hoe with a selfish agenda will have problems with splitting the bills on a first date with a man. If you are really interested in the man you wouldn't mind splitting the bills on the first date, but these broke and hungry hoes are only interested in using men, eating free food, getting free gifts and favours like an orphan without putting in any effort to deserve it.

Kafirbigot:
Thank God you guys are now waking up.

The people whose ancestral BROWN ROOF kingdom was recently bombed by their Masters are finding it difficult to coordinate their pains and sorrows IBADAN is like GAZA.

Everybody knows that the kidnappings in Abuja are coordinated by the same people that Bombed IBADAN.

Remember NOTHING LIKE SOUTHERN UNITY..

Your generation are the one feeling pain and sorrow that it wasn't really what you wish that happened.

If you have a brain you would have known that the casualties of the blast would have been much more if it was really a coordinated attack and a place with a lot of people would have been the target not just some buildings but i guess majority of the people from your side were just born daft with incomplete brain.

Gossiphub:
Abobaku has been abolished, same as Osu, but you still mention Osu. Why?

Because Osu still exist in Igbo land

Blackfire:
Don't let us open yashn here o

What is eru , iwofa, abobaku,

Have you ever heard of any Yoruba claim he was ostracized, isolated and discriminated against because he was from some non existent eru, iwofa and abobaku lineage ?

Eru mean slave in Yoruba and there's no longer slavery or slaves in Yoruba land.

Iwofa mean servant in Yoruba , back in those days people serve others for a period of time to repay debts they or their family couldn't repay and they would become free again when they completed the terms. So someone could just become an Iwofa and serve the family or someone they owe for a period of time to repay back the debts they owe that person or family.

Abobaku as long being abolished and it is no longer practice in Yoruba land but even abobaku live as large as the king until the king die.

Creamypie:
that's y i said your intelligence is low

so far so good you are the one that is not displaying any intelligence.

Go to developed countries and try to justify inflicting pain on your fellow human because of bad economy and see if they won't call you an animal in fact animal is better you are just a monster. In fact that stupid comment from you can get you ban from ever getting a visa to any developed countries if they ever see it because you will just go and kidnap people or become an armed robber immediately you experience a little hardship, nobody want a potential criminal and terrorist like that in their country.

Creamypie:
for People like u with IQ lower than that of a goat, APC made life too difficult for residents of Nigeria, such that the little hope people clung to was taken from them. People now look for crime as means of livelihood. Its people like u, who are spoon fed by their parents, who don't know that policies of APC make it difficult to earn money, as a self employed or legit hustler. How often was this kidnapping in Nigeria b4 APC? Your parents need 2 kick a supposedly grown adult like u pit of the home, so I will get a bit sense.currently, it is far from u.

for justifying crime it mean you must also be a criminal, only a criminal can empathize with a fellow criminal and understand them.

There's nothing that justify any crimes or inflicting uncountable agony on a fellow human so that you can live big, there are millions of Nigerians legitimately making a living but people like you want to live big so you go into committing crimes and use bad government to justify your actions so many Nigerians like you still continue with their criminal lifestyle even after they left the shore of Nigeria to other developed places with good government.

There's nothing that justify hurting a fellow human like you so that you can live large, if they perpetrate their evil act on you or your family. I hope you will understand and forgive them.