Politics › Re: I Inherited A Country Near Bankruptcy - Tinubu by qtx(m): 10:29am On Jul 03, 2025 |
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Travel › Re: Lagos Suspends BRT Lane Enforcement On Eko Bridge, Odo Iya-alaro by qtx(m): 10:26am On Jul 03, 2025 |
They have comot food from some uniform people's mouths. Lol. They used to arrest people there, causing gridlock, and they are not bothered. Good decision garnment |
Fashion › Re: Why Do Guys Nowadays Wear Earrings? by qtx(m): 12:35pm On Jul 02, 2025 |
tunnyl: I am really curious about this question. One time it was small unnoticeable earrings by nowadays its the dancing earrings with many guys putting them on.
I refuse to believe it is merely for fashion. The world has moved from normal to abnormal ways. You will be shocked at what the world will be like in the next 5 to 10 years if Christ has not come. |
Education › Re: Junior Secondary School Kilankwa, Abuja, With Cracked Walls, Collapsing Beams by qtx(m): 12:25pm On Jul 02, 2025 |
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Programming › Re: Join Our Cohort 32 And Become A Software Developer by qtx(m): 4:35pm On Jul 01, 2025 |
Think about this for a moment and for someone close. By the way, during the long vac, this would make more sense. A lot of kids can take advantage. Will get back. |
Family › Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by qtx(m): 11:18am On Jun 30, 2025 |
DitariIzon: My wife is an introvert that don't love social life and I'm an extrovert that love social life and it's frustrating me. She doesn't like parties or gatherings. She like inside house too much. What can I do Did you just wake up today to discover she is an introvert? What was the courtship period for? Intending couples need to stop jumping on each other all in the name of love to avoid situations like this in the future. |
Politics › Re: LASG Replies Peter Obi: Clarification On Demolition Of Property by qtx(m): 2:46pm On Jun 26, 2025 |
SoftSport: Peter Obi’s lies have been exposed, Big praise to the Lagos State Government for speaking up and starting an investigation to show the real truth. Mr supreme court,listen to yourself, something the LASG is just about to start investigation but u have concluded. I think you are too fast to try the case in your own court and concluding in a hurry. Emotional uncontrol is very childish and unfortunate. Honestly! |
Romance › Re: Dear Men Of Nairaland, Your Brother Once Said... by qtx(m): 2:44pm On Jun 26, 2025 |
Ruthie0224: Dear men of Nairaland,
Your brother once said this...... Of course it's true that good women exist. It's not possible for only bad women to exist. Although they are scarce, but they exist. Just like good men as well exist. |
Family › Re: I Hate My Marriage Because I Can't Travel Around For Fun As When Single - Lady by qtx(m): 2:26pm On Jun 26, 2025 |
Kobicove: If my wife posts trash like that she won't even last up to 6pm in my house that day! 
These days people just post whatever nonsense they like online just to chase clout Na man u be. Unfortunately, many people did not even notice that the lady in question, by her post, just disrespected her husband. I wonder how the man feels right now. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran Lost Over 30 Generals In The 12-day War With Israel.(photo) by qtx(m): 9:59am On Jun 26, 2025 |
PigTormentor: Just another zionist propaganda. Lies and more lies. News source is from Iran na? Abi u no check the source ni ? |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi's 64th Birthday: Obidient Group Suspends Call For Donations by qtx(m): 4:57pm On Jun 24, 2025 |
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Phones › Re: Pls Why Does My Phone Show This by qtx(m): 4:45pm On Jun 24, 2025 |
rashfat: Hi! There is this app on my phone "phone cloner" i do not know how it got there and i also can't remove it. Who can help please? Factory Reset should resolve your wahala. It could be a hamrful backdoor script |
Politics › Re: Armed Herdsmen Attack Wannune, Benue 48 Hours After Tinubu's Visit by qtx(m): 3:51pm On Jun 21, 2025 |
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Family › Re: Accommodating A Pregnant 14 Year Old Girl by qtx(m): 8:41pm On Jun 17, 2025 |
Obavoh: I came back from work yesterday to see my Wife’s younger Sister in my house.
I was surprised because no one told me she was coming. I greeted and welcomed her.
I later called my Wife aside and asked her why she did not inform me that her sister was coming to pay us a visit. That was when she broke the news to me that the girl was 3 months pregnant and had to leave the village because of shame.
My Wife begged me and even called the girl to come and kneel and beg me to allow her stay until she puts to bed. I was very angry at my wife for that.
I would love to help the girl but the problem is
1) My Father-in-law is not aware that his Daughter is pregnant. Only my Wife and Mother-in-law knows.
2) My Mother-in-law has not called to plead with me to let the Girl stay under my roof. My Wife asked me to call their mother to confirm but I think it should be the other way around.
3) I am currently managing a one room apartment with my Wife and 7 children. The place might not be conducive for a first time pregnant Girl. Feeding her is not a problem.
4) I am afraid I would be the one to pay her Medical bills, antenatal and all. When I asked my Wife she said her mother would pay but I don’t believe this judging from personal experience.
5) What if the girl suffers miscarriage or complications? God forbid. I might be held responsible.
Please advise me on what to do. My creator sees my heart that I would love to help but I am afraid. Should I let her stay or send her away? How do I do this without losing the respect of my Wife and Mother-in-law. What is the best way to help the Girl? omo that number 3). above scares me? how can you manage? 7 children? wetin una chop wen una just de produce like that with out enough space? On the matter, guy, what do you want us to tell you that youb want to increase the 9 to 10+the little baby coming to 11? look you cant handle this situation. At best, advise your wife to ensure your father in law is aware and that you will speak to him as a man to manage the situation and there wont be any trouble. Tell the man to take charge. In a family anything can go wrong and he must manage the situation as the father of the family. |
Nairaland General › Re: What Is That Legal Mistake You Made Without Knowing? by qtx(m): 8:30pm On Jun 17, 2025 |
HelenaWills: I'm excluded. . how manage? You are a suspect honestly! You have a query to answer |
Nairaland General › Re: What Is That Legal Mistake You Made Without Knowing? by qtx(m): 4:44pm On Jun 17, 2025 |
HelenaWills: 40 or less. . How were u able to type less than 40 characters and it went? |
Phones › Re: Top 4 Places To Purchase Gadgets In Lagos by qtx(m): 4:11pm On Jun 17, 2025 |
Chachalogo: Here to read comments. Biko when did nairaland starts this 40 characters stuff? In fact very annoying I must say. I guess its bc of those rushing to make front page buy puting a Dot to occupy space |
Politics › Re: Presidency Clears Air On Tinubu’s National Honour To Aisha Yesufu by qtx(m): 9:20pm On Jun 15, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: Choas As Ganduje, APC North-East Chairman Endorse Tinubu Without Shettima (Vid) by qtx(m): 9:15pm On Jun 15, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: He Demonstrated Ignorance In His Comment - Kenneth Okonkwo Replies Eno (Video) by qtx(m): 7:24am On Jun 15, 2025 |
Chai Nigerians una get bad mouth o. Someone said Kenneth has failed in everything. The problem I have with kenneth is that the man seems to pose as the most righteous man after kissing all the women in nollywood o. Lol |
Food › Re: Where Did Garri Originate From? by qtx(m): 4:30pm On Jun 13, 2025 |
Mariangeles: Recently, my sister asked me what language is eba? I thought about the question for some seconds and answered I think it's Yoruba language. Then, she asked again what then is the Igbo name for eba? I paused, gave it some thoughts, then answered utara. (You'd relate if you grew up in the southwest) Then it occurred to me that in most part of Igbo land, garri is not that common. In Igbo land, it is more common to hear utara akpu for pounded cassava meal, utara ji for pounded yam meal, and utara ede for pounded cocoyam meal, but there's almost no such term as utara garri .
So, it got me wondering....
Where did garri originate from? What region created it first? Who knows the history of this wonderful staple that has been saving the lives of Nigerians since time immemorial?  Who can trace its history? I know of garri Ijebu I also know that the people of Delta and Edo states are known for garri production.
In my hometown, garri frying is not common. My people prefer to turn their cassava to akpu. I also know the people of Enugu reserve most part of their cassava produce for abacha
So guys, let's connect this link... Is garri a staple in your hometown? My village gang ganggggg that is where garri was first invented. And we no de play with am o |
Health › Re: Did You Know Aging Doesn’t Happen Gradually — It Comes In Waves? by qtx(m): 1:14pm On Jun 13, 2025 |
New discoveries every everyday. Knowledge keeps changing all the time. Cool |
Politics › Re: President Tinubu Confers National Honours On 66 Nigerians (Full List) by qtx(m): 2:33pm On Jun 12, 2025 |
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Properties › Re: Rate The Contractor's Work by qtx(m): 3:23pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
obembet: If you are o compare this building and rate the contact on the stake of 1-10
What will be your rate? The first picture is the work by the contractor which is normal , and the second picture is the rendered image by the computer, so which one are you asking us to rate? |
Romance › Re: Benefits Of Having Older Woman As Lover by qtx(m): 12:56pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
[quote author=CasNova post=135697533][/quote]The main benefit is missing, which is INHERITANCE.  |
Career › Re: Do Not Shout At A Married Staff If The Wife Or Husband Is Present In The Office by qtx(m): 12:54pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
Thundafireseun: Just imagine a solider slapping a married man in front of his wife and children 😆😆😆 Soldier na spirit? Omo soldier na human being too, him go must collect, anything wei wan happen make e happen. |
Politics › Re: Ground Rent: Avoid Diplomatic Problems, Falana Warns Wike Against Sealing Embass by qtx(m): 10:45am On Jun 10, 2025 |
helinues: Why can't those embassies also pay their debt?
The country which they are from, do they allow such? If your country is owing trillions and is yet to pay, how will they have the conscience to seal up premises of embassies or other organizations for owing a few million? At best they should have given them some time to pay. Wike is just being overzealous, jare; he is trying to impress some people. Let him touch those embassies and see the wahala Nigeria will get. Ignorance is suicidal indeed. |
Politics › Re: I Stand With Tinubu For His Courageous Decision To End Fuel Subdidies- Alex Otti by qtx(m): 2:44pm On Jun 09, 2025 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Earn 50k/weekly Editing Viral Reels With Just Your Smartphone In Just 7days by qtx(m): 1:52pm On Jun 07, 2025 |
LOL. MAN MUST WACK NA . |
Crime › Re: Tears As One Family Buries 11 Members Killed By Suspected Herdsmen In Benue by qtx(m): 9:51am On Jun 03, 2025 |
franchasng: Yet the man that calls himself President has not issued any official statement or call for state of emergency.
The man that calls himself Chief of Army Staff have not been sacked
And the President have not fired the National Security Adviser with immediate effect!
The Inspector General of Police have not been fired with arrest 
The Chief of Defense Staff have not been summoned to the statehouse, sacked and arrested to show action.
But they are busy plotting how to reelect a certified failure who appointed his fellow corrupt failures  What does that tell you? Simple! That the government and politicians don't care about the people. What matters to them is their personal interests. How do we know? Bring up a topic about 2027 election and see them go haywire. |
Travel › Re: Please Help! . I Have A Serious Phobia For Traveling. (Graphic Photos) by qtx(m): 9:43am On Jun 03, 2025 |
Exgee: Hi guys, I don't know what's wrong with me. Growing up, my best moment was whenever I was traveling(By road). I used to enjoy this.
But since I clocked 25, I no longer find it pleasurable traveling, I'm always scared of traveling. I fear that I may be involved in an accident that could maim or kill me. I have not been able to share this with anyone cos I don't know how to. Some years ago, my friend and I had a terrible ghastly accident that almost costed us our dear lives. We were returning back from the village in the early(6am) hours of the morning and before we would exit the village, the brakes of our vehicle(Lexus 350) failed and the speed of the car tripled. I saw death, I came in direct contact with death, but God saved me. My friend who was driving was quickly rushed to the hospital where he spent a week but I was lucky to not be much affected. I only had a cut on my lips and head. The vehicle somersaulted countless times. Farmers who were on their way to the farm that morning and heard the sound of the car somersaulting refused coming to help us. They said they didn't want to see Dead bodies at that early time of the morning, they didn't know we survived.
Sometimes again, I had another accident. I was about running mad when I eventually managed to pull out of the car, I had use my head to hit everywhere. These two accidents involving two different cars were all sold as scraps cos the damage were irreparable. And if they were to be fixed, the money would be more than imagine.
Again, my father died from a motorbike (Vespa) accident many years ago while I was just 7years. He didn't die on the spot, he even brought himself back home that night unaided. No external injuries but he had internal bleeding which wasn't detected in time, at 4am, mum took him to the hospital as pains in his chest became intense and at 7am, he gave up the ghost. The psychological impact of all these still affect me, I guess.
How do I overcome this please? Its so bad that whenever a loved one is traveling, I will be saying in my mind that the person might die on the road and that we may never see again. God pls help me!
God has saved me countless times and if I begin to write here, we may not go to bed tonight. To God alone be all the Glory! Get born again. That fear will vanish, and nothing will happen to you. The devil is the owner of fear. God wipes it out, and you will travel anytime you feel like, without a single thought of fear. |
Crime › Re: Enugu Ritualist: I Still Can’t Believe It- Uche Kingsley (Uche Agumba), You Too? by qtx(m): 5:01pm On May 30, 2025 |
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