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OP if you really love this woman better grab her fast whilst the offer last. You just listed the features of an ideal woman. There's no such thing as a perfect woman. Let that age be the imperfection in her which can be glossed over with your love. Age is just a number. Don't let societal criterion hinder you from being with your soulmate cos you might never come across such miracles again.

Educative and incisive piece. I hope they will all read this. Those days were the days when there was true love and respect, when men were MEN! Now SOME have refused to grow. And some of the women have turned themselves into intimacy gadgets........

Which planet is the OP from? *sips her green tea and saunters outta thread*

czarr:
....it all started when.....*runs out of thread**no balls to go on*

I could be banned!lol

ok let's not derail d thread.

An ideal courtship shouldn't be less than 6months and shouldn't exceed 2years.

czarr:
.....explicit content*viewers discretion advised*

my specialty, can absolutely handle that! Am 18+ as well......lol

czarr:
.....it's a long story...lol

*straightensup* trust me, I've got time....

czarr:
housemaids*smiling sheepishly*
brings back memories...

looks like someone has a history to share concerning their househelp. We all know that most of you guys were disvirgined by your domestic helps/ Aunties. Care to share?

Uncle, let your wife know and lay off that maid including yourr brother. Infact your brother shouldn't even wait for you to show him the door if indeed is reasonable. That maid may turn to be trouble for the family. She's too gullible to be a baby-sitter! What an oncouth behaviour! Straffing under your roof even when the kids r in the house.

Mistake women make. How in petes' name can you cohabit or date a guy for 7years? Don't you realise that he's bored of you? Even legally married people get bored with each other let alone mere courtship! Sweetie you know the answer to your questions bt u r just scared of living in that reality. If you are a risk-averse person, I suggest you give other guys attention b4 you end up in yaba left. Enough said.

Ara dara ada adawo . Ask Flavour Nabania

Akuneshiobike:
Thats why some of you 21st century ladies are not really finding it fair with we guys. cos of you ladies disloyalty. Whats the big deal possessing the aforelisted qualities.

. The big deal is that the OP or whoecver wrote that bullcrap wants a mannequin as a partner. And what are you 21st century guys willing to offer? You looking for a lady to boss around and break nd immediately latch on to the next "zombie" that the op described. Mr loyality

Some stories are not worth perusing through. What an obnoxious act and remark! Test her virginity for what? On whose command? And if she's not then what? I have given up on human race a long time! God help this generation and the one unborn. That demon of a father should be reprimanded accordingly! Nonsense! He's performing a litmus test.

The caption is never let an "ode" girl go...literally do guys really wanna date dumb girls? What then spices the relationship? Even slaves would not want to be trapped insuch situation. Those qualities aforelisted are for Zombies !

Nicepoker:
what if its written in a language u can't comprehend.

then you get a translator! Btw google is our friend

prettyblaqy:
questn 1. She hasn't even met the son yet.
2. He is not married to the baby mama
3. This lady loves the man and hav always wanted some1 who understands her esp. Cos they come from the same autonomoius community likewise the guy. Besides the guy seemed to love her cos he confessed he want her to be her forever accordingly to this lady though the relationship is abit new

how old is your friend? I hope thisdecision is borne out of love and not desperation, cos if am not mistaking u wrote that he's the only guy to have shown interest in her in a long time. Does she just want this man cos they are from the same community and share similar tenets? How can she be even concerned abt a boy she's not even met? My dear matters of the heart should be dealt and handled cautiously. Pls she should think these through in her lucid state ofmind. She's amenable for any decision she takes! Caution dear.

Is the son posing a threat to their relationship? Is he married to the babymama? Does your friend love this guy and is the love well reciprocated? Answer these and I'll start from there..

joseph1832:
And you will be surprise to know that many who even write such things are not even ripe for marriage. Many of them are even still under their parents or still in school....

my brother the thing just tire me o

Marriage does not have a manual. Though one can take some guides for precautionary measures. Bt what you aforementioned are not the core values on which marriage thrives..... All these 10 rules this and 8 rules that on relationships and marriages are becoming stale on Nland. #no offence#

OP 'told' them ooo.........am so gonna eat that banana with reckess abandon! Will go for confession later

Attention-seeking Hoes! She would have gone for a name starting with 'K' since she despeerately wants to be like his Ex wife and dotas. Confused He-She.

What's hot abt this delusional man that is suffering from mid-life crisis. Now what the hell did he do to his D*ck How long does he have left to enjoy this madness?

Always at his service! All he need do is press the buttons.......leggooo

Brown rice all the way!

This one na story? Better sickness never hold that girl. And for the guy who's temper becomes volatile when a male doc tries to perform his 'professional' duties? Get prepared to deliver your wife of your babies at home by yourself.... .. Cos the whole female anatomy is left under the mercy of the said doctors...

VintageCocktail:
From the little she wrote, the mum is a poster child of what every male nairalander wants as a wife....quiet, submissive, not contemplating on divorce even if she is maimed, humiliated and strangled infront of her children and the world and you're still asking for more as if the parties in question are here laying the complaints.
Honestly, would've loved to be married to such a down to earth wife if I am a weed smoker.

Tell the girl what you think will solve her problems in these quagmire, the parents can sort themselves out as they used to, even if it means the weed smoker succeeds in strangling the wife.

I admit this issue is sensitive bt I couldn't help laffing at your response. Its just Epic! Lmao! What religion has turned people with brains into, smh.

DrGroove:
Any child who loves his /her father more than mother


is






SICK



who can be compared to a mother?



Father that can abandon you at anytime, marry a new wife n have hundreds of you?

My mother first, my mother middle, my mother last


Father is just to provide money.. and once the child is able to fend for his/herself financially


Father is not of any use!

you are a product of a dysfunctional home,pity.....I know it must be difficult for you to trust men. But don't use your experience to make a cognitive generalization of your bitter childhood. Am married, bt till date my dad is the one that listens more to us.

Some still prefer dolls to intelligence. Dolls without brains

Hmmm an apt and incisive piece! I have to watch out so as not to tow the same line. I must confess I hv learnt a thing or two from this article. Thanks Op for sharing.

They both crack me up and ofcourse 9ja and their memes! they are officially married guys......so let's all suck it up and move on......

And this gory graphics is found on the Romance section okwaya?

Luedave:
sell? I didnt realy get ur point

never mind sweetheart.