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Obas101:
You no Sabi beat ur son. Imagine your wife is even doing it better than smh. Be the man, get a small cane and beat him till he cries, then punish for some minutes let him feel remorse. He may hate you, when you eventually free him. Later that evening talk to him nd make him realize what he is doing is bad then let him reflect on it. Also, it's possible your son is this way because of the freedom you give him to relate with other stubborn kids in the neighborhood

He doesn't even step out to compound to play because you can't leave him alone unmonitored. Even when kids come around to visit us and you allow them to play outside, he'll start running around picking objects he sees and fights them

Lucid1:
Na wah

My neighbours son is like that, I dey fear the boy pass SARS, I have to sneak in and out of their house to avoid him. He'll jump on my head, climb on the dining table, beat his elder sister up and many more.

The hyperactivity will wear off as he grows older, be strong and endure.

Peace

Sure I believe cos it was worse than this when he was younger.

momodub:
nice suggestions . But all the beating uncalled for na

Bro, what's the essence of beating a child who would have calmed and ride on while you the beater is still resting from the beating exhaustion? I'm tired of beating

ststyreal:
Your child might be displaying one of the autistic spectrum which is being hyperactive. I am talking from experience and if care is not taken the younger one will toll his path. Get a therapist to access him as soon as possible. God bless our children.

Lol, he even beat the 11 month guys, Kevin is left handed and his brother is already using his left hand

Ranchhoddas:
Probably attention deficit hyperactivity disorder.

I'm just hearing this for the first time, I'm going to discuss it with some doctor friends

dominique:
I'm not seeing any issue here, most children that age are naturally defiant. It's just a phase and he will grow out of it. You can consult a child therapist and have him checked for ADHD (Attention deficit and hyperactivity disorder), where are you based please?
May God be with your family

My wife gave birth to him at Molly Hospital Idiape with best medicare, I'm going to see some doctors there on Monday

cynthia1111:
Is good you are in Ibadan, take him to special education department in U.I for diagnosis. For the main time engage him in activities that will make him get tired and sleep. Think of something he can use his energy to do.you can tell him to repeat the activity until he is tired. All the best

I appreciate your comment ma but can I bring him to you to spend a day with you, I just need to meet a nairalander who can corroborate my story. This boy doesn't rest and hardly get sick

dominique:
I'm not seeing any issue here, most children that age are naturally defiant. It's just a phase and he will grow out of it. You can consult a child therapist and have him checked for ADHD (Attention deficit and hyperactivity disorder), where are you based please?
May God be with your family

Dominique, I've know you for years on this platform even though I hardly comment again, I'm happy for your contribution. I'm based in Ibadan

ststyreal:
Your child might be displaying one of the autistic spectrum which is being hyperactive. I am talking from experience and if care is not taken the younger one will toll his path. Get a therapist to access him as soon as possible. God bless our children.

Thanks I'll do that, he's left handed and his younger brother has started using his his left hand too and get aggressive whenever you tamper with his toy or whatever he wants to grab

Firgemachar:
You are a weak man.
Your son has already started exploiting you at such a tender age.
Too bad!

I don't like seeing him cry, most times I stop his Mom from flogging him cos he runs to me, he behaves quietly when I'm not home but the moment I'm home, he goes haywire

Firgemachar:
The mere sight of a cane, pankere, does wonders.

Do you have one at home?

Yes I do sometimes he plays with it, he'll quickly hug you whenever you want to beat him and say (in his word) "don't you know that Daddy doesn't beat use to beat son" and takes the cane away from you

Lalasticlala, pls help me push this to front-page, I'm an old boy and and active since 2007. Do this for me bro

I have 2 boys, Kevin and Alvin, 4 and 1yr old respectively, both were on 6-month exclusive breastfeeding, Had Cow&Gate2 baby formula, Kevin is just too active, he doesn't doesn't even walk at home, he runs even when I take him out (cos he doesn't even play in the compound), he can't stay in a place for 2 minutes except he's watching his favorite cartoon channel GoTv 60, no matter how you beat him he doesn't cry for more than few seconds, he learns too much that he even corrects me his father but the problem is he's too active (I don't want to use the word stubborn). His 11+ mths younger brother is already following his footsteps, their mother shouts and beats Kevin every minute for jumping around in the house like monkey. He even engages in fight with me whenever I want to watch my favorite channels except I beat him thoroughly, he wouldn't allow anyone touch anything that is his. Their mother is fed up and losing weight and she's afraid his Alvin is already acting likewise. I don't know what to do because you can't leave Kevin alone in the house without closed monitoring for a minute else something bad and injurious might happen. All my life, I've never see a kid like my boy, I need advise on what to do, it was worse when he was younger. I don't like beating him like his Mom does but won't have peace at home due to excessive shouting and scolding except he's asleep. Anyone with ideas on how to curtail this?

I need help also, I have 2 boys, Kevin and Alvin, 4 and 1yr old respectively, both were on 6-month exclusive breastfeeding, Had Cow&Gate2 baby formula, Kevin is just too active, he doesn't doesn't even walk at home, he runs, he can't stay in a place for 2 minutes except he's watching his favorite cartoon channel GoTv 60, no matter how you beat him he doesn't cry for more than few seconds, he learns too much that he even correct me his father but the problem is he's too active (I don't want to use the word stubborn). His eleven month younger brother is already following in his footsteps, their mother shouts and beat Kevin every minutes for jumping around in the house. He even engage in fight with me whenever I want to watch my favorite channels except I beat him thoroughly, he wouldn't allow anyone touch anything that is his. Their mother is fed up and losing weight and she's afraid his 11-month old Alvin is already acting likewise. I don't know what to do because you can't leave Kevin alone in the house without closed monitoring else something bad and injurious might happen. All my life, I've never see a kid like my boy, I need advise on what to do, it was worse when he was younger. I don't like beating him like his Mom does and won't have peace at home due to excessive shouting and scolding except he's asleep. Anyone with ideas on how to curtail this?

buhariguy:
Idiotic pigs of Biafra don't even know anything because of hatred.

Able VP save your strength, this idiotic pigs of Biafra will not listen to your beautiful sermon

What has happened to this beautiful platform I joined in 2007? Where are those brilliant minds I used to read and learn from their comments then? Seun, Mukina2 and other mods, if you keep accommodating lost kids like this that talk off point, nairaland will lose its glory

I'm currently using Moto G4 Plus, very strong phone and been using it for over a year now, was sent from Brazil and haven't seen it in Nigerian market.

That's a statue of their own Indian man unlike ROCHASIS who kept erecting statues of other nationalities

Csami:
Stop misleading people. She was the nurse close to Micheal Scofield's doctor girlfriend Sara.

Oh my bad, I thought the nurse was fat besides it's been very long I saw the movie

Jidibia:
How is ibe a Yoruba name?

Not Ibe, his Yoruba name is Oluwafemi

kingchris30:
may her soul rest in peace but I don't remember the part she played anyway.

She was the olosho girlfriend of Michael who later betrayed him by calling the police for the reward bounty on their heads

Deep inside the MUMURIC' man mind, he's happy the girl is not released, MURIC would have come up with their usual threats if reverse were the case

Give us electricity first, foolish people

Izzy002:
Which good old days?? oga shift make better pesin enter

You were still in primary school in those good old days

Poor me, and I used to think UI is the largest

Olifiz:
Well it’s not about being fat cos I’m not fat, But that skinny looks almost unhealthy. N don’t come back here spewing about how healthy he is to me. Pls stay u lane n don’t quote me again.



Nobody should quote me else lightning will strike u

Kids everywhere, this forum is fast losing its glory. Still remember the good old days

Forens1c002:
SIR here on nairaland?

Shouldn't your sense tell you that is their Twitter handles? . . . and you call yourself a student

Jimbadly:
How you come know im age? Na you born am?

Learn how to use the internet, this information is everywhere

Alagba the tortoise in Soun Palace is over 300yrs old

omon24:
lol. but bros oo, u still Dey stand up to change channel for this millennium? Na black /white TV?

Lol, you know you might not be close to the remote sometimes na

No matter how tired I may be, seeing Buhari on Tv always gives me strength to stand up and change the channel

No matter how tired I may be, seeing Buhari on Tv always gives me strength to stand up and change the channel