₦airaland Forum

Cromagnon:
how did his policy is impoverish the common man
Was the common man baking before tinubu, buhari, Jonathan, obj, Abacha or even Ibb?

Go ask the man on the street if things have not gotten steadily worse since APC came to.power

Dtruthspeaker:
Why do you deceive yourself? Who told you China is an atheist state? Do they not still practice their Taoism and budhisim and their old religious festivals even today?
So because their present dictator king is ruling them with an iron fist and restricting/quashing Christianity is what makes him an atheist? Did China just fall out from the sky? C'mon, don't talk rubbish.

And yes, Law is a religion and from religion hence why it is religion that says a father/mother has a duty to take care of his family, children and that they had no rights to carnivore other humans.

SIRTee15:
This will be last post to u because it's obvious u punching far above your level on this matter.
Imagine comparing morality to responsibility. Even a wicked father who is a murderer takes care of their offspring.
Most serial killers have families that they love to death and will never harm. Their families are mostly shocked when a serial killers is arrested and exposed as a murderer. They always say he was a loving father and husband.

China just became atheist less than 60 yrs ago. For thousands of years they have a moral code built within Confucianism moral code which they beleive is divine, and that's what they still use today. Modern day chinese moral framework is built around Confucius religious teaching even if they don't follow the theology.
My friend go.and read and stop embarassing yourself in public.
Note if I don't reply u again, it's because your post was riddled with if ignorance; there's a limit to what I can take of ignorance.

Dtruthspeaker:
See, you are doing exactly what he said atheists do which makes them hypocrites for he has put away his own belief in Christianity and in religion as the best basis of morality to ask and to ascertain what is the basis of atheists morality.

The focus now is on atheists to show us their foundation of morality belief if at all they have one.

And the answer is SILENCE.

Therefore, in the absence of any valid opposition, religion is winning and atheism has no basis of morality as his threads prove

Is it religion that gave you a conscience?
I am tired. You folks should read this below and research more on the natural state of human condition without input of religion.

China is officially an atheist state (not just anti Christianity). You can't be in CCP if you hold any religious beliefs or belong to any religion

Jman06:
Stop comparing yourself and other girls from poor backgrounds with Diezani. She was from a rich background and even at that she settled as a second option to Rear Admiral Madueke who was in his mid fifties at the time of marrying her.

The point is that despite being such a marrigeable lady with leisure time she still got married at 39, how much more an overworked struggling lady with no time for dating

helinues:
I was expecting a name not ejo wewe..Let's see if you have the confidence to mention the person.

Hope you still remember with sincerity I started with

You know the names of the presidential candidates

tollyboy5:
A poor polygamous man is a foolish man.
A rich polygamous man with no plans for every child is a foolish man.

A gold digger using hypergamous as face mask might learn a bitter lesson.
A successful woman looking for a more successful man that will let her do as she wants in his house is a foolish woman.
A woman who feels she’s above the men of current status or league should be careful. Old age is also nature. And it doesn’t forgive

"Polygamous doesn't mean he'll have children with them. Just wants to bed as many as posdible. A successful woman craves a successful man she can submit to!

Bittersweetnig:
until you begin to hear I clothes you, I fed you, you are a ........ MAN. Then you will realise what you put your self in to

So you walk away. You didn't spend a penny on her. While you'll borrow money to marry someone and still hear mouth

Awoleesu:
Plus, one big factor she's missing is thinking that a Man will merely trade his surname on the altar of a bankroll from her .

I see a woman, who has not learnt that humility and genuine love keeps a man than the enticement of shouldering his responsibilities.
She's arrogant in her speech, with such adjectives as "lazy man"! I mean... What man would accept a proposal that described him as 'lazy' even before proving him?!

I wish her luck sha, cos very probably, she'll only fall into the hands of some scammer.

Actually many Nigerian men will. The problem is that the type of man she wants won't!

Quite true. Five years ago, before Bola came to power, seems like the good old days - for the common man

simpleseyi:
Why is Tuface always attracted to drug addicts? If not drugs, what is making this one spew garbage?

If Tinubu can be President with no background, WHY can't she be president with the Igbinedion name

Stanbaba30:
Brothers, Brothers, Brothers.... How many times did I call you? Just run for your lives. As beautiful as she looks, there's DANGEROUS DANGER written all over. She even said even if you are lazy... Chaaaai, I pity anyone that falls for this, you may not have a chance to tell the story. E get why Bible say "he that findeth a wife, findeth a good thing".., this one na other way around oooo🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Nonsense. Time plays a trick.. one day you are 25, then fiam you are 45 wondering what happened. Has nothing to do with being a bad person

ezra1990:
We know their gimmicks...all she needs is the man's sperm to fertilize her ovaries (if it's still viable)... she's using marriage as an undercover...we know what happens next after her mission is accomplished... Painful some SIMPS will still fall for it.

She made clear what she wants - your name and sperm. How was she hiding it?

SIRTee15:
If u dont know the history of religion, I will advise u educate yourself and cure your ignorance. organised religion were well established thousands of years b4 the Abrahamic religion and there were well known moral codes governing those societies b4 God gave Moses the torah.
There is no known moral code that exist outside of a religious framework- none. all morality are shaped by religious belief system- be it ancient or modern

Below are ancient moral codes that existed even before God gave Moses the 10 commandment. All of them governed ancient civilizations and were based off beliefs in gods and attributed to them.


1. Ma’at moral code, c. 3100–300 BCE. Ancient Egypt; attributed to Ma’at, goddess of truth, justice, and cosmic order.

2. The Code of Ur-Nammu, c. 2100–2050 BCE. Sumer, Mesopotamia; attributed to Nanna/Sin, the moon god, patron deity of Ur.

3. Code of Hammurabi (first legal code known to mankind) c. 1754 BCE. Babylon, Mesopotamia; attributed to Shamash, god of justice and the sun, who gave the laws to King Hammurabi.

4. Hittite Laws, c. 1650–1500 BCE. Hittite Empire, Anatolia; attributed to The Storm God, Teshub, and the Hittite divine order

5. The 10 commandment Mosaic Law / Torah traditionally c. 1300–1200 BCE; attributed to Yahweh, who is described as giving the laws to Moses

6. Avesta / Zoroastrian moral law, teachings traditionally c. 1200–600 BCE; texts compiled later Ancient Persia/Iran; attributed to Ahura Mazda, supreme God of truth and wisdom

I REPEAT, THERE IS NO MORAL VALUES DEVELOPED INDEPENDENTLY OF RELIGIOUS BELIEF SYSTEM ANYWHERE. PEOPLE IN ANCIENT TIMES BELIEVED THE gods GAVE THEM THOSE MORAL CODES AS A WAY TO WORSHIP AND PLEASE THEM. THERE IS NO ANCIENT CIVILISATION THAT DEVELOPED ITS MORALITY OUTSIDE A RELIGIOUS FRAMEWORK- NONE

anybody arguing against this is simply ignorant.

This is one of the most ignorant posts I've read on Nairaland. Was it religion that made a father take care of his family, or a mother tske care of children? Was it religion that prevented people using other people as protein? Was it religion that made people form friendships and look out for each other?
China is officially an atheist state. Why don't they all kill each other because of no religion?

Felicity001:
So how about all the men you dated all the years since you knew a man lets say at age 16/18, now she is 41... what did uou use all the men to do? Now you suddenly woke up to realised you meed a name... what happened to the name of your father, pr is your father's name jot okay.
Enjoy all the wealth you've acquired, no man for you. Simple!

Time plays a trick... one day you are 25 and wondering why some older girls are not married. You sleep and wake up and suddenly you are that unmarried older girl!

12345baba:
y not send one of ur male relatives to apply.

Oh I definitely will

tollyboy5:
Nature ke? Nobody is fighting nature. Nature is dealing with a lot of people.
Who cares about hypergamous shi.. girls are clocking 20 yearly nobody has time for nonsense.
Life itself is a lesson teacher if you don’t adjust you learn a bitter lesson

Yes, nature! Men are polygamous by nature, and women are hypergamous

Jeezuzpick:
She's not even "pretty".

She's just full of makeup.

She might even be shapeless under that gown.

Anywhoo, desperate, hungry guys are welcome.

Food is ready

She's pretty enough

Qualityoffer:
You keep hammering on Diezani as if she was the first wife of Rear Admiral Alison Madueke.

Besides, it could be said that the same thing that made her to marry late at 39 as a woman is equally the same that made her a divorcee today. I'm not judging Diezani, no, just applying your whack logic.

How does she not being first wife mean anything? Didn't you hear Tiwa say she'd be second wife?
Point is, she is a beautiful, accomplished lady. So is Linda Ikeji.
See how long her marriage lasted. The man is in his 80's!

Sunkab:
It's a prophecy, and it has been happening, I av read it on nairaland here, where men married 2 women on the same day. Not even once not twice .

Nigeria is NOT the only country in the world. The social stigma of being unmarried has totally disappeared in many parts of the world. That is the ONLY thing that can make the prophesy happen. Remove social stigma and the prophesy is impossible.

Apcshit:
With her hair extensions. Why can't Nigeria women do natural hair

It is not only us, most black women everywhere. Same reason white women tan their skins to NOT look like belly of a fish! And people dye their grey hair!

joseph1832:
The people doing the offering are the problem. I know she'll get the ragtag silly kind of men, that's for sure. She's even doing more harm than good to herself.

Not true. There are men long past marriage age who have no idea how to get together with ladies like her and end up marrying way beneath themselves and spending lots of money doing it (because the lady has neither money nor job!)

jaxxy:
What does she do for a living? Maybe na yahoo girl or something. 😅🤣

Girls don't do Yahoo, only boys

joseph1832:
Stupid things, that is. The more reason why stupid things, attract it's kind.

She doesn't even sound Nigerian though, to be honest.

One thing is for certain, she'll get more offers by doing this video.
She,also doesn't sound NOT Nigerian

joseph1832:
She should go hunting and stop looking for attention on social media. Tssk.

That's what she's doing - hunting. Desperation makes people do things

True, there is no vacancy - but there should be!
APC have done their best but have failed the common man. It is time for them to go and rest small

Amumaigwe:
She has always had this mindset even in her 20's, Why is she still searching for ''the kind of man she has in mind' up till her 40's if she is reasonable in her tastes and also the kind of woman 'such' a man would desire?

Why not ask Diezani who married for the first time at 38/39 to an Admiral and former governor

I sm a Christian but I think this is a rather poor angle from which to attack atheism. Is religion the source of human empathy, evolutionary social instincts, reasoning, and shared cultural agreements??
Humans are social animals. Compassion and a basic instinct to avoid causing pain are natural traits that help groups survive and cooperate.
Communities create rules snd social contracts —such as laws against theft or harm—because life works better when people agree to respect each other. Personal values also come from culture, upbringing, family, education, history, and the surrounding society, which have evolved long before and alongside organized religion!

uvincent2:
She's not a good person. If she is, ask urself y is she the one looking for a husband @41

Ayo8:
The focused ones get married as soon as they become ready for it... they need not put up advert in search for suitors. Also you dont get to tell if you're a good person or not... people around you get to make an assessment of your behaviour.

So Diezani is not focused and not a good person because she married approaching 39??
Or Linda Ikeji, not married at 45??

franchasng:
I understand you very well, I have a SIL in this situation; very beautiful, good mannered maybe to me as her BIL sha, semi-rich and well traveled, a former banker now residing abroad. One thing I realized is that banking job affects ladies getting married on time in Nigeria from my little observation cos I know like 5 different cute bankers in this situation, some have left the banking sector and now abroad and doing very well but still single cos they missed taking advantage of their prime ages as women.


From my personal observations too, female bankers tend to be overambitious and they set high standard for men they would want to settle with, and because of their obviously high taste and standard in men, they end up meeting mostly married men like us cos before a man attains the height most cute female bankers in Nigeria do desire, such man must have passed age 33 and already married.


My little advice to young female bankers reading this is to be realistic with life, lower your expectations from men, go for some basic vital qualities and trust in God and build with the man, believe me he will still end up financially successful and rich with time. If people like us and some good number of close friends and course mates I know could later become well to do, then every man can with focus, dedication, time and God's mercy.


So I say amen to your prayer, may the good and ever merciful God answer your prayers and grant your heart desires soonest, but try a bit to lower your expectations knowing fully well that you are a Nigerian and a woman in 2026 when things have changed with women now having more opportunities to make it financially than men compared to 20, 30, 40 years ago. Wishing you and other expectant ladies Godspeed and favor.

Thanks for the narrative and thank you very much for your good wishes and advice. But it is just like me telling you to marry a lady you fundamentally don't find attractive (just example) because time is running out. What do you think will be fate of such marriage??

emmyN:
I disagree. Hypergamy is learned selfishness and it was enabled by men.

So polygamy is also learned, enabled by women? These things are in-bred from nature otherwise a wealthy woman will happily marry her manservant as men marry their maids or salesgirls!

Omoawoke:
Very good, I hope the universe bless you with a very good man, a good home and good life.

You too my dear, you too!

Omoawoke:
Good! so would you submit to a good man?

That's my dream. A man I can happily submit to. Not some guy very below me!

How does that change the fact that Bola's policies have impoverished the common man?