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Harddiskng:
How women video their husbands and post it on social media surprise me.

Like you want the end of your marriage, there are better ways to go about.

That marriage is over, the woman that would try that with me has not been born


Men dey marry rubbish. Foolish woman

You're in Nigeria. They're in Yankee. Need I say more?

Oscarhakx:
Normally women can handle rejection. Its their nature. Bro you are not doing any thing bad. If you dont want her? Thats not a problem. But if she choose to be an ass about. She should Bleep off

women CAN handle rejection?
Or you mean can't?

immaculatesense:
Sir.
From the verses you quoted, it is the verse that showed that it is cultural. That verse 14 is what exposed the cultural aspect. The word "nature" used by Brother Paul is the Greek word "phusis" which means "Native disposition, constitution or usage."
When you study the Roman culture in which Paul is a citizen and the Corinthians were her colony, you will know that their men don't keep long hair (even in their movies like Spartacus and the likes) they believe it is Barbariana (the Tracians and other unlearned culture even Jewish men that keep long hair, most of the pictures of Jesus attributes long hair to him though he is a man). Their (Roman) women don't cut their hair (cutting hair is a sign of adultery and prostitution).
Sir, read more on Roman culture on hair for both men and women.
So, Brother Paul was using it to pass a message across which is culturally binding like Yorubas will teach their daughters to kneel to greet and boy should prostrate. It is culturally good but not spiritually binding because you can't force that greeting style on a European child. I hope you get.

Thanks.

Thanks madam but remember, Paul always told us when he was writing something outside God's instructions (like his own opinion). He could have simply kept quiet on the subject but If he found it necessary to include "If a man wears long hair it is a disgrace for him", you really think Christian men should go about wearing long hair??

Samantha125:
So this is true? I've heard rumours about how some of you guys would rather use money to entice women rather than improve your bedroom game.

She will enjoy your money while enjoying a side dude that has mastered his bedmatics skills elsewhere... Money will never improve your sexual prowess... Allegedly most rich men are not even good in bed...😒😒😒

Depends on the society. In poorer societies money does have a direct effect on female libido - and even they themselves can't explain it

advanceDNA:
Appreciate you for using my dîck to reach orgasm....?? U must be a comedian..

..if it's a that big of a risk, y'all won't be spreading legs everywhere

Nature is sooo unfair when it comes to consequences of sex

advanceDNA:
Both party enjoys sex is mens mentality...??


How can u say u want a baby, to be a mother yet you say u are doing the man a favour..

If u don't want a baby...don't have sex and come am form victim and risk

Who's saying anything about wanting a baby? The point is the risk from sex not equal AT ALL! A man can have sex and walk away and it ends there. A woman can't. You really ought appreciate a woman who opens her legs 4 you because she's risking a lot in doing so

advanceDNA:
Risk pregnancy....??
Since when did having babies become a bad thing...both man and woman want the child
Sex is enjoyedŕeeeeeeeeeeeeeee side is not doing the other a favour...

Typical men's mentality! Who has to carry the baby for 9 months and nurses the baby, pregnancy complications and effects on body, etc? Your conly contribution is you enjoyed sex. That's it!

lendahand:
You mean God indulges people? How can that help his child grow? Instructions will be passed to his children by Him and you are expected to cooperate. What you want to hear Ke?

Did you notice "God" is in quotes?

Gabrielshow24:
Because these ones have configured the spirit to only tell them such😅.

No mind them

victorazyvictor:
Is a FAT LIE!

God only care about what is good for you because He knows the end of time. He is not a man that plays politics or try to entice you follow His way or perish, another person will carry on with your destiny and even if no one, the Stones will rise and do the job of men. That's whom God is....your not doing him a favour.

Did you notice "God" is in quotes?

advanceDNA:
What is free tuotuo.. ..y'all like making sex look like a favour women do for men.....

It is a big favour. She risks pregnancy, reputation of looseness, biological clock, VD, etc.
What do men risk? Just brag to mates

OlaOfLagos:
It doesn’t happen often does not mean they don’t exist. If they don’t feel the same vibe, you will just be dating yourself till they find someone who matches the same vibes and energy with their own. It might take them months to get someone who matches there energy (even if na her ex.) Once they see who they like, off they go…No take woman play oooo! I don see things for women mater alot of shared experiences

Like I said, they are everywhere. It just like tellin someone it doesn’t rain in Europe…

So how has she wasted your time??

immaculatesense:
Smile. Just for the sake of scriptures and it's teaching. In 1 Corinthians 11:1-16; The doctrine of a woman cutting her hair and a man having long hair was a Roman cultural thing.
As you cannot criticize a woman cutting her hair in present cultural settings, you cannot accuse a man of having long hair because both were captured on the same rule which is cultural just like "holy kiss" still being practiced in Russian churches but against our culture here in Africa but it is culturally biblical.

Thanks.

Not sure what you mean. But here’s Paul

1 Corinthians 11:14-15 ESV
Does not nature itself teach you that if a man wears long hair it is a disgrace for him, but if a woman has long hair, it is her glory? For her hair is given to her for a covering.

BeardedMeat:
I hope you dey do the guy too?

I dey slay, na guyman gey guy

OlaOfLagos:
Why dear men?

Ok you haven’t met some women who are time wasters too?

As e dey for man na so e dey for woman too…nobody holy pass

How can a woman be time waster? Her biological clock is ticking while you're getting free tuotuo

Ibkay32:
Dear men,
It is both a waste of time and deeply unfair to be in a relationship with someone you have no intention of marrying. If you don’t already see her as a potential wife, please don’t lead her on. Stop dating her and allow those who are genuinely serious about building a future to have the chance.

Relationships aren’t just for fun or convenience , they’re a journey toward commitment and partnership. Don’t hold someone’s heart hostage while you “figure things out.” Be honest, be intentional, and don’t play with emotions you don’t plan to honor.

A real man respects time, values feelings, and leads with clarity. If it’s not heading anywhere meaningful, let her go. She deserves better, and deep down, so do you.

I've had times I just wanted to be with a guy, marriage or not. Because he gives me a certain something. He makes me come alive

APOPTOSIS:
I warned him of imminent stroke but he refused.
There is a particular age your body no longer needs insults and yellings

Abegi no be stroke! Na guy e dey do. See am clearly below

Maitunbi:
The man na actor. He is just giving bloggers something to write about.
Or maybe na guy e dey do so..

missjekyll:
Oh he has definitely had a stroke. Look at his mouth too.

I have absolutely no sympathy for him. If he had focused on the right things, he could have a removal of the clot before parts of the brain dies.

Hopefully he is now on all the right meds otherwise prognosis is very poor. He is just in his 60s

Na guy. Na guy e dey do
You know say na guyman

Antoeni:
Abeg Make Una Help Me Check Something

What in the photos do you want to check?

Hisroyalbadmeat:
, Should I tell them?

You mean shall we tell them. Not yet!😁

immaculatesense:
Though it is a cultural thing but based on Paul's advice, we must understand the cultural sensitivity of our environment.
But he brought another dimension into it when he said "God told him..." It became difficult to opininate freely on it like I would have loved to freely do.

Thanks.

Feel free to "opininate". You have my permission

Riverplates:
Peter Obi 2027 President

But Tinubu hasn't finished nau. Or you mean 2031

Kobicove:
This man just put his daughter under unnecessary pressure with this statement

And other ladies of our age also. As if marriage guarantees anything. And what does PhD has to do with anything??

OP how about when there is a turndown or instability? You use new investors' money to pay old investors, right? Sounds like a ponzi to me

OP can you tell us how you can earn "consistent returns" on something that was $1000K in February and now $79K?!

Not bad, though sometimes "God" tells you what you want to hear!
(Notice the kind of men "God" consistently tells women are their husbands. Never a pauper!😁)

Kobojunkie:
Seems more like you don't know the meaning and use of the adverb forcefully in this case. 😩😩😩😩

Kobojunkie:
Go brush up on your grammar and language comprehension skills before you continue, abeg! 🙄🙄🙄

Our parrot boy has never heard of autocorrect😆
Let's make it easier for you to understand sir:
A woman CANNOT vaginally rape a man by force the way a man can rape a woman!!
Now run along my darling, be good now

Kobojunkie:
I see you are still struggling to wrap what seems a caged mind around this one. 🙄🙄

Here is an example of how to make Google your friend. Also, to be considered to have broken the Law, one has to force one's own will over or against that which is considered acceptable by the Law. 🙄🙄

The above also proves what I've been telling you sir, forcible rape can only be against a woman or receptive anal. Now run along sir, you've made enough fool of yourself for one day.

Kobojunkie:
I see you are still struggling to wrap what seems a caged mind around this one. 🙄🙄

Here is an example of how to make Google your friend.🙄🙄

That's NOT what you said sir. See what you said below. Google that and show us.
A parrot that can use Google! Nothing person no go see!

Kobojunkie:
Na! All you have done is demonstrate your ability to use Google to obtain details that only fit the mold that is you. Manipulation is not friendship!

Again, make Google your friend!

Just as I suspected sir, you're indeed a parrot. Unbelievable! We just assume every monker on NL is human, not knowing some are bots, parrots, etc. You did have me fooled for a while sir, I'd admit that.

Kobojunkie:
Again, focus on making Google your friend rather than trying to make it fit into that small box that is your head.

You're begining to sound like a parrot sir. I've already demonstrated Google is my friend, but nothing from your side so far sir - except repeating Google/friend. You sure you're not a parrot sir?

Kobojunkie:
Again, learn to make Google your friend, this, of course, rather than these meaningless attempts at trying to force Google into your own mould.

Just admit you were WRONG sir. It won't kill you.
Rape doesn't have to involve force at all, it only involves lack of consent. Neither is breaking the law always a forceful act.
Anybody can make a mistake sir, what makes you seem an idiot sir, is refusing to admit it!