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That's so true....quite educating! Let's try to be good/worthy emulating ambassadors to our kids. Quite frankly, children practice what they see than what they are told. Whenever you see an aggressive kid, trace well and you won't be surprised that the parents are Amenable for the kids behaviour.

rokiatu:
If you was dumb enough to have unprotected sex when you are not ready for a child yet then your stupidity is beyond measure. My only advice is to stop wasting time thinking so much and go look for any kind of work for that matter even if you have to clean shoes. You are going to be a father congrats in advance. When you was hitting it raw and enjoying yourself, you didn't think about this day abi? When you was c..umming in her, you had no idea there was a thing call,pregnancy right? And the morning after you and your dumb gf couldn't think of a thing call "the morning after pill" ni? Well you see God give us a brain for a reason, if you can't think and make logical decisions you will be le mft to face the consequences.

Welcome to the real world.

. My dear don't be so mean. A lot of us here acting smart and angel have done worst mistakes and been in worse dilemma than the Op. If he and His girlfriend were as "wise" as you are, he wouldn't be needing your opinions trust me.

My dear these are the uncertainties of life! You made a mistake by not having protected sex, but we can't throw the bathing water away with the baby. My question is, do either of you have supporting parents? If yes, then I think its time to have a chit chat with them as regards the situation. If you have a strong conviction to keep the baby, go ahead. Bt let your love for this unborn baby give you the drive to find a better means of livelihood cos it would be very traumatic for you if you can't provide for the ones you cherish so much. Weigh the pros and cons and make a life changing decision for yourself! A lot of things can happen in 8months. Wish you both luck!

Kudos to them. Nigeria needs more correctional facilities to empower and remould inmates not the hell trap we have everywhere.

That's all we hear these days,'damnation-stories'! What do these Demons gain by defiling minors that are defenseless and naive?

Congrats man! You've won a jack-pot! "Ndi ala" (nut cases)

I thought those lyrics were from Mohammed Ali?

I only saw she the part where they wrote she coughed. Is it the married man that gave her the killer cough or I missed some part of the story? Anyway RIP to d dead, such a beautiful lady.

Cutie-pie . Op try bringing her legs down each time she sleeps in that posture. Or you lie her by the side.

The devil gets another blame for a man who can't control his orgies!

cokacoola:
op, so becurse you are 38 and stay simgle you want go force a guy intwo umprapred marriage

. Your writing skill is horrible!

The 'marriage market' still marries those ladies above 30 to Men above 40,50 etc.....

curiouses:
The thread is about Nigerians false sense of superiority and grandeur. How Nigerians consider themselves better than other Africans.

do you have a personal beef with Nigerians because am surprised @ your outburst! and why the generalization?

I don't get the essence of this thread. OP can you throw more light or did you have a fight with a "Nigerian" again?

It only depends on where yoou are coming from. They both perform specific functions @ different time period and thus are both important! Moreso, every mother was once a wife, and most wives will someday become mothers.

Rosarie:
likr u said she passed on shortly after so u did not experience her cos been married is d basic tin,secondly how long are u married

I lived with her for one year and trust me, one year is enough for two women to tear down the roof. I've been married for 10yrs

God pls in you do we take refuge. Protect us from every harm and destruction

shaddi:
lessons for the Ladies

u no see guy there?

Dem resemble vampires! And the 1st pic? Na pity I dey pity am. Nollywood Ala nwanyi Asaba (a movie)

My partner adheres to all the points aboven yet he snores like an elephant. Most times I roll him outta bed so I can have sanity. I beg him most times not to sleep before I do else wahala go dey.

babyosisi:
I was present at a hospital room in the best FG hospital in Nigeria when a patient was wheeled in,the victim of 3rd degree burns from an oil tanker explosion
As soon as he was brought to the room,the nurse started screaming,please you people should take this man somewhere o
He will soon die here
I was like what?
The man has burns
He can hear everything you are saying,how heartless can you be
Said all that under my breathe

This nurse abandoned the patient
I kept waiting for them to at least put an oxygen mask on him
Who sai
Patient stayed there ,burns all over for a good 30 or 45 minutes ,who knows how long he was at the out patient department before being admitted
Finally they wheeled him out perhaps to go and die somewhere else
This is the tertiary center o
And all that time no single doctor came by
Not even a house officer,I guess they were all relaxing somewhere and couldn't be disturbed
Who asked him to get burns after hours

. My Sister that was the exact reaction we got from the nurses, immediately we brought them in cos the explosion gutted the whole family, all the nurses started screaming and gathering around them. Compounding their issues by blocking ventilation and getting them more scared. When I began yelling like a mad woman @ them for their incompetence, they all took to their heelsm leaving me to search for the doctors all by myself. Haven't yet recovered from the shock, cos they passed last year. And the truth is they were not supposed to die if they were handled properly. And ofcourse we had to pay a huge bill for a service not properly rendered before transfering the remaiming surviving family members to another hospital. BTW, they refused me bringing a plastic surgeon to review them after he travelled a long distance from another state! Infact, I pray that I will not be @ the mercy of any health personnel till am ripe and set to take a bow.

Na me be their class Rep for spitting class during pregnancy ! I indulge in all kinds of pica consumption especially the white chalk(Nzu) becos candies and bitter cola induces mine..... She just needs to take more fluid bt in little amount like someone mentioned. Because the more saliva u expel, the more weaker and dehydrated u get. All will be over after the 9 months

Mine passed shortly after I arrived, miss her sometimes. If u want to make your marriage work, you have to start from the grassroot. As a woman, u have to wear the garment of patience and endurance. Dump your rights in your fathers house oh( talking from experience). Remember, for most of the MILs, there will always be tension and unhealthy cold rivalry. But in my case I acted like a pure zombie and conquered @ last. She didn't have any option than to love and accept me

marc99:
Smile....

Well, now that you know he's the reason why your breast discharges, it shouldn't worry it.

thanks a lot Doc for saving a sister from the pychological stress et al. And to all those who engineered this platform to help and reach out to humanity, I say a big thank you! May God continue to strengthen you guys! Cheers and goodnite.

marc99:
Smile....

Well, now that you know he's the reason why your breast discharges, it shouldn't worry it.

. Thanks a lot Doc, you,ve just saved a sister from High BP. Thanks to everyone who engineered this platform to help humanity, May God bless you all. Have a goodnight Doc *so relieved*

marc99:
It's quite normal. Let me explain what happened.

The period you stopped bre*stfeeding your baby, your prolactin level started dropping. But your hubby didn't give you, or better still your body, enough time to adjust its prolactin level, back to it's normal level. He regularly stimulates your bre*st during sex, and bre*st stimulation has a toll on prolactin level. Thus, your prolactin increases.

As soon as he discontinues the bre*st stimulation, within a short period, the prolactin level will normalise.

thanks Doc! Bt those are his favorite tools of pre-intimacy and mine as well. bt albeit I will have to wean him as well. So am taking my groove back!

marc99:
I don't think it's galactorrhea. I think it's a case of high prolactin level, probably from bre*st stimulation during sex.

thank you Doc for ur urgent response. Bt I need to ask if its normal and hence do I need to be or worried?

I lost 2 of my family friend to gas explosion unfortunately @ the time the doctors went striking. We had no option that to take them to a private clinic where they did little or nothing to salvage them. The Doctors and Nurses where non-chalant. A female Doctoor even made a statement as wicked as " whether they survive or not, that her salaries must be paid". They allowed the burns to get septic and both mother and teenage dota died!

Doc goodafternoon. I think I might be having galactorrhea. My baby is 1yr plus 6months. Hubby complained having ingesting BM on one part of my breast though very little. Do I have need to be worried seeing that I stopped breastfeeding 9months ago! Thanks, I urgently await ur response. Thanks for your amazing work on this forum