₦airaland Forum

Conestone:
I'm not too sure of this question 😂, but what were the things people complained about their government that is still unsolved till this very day? Or what was the one thing you missed about their government?

GEJ and BAT. lol

DoWhatThouWilt:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/2025/04/23/insecurity-in-nigeria-tinubu-inherited-extremely-bad-government-ribadu/

When u fight an honest and humble man that means well and push him out of office, when you come in, nature and natural forces will fight you. They did all kinds of things to remove GEJ, he left without fighting back, they got into the office and more than 12 years now, its getting worse. We de kamkpe like OBJ de watch. make una rule o, una must rule us.

That is to tell you people have priorities and your priority is a function of the level of knowledge you carry. Mark keeps reinvesting his money while Jux family try to impress the world. The last time i checked neither jux nor his wife's family came to the top 100 Billionaires in Nigeria or Africa (if am wrong, pls correct me). But hey! at the end of it all, it's their money so they can spend it the way they like.

Chilipepper:
Which brand of toothpaste is your favourite

chewing stick nor ni

floss:
Ok

Primitivity of the highest order.

chi900:
Nigerian lady shares how her relationship with her boyfriend ended because his mom doesn’t like Igbo tribe

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MFk7HpnMn20

That iya must be arrested for hate speech.
But the guys sef na wa o. Chai, na real mummy's lad.

Ken4Christ:
Those I am talking to know themselves. Go to YouTube and hear out from some victims. You are a kid in ministry.

hmmmm, I hear Methuselah in ministry.

busariabeyx24:
Why I Want to Separate from My Wife

Our relationship has become emotionally unsustainable for me, and after long periods of silence, inner conflict, and attempts to make things work, I have come to the difficult conclusion that separation is the healthiest path forward—for both of us. There are several deeply rooted issues that have contributed to this decision, and I believe it’s important to lay them out clearly.

1. Lack of Intimacy and Weaponization of Sex
Intimacy has all but vanished in our relationship. What’s more painful is that she uses sex as a tool—to control, punish, or manipulate. This has left me feeling undesired, unwanted, and emotionally abandoned. Intimacy is not just physical, it's also about connection, vulnerability, and shared closeness—and we have none of that left.

2. Emotional Abandonment and Loneliness
While she often chooses to go out and spend hours with her friends, I’m left alone in the house, feeling isolated and neglected. Even when we’re in the same space, we’re disconnected. Her priorities have shifted away from our relationship and family, and I feel like a ghost in my own home.

3. Neglect of Parental Responsibilities
Despite being a trained teacher, she makes no effort to support the children academically. Their homework, school needs, and learning challenges fall entirely on me, even though I’m also the primary provider. It hurts to watch our children miss out on guidance that she’s perfectly capable of giving.

4. Communication Breakdown
We barely talk. When we do, it's either transactional or tense. There's no emotional sharing, no joint planning, no meaningful conversation. We exist like two strangers under the same roof.

5. Disregard for My Input and Support
Time and again, I’ve offered her advice that could have helped her avoid unnecessary stress or mistakes, but she disregards me—only to later face the exact consequences I warned about. It feels like my voice has no value in her life.

6. Encouraging Poor Habits in the Kids
She not only neglects the kids’ school work, but she also encourages them to go to the next neighborhood to play or hang out—at times when they should be studying or resting. It undermines my efforts to instill discipline and focus in our children.

7. Lack of Respect for My Hustle
She shows no interest or concern in how I make money, the pressure I’m under, or the sacrifices I make to keep the family going. There’s no appreciation, no empathy, just entitlement and expectation. I feel invisible, like a machine that’s supposed to produce without rest or recognition.

8. Misplaced Priorities
Her life seems to revolve around eating, watching TV, and spending hours gossiping with friends. There’s little to no effort toward improving our household, our relationship, or our children’s future. That kind of passivity is damaging, not just for our marriage but for our family as a whole.

9. Manipulation by Friends
She allows her so-called friends to influence how she treats me, even to the point of disrespect. Rather than defending or standing by me as a partner, she lets their words shape her actions against me. This betrayal by proxy is incredibly painful.

10. Ongoing Emotional Disregard
As I write this, she has been outside gossiping with a friend for over three hours—leaving me inside, emotionally abandoned once again. This isn’t an isolated event; it’s a pattern. I’ve begged for her time, attention, and partnership, but she chooses others over and over again.

I wish we can hear her own side, but unfortunately i know we cant.
However, you didnt say when and how this problem started. I cant take side until i am able to know what caused this. besides i dont want to start assuming things in my head. How did it start? how many years in marriage are you guys? How many kids and their ages?

No where is safe in Nigeria right now gais

Just the same way 30 bishop's were arranged by bat right? De play

Sirchiboy:
I am finished

Sirchiboy:
I am finished

I guess that message was to awaken your mind to start thinking and developing yourself. Money will not come untill you learn a strong skill and start solving unique problems.but if you are just there doing the basic things which everyone is doing then your pay will continue to be basic. Learn a skill and lean on the help of God to break forth . Good morning bc from that text, your day has just broken

Sirchiboy:
I am finished

I guess that message was to awaken your mind to start thinking and developing yourself. Money will not come untill you learn a strong skill and start solving unique problems.but if you are just there doing the basic things which everyone is doing then your pay will continue to be basic. Learn a skill and lean on the help of God to break forth . Good morning bc from that text, your day has just broken

Reference:
There has been a rail line to Ibadan for a few years now. Why can stockyards be built at Ibadan and the Ore spur such that inland bound containers can proceed by road from those places until a proper national rail netwtk is established.

It will be a lot more profitable and strategic than passenger carrying railways alone.

Lagos grabs everything that is the reason. If am wrong, correct me sha.

OMG. i hope not many fatalities?

Racoon:
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/business/business-news/787965-special-report-inside-the-excessive-bank-charges-killing-nigerians.html

Not surprised at this. that is the flagship of BAT my boi. No clear cut avenues of setting up income generation systems like factories, industries, or other money making businesses to make money for the govt but only knows how to apply multiple taxations to exploit the common man. If you doubt me, see what is happening in Lagos as a case study. Lagos has no industries or any other important business to generate money for the govt apart from multiple taxations. Taxing, taxing, and taxing- that is all they do in Lagos. The prototype is what he copied to use and rule the country with.

FreeSpirited:
You will never understand what it means to fall into grave sexual temptation until you start living a sexually pure life or until you decide to work for God.
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I'm not yet a pastor in full time ministry but I can tell you the truth based on series of temptation I get these days, the work of a pastor is one of the hardest when it comes to standing against sexual temptation.
Yesterday I also perfectly understood why pastors fall for married women or ladies whose marriage or relationship is in crises during counseling.
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The truth is counselling a heart broken woman is a big trap. A big trap that can only take God and courage to not fall into. You will be shocked that the person you are counseling is so vulnerable and sexually primed that the greatest emotions flowing through her at that time is a urge to be touched, cuddled, caressed and knacked. I saw everything last night, and my defence began to crack, wane, weakened and almost dissolved completely while the lady was begging time for me to touch her.
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It was yesterday I realized that deciding to live a holy life or deciding to be a pastor means that you have only signed yourself into continuous sexual temptation. No wonder most pastors fail! I thought I had won the demon of temptation until I experienced the dimension of counseling a broken married lady.
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I won't go into the story. It's a long crazy one. But pastors will understand what I'm saying .... And if you have not counselled a heartbroken woman either married or single... You can never understand. How I escaped without crashing totally is a mystery.

Never you dare counsel a woman/lady in that situation alone. Let your wife or one or two brethren be present; otherwise, you too are looking for temptation to test your ability to resist, which is very dangerous.

We de see the light before?

mannobi:
Tinibu is way smarter than all of you. You go just kpai ontop him matter if you don't mind your own lives.

BAT is the president of our country; this is not just about his matter. It is a matter of our country. It's like some people are still living in caves o

TimeManager:
When we say Jagaban is the god of Politics, it's a fact. Look how all political maneuvering and secretive moves of the opposition are being easily
exposed in a very short time. Even the PDP Governors coming out to reject the idea of a coalition. And these are what Jagaban had done in the past catching the ruiling party unawares. By the time, they knew, it was too late. It's easy when someone is pulling the string and they were following but now that they have the big task of replicating it, they are here messing and farting around. It's just like Messi making difficult things in football look easy but when other players wanted to do it, they realize how difficult it is. I don't like talking too much.

-Kiss the truth!

You sound like BAT has become a god.
BAT my boi is not a god. remember, that on his day an expert swimmer will drown even in a small stream behind his house So dont be too sure because tomorrow is not in anybody's hands.

Chilipepper:
😂

Hmmm, I smell gamalin. Oga husband, be careful. Do not say i didnt warn you o.

Ken4Christ:
Those I am talking to know themselves. Go to YouTube and hear out from some victims. You are a kid in ministry.

Who told you the court takes evidence from YouTube? Ignorance is suicidal indeed. People create content to survive, and without any agency censoring what they post, you go and watch and begin to speak with authority. You must be a joker. Haven't you seen people deleting YouTube videos when the chips are down? Trust those videos at your own risk, bro.

wy?

bigtt76:
🤣🤣

why did u do this to me?

this guys

Krismas:
On Thursday, nearly 1,000 current and former Israeli Air Force reservists signed a letter demanding the release of the hostages held in #Gaza (https://twitter.com/hashtag/Gaza), even if it means completely ending the war on Gaza.

In response, Israeli Air Force Commander Major General Tomer Bar, with full support from Chief of Staff Lt. Gen. Eyal Zamir, has decided that any service member who signed the letter released this morning will be immediately and permanently dismissed from the IOF.

The IOF emphasized that it cannot tolerate "active-duty servicemembers" signing a letter that expresses a lack of trust in the military.

MUMU ISRAEL NEVA SEE ANYTHING

Dismissal is miled , why not jail all of them? This is sabotage of the highest order. alab nansense

Botragelad:
Source;
https://www.gbnews.com/news/hamas-sues-government-labour-terror-group-designation-riverway-law

What are they, and in which court? An illegal body suing a legitimate country, and one of the most powerful nations for that matter. Today is not 1st of April o Hamas.

Ken4Christ:
It's worrisome to see common trends amongst most GOS or Church Founders especially in Nigeria.

1. They abuse their powers by arresting and putting in prison anyone who speaks against them. What then is the difference between them and politicians?

2. They oppress younger ministers they perceive carry unusual grace. And when such ministers try to leave to establish their own ministries, they frustrate them.

I could go on and on.

These evil trends should stop. Otherwise, they will be cast away on judgement day. God is no respecter of persons.

For all i care, your statements are speculative and until you start talking in terms of evidence and specifics, you are a rumour monger.

Goodadvice01:
Good morning people. I noticed that majority of users on this site live in Lagos.

Most of my childhood friends have traveled to Lagos.

That aside, I want to relocate to Lagos. I have an uncle that used to stay in orile (2018).

I can camp in his house for the main time.

If I come to Lagos, can I get a job that can pay me like 100k and above every month. I have my waec and neco. I just turned 25.

I feel if I change environment, things will begin to go well for me.. and I heard there are lots of jobs in Lagos.

Here in the east, no work or company. Only Keke bus business that's thriving

Please can I make it in Lagos? I need suggestions. This is a life changing decision please

Bros with O'level you want to come and find a job of 100k in Lagos? See, let me tell you what many won't tell you here in order not to hurt you. Just take your time and learn a skill. Phone repairs, computer repairs, electronics repair, carpentry, hair barbing etc—bros come with a skill; dont just carry waec kpali only hold for hand de enter lag. Some news you guys here about lag atimes no de correct like that o . many people even graduates de street without jab. Listen to me and help yourself.

1899Milan:
Ultimately, let everyone adjust to their local labor requirements. All others will come second

That is where a country like yours is finished and don't ask me why.

Cherrybae:
Can't you corrected someone without spoken trash

okay sir doesnt vexing

Cherrybae:
Trump is does what he promise. I am supported Trump for this action.

Immigrants wants to took over America. This is mot good.

Immigrants should went back to there countries and development there country.

I am stooding with Trump for his actions

Are you just trying to be funny, or that is how your English is?