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Spiritual fight.

Qualer:
That is a very profound explanation! seems you are speaking from 'first-hand nice-time' experience(s)?!

Must i speak from first hand experience? I read, that's where i learn things.

Pix nko?

Yes, op. Its possible, but it goes beyond walking up to someone and politely asking for sex. If you do it you'll be seen as a pervert. To have a carefree romp a.k.a fling with someone which according to you has to be mutual, then you have to be a good judge of situations and character. You have to be interesting, engaging, witty and most of all honest. That is when if u succeed in eventually bowling a girl over, you will receive a text d next day from the girl telling you she had a nice time. And dt is what it will be. A nice time. I hoped i helped you, op.

Nice write up. But seriously, r u dt rich and gullible?

He's got an attitude and doesn't give a bleep what others think of him.

mimsmonroe:
how can u say such? Irrespective of how wicked the world is there is still love and I believe the world can be a better place so dnt give up. It begins with u. Cheer up and happy val.

when i read your comment, i knew it had to be a lady. A caring one at that. Why don't you cheer him by being is val. Am sure he'll appreciate it.

DieeDiee:
My facts are straighter than a ruler. Pity same can't be said for you. That's what happens when you point of reference is Wikipedia and google where any Tom, Dick and Harry with internet access can post any nonsense in their head.

Yeah, like the nonsense you just posted. I couldn't have quite agree with you more.

DieeDiee:
You obviously need to open up a medical dictionary. That's the f**k.

It's people like you that make depressed people hide in shame and not seek the help they need. Depression is a sickness, psychosis is crazy. Get your facts straight lady!

And av you read up on depression like i suggested? Let's talk when YOU have gotten your facts straight.

mrkay101:
firstly, I never said that the story was true and even if its not we where still able to get the message which I still stand on the grounds that its depression.

what do u think could have lead the boy to think about committing such act. if u had gone thought the story which am sure u did. you see where he said dat he feels lonely and that his perentsy don't care about him that all they care about is he's sisters academics. he wanted a companion, he wanted someone to listen to him and care about him. he though about getting a girlfriend but due to the kind of pipo he was exposed to he got a wrong advise on hw to go about it.

depression comes from loweself esteem and that's what must have caused it.

now on whether the story is true or not.. I don't really care but the message dat has been passed.

guy, i totally agree with you. Some people are just too superficial to read between and beyond d lines.

DieeDiee:
If you knew anything about depression you would know it doesn't cause anyone to perform acts of evil. That is caused by some sort of psychosis. Depression is just another mental disorder. Depression is feelings of sadness and loneliness. Depressed people want nothing to do with the world. They are too involved with themselves and their depression to be busy planning to harm another. In fact depressed people YEARN to find a way to participate and be part of society. They YEARN to feel which is why they tend to cut themselves. Hurting another has no satisfaction for them all they crave is happiness, they get no satisfaction from hurting anyone. Violence triggers further into depression which is why they stay away from things like newspapers and TV which show violence. The boy in the story is what is called a psycho. Depressed people are not psychopaths.

u obviously need to open a Google page on depression. Depressed people are not psycho? WTF?

True or not isnt the point. But knowing that anything is possible in ds world in which we live. Thinking because you grew up in a loving close knit family makes everything okay with your world? This goes to show that we should pay extra attention to all we care about, pressure them to tell us what is wrong with them if we notice anything unusual about them. Some people think this is a fictitious tale, but i think we should glean the fact from it. Once my brother was involved in a shady deal with shady people.Thank God he 'fessed up in time but not before he costs my mom over 50k naira. Maybe if the girl in the story had done the same, she may have saved her brother's life.

What about nairaland account? What will happen to it?

Home alone
Conan the destroyer
Conan the barbarian
Mard

Boring

FriedPlantain:
[b]Mumuni, who was in a mental hospital was being reviewed for possible release.
When asked what he would do if released, he replied, "I am going to make a slingshot and come back here and break every damn window in the place."Obviously, his release was denied.
Six months later, the board was again considering his release and again asked him the same question. His reply was the
same."I am going to make a sling shot and come back here and break every damn window in the place." Again, he was turned down.
Several months later he was complaining to a fellow patient that he could never seem to get released. The patient asked him
what he said when they interviewed him, and Mumuni told him.
The patient said, "You will never get released with answers like that. You have to tell them what they want to hear. Let me give you some advice on how to answer them when they ask you questions."
So, after considerable coaching, Mumuni felt that he was ready.
So when the board met again, they again asked him what he would do if they let him out.
But this time he was ready. Mumuni said, "I am going to get a job, find an apartment and settle down."
"Good," they said, and then what ?" He said, "I want to meet a nice girl and start dating." They agreed he was making real progress and asked, "And then what ?" "One night when we are alone in my apartment, I am going to make passionate love to my girlfriend. I am going to take her dress off, and then take her bra off and lie her down on the bed."
"Yes," they said excitedly. "Then I am going to gently remove her panties," he continued. The board members were really getting excited now and asked, "Then what are you going to do ?" He said, " I am going to take the elastic out of those panties, make myself a slingshot, come back here and break every damn window in this place!

Friedplantain[/b]

he's never going home

Mariojane:
IT IS BETTER THEY DONT EXPLAIN ANYTHING TO THE CHILDREN IF THEY ARE NOT UP TO TEN YEARS. at times simple explanation can make children minds wander off to an unimaginable land. they may want to start practicing what they saw. i once walked into my dad bedroom nd saw they rolling togeda. i was young then nd they didnt see me enter nd i left the room without them knowing. i black it out and didnt read anytin to it until recently when i started having sex before i recollect wht happened. it is a good tin at time if you allow your children decipher some tins by themselves. your explanation might complicate the whole tin

I totally agree with you. You can't always be certain what they saw is eventually going to affect their lives in a negative way. I think all they need to do is admonish them by lay emphasis on knocking before entry. Trying to talk bird and bees with them is just gonna confuse them.
Funny enough, few years later ds kids will be watching American movies and will fast forward d sex scenes away because their parents are watching.

Aquarienne:
What kind of attention seeking is this one this afternoon? Nobody said the man is turning food down or tactfully refusing it. No reason was stated and he could very well be saying no cooking because he wants to treat his wife to a nice time.
All your long story was not necessary abeg.
But please go ahead and bask in the adulation you were hoping to get while typing that post.

I was actually going to make a reply based on that post too, but you said it all. That is why when you want to write an exam, there's always an instruction that says : read the questions carefully before answering the questions. I believed i read that the post said: no cooking TODAY. even my old-fashioned mom would like to take a break from the kitchen if just for a day.

I have had sex with a total of three guys before my current boyfriend and he twelve. I know this because he told me. It doesn't bother me because i trust him. He might be a ladies man in his previous life but since me, its been just the two of us. I prefer honesty in my relationship because the past has as sneaky way of coming back to bite you in the ass.

Dolphins are really great animals. I watched a movie about a dolphin who lost her tail and couldn't swim properly. I really felt for her.

B. Agric. Animal breeding and genetics. Wish to study English language at masters level.

Nice collections. I like it.

read before you quote.
dont be a keypad happy nairalander like a trigger happy police.[/quote]i learnt a new word today and i kinda like it: keypad-happy.
Anyways, to my comment. For someone who came from a circle of polygamist and has never personally felt monogamy, i know first hand about this shits. So, trust me when i say it doesn't end well.

It might just be the back, the front might be concealing. Just thinking.....

Maybe. But never in that moment. And it will take a lot of persuasion.

englishmart:
mediocrity

u think ds products are mediocre? Nawa for you o.

I won't say I'm an irrational person but instead describe my self as quite understanding. But when i noticed that it seems my boyfriend is getting almost addicted to social networks, i had no choice than to react to it and even accused him of preferring his e-friends to me.
So that may also be ur case o.p.
Do you spend more time with virtual friends than the real ones?

Yorubas will say 'ireti pipe ma n mu irewesi ba okan'. When you want something badly nd u r constantly being rejected, then one must feel disheartened. If Buhari kept loosing serially and he is still being persistent. He must either be intent on change in the country or he hates the country of his birth so much that he wants to live destruction in his wake.

If u dey read crew at the end of naija movies, u dey see things like stunt doubles, stunt coordinator? Na because them no get liver.

I think NOA is stupid to publicly announce such an intel and in such a foolish way. This kind of baseless announcement can cause social unrest and upheaval. Now, cobblers wey just dey manage with the token them dey earn no go one come out anymore, for fear of being branded a bomber.

Definitely a fake account

Sounds like me and my boyfriend. Nd i really wanna get married to him.