₦airaland Forum

BrutusOj:
When you don't know something, ask questions to be informed. it is not like the lady was asked to take an oath. just like the Christian wedding in the church normally have the part where both couple pledge fidelity to each other, some ethnic groups in Nigeria like Idoma(ogbadibos) in Benue, the esan in Edo... always ask the bride to take a kola nut and pledge her fidelity to her husband alone.Once the lady eat the kola, she is bound to her husband alone, if she go off her way and play any away match and the hubby isn't aware, she will face the consequences of the god of her hubby's people. And if the hubby is aware and doesn't act fast, OYO is his case, he is to face the wrath of the god of his people. Don't ask me why it is only the wife that is to remain faithful, cos we are talking about African tradition here which allows a man to have more than one wife, hence he own no one apology for going for another kpekus

POINT 1:as one poster rightfully said this is simply about men being insecure [that just as he approaches other women his woman can be approached same] and jealousy[that a woman can easily get more intimacy partners than men]...therefore men created all sorts of myths about what would happen if she cheats among other terrible things created/done by men....POINT 2:i am idoma,did the kola tradition thing,do cheat on my husband and have for years,so nothing happens ,has happenned or will happen to me because like many african myths&traditions created by men,its a lie created to induce fear in woman!!!POINT 3: on the african tradition thing,if you are one of those believing in african traditions then please follow african tradition and discard all things un-african(like phones,modern clothes,internet,electricity,cars,books etc) or else you are a hypocrite and contradicting!do you agree?...the point about point 3 is if you claim to follow african tradition(s) then follow it all,dont pick & choose which parts to follow and which not to follow...

Omegalala:
Sx no longer freak her.
She enjoys the 'everything works' US environment, her hobbies and watching the kids grow.

maybe she doesn't want sex with you as much?and not just sex in general,just saying...am a woman,married,and do cheat.anyway my question still remains:in accordance to your reply to the question asked by baby here:

baby124:
Lol, you are a joke. I hope you will accept a child your wife has abroad for her boyfriend due to cold nights and an absent husband who fu**ks around without fear or use of condom in this day and age.

Omegalala:
She had two c-section births.
Doctor advised no more babies.

does that mean you are fine with it,since your reasons where you were lonely,your wife gives the same.are you fine with her cheating as long as she doesnt get pregnant? yes/no..no divergences like before

Omegalala:
She had two c-section births.
Doctor advised no more babies.

i take it,you mean that you are fine with her having side guys since she wont get pregnant?oya please tell me,i have my cousin in usa who likes sex,i shall send him for her

child labour should be outlawed from this continent,i mean its one of the MANY reasons we are behind gosh i would never send my children to work,unless part time easy jobs etc.i want my children to have a simple life where they can live their childhoods and be children.good parents should do this

OMW this shouldnt even be up

dude come on,most probably it is!

ahahahaha,good one hey

Nonsreal:
Am nt a woman bt rly am crying ryt nw, cos d pic kept reminding me abt my late grandpa who pass out last year... U rly luk lyk him bro

jasmineee:
wow. u are such an inspiration. i truly admire u dear. i'm glad that u are able to stand up for what u believe in. ur so amazing. thanks so much for sharing with us. and pls continue to share with us. would love to hear more.

thanks hey, am open hey and please OP do introduce yourself,if you don't mind and am sure many others are curious about you,so tell us more

loling,so funny!!

ClassCaptain:
The way he used the English language is enough to make any woman run away .....

although we are black,hey,be easy on him since english aint our mother tongues .good joke tho

i am married and never did so,because it makes thing harder ,as in,you see eachother everyday and get bored quickly etc,so i advise ladies not to

i think it is simply is because he want to feel a woman 'raw',so disgusting,that is how men infect women with diseases even married men infect their wives,disgusting! anyway OP great post

doctorofgirls:
So if I tell u my age,what next by the way upload your picture, then we both ask ourselves, your new found billion dollar question

mister if you didn't want to answer the question,all you should have simply stated was that instead on going in this rollacoaster over a simple question

doctorofgirls:
what are you doing with my age?

let me type out in capital letters maybe you shall read and understand better : I WAS JUST ASKING LIKE HOW SOMEONE CAN ASK WHERE SOMEONE IS FROM,IF THEY ARE STUDENT,IF MARRIED,etc kapish goshhhh,imagine someone radiating arrogance just from someone greeting him and asking how old he is.......

doctorofgirls:
has ur curiosity helped my bank account

oh i see,you are one of those ignorant ones,well mister you better know i hit hard as a rock,one question for you:has looking at your washed up self,in the pic(s) you posted helped anyone,yet alone helped my bank account? i just asked your age politely and you come here with your arrogance,move aside,nigga!!!!

doctorofgirls:
old enough to be ur dad

lol,i was just curious...

hey thanks,well let me introduce myself,am a married woman,in 30s,have 4 kids..... i always like to inspire my fellow women,living in a society trashed(ruled) by men(patriachal) its hard,so here is a picture of one of my favourite inspirational messages.....as an ex-muslimah when i stood for myself,i know i stood up for other women,leaving islam has been a relief and shock .{no offences intended to any muslim women}

hey,how old are you?

lol,well depends what kind of man she wants,maybe i can try set things up

LastMumu:
Frustrate them with flashing until they pick your damn call. That's how I roll.

lol

ThinkSmarter:
As in I am subscribing to the idea of the priest about being polygamous than being monogamous and adulterous as it will even play a role in helping to accommodate single ladies looking for marriage, as our society is suffering from gender imbalance due to crime, insurgency, militancy, many potential husbands hv died as a result of cultism, armed robbery, military service, with high number of them in prison custody.
#Just concerned about so many young ladies out there looking for husbands.

my intention when i first quoted you was to correct the wrong fact about the gender ratio,that's all.

ThinkSmarter:
I understand better now with ur facts, that's why I said that my info was speculative in d 1st place, but in this context, remember gender imbalance z a strong factor
see link>>>https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_sex_ratio#Gender_imbalance

okay,so which context are you talking about?

Mrnairalandd:
Purple, where did u see Regularly tested in my write up? Lol!!! You dey jump. You ve chosen to force that(regularly) on my write up.

I did all those tests before having my kids.

And I went for other 4 hiv tests as a result of all the pregnancies. I have not done any test since then.

Regularly tested to me is like getting tested every month... Who has that time

However, i am perfectly fine and healthy.

lol okay....

Mrnairalandd:
I have three lovely daughters and a boy, at each pregnancy, hiv test was carried out and all were negative.

After divorce, i think i must ve slept with about 24 ladies and all clean. I am absolutely healthy and fine.

Before then, i got tested while i was going through my international student visa application then in Kenya; it was negative too.

I think i already had enough of that HIV test.

good that you get regularly tested

jorion:
You categorically said you agree with the OP, so whats there to quote. woman, go and cook for your family. The only reason you are making all these noise is because you have not been handled yet. All men are not cheats because to cheat, you need to be in a relationship. Guess what, 95% of females are dating the 40% or less well to do men. so how can you say a guy is a cheat when he isn't even in a relationship. Simple maths sis, now tell me who are the cheats. men needs to know that they are replaceable, what a load of crap. no go try am with an average wealthy dude who just came back from office after an annoying work day. HE GO JUST BREAK U IN HALF

once again proving my point,an average wealthy dude to break me in half?so according to you a woman that has to be handled is with physical force? an un-intelligent,babaric man who when defeated mentally,emotionally resorts to physical...and that is what you are,and still no suprise...

ThinkSmarter:
my information z speculative, but mind u that Nigeria doesn't hv centralized database of all births and deaths, go to our primary and secondary schools across d country, take that as a case study, analyze the ratio of males to females, even by physical survey, u will find out that the females are higher in numbers than the males.
In most cases among animals and humans, the female population z always higher than the male population, and female Species of every animal tends to gv birth to more females than males in most cases.

wrong again(about more females being born,it's more males born although some consider the difference negligible),i asked for your link(s),i gave mine.in every place,more males are born, their's even a scietific phenomenon about it.and your statements are the ones speculative,mine are facts backed with proof which i gave you,yet you failed to give your proof. and about the case study part..that wont work because everyone has different experience(s),and that is why census(census is the procedure of systematically acquiring and recording information about the members of a given population. ) was created,and since you are into 'physical survey',do you also use physical survey to find out how many people are in a country,town,how many ratio of ethnicities,race(s) etc,or is this where you expect to use census? records are made for a reason,mister!!! here is another link about birth ratio: "Like most sexual species, the sex ratio in humans is approximately 1:1. The sex ratio at birth worldwide is commonly thought to be 107 boys to 100 girls, although this value is subject to debate in the scientific community. The sex ratio for the entire world population is 101 males to 100 females." https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_sex_ratio

Mrnairalandd:
Lol! See your coconut head... Turn yourself to Bobrisky for a day and let my dickk do justice to your yansh...

also did you see my 1st post to you? here :

purple3091:
@ OP,since you now know it is real,i hope you have tested ,if not i advise you to,it can be a scare,my husband's brother got infected and is hiv positive,so i most times assume the people who say its not real are ones in denial,because soon as he started knowing his status he started the whole conspiratory stuff of hiv not being real

hiv,although not a death sentence is a serious illness

nmreports:
Absolutely right. Thanks.
Dont want to ask you questions on a public forum so cheers.

cheers

Mrnairalandd:
Lol! See your coconut head... Turn yourself to Bobrisky for a day and let my dickk do justice to your yansh...

my nyash already is being serviced so no,lol

jorion:
As a hardworking young engineer who have had the opportunity to live in the south, east and west of Nigeria, I can categorically tell you that for every emotionally sane female out there, there are 5 males. If you can't keep a man doesn't man all men are that way. There is a reason why men call girls fish brains, that got nothing to do with guys cheating but everything to do with their disgusting sense of judgement and reasoning. And sadly speaking, putting a ring on a lady's finger is no longer sufficient to make them at least decent for the remaining about 40+ worthless years of their lives after marriage. What a pity

don't give these your stories/biographies about yourself Mr Fish Brain(since it is clear you are the fish brain) i never requested for your bibliography...i simply asked you to quote,where i claimed all men are cheats ...also what is all this about : " If you can't keep a man doesn't man all men are that way. There is a reason why men call girls fish brains, that got nothing to do with guys cheating but everything to do with their disgusting sense of judgement and reasoning. And sadly speaking, putting a ring on a lady's finger is no longer sufficient to make them at least decent for the remaining about 40+ worthless years of their lives after marriage. What a pity" and the men that call women fish brains are men like you who are probably the fish brains themself.so prove where i said all men are cheats and leave me in peace,if not,just say so.

nmreports:
Even when you cheat on your husband? Not clear.

yes,my point is one should be careful no matter how small the rate might appear to be,and i was giving my experience(s) that when i cheat on my husband i also make sure condoms are used.

jorion:
First of, I don't know if I would cheat on my wife, I seriously don't because I don't want to repeat past mistake, I knew what my mum went tru with my dad and will forever be eternally grateful they are not together. But a wife who would be shameless enough to cheat on me does not deserve a family, I am probably the most extremely affectionate or coldest person you would ever meet and I don't take shit from nobody. You come here to tell me that all men are cheats but you forget when girls young, they were busy dating married men and destroying their homes, forgetting that they would get married one day. Call me psychopath or whatever but IF MY WIFE CHEATS ON ME, I WILL TAKE AWAY EVERYTHING (I REPEAT EVERYTHING) CHERISHES OR WILL EVER CHERISH that i can lay my hands on because SHE DOESN'T DESERVE THEM. I MIGHT overlook the fact that she might have dating countless boys, married men and even committed abortions(ALL IN HER PAST), but that shit isn't happening in my house. NOT BY A LONG SHOT

one question that will prove your un-intelligence and babaricness: qoute me where i said all men are cheats?,i know women cheat because guess what!! am a woman,and am cheating,and ofcourse you are cold,that is how babaric men are so yeah you are a psychopath

lol this is so funny