QueenR.A.W:
From my experience, I've always recieved a lot of attenetion, so I see the validity in your issue.However, the beautiful women I know, myself included, are used to the attention and know how to diplomatically turn down and put a stop to unwanted attention.Plus most men wont approach a beautiful woman, being that a well presented, confident woman , who happens to be beautiful as well, is not easily approached.Most men don't have the confidence nor gall to approach a gorgeous women, assuming that he is out of her league. And married men are aware that unless they are already goingto leave their wive or have a lot of toasting money, they have no chance with such a beautiful woman. Unless its a woman with low self esteem.
I've also come to notice that really beautiful women do not recieve alot of compliments, because most men assume she's heard such compliments a million times and will not be fazed nor impressed with his compliments.Men looking and staring is one thing, but if you are constantly being approached, that is another. What makes these men feel as if they even have a chance to be with you? Do you live in a place with a lot of plain looking people?

HisRib:

Absolutely not! I'm a young professional woman. I come across professional men all the time and each time I have to deal with the same issue. Sometimes you think educated men will act differently, but nope, they are all the same. I've spoken to other young beautiful women in my profession and they all share my sentiments.

baralatie:
dat means u dnt know the level.i know a girl dat was serious.fam had to get her a car and a personal female chafeur.

mZ sleeq: And that's how she came to advertise herself. You should have just posted ur picture also.
Talk is cheap!
Deal with it. Ure not miss world
Nobody wey no fine.

QueenR.A.W:
I think it also depends on where you reside.Where I live , there's an abundance of beautiful women. Beautiful faces, beautiful bodies.Some with both, some with one or the other. A beautiful younglady, not a woman, but someone still seen as girl, may need such protection.A Grown woman, especially in the state's, must learn how to deal with such unwanted advances on her own. Unless you have a stalker, its really not that serious.

taiwolawal13: Dont woorry. By the 30s when ur orange (.)(.) turn yam den go rest bt den na u dey chase dem or him about to come home at nite

CastingCrowns: I feel ur pain@OP...really do

HisRib:

Looks like I have a stalker. Wonderful. Unlike you, I will not post pictures of myself on a public forum to create uncessary attention and embarrass my man.

I gave you constructive criticism. If you want to keep your man, change your ways.

HisRib: I am so tired of men trying to date me, especially married men. Sometimes I wish I wasn't so pretty. It's so frustrating.

Evy E:


i don't buy this your story sister. Most of us here on NL are young beautiful educated and very professional too and we stay and work in areas full of such ppl but becoz we dont come across as cheap , you dont see evry dick head trying their chance on us. Men actually feel intimidated. sister u r a lier

QueenR.A.W:
From my experience, I've always recieved a lot of attenetion, so I see the validity in your issue.However, the beautiful women I know, myself included, are used to the attention and know how to diplomatically turn down and put a stop to unwanted attention.Plus most men wont approach a beautiful woman, being that a well presented, confident woman , who happens to be beautiful as well, is not easily approached.Most men don't have the confidence nor gall to approach a gorgeous women, assuming that he is out of her league. And married men are aware that unless they are already goingto leave their wive or have a lot of toasting money, they have no chance with such a beautiful woman. Unless its a woman with low self esteem.
I've also come to notice that really beautiful women do not recieve alot of compliments, because most men assume she's heard such compliments a million times and will not be fazed nor impressed with his compliments.Men looking and staring is one thing, but if you are constantly being approached, that is another. What makes these men feel as if they even have a chance to be with you? Do you live in a place with a lot of plain looking people?

FlowerPower:

What I have found is that if I dress very modestly (hair wrapped with a long loose dress), men will avoid me. Otherwise they are making goo goo eyes and trying to get my number. It's shame you have to go to such extremes, but it does get tiring after awhile.

HisRib:

Hahaha! you are so right. I feel like I have to dress like a bum in order to avoid male attention. The attention I get from my boo is enough for me!

9jagirl4re: Enjoy it while it lasts when you get old and wrinkled then you won't get it. I always thank them for the compliment and tell them I'm not interested. The way you carry yourself will let them know that you are serious, when you say your not interested with your mouth your body language has to match or they will think you're playing hard to get. When you stop getting the attention is when you better worry

tpia@:
Beautiful women are a dime a dozen though.

And men who play the field, generally do not discriminate when they do so, if they're hard core womanizers.

Dont be surprised if you find yourself competing with the groundnut seller for the married and single men's attention.

9jagirl4re: So do you dress revealing, that can be your problem too they may think your for sale by the way you dress.

HisRib: I am so tired of men trying to date me, especially married men. Sometimes I wish I wasn't so pretty. It's so frustrating.

Seun: Stop wearing makeup and stop wearing revealing dresses. Wear thick-rimmed glasses and don't waddle like a duck. Problem solved.

baralatie: what u dont knw is dat married men who chase single ladies come in various shades,there is a particular clique that chase exactly this type of 'holy looking girls'.

Seun:
I'm sure that being chased by that weird little clique would be a vast improvement on being chased by every man who sets his eyes on you.
My point is that, in practice, women who complain about being approached by too many men are usually doing many things to attract them.

baralatie: broda,i tink in this case u should consider her side of the story but u are not listening to what she is saying.go throu al her comments.u wil notice exactly her complaint and.the temption she is facing has nothing to do with the dress,make up,piety.to these men is about power:
+dey believ dey can get any woman as long as it involve money!they dnt care wether u singl or not!

Agybabe: I believe that beautiful girls don't make noise. Pocket the sentiments!

Agybabe: I believe that beautiful girls don't make noise. Pocket the sentiments!

HisRib:

Absolutely not! I'm a young professional woman. I come across professional men all the time and each time I have to deal with the same issue. Sometimes you think educated men will act differently, but nope, they are all the same. I've spoken to other young beautiful women in my profession and they all share my sentiments.