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this stupid trending thing I have been avoiding. let me add my one cent.

when I employed a driver, we agreed his salary was 80k. but I used to pay him 120k. as a gift

so when ever I pay him 80k he starts murmuring, my husband advised I should fire him immediately. and I did.

I learnt a lesson: Never start what you cannot finish.

that is what our men should know, during the boom times in Nigeria, men spoilt women with cash gift, whil other men tried to copy.

now the economy is wobbling, they cannot keep up with the lifestyle and the women do not care. seems they haven't gotten the memo

they follow the highest bidder

my heart is impregnable, na stone heart. but this one touch me.

a child managed to excape Boko Haram in borno, only to meet death in his home town in Imo state.

It means there is no safety anywhere.

I will still repeat it, we need to bring back the community life. we need to upgrade the community structure of our society, the federal government is overwhelmed by problems, it onus is on the community to secure it's citizens. I don't mean community policing nonsense.

in 2018 mark Zuckerberg complained about the community structure. man is a social animal, but it is not this type of mark Zuckerberg community we want.

we want a community that will protect us jealously from harm.

that will assist us to reach our highest potential, connect us to the right people.

a community that can stand for me when a stranger wants to loan me money on nairaland, the community can stand for me, vouch for me

a community that my financial background will not be a hindrance, rather they will help me reach the zenith

od501:
It is simple, to be rich, you need to get busy. The last I checked women love rich men.

in essence, poor men are not loved?
if they love rich men why paternity fraud?

it is the same poor men that will still father the baby and make the woman feel loved, you can't throw money at Every problem

Lord help us

Bros na u form this one, who send u, seun or lalasticlala or mynd44

Babara1994:
shut up there. What do you know about depression? You're a girl. How many women have committed suicide? Una too stingy to understand.

what do you know

R0LL0N:
I am afraid. Will be going for a test soon. While through the nose. Cant I spit out mucos for them.

sure

I know how this stupid portharcourt boys drive, they drive as if they have duplicate life at home

when they are high on every substance available on Earth. they turn on their music to the highest blasting oma lay . and forget they are driving.



As an atheist I sympathize with him and happy for him.

in Canada people smoke because the weather is cold, they hardly see the sun for months, i lived in Ontario for years, The white man land is cold, they have a responsible reason for smoking

but in Nigeria, frustration in killing our boys and old men. that is why they are smoking, even under the hottest sun on Earth. they graduate from abusing tramadol to marijuana, to refnoll to SK. they do the most absurd mixture just to forget their problem.

I know the country is bad but don't destroy yourself, life is a gift.

what stupid money are you hussling that you cannot keep an eye on a woman you left at home?

have you noticed it is the rich men who are falling victim to this paternity fraud thing.

poor men plant their seed and watch it grow, and can predict with accuracy when the baby will arrive.

no matter how weak they are they are there to service their pregnant wife to ease safe delivery.

my sixth sense is telling me this paternity fraud thing has been hijacked by doctors to sell their products. and to do DNA test.

afterall if our Endsars protest can be hijacked, anything can be hijacked

what are they remembering

wowowowowo

Heavensent01:
you don't start with your imagination lies ba, get sense this is 2021

I don't understand ne pas comprehend

This may be the end of religion,

do you know how that religious indoctrination called Early Morning Assembly destroyed our brains?

I went to a school that has more CRK teachers than mathematics teacher.

as for that face mask thing in school, children will not comply with it because their parents have been bad examples to them, shaking of hands will never be abolished in our schools.

this ajebuter school in my neighborhood sacked a teacher because a student doesn't like him, can u just imagine?. in the past when a student doesn't like a teacher, he adjust. but now the students wants the teacher to bend.

the education system needs serious reform too. starting from the teacher, teachers are no longer respected, courtesy of what happens in our world today,

people no longer respect constituted authority.

if you are searching for a sex partner on the internet you will quickly find it.

if you are searching for a wife, you can find it too, the law of attraction works for everyone. you will find that which you seek.

in this world there are only 30 or 40 bad women/men, the problem is that they move around a lot

but my advice is this: In this world humans do things for a reason, we always have something to justify our action.

so what is your reason? why do u need a wife? is it for sex, companionship, friendship, respect, fun, punching bag?

if you can identify why you need a wife, you will attract the right person quickly.

don't go in with too much expectations too. and you will find a suitable partner

Bmaster:
if that's the case,I have had this virus for a very long time,even before it was discovered in China,sis.

Bros be wise

use ur brain

I don take oath, I hope I won't die, will Allah kill me?

but let me come to the meat of the issue at hand,

let us forget about religion self, let us think secular.

there as some atheist out there that live a better life than even the religious people.

you don't need a storybook to tell you wether to give or not, it is the equivalent or playing this stupid trending game called Charlie Charlie.

let your conscience be your moral compass, give because it feels right not because you are compelled to give.

I used to think that when I give out I would make heaven, that is selfish, you have to give selflessly without expectations,

don't give to feel good, don't give because you want to bribe God, give because it is the right thing to do.

I went for the covid 19 test, but I tested positive, I isolated for 14 days,

these covid 19 is real, look around you, you will notice a lot of people with running nose, and cough, some are mild

some people throat will be blocked even, trust me

but it doesn't kill, especially the young with Strong immune system

and during the test, they will insert this deep instrument into your nose, very deep to extract mucus . that is the only scary part

Iro1989:
And ur people can leave without them, have u ever been to the north?

I don't want to be kidnapped or false to comply to Sharia law

Iro1989:
And ur people can leave without them, have u ever been to the north?

I don't want to be kidnapped
or forced to comply to Sharia law

Iro1989:
Well if u call urself and educated individual and u r having so much resentment and hatred towards a tribe, abeg burn ur certificate, its useless

oboy I am not educated, and I hate mallams

oboy wake up

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society that worship money without accountability is a breeding ground for thieves

mafa again. God help them

that was the community I visited and someone left a baby with me and ran away.

today that baby is a blessing to the world

play Wella brother in the field and the other room

when I was bankrupt, I mean my business folded totally. I could not eat or feed my kids.

I had to open up to my kids about what was happening, I explained everything to them.

then I knew how matured my kids were, they adjusted immediately to the new reality, the senior one was even more matured, they brought ideas and suggestions for me to help, reduced their expenses, prayed for me too.

This is what Nigeria is not doing, they are not truthful to themselves, if there was trust between government and citizen, I believe there are Nigerians ready to die for Nigeria, ready to sacrifice and come up with new ideas.

and within 4 months Boko Haram is history. but let them continue

these are 2023 preparation moves if you are smart.

in Nigeria you can get people to do anything so long as you have the money.

a Yoruba boy was proposing to be my sugar boy. I played along with him. small boy oh. he wants to friend me because I was dressed like an ordinary woman. he claims he can Bleep.

when I drove him to my place, the rest is history... I can't say it here on a public forum, but summary is that he regret that move