₦airaland Forum

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The federal government alone cannot solve all our problems. the community is just as relevant. see how we leave all the problem for the federal government to solve. we make them too powerful and overburden them with some things our community can easily handle. example here are some of the problems we have in our country today andq how community can easily solve it. security, crime, education, poverty, entrepreneurship, fake news, corruption etc.

The federal government alone cannot solve all our problems. the community is just as relevant. see how we leave all the problem for the federal government to solve. we make them too powerful and overburden them with some things our community can easily handle. example here are some of the problems we have in our country today andq how community can easily solve it. security, crime, education, poverty, entrepreneurship, fake news, corruption etc.

see my brother, I like organized groups, organized school, organized religion too. but my community in kogi state is disorganized, we don't know each other, a stranger can come into our community today, kill someone and get away with it.

the residents are disorganized and lack of information and disconnected from each other. but luckily we have tools like Facebook, WhatsApp, these tools are meant to connect people together, but I see how people abuse this tool.

The community is the foundation of the larger society. once the foundation is wrong, nothing will work in that country. our community has been weakened. the federal government is overburdened, everybody is complaining, we expect the federal to solve all our problem. making the federal government too powerful.

I have a remedy for this misnomer: let me use my own local community as an example, anyigba, kogi state. in this local community we have myriad of problems, from cultism, religious intolerance, poverty, murder, etc this little community is the microcosm of the larger society. we have to solve our problem starting from the community level.

PROBLEM NUMBER ONE; Lack Of Information
a community need to have a comprehensive list of all the residents within that community. how can you make informed decision when you don't even know your own residents. see crime is hard to commit if information is readily available. a community that can tell you how many kids, adults, girls, boys, pregnant women living within their territory. we know who a stranger is.

PROBLEM NUMBER TWO: Lack Of Connectivity and communication between residents.

I can bet my left leg that most people don't know their next door neighbor, in the morning every body leaves as early as 5 O'Clock. because we are gradually shifting to individualism, which is not even our culture.

my suggestion is that we group everyone in the community into group of 30 persons, every resident must belong to a group. each group must have a WhatsApp group and a leader. it will bond the members together.

CREATE A MATURED FACEBOOK GROUP FOR THE COMMUNITY: The Facebook group I see online today is just fcking useless, they have nothing to add to my life. a mature Facebook group is supposed to be a place to share information and ideas, residents with forth coming project can announce it there. instead of posting fliers all through the community, just make announcement on the community group.

GROUP THE MEMBERS ACCORDING TO THEIR SIMILARITIES AND INTEREST.
for those who like football, group them together, group father's, mothers, children, landlord, footballers, employees, tenants etc each of them should have their own group leader.

MOST IMPORTANT IS THIS; NEVER ISOLATE THE COMMUNITY.

this is what is destroying the community structure today, little community exist that individually they are powerless, they over depend on the federal government for funding. but if they were connected to other smaller community, the federal government would fear them.

a community may have the best information available but if it does not reach out to other communities, it's strength are useless. let me explain this with an example. assuming the whole of Abuja have a good COMMUNITY structure, a man cannot kill someone else and run to Dei Dei to live. they would easily fish him out. the communities can pool fund together to carry out projects relieving the federal government of some stress.

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starbuck:
Why is she the one dictating where the marriage will hold abi una no get ụmụnna and ụmụadas for the village , is like she wants those women to open her case..

Her husband nkọ, what's his opinion abi he is not Igbo

That one na whimp, he started the idea

This country self, the funny thing is that nothing will happen.

They would sell this country and run away one day

I live in the same neighborhood as Mr secondus. I have noticed vehicular movement has tripped this days around his house, sometimes it get so bad we hardly can do our early morning jogging.

how many graphic photos of dead people do you see from Ghana and even other African countries,

we have dulled our sensitive human side with this photos.

let's stop the trend,

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is this man a Muslim

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I wonder why Plato and Aristotle and all those guru like Isaac Newton were not called professor or Dr. does it mean they are quack.

looters

I want to tell u this secret, RESPECT is the pillar that holds any relationship, respect is what most human desire for. we work because of respect, we provide because we want to be respected,

we even throw money during party, to be respected, we see how big men are respected during occasions, and we work hard for it, don't ever disrespect anyone.

most of our girls don't respect anybody this days, that is why they don't want to stay in marriage, most of the men don't respect their women too. men need respect and not love

Myhusband:
Queenlovely I'm interested to know too

it's a long story

Myhusband:
Queenlovely I'm interested to know too

it's a long story

i have sleepless night sometimes, not because of my family issues, but because of northern nigeria, I want to know why this people are like this, why they behave abnormal.

northern nigeria vs southern nigeria are like two roommates with opposite lifestyle,

when it is time to pay house rent the southern boy has already prepared his rent, waiting for the northern guy to do the same.

when the northern guy is able to gather his own rent, he uses half to play bet 9ja and the rest to pay offering in mosque.

until the landlord shows up

children full nairaland,they will not understand what it means to be kidnapped.

let me share my story with you.

back in 2006 I went to potiskum for a wedding, I was kidnapped. they demanded 50billion ransom, when they knew who I was.

my father made some calls and within 30 minutes, I was released, these people are dangerous

this pos business has become too common this days, last week we hausa brothers followed a POS lady to her house and collected everything,

Advice to POS operators: don't move around with cash, it is a dangerous business, afterall you are not a bank, just a catalyst. please. always deposit before going home

your inner circle can make or destroy you.

I remembered when my friend poisoned my food to snatch my hubby.

those where trying times. I can feel ducan mighty plight, when you can't trust your own wife, then the world is not safe.

I met ducan mighty back in 2014, he is not an only child, he has a sister, but she is a nutcase. village people dey follow the family, I swear,

phone,

phone,

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