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Romance › Re: Advice Needed: My Fiancee Wants To Dump Me Because Of Euro (screenshot) by queencalipso(f): 7:30pm On Jun 16, 2016
Mille:
CC: queencalipso

The Euro is being played 2pm, 5pm and 8pm everyday. My girl is behaving like the Op and thinks I'm cheating but you guys have to understand the way we men think.

I'm not in support of all the rude talk of the boyfriend but please, can ladies desist from asking us to choose between You and football. Both are very important and We know our choice.

Last time out, bae was at my place. She stopped me from seeing 2 matches but When it was almost 8pm, I told her I was going. She was like, "You have to choose between me and the Euro". Tough decision but You guessed my choice.

I sure wasn't going to miss Italy Vs Belgium. We resolved it later sha on the bed
Lolz!! But don't you reply her messages or try to call her when you are not watching? At least you gave up two matches for her and even had the time for settlement on bed. Same can not be said for the op based on the chat. BTW, did you call her a b!tch when she asked you to choose between she and the game? I guess not.

Note: am not categorically saying the guy is cheating that's why I said she should have more than enough reason to end it if she so wish. All am saying is euro 2016 is so lame an excuse for not replying her messages or even having little time for her. And am also sure the euro is not the reason for his rudeness.

Again, what happened to the time b4 and after the three matches? Those times were enough to talk to the woman you claim to love. I also understand from the write up that they use to watch match together but this time its different; that calls for a lot of concern.

Am sure your settlement with your girl on bed was after the 8pm match wink Abi no be so? cheesy
Romance › Re: Advice Needed: My Fiancee Wants To Dump Me Because Of Euro (screenshot) by queencalipso(f): 6:30pm On Jun 16, 2016
Firstly: I don't think is the euro 2016 that is making him not to reply your messages or give you attention because am sure this is not the first time euro is being played and according to you. He wasn't like this before. Maybe there is another special euro that is taking his attention and making him call you a bitch without bothering how you will feel.

Secondly: I don't know much about this euro. But is the euro being played every minute of the day that he can't even spare out time for her? Does it mean that he doesn't do any other thing apart from watching euro 2016, things like making and receiving calls, sending messages, going out for his business or even visit his friends and argue about the euro? If so then I will advice she should wait after the euro. But if he have time for other things but you then I think you are becoming inconsiquencial in his life and what you feel or think matters not to him anymore.

Thirdly: how much will he be paid after the euro that he is willing to throw away his relationship of 5yrs? And even if he's betting on the games, business people still squeeze out time for their loved ones.

Finally op; its not about not having time because no one does, its about priorities and things we consider important in our lives. When someone else starts taking your place, silly excuses like euro 2016 becomes a reason for not giving you attention.

Am not going to ask you to dump him that's entirely your decision cz no one here knows him better than you do. But if you will, mk sure you have more than enough reason to do so, you can wait after the euro 2016 and see what happens next. Compare his attitude now and the way he was before after which you can draw your conclusion. If truly he has replaced you, you can choose to walk away before he dumps you or you can wait for him to mk it official; your choice.

Just prepare your mind for the worst and be ready to accept your fate, whether positive or negative. Good luck.
Romance › Re: Who Rock It Better ? by queencalipso(f): 5:46pm On Jun 16, 2016
They are all cool but I will go for 2.
Romance › Re: Linda Ikeji Shows Her Sexy Body Curves...see Photos by queencalipso(f): 5:44pm On Jun 16, 2016
The second pic is cool.
Politics › Re: Effect Of Failed Promises, Youths Pounced On President Buhari (photos) by queencalipso(f): 10:38pm On Jun 15, 2016
Boss13:
This is ridiculous. If certain youth in this country continue to fall for this and demand for this then what a future this country has. I am amazed that considerable effort is put on misplaced issues.

The youth should be demanding for economic prosperity, public accountability and transparency and also inclusion in governance.

I shake my head.

Politics › Re: Effect Of Failed Promises, Youths Pounced On President Buhari (photos) by queencalipso(f): 10:28pm On Jun 15, 2016
MalcoImX:
Omokri kids. Elections are not done on Twitter. You go on trying yo push a hashtag created by #PDPHouseOfHunger just to ridicule the War on Corruption. It won't work. What hasn't been said about Buhari. It won't work. It's corruption fighting back. Stealing is now corruption.
Which war on corruption? angry When the one leading the war is soaked in corruption. Just to tender common waec cert he hired 20 sans; grin I wonder what will happen if he's asked to show his war college cert. Am sure he will hire all the sans in and out of Nigeria.

So much for man if integrity.


Just negodu!! undecided

Tell the man to go to his archives and bring out the cert so he can continue his joke of leadership abi na rulership I go call am sef. How difficult is that ehh!!?
Romance › Re: Which One Among Them Is The Best Dating Advice For Every Girl (photo) by queencalipso(f): 7:45pm On Jun 15, 2016
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Romance › Re: My Fiance Is Angry With Me Because I Innocently Called Her This by queencalipso(f): 7:31pm On Jun 15, 2016
DLondonboiy:
if babe don see another bobo wey dey burst her head...she can leave you for any reason, any reason at all...

move on my brother...tis over
Kai! Nawa o!! The way some people reason and the kind of advice they give for this nl dey tire person.

Like seriously!! Did you just type that;; angry
Romance › Re: What Would You Do In This Terrible Situation? by queencalipso(f): 7:16pm On Jun 15, 2016
Take both wife and kids to their father. Thank God they are still kids. Him never spend plenty.

Then marry another wife case closed.


But on a more serious note, the man should check him self o! Maybe he doesn't have enough sperm cells to impregnate a woman; at least one of the children should have been his. Or does it mean the woman sleeps with the neighbour only during her fertile period? Something isn't right.





My thoughts o!!!! Before those that will not agree with me come for my head. lipsrsealed
Romance › Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by queencalipso(f): 8:41am On Jun 15, 2016
ziego:
Most a times ladies forget easily how good u have been to them, have been with this girl for 2years now. One day we had a little argument just because some bought her soro (china android ) she had the got to tell me to list all the things I have done for her since two years. This was a girl I do pay her lesson fees, give her cheques and cash via bank wire, bought cloths for, shoes, I was listing them and she was saying yes yes like it will stop on the way may be she will win. But the one that shocked her was her monthly subscription for 2years which amount to about 57, 000

That was when she shot up.

I was patient enough to list those things


Three good times I traveled from calabar to Lagos just to see her which cost me not less than 30k each.

Little things that matters so much they forget

Why do ladies forget the care of a man so easily


A man Will single handedly train a girl in Skul she pay him back with break up.

Its very very bad
Hmm!! It's both ways dear
Romance › Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by queencalipso(f): 12:58am On Jun 15, 2016
Respect55:
Why not call a spade a spade and not taking sides. Can u say such to ur bf. Dat u r just managing him. Ur b[bbenefactor[b][/b]. Smh
That's what the op said, that he's her benefactor, that doesn't mean its true, its his word against her's. Besides even if he's her benefactor that doesn't mean she should continue taking all his insults BC she's afraid to die. You forget that everything has its limit and maybe she reached hers. It gets to a point where you will choose to die than continue being at the mercy of someone who thinks he's your God, he subjects you to the cruelest of his will and expects you not to fight back and when you do, he tags you ungrateful.

Remember, he threw the first punch.
Romance › Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by queencalipso(f): 12:25am On Jun 15, 2016
adellam16:
he is d one that came to tell us d story on nairaland, how r we sure she begged him. It could b a lie o
My dear see the way all these guys wan chop off my head o!! Na op mk decision, na him carry matter come nl after him Don decide, no be make we give our opinion?

Honestly I don't know why you guys are taking it personal. Am not saying the op should take her back rather he should let her go instead of making her believe that he has forgiven her when in truth he didn't. That is deception and wickedness to an extent.
Romance › Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by queencalipso(f): 11:52pm On Jun 14, 2016
sukkot:
dayummmmmmm shocked

no be only path ways, pathfinder ways nkor ?
Ok thanks for the correction. I meant part ways.
Romance › Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by queencalipso(f): 11:03pm On Jun 14, 2016
ofexpryz:
and u tink taking her bak wholly is spending all his money on her?
Nope! But being the way they use to be before. Relationships are not always rosy, there are good and bad times and that includes having misunderstanding too. And if it can't be the way it were before, then what's the point? You both can path ways rather than managing each other.
Romance › Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by queencalipso(f): 10:57pm On Jun 14, 2016
[quote author=aprilwise post=46578623][/quote]Exactly dear! For every action, there is equal and opposite reaction.
Romance › Re: What Are Ladies Turning Into? Pls Judge (snapshots) by queencalipso(f): 9:14pm On Jun 14, 2016
Hmmmm!!! Op is well oo!
Romance › Re: Ex-miss Bumbum Contestant, Deborah Dantas Attempts Suicide by queencalipso(f): 9:07pm On Jun 14, 2016
I didn't see any bum bum sad
Politics › Re: Grazing Bill: Anambra Assembly Backs Out by queencalipso(f): 9:00pm On Jun 14, 2016
Very good decision.
Romance › Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by queencalipso(f): 8:43pm On Jun 14, 2016
SexyStrawberry:
Don't mind these yeye guys forming boss Upandan, na girls dey cause am sha, some girls say if a guy raises his hand on them, that will be d end of the relationship, as for me, I will never insult, but once he opens his mouth to insult me over an argument, relationship ti over be that o! make I see werrin wan carry me go back, the insultive guy I met here on Nairaland can testify to that
Thanks swthrt; most of these guys can be very annoying at times.
Romance › Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by queencalipso(f): 8:41pm On Jun 14, 2016
Oyiboman69:
I want to like your post but knowing you are a lady,made me to conclude that you're being judgemental.



I wan
Judgemental? No honey! Am stating the obvious. For God sake they were having a fight and just like someone said, all is fair in war. He started the insult first and she retaliated out of anger; why is he now crying wolf? Remember the op didn't tell us the hurtful things he said to her.
If anyone is being judgemental here, is the guys that are supporting his decision based on his own side of the story which of course if you read through it with an open mind you will realise what a jerk the op is (apologies for the word). The girl understands that it was a fight which they both lost their temper and said hurtful things to each other, so she apologised. why can't the op see it that way too and let it go if he wants to take her back; rather he held onto her words and came to nl to form boss. Do you think the girl would have come to beg if she held onto his own words;

Who knows, he probably said worse things than just managing her. lipsrsealed
Romance › Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by queencalipso(f): 2:24pm On Jun 14, 2016
Minemrys:
would u take back a guy wholly if he told u he was managing u? No matter what u said to him? In fact u can't take him back if he just told u, u were an ugly bitch. Gals should stop playing the victim when the truth's obvious. U can't tell s0me0ne u claim to love, u're just managing the pers0n. U inadvertently c0mpared the pers0n to a thing which is equivalent to nothing.
Worse was said to me honey. But you know what? I didn't take him back because every time I look at him I can't help but remember thsoe words; i was sincere to him about it. Because I couldn't accept him wholly, I didn't bother accepting him back. That's my point. Anything worth doing is what doing well. If he can't take her back wholly, he should be sincere to her and let her go.
Celebrities › Re: Kemi Olunloyo's Tribute To OJB Jezreel by queencalipso(f): 1:03pm On Jun 14, 2016
OJB jezreal is dead shocked oh my God!!! After all the kidney transplant. Rip to him.
Romance › Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by queencalipso(f): 12:56pm On Jun 14, 2016
eiBADAn:
Honestly, there is no lie in all I said. I'm not trying to brag, but my dad is a billionaire and she knows this. I'm currently planning to leave the country to further my studies for the benefits of the family company. I had to apply for a visa for her which was refused. A blessing in disguise I must say. Now she wants me to try again. I have dropped her sisters CV with my dad tho he doesn't know them. She wants me to buy her brother a phone. Also my expensive wristwatch she wants me to dash her brother. Some times when we argue, she would be like, don't forget we are not married o. That got me thinking a lot. I talk to her mom so I don't know how to dump her without much hassles. I have a very soft heart which she's capitalizing on. I love and I'm sad as I'm typing this. I don't know what to do.
Ndo 'o'
Romance › Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by queencalipso(f): 12:10pm On Jun 14, 2016
Dejideji1:
Well I'm not surprised, it's only natural for you to defend your fellow woman. Even if she commits more grievous offenses you would still defend her. I don't expect any guy on this thread to take your comments serious anyway.
Hey honey! I didn't ask you or any1 else to take me serious that's entirely your choice and am cool with it. My point is in an argument pple could say anything out of anger that doesn't necessary mean that they meant their words. His about what he said to her?
Romance › Re: OMG!! Just Imagine What They Are Doing To This Lady (photo) by queencalipso(f): 9:41am On Jun 14, 2016
A lot of people are so dam crazy. I know they aren't Nigerians. Indi 'a ala
Romance › Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by queencalipso(f): 9:24am On Jun 14, 2016
But you just said you guys were having an argument when she said the word. Didn't you say hurtful things to her too? And to think you even insulted her first. If you can't take her back wholly please let her go.

You are here now forming boss because she came to beg you without considering the hurtful things you said to her too that made her say those words to you.
Celebrities › Re: Anna Banner Breaks Up With Flavour by queencalipso(f): 9:18pm On Jun 13, 2016
"Love is pain but there's a limit to that pain and I choose to walk free". I love her courage.

Get knocked down and get back up. Life is full of challenges, never allow yours to limit you just keep moving no matter what life throws at you. That's the spirit girl.
Romance › Re: ......message to my Ex by queencalipso(f): 6:36pm On Jun 13, 2016
Soon true op!!
Politics › Re: #occupyplateau -update On Youths Protest Against Grazing Reserve By FG by queencalipso(f): 6:31pm On Jun 13, 2016
Metallurgist:
biroms and their tribal bigotry, its better to use one brain and not emotions. the Fulani's and biroms have mingled for hundreds of years and even intermarried to a lesser degree, it will be foolhardy not to seek a peaceful solution
What are you saying!!! So they should give their land for another man's personal business? Please stop giving someone else the food that you can not bring close to your mouth. That will be wickedness.


Say no to land grabbing.
Politics › Re: Extremists Storm Governor Ganduje's Facebook Page, Vow To Kill Again by queencalipso(f): 12:50pm On Jun 12, 2016
Movic1:
I Just read about the malumfashi people,Who are native hausa/christians. Thanks for the enlightenment.
You are welcome dearie. That's the real essence of nl cool
Politics › Re: Extremists Storm Governor Ganduje's Facebook Page, Vow To Kill Again by queencalipso(f): 12:32pm On Jun 12, 2016
Movic1:
Which state did they come from?
There are Hausa Christians here in katsina state even Kano state. I recently met one in ministry of education by name Rahama, at first I thought she was a Muslim bcz of her dressing but when we started interacting she told me she is a Christian. 70% of malumfashi people are Christians while some said they are neither Christians nor muslims. Hausa christains are very very much in minority and they are not too open; am sure you know why.
Politics › Re: Extremists Storm Governor Ganduje's Facebook Page, Vow To Kill Again by queencalipso(f): 12:17pm On Jun 12, 2016
Movic1:
There's nothing like hausa christian. All those xtains you see in the north are'nt hausa. They have their own tribe.
Hehehe!! Point of correction man! There are Hausa Christians but in minority I have encountered them on several occasions.

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