₦airaland Forum

viralmaged:
Drop your WhatsApp contact,

Quim2:
Its on my profile

@Viral

Pls can we chat again? Lost your number along with my stolen phone.

seanfer:
And you think turning the SE to Afghanistan will benefit anybody after the breakup?
Why kill your fellow tribesmen to make a point to outsiders?

We all hope that eventuality won't come. In fact, now is time for a new government and or a massive national conference involving all stakeholders but that's not happening cos one Nigeria as it is benefits the north only and the North want it that way at all costs.

If war does come many neutral Igbos will enlist and it's sure not in the Hausa army. I will be there.

Freedom never comes cheap. No one knows that better than the son a late Biafra soldier


This quest for freedom is generational cos we all feel the oppression.

Cheers!

Kingdemu:
Why I don't caution people of the South East against following the path of the North East is because there is no point trying to do that to someone who is determined, who fails to reason beyond his euphoria.

Every time I read some of their comments, I remember how the North East started. They are following the same pattern, as if they borrowed the template. When it started in the NE and security agencies were being targeted for attacks, some people applauded them because of their perception of the security agencies as oppressors of the common people.

Then it went on to eliminating members of the society who were suspected to be informing the authorities about the group. When all those were eliminated, they turned on the whole society and that was when people realised that what they were applauding was actually coming for them, but that was coming a little too late.

Now the sequence is repeating itself in the South East, but I have seen those who attempt to caution them being shouted down with insults. Oh ignorance I say.

Yesterday, when 'unknown gun men' reportedly killed some members of a vigilante group, and people were asking the rationality behind killing the same Igbos whose liberation they claim to be championing, the response was that they were cleaning the filth among them who were working with the gov't against the common interest.

Right now in their own imagination, they think it is impossible for the now friendly 'unknown gun men' to turn their guns against the population, the same way some people of the North East never believed those who were struggling to establish a 'just and fair' society could turn against them, but here we are.

So since the South East has refused to learn from the mistakes of the North East, I say welcome.

Hmmmmm, you should be smart enough to know that no nation can fight a war on many fronts. It must break. Give it time.

Ha, mumu op





For all of you who prefer my people to be slaves to the fulani or second class citizens in their own Country......






THUNDER STRIKE YOU ABD YOUR GENERATIONS

Smartixy:
I just want to know what legal action can they take.

You need a lawyer based in the USA

Find one on fb or Twitter

Fuckeveryday2:
First, try to love your job. Other things will fall into play

Secondly, the 80k you intend using to find an apartment in VI is close to impossible..dat 80k sef na some hotel money per night..Solution?

Do like most graduates and girls do, ask the right people, you'll find a security personnel with enough space to spare you..give him the 80k or 50k and squat there instead of a ghetto in surulere. Believe me it'll help u in the long run.

Thirdly, don't settle for a 60k job on the island...there a jobs everywhere believe me! But they're not advertised. That's why you need the right connections. Solution? GO OUT More often.. Start with a good church..e.g Harvesters Intl(lekki) Elevation Church (Still Lekki) M.F.M (Igbo efon branch) the one Sanwo Olu goes to. These are churches that are proven helpers from personal experience...ANYONE you choose. That MFM especially, just chill after service on the Last Sunday of the month, you'll be on your way for an interview the next Monday as long as you're qualified.

Lastly, Lagos is really stressful, But remains the best city in the country by a long margin..People below me will tell you otherwise, but deep down they know it's the truth So instead of striving to move to another state, your next goal after Lagos is to leave this hellhole called Nigeria May God's guidance be with you l

You seem to know Lagos so well. Can we have a chat on Whatsapps? My number is on my profile

I have some serious issues that needs me to visit some of those churches.
Not job ooo. I am fine there

Penpaddie:
@op, I feel your pain, I'm almost in the same situation as yours, born n brought up in Lagos, i only left when I was offered admission to Unical, i enjoyed my sanity in Calabar, less traffic and serene environment, passed out of service last two months and now, I'm in Abuja, Lagos was never an option, i could no longer cope with the stress and madness, though I'm still looking for a job, but I'm hoping for the best.

Hello, my whatsapps number is on my profile. If we could have a word about life in Calarbar I'll be so greatful

Golan007:
I'm amazed some people can even type without any.
8th wonder of the world.

Lol

Golan007:
When you can do it all by yourself.

He cannot take your glory.

Na only God know the kind of sense u get

OmoOgunOriginal:
It's a continuation of what IPOB did to Lagos on Oct 19-21 when they hijacked/infiltrated the EndSARS movement.

Look at the MO, it's the same. The Jailbreaks, the burning of courts, police stations etc.

My opinion sha

Stop talking nonsense outside your fathers house it makes u look stoooooopud

IgweOfNnewi:
South East is becoming the biggest joke of the millennium

The thinking of a northerner who drinks Pana dollars over everything igbo

AllenSpencer:
Like I have something to lose or gain

I just want some lots to learn the hard way

OR you learn

Ladylite:
It is easy.

Go to Instagram, contact matchmakers or any of those handles that put out a person's contact to get friends or make connections.... And she will definitely get someone and stop distracting you.


Maybe you can talk with her so she can tell you outrightly what she wants. Ensure it is recorded.


Then do what ever you want with her. Fvvck her till she farts and squirts. And she will respect you then report her to her sister.

I wonder why you are always available at home.

All men who have wife's kid sis or step daughter living with them actually fvvck them as star bonus.

Another Idea is to create nairaland topic where you can put out her pics and anyone interested can be interviewed by you before you connect the person to her and she will forget you.

Pls how do I find these matchmakers on Instagram

Sirmuel1:
Truckload of exes, over-used and saggy genitals, too much sexual memories

I am 41 now and I swear to God you just mentioned on the main reason I wanna marry a lady between 20-28. I don't even mind training her.

This trucjload of ex thing and saggy body is just too much for me to deal with

Kebbiprince:
Wishful thinking of a toddler. That's to say you know the war will still be fought in Igbo territory meaning repeat of same thing that happened before

The only reason Nigeria won that war is lack of technology and bad planning by Ojukwu.

If what happens before occurs again even by and the world see it in colors the UN will break Nigeria. Go and ask Sudan and Co.

lastempero:
And the remaining condemned criminals will wreck havoc to innocent and helpless citizens.

Nope, I think they are being recruited for more attacks.

You won't understand until you visit the east and listen. Igbos are tired of Nigeria.

lastempero:
I hope ESN is not responsible for this madness

Go after fulani herdsmen and not releasing criminals to the public.

The majority of those criminals are harmless citizen who were arrested for no just cause. Or don't you know how police work There?

purples25:
This post is just my way of letting off steam. It is truly not easy to take care of teenagers. Those who have teenagers they care for can probably relate, and those who do not can have an inkling of what its like.

I am a senior sister and second mother to my 14 year old youngest brother, and 15 year old male cousin. They are such characters that they each deserve their own section. Here goes:

Troublesome Teenager Number 1, My 15 year old Cousin: I love my cousin, but he is a serious case. When he came to live with my family, I resolved not to touch him or discipline him extensively. People staying with others tend to bring up accusations of abuse, anything you do to them is attributed to the fact that they are not your immediate family. As a result, I and my brothers handle him like an egg.

The boy took ample advantage of this. From being sullen and disciplined, he became very wild. Many times he would take offence to the slightest correction. He also goes out when he likes, picks whatever he wants from the kitchen and watches movies on my laptop from dawn till dusk. Answers me back as he likes from time to time. My brothers are his role models but if I correct him, that's where the problem lies. I think he feels I cannot and should not tame him. The funniest thing he ever did was starting to act up after he was told that the only reason I was not touching him was so as not to create issues between his mom and us. He became bolder and even tried to deepen his already deepening voice.

Whenever his mom comes around, he turns me to his enemy. He starts to perpetuate the notion that he is a victim of abuse. The last time his mom was around, he started shouting at me at his whim and when I got angry one day and slapped him, his mother finally made him a celebrated hero. She almost took him home by midnight that day, because the image of an abused boy that she wanted so badly had finally been portrayed to her.


Troublesome Teen Number 2, my 14 year old brother: I love my little brother as well. I tried to raise him like people raise kids abroad. Talking to him gently when he misbehaves, explaining to him, punishing by taking things away or just small reprimands....

That shii didn't work. He became the most troublesome little boy I knew. Whenever his friends are around, he wants to show off to them by talking over me, ignoring my demands. I started to discipline him but before long, he knew how to run to the neighbors house, taking the cane from me, and running outside where the discipline would become a spectacle. Sometimes he even yells at me too. He has tried to beat a few adults who tried to beat him. But they gave him a good beating

Since when he was small, 'he wants what he wants.' If I don't give him something, sometimes he would go and take it. Sometimes I would catch him. Time and time again, even with warnings, things still disappear at will.

When any kid around him is being bad, he wants to do two times what that kid is doing, and be loved for it. He feels that is love. From the time that my cousin came around, and we told him that we cannot touch our cousin, else it would be termed as abusing a family member from another mother.....he has taken it as proof of love that however we pardon our cousin, we must pardon him. He copies what our cousin does, does worse, and always defends himself with the fact that we leave our cousin, we dont spare him.

Now we have come to the last part, my experience with these two kids combined...


The Terrible Two: The two of them constantly answer me back, laugh and joke and even encourage me to come and punish them. They feel no amount of beating from me can break them, maybe because I am a woman. However, they have full fear and respect for the males around them. If i try to talk to them they act as if someone or something insignificant is talking. Few times though, they try to calm the wild spirits inside them, and behave.

Things still disappear at home, and even if we are the only ones at home, they both co operate and deny everything. The co operate to disrespect me. They start joking and laughing right after I'm done with my long warnings or advice talks. They tell me to come and punish them, that they will enjoy the punishment. They have turned my laptop to their permanent TV, day, night and midnight, i cant use it. If i hide it, they find it, turn it on, play whatever on it as early as 5 am till 12 or 1 on weekends. They put games there, got a game pad and play till thy kingdom come, all without my consent. They don't answer me, they do what they like when they like.

They are only tame at school. These are not kids that are meek. These are tall versions of Aki and Pawpaw that are already as tall as me at the moment.


This morning, my mom called me and told me that handling these teens is all about patience.

If you have had difficulties with teens, you can talk about your experience, to make this more interesting and educative. If you were a troublesome or troubled teen, you can also share.

Ciao! ;D3w

Its cos you are a woman.

Start by setting a password on your pc. Use a pet name and your year of birth separated by a dollar sign $

Never open that pc to enter the password when they are in the sane room with you.

Do this fast cos they will soon start watching porn. And stop caning them, they are men who are stronger than you. Stop matching them strength for strength or one day they, in anger, disgrace you.
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As a mother find other ways.

Rest assured those buys love you sha. They are just being boys. The day a man will hurt you is the day you know they are your soldiers

Cheers!

Lamasta:
I sorry for that state called Imo All I see is a state of lawlessness

Lol, the east is not lawless ooo. Don't go and steal or commit any crime and think you'll walk away free.

The east currently hates anything linked with Abuja so ditch your police uniform before going or you feel the lawlessness for real

solochris:
And I'm planning to enter owerri this night o

Go it's safe but not for police.
Those police are useless unless it's bribe and everyone is tired of it

lecturer50:
What surprises me is that immediately I got the job, my mom started having health challenges.

I have observed it several times in different people.

When they are able to make a breakthrough in life (like getting a good job, graduation, financial breakthroughs),

something bad (like sickness or death) would affect their relatives, either the mom,dad,son, daughter or any close relative.

Please who else has noticed this, and why must it be so?

I have severally in my life

Nazgul:
A Nigerian used car has less valued than a foreign one because of its high mileage reading, a foreign car has less value than a brand new car.

A girl in her 30s with a history of multiple sex partners isn't capable of geninue love, cos her partner will have to deal with a trailer loads of ex bugging her every now and then, depriciated body value...etc. therefore she has less value than a virgin girl in her early or even mid 20s.

Next time you quote me son come up with something more sensible....

I am 40 and single.

I have this issue with women in their 30s right now. They can't think straight or live straight. The shadow of the past is always there.

Hopefully I will find one good one for marriage soon. A younger one is okay sef

bobowaja:
At times, I sit down and wonder the obsession of Igbos after Yoruba lands. This is the same stupidity that made Azikwe to leave the east and trying to force himself on Yoruba as a premier.

I am yet to see any Yoruba man obsessed about any of the backward eastern states as you guys do. Tueh!

Simplyleo
I am wonderful
Afamed


Just to name a few.