ValCon888:
Internet men just want to fúck and japa.

She is even searching for a clean cut professional man in his 30's for a serious relationship...Those guys are after young girls in their early 20's cos they now have high smv.

She legit put the blame for her inability to find a man who would commit on the internet.Do most women accept responsibility for the choices they make?

Name a spot in any girls hostel where guys hang around or lay bush for babes and let someone guess the Name of the school.

Mine is Monkey gate,Titanic hostel.

Mind you,a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.Know everything possible about her before she wears your ring.It is like buying a brand new phone and a used phone. you know the specifications of the phone but you won't discover the fault of the used phone until after proper scrutiny.Why will you marry a total stranger my guy? No try am oooo.Unless it's just a fling.Dont live in denial because of some false sense of being insecure? Imagine if there was a life threatening emergency and only your spouse phone is available but you couldn't seek help because you don't have her password and she isn't there with you?

Reading through some posts here,I have come to realize that most Nigerians and humans are scared of reality and don't mind living a zombie lifestyle.Dude if you plan on settling down with her, nothing on Earth should be private.You both should have full access to social media and passwords on phone and computers.How do you even start introducing a potential spouse to your family when you know so little about their lifestyle.No relationship truly works with half truths.Look into many marriages today,you will discover both sexes living a deceitful life because they never truly knew who the other person was.If your genitals is not private then phones shouldn't.If you like don't heed to the voice of wisdom.

Look guys it is a scam most of the time.And if you say otherwise then my question is does your mother have a male bestie?

Volat101:


yes I am but the network coverage on the farm is very poor

u can mail,e on tkay0101@gmail.com

Thanks

Volat101:


We've sold some and some will be ready for sales in few weeks

Hi sir, please are you still active on Nairaland? I need to contact you.

Olabode971:
Good look for 2.00 odd for bet9ja or betking; nack ham #500k; come and thank me later.

You can start rearing broiler with your gain..soon it will be a boom

I don't need investment advise but thanks all the same.

Fawklicant:
My advice is based on the assumption that your funds are legit. If you've acquired or plan to acquire your funds illegally, then think again.

The cash is very legitimate.I earned it,not borrowed,not a gift,not inheritance,not stolen.thanks for your advice cos I just learnt a valuable lesson from it.

Masonkaycares:
Op you're confusing everyone

I didn't mean to confuse anyone. I only need advice on how to utilize my 2.5 million naira but I am not asking for what to invest the cash on.

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You are right and I need all the help I can possibly get. I am going to search for a mentor in the businessidea of my choice,learn the requisite skills before investing my doh.please chip in some more wisdom.thanks alot.

Fawklicant:


You have no biz idea nor experience. You probably have no skills.
Resist the urge to spend outside your present means or show off. Your right hand shouldn't know your left hand's worth if you know what I mean.
Fix that money in a deposit or buy FG bonds with it. Or do both. Focus on developing some skills and learning a biz if possible. Not crash learning o. Do it proper.
Because you have money, every business will begin to look lucrative to you and that's how you'll lose everything.
Whenever you want to start a biz, start very small. Very very small. And use the little capital to test the waters and make your mistakes. Inject capital in small amounts as needed until the biz runs very profitably.
If biz is not your forte, after fixing the money, hustle like you don't have money and focus on completing your education and getting some professional skills and certifications and use your capital to travel to Canada and further your studies/build your life. BUT you have to first of all visualize where you want to be in a few years time and design a road map to your goals. If you freestyle, then you may likely regret it.

Great advice..."Focus on developing some skills and learning a biz if possible." This is a very nice advice. I'm applying this wisdom.thanks alot.

bootyeater:

Ah, niqqa you're lucky that I found this thread.
See that money way you wan collect ehn, na ticket to lifelong Riches oh. But na also ticket to lifelong poverty if you no give yourself better brain. This money na once in a lifetime opportunity and if you waste am, you fit no see this kind chance again o. This na One chance.

I go just drop small yarn here from one gee to another.

1. Avoid woman like corona virus

Trust me, if you find woman with this money, I assure you say this money go finish like mtn data bundle. No look for woman NOW, get patience and when you done make better money, you go make SMALL time for them. Bleep olosho with your profit, not your capital. Also some ladies na BAD LUCK, even if the business way you finally choose na sure banker, na your own go spoil since the girl bad vibes don enter your life finish when you fvck am. Run from woman o.

If body do you, e better make you hold am or better still buy good fleshlight and use am dance better soapy once in a while for the main time (no shame in that, na your life), this na for protection of your future. Run from ladies


2. Dont let your family member or friend hear about this money

This one day self explanatory. Their own problem no day finish and na all the time them need money. Use your head o. If them hear, that money no go rest...
Just allow your mama and papa know, no even tell siblings self because some of them no day give their self brain.

3. Invest in a business you have some XP in

Since you no get any business skill, why not ask from a guy that is into business (friend or family). Just ask them how the business is and dont be afraid. Trust me, just rub their ego with praises and they will blow their trumpet for you.




3. Buy food in bulk and keep.

Trust me, this go save your money o. Buy garri, rice and beans etc in bulk, na your wallet go thank you.

4. Reduce living space.

If you're living in a house too big for only you and you're paying rent for room that is empty then you need to change that. Na only you day, forget gf or okpo or fans


Hand don tire abeg. This one don do

Great advice... I'm going to apply this wisdom.thank you.

Meedon:


Ok body go tell u na

I just got motivated to succeed. I need more negative vibes from you to boost my confidence in my resolve to become successful.keep at it.

Meedon:


On that sexual urge, so you no fit control your urge nawa oooo

Is this your own advice? Na wa oooo.

loveyou123:
i am serious bro

Sorry mehn,I haven't cashed out yet.

No disrespect,I am not asking for any investment idea.what I am asking for is how to make sure I stay focused on developing myself before I clock 40 years old. I mean how do I controlmy sexual urge, avoid fakeand dishonest friends while working my way the top? Please I need the real MVP's to support me with wisdom.

loveyou123:
bros abeg help me with 5k na... hunger no funny ah swear

Lol, you are funny mehn.

restore8:


use 30% for yourself and use the rest to improve your biz. since it can make you this amount, you would earn more if you put your profit back into your business.

Great advice, though you seem to miss the part where I wrote that I lack business strategy and I don't have a role model or mentor. I want real life strategy on how to navigate my way out of the ghetto without falling prey to women and fake friends who just want to chop my small doh.

I'm 31 male, fulani ,bsc in view,single.Please I need to know from those real players one or two tricks on how to get out of the ghetto.I mean how do I remain focused on becoming rich in a world full of hate and with no role model.I am about to cash out 2.5 million naira and this is a once in a lifetime offer.No role model,no business strategy and this is scaring the shit out of me. I don't want to cash out this doh and fall back to zero.How do I make this count? Real players,real legit hustlers who made it out of the ghetto,please help me out.

Do a feasibility study on cattle and goat rearing.Buy ematiated grown cattles for as low as 50k. Vaccinate them and feed them for 3 months also called fatning.Sale them for a profit and then repeat again.

vickydankal:
Sexual abstinence is necessary even in marriage, sometimes when my husband is on certain projects he will tell me no ministrations till the project is over , then I was thinking he was being mysterious not until I met a Pastor who told me the power of sex, he said that sex is like a rhythm, if you break the chain it will have side effects but when you have it in the right timing can produce a greater beneficial effects too.

He doesn’t have sex with his wife Saturday nights, during major prayers or programs. It helps him to concentrate, spirituality and energy to work. He deploys all those hormones to work and he gets greater results.

Wish unmarried men and women can abstain from sex and use that energy to hustle, get closer to God and chop life later.

Hmmm

Look at how PDP and APC dey use us play game.

I just feel trust is more important than privacy.

HeavenlyCherub:


Mars I always speak about this topic as I have walked this path before. Yes we have women that become a pain because they earn more. We have other women that are loving, kind and respectful. She will do whatever she can to make the man happy but the man will never be happy because he wants to be at the top. Men like it when women are dependent on them but when this changes and a woman can fend for herself they feel helpless. No matter how encouraging, loving and supportive you are you will always be an enemy. I pray for God to touch the hearts of many men to realize a spouse is not your competitor but partner

You are one of such women judging by the way you get angry and insultive to people you hardly know. You think you are posh and all that cursing.Women like you can't settle down and marry because your ego is bigger than your sense.

HeavenlyCherub:


May your generations never enter it. Until you reverse that curse you will know no good thing. You will work and it will never pay off.

Lol.Thanks Sha.

HeavenlyCherub:


Wrong is wrong. Just being honest. How can we inherit God’s kingdom without being honest about sin. He asked for assistance and help and I gave him my candid view. Let’s call a spade a spade

You didn't tell him a way out of his predicament.You only used his short coming to shade him.You want someone to inherit God's kingdom by using his perceived sin to make him feel unworthy.No one born of a human being will even enter that heaven including you.

HeavenlyCherub:

You say you come from a polygamous home but you say you aren’t faithful and she was ok with that. You caused your own problem and made her insecure. As you cheat I just want you to keep in mind there’s a high chance one of the girls you cheat with will become pregnant. Your children will be the one to suffer the consequences of your selfish actions. So many children suffer for the decisions their fathers made to have children with many women. And then you say no insults, it’s because you know what you were doing/did is wrong. I have no sympathy for men like you. You need to pray for deliverance. You really need to hope you don’t come across a woman that prays.

You spoil and hurt your own woman and other women because of a lack of self control. One thing I can tell you is don’t cause your own misfortune in life. If some women cry on your behalf God listens. I don’t know why people think they can hurt people and go back to business as usual. Have you ever thought of why you have difficulty keeping a job and so many events of misfortune? Brothers and Sisters don’t ever forget all decisions and actions have consequences. Be careful how you treat people

You sound too judgemental. Advice the man and not rub it on his face just because he told the truth.A woman will hardly tell the truth when seeking advice but this man did. You mustn't remind him of all his wrongs.

Do you support the new world order?

Fokosobo:


shut up. you dont know how a man's system works.

A man can have an erection but that doesn't mean he wants to have sex. most men experience early morning erection without the thought of sex. touching/handling the d*ck can automatically make it erect, it doesnt mean the man is ready to have sex.

Nigerians are the worse kinds of haman hypocrites.Most men are just so absord to support the assertion that a man can't be raped and the op's experience must be a lie just because he got an erection. I have witnessed a man release semen during an examination back in my 300 level.He said it was normal for him during intense situations.