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eselesplash:
Why will I be lying. To your second paragraph, I am not a hungry girl neither did I come from a hungry background. All these people came because of my dad not husband and me and my husband na quite and jeje people. ☺

my dear,,,u owe no one any explanation..
only d poor will criticize d rich....
if a group of known people in d society (#entourage #) comes to ur wedding,,,haters will definitely say it's cos of the fame nd ur husband's money u decided to marry him...

so enjoy ur marriage nd let no one change ur day nd mood..
HML....pray for me to get admission into d institution also...
(I mean marriage institution here o)

p.s...u know what u r nd what u have....an unknown person coming to say otherwise should be left alone...#na jealousy b their problem#

Abelsconcept:
You're getting it wrong. In fact, for you to categorically state that someone who affectionately close their relations is abnormal makes me wonder how you claim to roll with you brothers. I've see and heard of stories where ladies cry because they're going to leave their father home to their husband's. They don't cry because they do not want get married. They're happy getting married but the relationships with family will no longer be first priority.

This thread attempts to disapprove of two grow up siblings of opposite sex sleeping together due to obvious reasons stated in the thread (that's if you read it ooo). How can you go to your brothers' room when you have space for yourself. To me, I call it being over closely knitted and perhaps creepy. It is in circumstances that you've sleepovers with your brother(s).

there is nothing creepy in going into ur brother's room to sleep wen u fully have enuf space in ur own room......"creepy is definitely not d word to use in this context"

being over closely knitted to ur blood brother is also not wrong too.
if u grew up close to ur sisters nd u guys practically do things together....I.e sharing a very good bond with them,,u won't be here saying all these things.

I'm not denying d fact that I haven't heard stories about brothers sleeping with their sisters but there is no other word to term it other than abnormality........Yes,,d both of u r abnormal...d guy for making a move nd d girl for succumbing or vice versa.

brother,,,dis is blood we r talking about....#cousins set aside#.....
I have cousins dat "literary" bath together sef..... I.e...d Sister myt b putting on a bra without closing d door nd d brother will just barge in on us,,say whatever he wants to say nd leave..........I was surprise d day I saw this nd she told me ""wetin dey dia ""
p.s.......she s getting married tomorrow

tho I don't do d aforementioned,,,, but that doesn't mean I don't change my cloths in front of my brother....#using wrapper or towel#

but please,,,d thought of sleeping on d same bed with ones brother or Sister is not appalling............ everything rests on d foundation,, training,background, closeness nd fondness of d said siblings.

Unibenstudent:
who make u vex?

Honestly ehhh,,,,,
I try to Kip my cool weneva someone bashes me
but it seems somepple joined Nl just to insult ,ruin nd change someone's good day.

in Spain,,we say gracias..

Truckpusher:
And in your tiny brain cells,you'd stay in the same room and house and cuddling with a man for over a long period of time without him launching his rockets? or you practically pulling his rockets into those your launch canisters?

Nne make una pretend small small na - Last time I checked women love sex more than guys ,guys problem is that they are more outspoken about it.

u made no sense....
nd BTW,,,,,my brain cells ain't tiny.

try putting space nd punctuation marks nxt time u want to quote me,,,,,,maybe I will b able to understand what u r saying.

**somepple's moniker clearly defines who they are.**

pre....... tty
she s got a diff face on dat second pics dat looks like a nollywood scene of an angel coming down from heaven ...

UchihaMadara:
Mrs. Holmes, so after all this ur preliminary investigation, wettin you go come tell am na?

Chai! Imagine conversation that day:

You: Hey honey, how was work?
Guy: Stressful!

You: Please, I've been waiting for you to come back home, I want to ask you something.
Guy: What is it, I hope everything is okay!

You: Yes it is, the thing is.... Please Can I See your Peniis?
Guy: Haba Mirabel, I thought we said we were going to wait until we get married.

You: Please, I just want to check something.

lollllzzzzzzzz..... hahahahahahha
*can't stop laughing*

just because dey both concluded on d "no sex until marriage" thing does not mean d girl can't take a peek at d merchandise..
if d guy has nothing to hide,,,, he will gladly pull down his trousers..

dat can't happen...

I mean,,even if u guyz decided to stay off sekks till marriage.........don't u hug him?? wunt u c him only in his shorts/boxers/underpants?? what about cuddling??

if u neva felt or c a bulge down there to raise a question or rather series of question for him to answer then u surely must live with what u saw during d honeymoon.

didadavid:
January is almost here and you will start hearing it again. But why do they have the believe they will 'get married this year' and sure, they never do.

what can we say,,,guys scarce like baba dudu

soo those lines have been working for u all these while??
I wonder d kind of girls u've been toasting..

about d DEAF aspect.
wat if she just finish answering a call or was talking to someone den u walk up to her nd said hi nd she kept mute.
how will u now say "it's like she s deaf wen u practically saw her listening nd answering someone."...***nd probably she knew u've been standing there all these while***

dat line won't work bro....u either receive an insult or a continued silence.

I don't show/do all these when am in love with someone.

I bliv there ARE Soulmates
I don't bliv I have one soulmate..
******nd u dont always end up with them...#fact#*******

I agree with d comment above me.
tho d d schools r diff........ *does not offer d same thing*

I would advice college of education,, d one affiliated with a university..dey offer degree programmes which leaves u with a bachelor's degree at d end unlike d poly were u get hnd nd ond.

but if d COLLEGE of education s got only their nce program,, den fly off to poly.

but den again,,it's depending on d course u want to study..
poly is all technical,, coe is edu..
*or are u just trying to get into any school cos of Nigeria's 4uked up system *

white people can b funny at times...

nd now u look like Benin witches all in d attempt of re-creating urself..
***ego Mmadu kwesiri iyem ka-ana yafu ayafu siiim n'ochoro idika kadashan......chineke,, nekwa nwa gi si na ihe kere ya ka obu adiro mma. ***

isn't that Lilian of BBA beside flavour??

hmm... she Don dey parole with dem celebs..
good 4 her.

modified.

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it's better to be rejected than to be magad.

all dese guys saying a girl can never reject him Co's he is rich nd soo fly....*Dude,,d girl is dating ur money nt u.
*try listening to what they tell their friends about u at ur back*

N/B ...during ur stay on earth as a boy/man,,,,,a girl MUST reject u.....if u like be handsome like lynx,,have swag like ice price,,get a voice like iyanya,,be industrious like Don jazzy,,nd have plenty money to throway like psquare.

or he jumped and they took pic...*wich one?*

wow....these r really funny.
but I don't "understand " picture 9 tho.

signor11:
You showed two things in your post.
1. Your brainy
2. You have a way with words
Nice post

thank u

harrysterol:
she said d dude is caring, do u need a prophet to tell u what it means

caring is an ambiguous word...

or are u trying to say poor men don't care or know how to show care

bsides,, d op did nt tell us d size of d guy's pocket...
nd u r already assuming.

lolaluv1:
You and Irene are both right. This is Because every one has a different experience when they have sex the first time. Yours might be different from hers and hers different from yours.
Extremely painful for some, and less painful for others.


All Hymen are not the same. I think the Everywoman book mentioned the fact that a very tough one has to be removed surgically. And I saw a diagram with different Hymen types just yesterday.

But It's a fallacy that the older a woman grows, the tougher the Hymen. If anything, the Hymen might have been worn slightly less from What it was at say, fifteen years of age.
Years of gushing mentrual blood, tampon usage and gynecological visits could have ensured that.

But that is not to say you won't feel the discomfort of penetration at whatever age it is you have sex for the first time.

THANK YOU.

that is d only thing I was trying to let her know.

Hymen does not grow stronger nd tighter as d Year goes by.
nd everyone feels pain for d first tym
but for yours to b more painful than that of d other person is from ur handler...*diff experience for diff folks.*

Hymen r d same but for urs to b diff is what is reffered to as "anomalies"...dis is were d have types nd as such requires surgery.e.g.....if u have dat type of Hymen were it refuses to allow ur blood #menstruation# flow out............den u need surgery.

stonecoldcafe:
Finally some sense!

THANK U.

someone who understands.

I've been trying to explain things to her writing long epistles but she's allergic to acquiring new knowledge.

she feels d Hymen becomes stronger nd tighter as u grow in age...
who thinks like that??

harrysterol:
but the girl was ready to collect gifts abi? Is ok

did anyone say anything about gifts here

please ,,,sweetbaby22,,, is gift items included anywhere in ur post ??

ireneony:
how old were u, wen u were deflowered maybe your hymen was not strong enough or u don't have a tight vaginal

u still don't get it do you

there is nothing like your "Hymen was not strong enough"...Hymen is Hymen...*** secondary virgins r exempted *** for REAL virgins,,,Hymen nah Hymen....

it's d experience that differs....
who handled u wen u were deflowered is d conclusion,, I.e if u came out walking lyk a bow-legged person.

did u study any health science courseI'm guessing d answer is no.

nd dat ur question is irrelevant to what we r discussing.

Equado:
its her decision you say...y do you girls think that when you're 'ready' we guys would always be ready?

it goes both ways brother......*vice versa*
I wasn't discriminating.

if d girl is nt ready,,,den d guy should free her.
if wen d girl is ready nd d guy no con dey ready,,,,den d girl should exercise patience also..**after all,she started it.**

so Yes,,it's her decision.

ireneony:
what if the process of been deflowered which led to bleeding, tear and sore around the vaginal, my sister de pain during urination will be a wonderment

this only happens when d girl is raped....
or d guy was vigorous which is nt likely to happen Co's u already told him u are a virgin soo he has to take precaution..

now sis,, d only pain a virgin feels is d penetration...wen d man is in,,with slow riding nd tardily movements....d pain swiftly goes.....now u guys can destroy d bed is u want.

but wen d guy uses force...d pain u r suppose to feel intensify,,a drop of blood dat is only suppose to come out turns to a pint.*it's just lyk forcing my remote to enter d mouth of my tube cream....I'm sure my cream will disfigure**
that's just how it is....den we can now say d girl will b sour around d virginal envirinment nd it will lead to urinary pains.

ireneony:
according to experience, if u are a real virgin not the one wey their boyfriend don finger tire, u will know what am talking about...the pain nor be here. Vaseline nor de solve am

Yes,,I agree to that..
u must surely experience pain d first tym.
from d penetration.......but u will urinate just fine..

all I tried pointing out to u is not to have that thinking that a 30yrs old Hymen is tighter than that of an 18yrs old.......it's d same "rope".

*nd I'm referring to d real virgins also.*