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This information need to reach the people in power. The crime rate in Ebute Metta is about to cause the same instability as seen in the north-eastern part of the country. If measures are not taken this minute, we will not be able to handle this in the coming years.

Youths are dying on a daily basis, people are being killed in our streets. Guns and machetes are freely used zap the lives of the people in this area. We can't move freely in this area without being harassed by these men. We're afraid, we need help. Machetes are used to scatter the bones of our youths. Parents are threatened. We need the help of the Lagos State government to quell this crisis.

The funniest part about the whole is that, the police isn't doing anything to stop these killings. They've kept mum. Over 20 people have been killed in the past 1month. We need security forces to help us and quell these killings. This is the season when many people will be at home, even the ones that are not based in Lagos. We don't want blood in our street during this season. Please we need your help.

Two people were killed this morning. This boys were too young to die. Just 1pm today, they came back again to machete another boy. The whole area has gone agog. We don't know the next person they'll attack. We want the peace that this community is know for to come back. We need the help of the governor to send security forces to help this community. Lagos Mainland local government is now a place of terror and bloodshed. This is not boko haram, these people are young and blood tasty.


We need the Lagos State Government Now!

We call these people captain Africa, they're out to save africa.

God bless their efforts!

Nigeria, the strength of africa

Marc9:
It seems like an infection. You may need to have it examined by a doctor in person.

What are the possible causes of the infection.

Marc9:
Are you sexually active?

Yes doctor

Please doctor in the house, I need your help.

This evening I touched my testicles and I found out that one of my left testicles has something like boil on it. I feel weird about. I'm not talking of the scrotal sac but the testicle which cannot be seen.

Before now, I find out that I have a painless boil on my penile organ. Please can you tell me what is happening to me.

I don't have difficulty in urination or any other activity. Please endeavour to give me answers, I need it.

Thanks

Doctors,

I am really confused here and this is disturbing me.

I just touched my testicles, I found out that my left testicle has a swollen boil there. And on my penis, I have a painless boil on for some time now.

Please what is happening, I really need answers. I don't have any other symptoms.

ibibwala:
After going through his profile on Wikipedia, I believe he might be involved...

http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Idriss_D%C3%A9by

From this article, that man is behind it.

badoolee:
lolz,u shuld be wise about it
She made an indirect decision,its obvious she doesn't want u,maybe she iz still in d rltshp to get some certain stuff from u,or she jez wann kip u as d good guy and Bleep around
She must be xtractin sumfin from u and dats y she iz still around

Until u find dat one man u scared of cheatin on,den u av no idea of wat to be inlove means.

#strictly my own opinion#

Thanks dear

badoolee:
Now this typa ladies give us d bad name


Buh den,guys have made ladies this ways,sum guys are monstterss u wuldnt imagine wah they av made a lady go through






U just unfortunate to meet that typa lady,respect ha decision and find your wife some where else,if she wasmeant 4 u,she wuldnt do all that.

Sorry, this girl didn't make any decision. She's just playing on my senses, that's all.

Caracta:
Control! That's a strong weapon.

She's got you in her claws.

I'm sure she monitors your calls too and gets angry when you give any other girl attention.

But she is free to spread her tentacles. Hian. I pray one of her 'boys'- your rivals- won't kill you one day.

Emotional torture and abuse.

Caracta, you're right.

I think that's what she's doing. You know this trend of ladies not putting all eggs in one basket. I think that's the principle she's using.

You're an intelligent woman.

Thanks.

KanwuliaJara:
Glad you think so.
I am battling 'mental illness' on NL for the rest of the year!

You went through 4 scenerios.
Are you waiting for the 5th and FINAL SCENERIO?
EBOLA?

Where are u from?
This mental illness needs urgent attention

Ebola? We will be mile apart by then

KanwuliaJara:
This babe must be 'hot'!
I am soooo jealous as to how she can get so many foolish guys to 'love' her.
She must know how to suck a pickle goooooooooooooooood!

OP!
This is not your woman o.
This woman can only rival one person I know.
KING SOLOMON!

Good luck!

Your sense of humour is really good.

Caracta:
Finally, I found one! Didn't know we still have men like this o!

Perfectly friend-zoned on a dating level. This is a strong one indeed. Guy, trust me, she don use your brain do roasted corn. After how many times? She has disregarded you and your existence over and over again. You need to sit down and paint the picture of the kind of relationship you want. If this present one doesn't cut it, flee!

Something similar happened to a friend's friend of a friend I know. The guy was shot dead by a rival. He is dead, really dead but the girl is alive and twerking!

So much for love. Ish!

I think you're example is really scary.

Moreover, this girl didn't want me to relate with many of my females friends.

zeb04:
I really don't Feel sympathetic for guys anymore because for one heartbreak,there are a million and one girls going through the same issue and even more so mr....suck it up and stop whining.

Sincerely, 1million and 1girls should also calm down and ask for advice.

I did and I've gotten good advice from people.

Thanks anyway!

Nonso23:
You have less than 30 mins to do that.
12am brings forth a new day.
You deserve better.

That's right sir!

Thank you

sandiyke:
@op u are being very unfair to yourself. Just take a look at all the emotional trauma you are going through just because you think you love her.

My dear sorry to say shez very unstable and will keep causing you pain.

Shez keeping you by the corner as a spare incase anything happens. Pls op get up and be a man

The comments thus far are eye-openers of my weakness.

I think I really need to make my decision tonight.

Thanks y'all.

Roland17:
The bolded just got me really angry..

Dude there is more to achieve in life than hoping a flip flopping girl would commit her body and emotions to you now or in the future.

Yes, its true bro.

I think moving on will be best bet.

swazpedro:
u have a brain use it now!!

To be sincere, I'm lost in this relationship. I can't just what's going on with me.

I'm sorry to disturb your beautiful weekend but I have a problem that I need advice.

I am finding it difficult to trust my woman. It is just difficult for me because she is fuelling this distrust in me. I will love to summarise my reasons so that you'll understand it in a glimpse but I couldn't.

There are four different scenarios that fuelled this distrust.

Last year, we were in different states. She told me about a guy who her family wants her to marry. She declined claiming she doesn't like him and wanted me. This same guy, she hung out with althrough the days we weren't together. They even went to a show together. When we were together, the guy will call her and they'll talk for minutes. She'll end the call with "I love you".
When we later travelled to the same state where we schooled, I was busy with my project and my final exams (3 different projects). So, I didn't have enough time to be with her. This guy came to visit my girlfriend, he even went to church with her. She didn't tell me the guy came but the information leaked from her lips without her knowing but I wasn't sure. Because of my busy nature, we always had fights about it but I kept telling her that I was busy and after the whole thing, I will be free for her alone. The fight got to the extent that we broke up. It was now glaring to me that, the guy has been dating my girlfriend before we even broke up. I didn't want to disturb my education then, I concentrated and finished well. I love my woman, after the whole thing I decided to look for her again, we talked about the whole thing but she told me she's now dating the guy. Ok, I left them but we started talking again, before they broke up, we came back.

When we came back, another guy started showing his ugly head in the relationship, she said they dated some years back but she didn't like him anymore. Instead of her to dismiss the guy, they became friends again. The guy was calling her every time and they hung out. I couldn't do anything about it because by then we weren't in the same state anymore. They got close but she'll tell me that they're just friends. She's just a friend with a guy who introduced her to his family, who later proposed with a ring? When she declined, the guy punched her face. I was pissed at the outcome of the whole thing, I called the police to arrest him.

After the whole drama about the other guy, another guy showed his face. She told me she can't date the guy because of me and some other reasons. Few months ago, I decided to visit her. She told me she'll introduce me to the guy as her cousin because she doesn't want the guy to hurt me (he's a cultist). I wasn't comfortable but I played along due to much persuasion. Whenever the guy comes around, the guy will be calling her "baby" and holding her like his girlfriend, she will visit the guy at his place, they'll hangout for long but when I decide to hangout, she will start complaining. What tipped me off again was she accidentally opened a picture where they're on the bed together. I got pissed and decided that I'm leaving her. Infact, I nearly wanted to travel that day but it was due to the fact, it was night. She begged and begged that she only snapped with him but she didn't do anything. I decided that day I can't trust her again.

When she came to my place last month, two guys were always calling her. Those calls were always annoying. I noticed that the voice from the call was the same guy I saw on the bed. She denied again that its not him. She took time and later showed me the person who called (after changing the contact's name). Just this night, when I called, she acted distant and sounded rude. I asked her where she is, she told me she's in her room. After just some seconds, I heard a guy's voice in the background asking what she wants. She replied the guy. I didn't ask her anything. She immediately became nice and friendly on phone. Asking about me like she really wanted to know.

I know my post is long but this past events have really made my trust for run down to nothing.

Please, what should I do about this girl, she's really pissing me off but I love her.