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Literature / Re: Choices by Pwettyella(f): 12:08pm On Feb 16, 2017
solomonbrown64:

....Sure, a lot is still yet to unfold... thanks for reading...
Mr solo oya na,d update oooooo

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Literature / Re: WRONG NUMBER By Toyin Taiwo by Pwettyella(f): 6:57pm On Jan 13, 2017
rachealfst:
Amen, thanks for following.
Thnks for the mention
Happy birthday MA

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Literature / Re: WRONG NUMBER By Toyin Taiwo by Pwettyella(f): 10:11pm On Jan 11, 2017
rachealfst:
Cc: Jarexxx, disguyz, hellohgy, Michelle55, Pwettyella, chukxy
Nice update,m following

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Family / Re: My Wife Is Not What I Thought Before We Got Married: I Want To Divorce by Pwettyella(f): 7:54pm On Jan 04, 2017
chardyni:

My son will still be schooled without her.
Also if I remarry i expect the new wife to take care of my son.
So all parties should win.
Ok ooo, I wish u bst of luck
Family / Re: My Wife Is Not What I Thought Before We Got Married: I Want To Divorce by Pwettyella(f): 4:58pm On Jan 04, 2017
chardyni:

Why?
because of ur Son
Family / Re: My Wife Is Not What I Thought Before We Got Married: I Want To Divorce by Pwettyella(f): 4:47pm On Jan 04, 2017
chardyni:


My dear, you would not understand unless you were in my shoes and that of the OP.

I have fought with my wife twice and its for things that started with a slight suggestion and persuasion. The man that beat his wife last week was assumed to be a savage, but when a woman simply becomes only a sex giver and not contributing to family upkeep then she needs to be ditched.

A woman that cant cook, suspects all my interactions with females, does not take suggestions, lousy with sex and rubbishes my age differential and experience, is not a proper wife material.

All these I did not see prior to marriage. Getting out of it would simply be to take my son and send her back.

I stronlgy advice the OP to DIVORCE her.
Bt still Sir,everybody deserves anoda chance. Y don't u try to talk to her again,mke a see reasons with u,u can also open up to her, v a hrt to hrt talk with her plss at least for ur sons sake
Good evening
Family / Re: My Wife Is Not What I Thought Before We Got Married: I Want To Divorce by Pwettyella(f): 11:33am On Jan 04, 2017
chardyni:


Divorce her. You should start planning on getting rid of her.

I am in exactly the same boat as you. Only difference would be the number of kids and her age.

I got married 2012 after a courtship of 5 years. My wife too graduated with a third class. No drive to succeed. All she does is sit home and pray against the malvolent forces that are making me hate her.

She cant cook nything other than Indomie. Lazy b itch that she is.

Unfortunately I now have a son from her. Wish I could turn back time in her case.

Most of tge commenters would say its your fault for not discovering this during courtship, but the truth is men are human. These problems are cleverly hidden during courtship by females. Who would see these things and still intend on marrying her.

START PLANNING A DIVORCE. As you mentioned court marriage, you can petition that her influence on the family is determintal to the kids wellbeing. The court would grant it once you bring that type of argument.

There is no molding her in the future. She will suck your finances and be a clog for your progress.

Believe me I have developed a timeline for my own divorce.
OMG
dat is so unfair oo
Y call her all names
U want to tell me dat thru out ur courtship she didn't cook for u at all,na wa ooo. Divorce is nvr d answer, at least think of ur Son, oga oo

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Family / Re: My Wife Is Not What I Thought Before We Got Married: I Want To Divorce by Pwettyella(f): 11:28am On Jan 04, 2017
klassic:


My thought, but in as much as I blame op, I think either he genuinely wants advice on how to change things around the home, or wants a reason to put her aside via divorce which does more harm than good.Cos divorce is like smoking or drinking. Once you toll that line, no one will ever be good enough cos you can always divorce em.

By the way , why ain't you sleeping nocturnal?
I was reading
Good morning
Family / Re: My Wife Is Not What I Thought Before We Got Married: I Want To Divorce by Pwettyella(f): 3:25am On Jan 04, 2017
klassic:
@Op , the problem is 99% your fault and 1% her fault. You have gradually with your incessant complains and comparative life style eroded any self esteem or self worth she has left.
Now lemme explain a little, I suppose from the begining of the courtship/early marriage , it was not so until you gradually made it so.
The major problem is see here is she is never enough in your sight, she is always inferior no matter what she does, you don't ever appreciate her, encourage her, talk nicely to her inner person or make her feel adequate. She is your first daughter as well as your wife. She honestly wanted to her at the initial stage, but you never really sought her ideal on how she wants to live her life as your co-pilot. You have dictacted the direction of her life either because you are domineering and always feels you know better. It only gets worse.
She is at the rebellion stage where she does that which she knows you hate, just to get back to you. You have stripped her of her dignity as a person and this is the only weapon she has left to fight.
From your diction, one could simply infer you are the social type and you ain't proud of her perhaps you married her out of pity cos she sacrificed for you or something not out of unconditional love. You seldomly take her out cos you are afraid she will embarrass you. You are not proud of her enough to showcase her to the world . You want a classy, sexy, brilliant , well read, and perhaps independent woman you will be so proud to showcase to your friends and colleagues at parties , functions, etc.
Truth is you had raw gold and you missed it. I am speaking from experience cos I married an SSCE holder who speaks her mind and I used to feel this way, but I discovered earlier enough I was making a blunder the day she said" I know I will never be adequate for you, I know you won't show me to your friends cos you think I know nothing and can't even speak good english. Anyway live your life, have girlfriends like you have always done and leave me let me be"
That was when I realised I was her mentor, teacher , and what she becomes I have huge role to play.
You have psychologically conditioned her to live the kind of life you think is best for her and not the kind of life she wants. Hope this ain't happening to the kids too?
Keeps your intellectuals out of this, start from this, buy her a trendy cloth with accessories to match on a Friday or so, have someone baby sit your kids, take her to dinner, then to see some Friday night movies or what ever She used to like back then. Just take her out and come back home , book a lodge and have a heart to heart talk with her. Apologise to her cos you owe her one, find out how she wants to live her life. If it's the food stuffs, let her start small, help her manage her sales book not by dictating how it should be done, but by advising and playing a supportive role and watch her grow. After 6 months to a year , rather than give her the rest of the balance to dev into wholesales make it look like a loan from a bank. She must always pay back and motivate her. Stop making her wanna try or live your life . Thanks.

Sorry it's long or I took it personal. I once lived the life of another. @Op , if I came out strong , my aplogies , I feel we should tell ourselves the truth. Divorce is not the answer, I have handled several divorce matters and I came from one technically. It only creates a void nothing can ever fill. Cos you will also admits she has a great side other women don't have. When you see a lady with what your wife lacks, she might not have her good side , and then you want someone with her good side again. It's a rat race. Fix this marriage and make it work. After all the good talk, gradually take her shopping as friends and buy some few clothes .Don't over do this cos soon u will complain she dresses like a harlot cos she might over do it just to please you. Be moderate in all. Thanks.
Very nice writeup
My thought exactly
Saying he made a mistake marrying her is really bad and unfair. For crying out loud no one is perfect. we all av our shortcomings,and hers is not exceptional. I really feel for her,coming out on social platform to riddicle her like this isn't fair at all, I don't think she deserves all this

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: UPDATED!!No Job?Depressed?Feeling Suicidal?Share Your Story&Connect to Jobs by Pwettyella(f): 11:27am On Nov 05, 2016
blisschy:
Oh dear, I need to talk to u pls. My email add.-uchechineche@gmail.com or send to me ur contacts pls
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: UPDATED!!No Job?Depressed?Feeling Suicidal?Share Your Story&Connect to Jobs by Pwettyella(f): 10:02am On Nov 05, 2016
I am a mechanical engineering student,I am currently running my HND programme,I really need a part time job to help survive through school,things r really hard for me,I wld really appreciate if my request can be granted,
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Strictly For Those Interested In Teaching Jobs by Pwettyella(f): 9:42am On Nov 05, 2016
Pls if u are in need of an home tutor in subJects like maths,furthermaths,physics,pls contact me on 08146694900.Location: Yaba. I am an engineering student
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Literature / Re: Choices by Pwettyella(f): 8:32pm On Oct 19, 2016
Mr solo solo,thankGod I found out on tym oo,if nt I would v Just missed out in such a wonderful story,ride on

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Health / Re: Man Who Produces Fake Peak Milk In Calabar Arrested By NAFDAC by Pwettyella(f): 6:53pm On Oct 19, 2016
Na wa oooooooo
Education / Private Teacher At Your Service by Pwettyella(f): 5:41pm On Oct 19, 2016
Good day everyone
If you are in need of a private teacher,please do contact me
I teach maths and physics for student in senior secondary school,maths for junior secondary school and maths for primary school students.
I am very affordable and diligent
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Celebrities / Re: Toke Makinwa Agrees To Give N10k To A Follower Who Asked by Pwettyella(f): 2:44pm On Oct 14, 2016
Plss I need money too Am a student in need of money Any good samaritan shld help me Thanks and God bless
Literature / Re: Twine (A Drama Series) by Pwettyella(f): 6:28pm On Sep 14, 2016
Brytawon:






You know I still can't phantom how you escaped those my magical love claws.
The best part of the story is that I'm game on like never before. Please watch your back or else you fall in love with a heart made of gold. grin
Lol.........no p
Literature / Re: Twine (A Drama Series) by Pwettyella(f): 6:56am On Sep 14, 2016
Brytawon:
Pwettyella, we finally meet here again.; D
Yea,aw v u been
Bibi nyc work
Great story as always
Literature / Re: Allen Avenue ( Story Of A Call Worker) by Pwettyella(f): 2:11pm On Aug 15, 2016
Emm Op m so very sorry for nt commenting since the commencement of this great work u r doing,I was waiting till the end of the story bt I cldnt anymore cos I av to wish a great writer a happy birthday,I wish u all the best in life,I pray that this gift u v will take u places.HAPPI BDAY

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Education / Re: Poly Lecturers To Embark On Strike From August 22. by Pwettyella(f): 1:31pm On Aug 14, 2016
Soji123:
yabatech should not join the strike
Amen oo,I pray dey don't
Literature / Re: Allen Avenue ( Story Of A Call Worker) by Pwettyella(f): 11:24am On Aug 13, 2016
BlindAngel:

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Sister i just can't hold my self, the urge is always there and its so strong and powerful that when ever it comes i can't resist it, i ever went yesterday night, which makes it four days straight in a row with four different prostitutes.
As am here now i have already hardened my heart not to go today, but when night comes the urge will be so powerful that with in some minutes am on my way.
I just can't help it.
I have written a note full of the consequences that when ever the urges comes i will stick to my notes and start reading it, but when ever it comes even if i remembered my notes the urge its more powerful that i will forget it totally. After doing it am always filled with great regret, and the next day am back.
I just can't help it, it seems there is many truth in what you were saying that some spiritual something its attached to it. There is indeed some truth in it.
Y don't u seek spiritual help
go for counselling
Good morning

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Romance / Re: Kenyan Lady Dumps Lover Because Nigerian Man Buys Girlfriend A SUV (photos) by Pwettyella(f): 8:18am On Jul 29, 2016
rawpadgin:
gold digger everywhere
BTW, na only one shoe she get
Was also goin to ask same question
Literature / Re: A Broken Destiny: The Sword Of Vengeance by Pwettyella(f): 10:12am On Jul 13, 2016
missuniverse:
mehn! sweetheart u made me think its an update
So sorry Ma
Literature / Re: A Broken Destiny: The Sword Of Vengeance by Pwettyella(f): 10:11am On Jul 13, 2016
vickkydgreat:




how many time are we gona tell u guys nt to quote d whole update Sorry to say its irritating seeing long sometn tinking its an update..... No pun intended ma
M soo sorry
Thanks
Literature / Re: A Broken Destiny: The Sword Of Vengeance by Pwettyella(f): 10:24pm On Jul 12, 2016
solomonbrown64:
CONTINUED
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ANNA
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I should have known, I should have known. Oh dear spirits, I have failed in my duty as mother guardian. I have watched anarchy and chaos slowly build up under my nose and now, they are now in the flesh. How blind could I have been to the glaring signs the good spirits deemed fit to show me but I never saw them. Rachel was the seed planted by that king whom I know isn’t truly who he claims to be. How Nero died now seems clearer, he was killed by the one he betrayed.


There were rumours that they were both working on necromancy but I thought it to be just hearsay as the abilities to carry out such things were no longer in the living. But now, I wished I had given more thoughts to such ‘hearsay.’ Nero and the king were not just working together through his proxy; Melfisius, to break the hold on the ungifted, they were also working on bringing back the spirit of one of those who had both sides of the gift from centuries ago. Now, the spell was complicated and almost impossible to carry out, but the question I keep asking myself is why something like that could cross any of their minds, except if they had the perfect vessel to put that spirit. A reincarnation would have sufficed but what if the original body of that spirit never actually died; what if we have been fooled all this time that they were working on some spell when what was actually going on was putting back what should remain separated for good reasons?


Nero must have found out about this and saw the enormous power the king of the North will possess and smartly deposited the spirit in his unborn child for safe keeping. Of course, the spirit wasn’t meant for his vessel and he won’t be able to access the full powers of the spirit. Which explains why his gift isn’t balanced and why he has been trying ever since to even the scale. Now, if that were to be true, then Kieran’s balanced gifts will suggest that the spirit and his vessel are one. It will suggest that Kieran has walked this earth before in the time of the golden generation. This means that the good spirits sent Kieran to stop the original owner of the vessel which is the King of the North as he is said to be ungifted. He wasn’t sent to stop Lucien and him fighting the mad king will pave the path for the original vessel to come take what’s rightfully is. Oh dear, how blind have I truly been?


This was what I was assigned to stop but I have let happen. It’s too late to stop Kieran now as he must be in the south already. The king of the North must have been planning this for a long time now and must have used the prophecy to guide himself till this point. I should have seen through his request to have one of his gifted ones trained by us. He actually sent her to carry out his evil plans.


I heard someone enter my Chambers and turned to see Claudia locking the doors behind her.


“Mother, why did you allow him leave?” she asked.


“All that is happening is beyond just the thirst for vengeance. What is happening now has been foretold a long time ago. Two of the golden destinies from time past live amidst us as we speak.”

“Yes, we have two golden ones in the persons of Lucien and Kieran, but…………”


“No, there is another who has been alive long before Kieran and Lucien were born.”


“Another? Why haven’t we heard of him or sense his gift all this time?”


“That’s because his gift was taken from him but now he will have it back from the one that shouldn’t have housed it in the first place.”
She looked confused after what I said,


“Lucien’s gift was unlocked after whatever his father did to him; therefore the gift in him is his and his alone. How can his gift be for another?”


“You are wrong in what you just said. No one born in this generation will ever have his or her ungifted spirit ever unlocked by any spell or ritual. It’s impossible, I know that because the gift in Kieran is that of a spirit; the spirit from his previous life on this earth. The king of the North is something else as he has somehow managed to keep himself alive all these years waiting for one who has the special abilities of Necrocmacy to walk this Earth again. He found that person in Nero and he got him to do the work of bringing his locked spirit from the Underworld, which Nero was able to do. But instead of putting the powerful spirit in the right vessel, Nero kept it in his unborn son, which account for the unbalanced gift in Lucien.”


“You mean the king of the North is immortal?”


“He probably is, we can’t be certain.” “So, what does this all means?” she asked. This was the reason why I preferred discussing such things with Ellen, she is far more intelligent than any guardian here, except probably Rachel.


“It simply means I failed to see the unseen game that couldn’t be killed. I failed in my duty to prevent another tyrant from continuing from where Nero and his son stopped. Kieran was sent to stop this man and not Lucien. This man is actually the flesh of prophecy and not Kieran. There are actually two reincarnations in him and Kieran; one knows already but the other doesn’t. I thought Kieran was the broken destiny but now I know he is not; the king is the broken destiny while Kieran is the sword of vengeance. Kieran is a vengeful soul from the good spirits but the mystery question is who this broken man is from?”

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...... Well, I am getting my groove back, thanks guys for your tips and all...... I should have posted since on Saturday but the last two days have been crazy, something I will put in my next story, so watch out....
..... I guess this update clears the brilliant argument that has ensued since my absence. I see you EbonyQueen001, thanks for the tip. Tobadein, your head dey there. Thanks everyone all the same...
... Joviegghead, pwettyella, joanee20, hebenz, where una dey?...
Lol,I v been here ooo,na sch ooo,m following oo
As usual,nyc story

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Literature / Re: In Love With Her Pastor-episode 1 By Angelsss by Pwettyella(f): 3:01pm On Jun 11, 2016
CuteChiluv:
Angelsss , i cant acesss okadabooks oo, how i wan come get the full story,
Me too oo
Romance / Re: My Sexcapades In College by Pwettyella(f): 5:47am On Jun 09, 2016
Deanny:
Shout out to the ghost readers especially the ladies. Am yet to see your comments. Special thanks to pwettyella
Thanks Op
Romance / Re: My Sexcapades In College by Pwettyella(f): 12:14am On Jun 08, 2016
Deanny:
tanx luv
U welcome
Romance / Re: My Sexcapades In College by Pwettyella(f): 10:27pm On Jun 06, 2016
Deanny:
I nid y'all comments. That's the only way I can be moved to write
Nice story,keep it going
Education / Re: I Was Expelled From School, I'm Destroying My Life And Future, Help! by Pwettyella(f): 8:30am On Jun 03, 2016
A friend of mine got expelled too from sch,he cldnt tell his mum at dat tym cos dey had just lost their dad. A few other friends and I encouraged him to tell his mum which he later did.Yes his mum was angry with him,bt at d end of the day things turned out well for him.He is currently in UK studying.So op tell ur parents,dey deserve to kno,dats better dan killing urself cos u will be hurting them for d rest of their life.Pls inform them

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Literature / Re: In Love With Her Pastor-episode 1 By Angelsss by Pwettyella(f): 10:19pm On May 28, 2016
Angelsss:

Thanks dear..... I will share the link at once
Thank u Ma
Please Ma,m very sorry to bother u bt I didn't get the link
Thanks

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