₦airaland Forum

IamAsiri:
So, that means you approve of people stealing children and going ahead to take of them as their own while the parents look on helplessly even if they suspect a child is theirs.
DNA is not only to establish paternity fraud. It can be used to resolve other cases such as stolen babies, swapped babies etc.

LordReed:
Thank you for this. QuinQQ can't see the forest for the tree.

That's not what we're discussing here.
What we are discussing is unwarranted DNA fishing expeditions.
Remember we don't know that there had been infidelity. What we do know is that a man accepted a child from infancy, bonded with the child, and has been happily raising the child.
"Uwarranted DNA fishing expedition" is years later suddenly going on DNA amidst all that.
The state's concern is to discourage such, and encourage that the man saves his money and simply and happily keep raising a child that knows only him as farher and is very likely his biological child!

DMCA:
Goodluck higher being

Same to you.
I do my best to use my God-given brain, instead of being ruled by instincts like a lower animal

blaise26abj:
WHO had the child ? The mother or the man or both ? What is wrong with the obligation of the sperm donor to raise his own kid ? What is the obligation of the mother ? Is it to collect sperm outside and pin a pregnancy on a man then force him using the state to accept “obligation” .

Very selfish humans some of these broads are . You want a child to carry a woman’s genetic material into the next generation but want the man who doesn’t have one to pay for hers and the sperm donor. Make it make sense

First of all nobody is forcing the man to accept the child. But once he accepts the child and bonds with the child he can't years later start talking DNA. Govt ought step in and prevent that.

You are human with brain not an animal. Y9u ought use that brains to ask yourself what it benefits you that your particular genetic material goes into next generation.
I'll tag you above, whrre this is further duscussed

reservd:
This can only come from one gender

Well, sorry to disappoint you. I'm a full blooded heterosexual man.
But like I told the other guy, never mind me, can you tell us how it benefits the man or the child, or society when a man accepts a child, bonds with the child, then years later start screaming DNA?

CzarChris:
God punish you.... Respectfully of course.

God has blessed me and continues to bless me.
But never mind me, can you tell us how it benefits the man, the child, or society when a man accepts a child, bonds with the child, then years later start screaming DNA

YourGFsnatcher:
What kind of weed are you smoking

Why not simply point out how the thesis is flawed instead of worrying about my weed supplier?

Olayemudia:
Do you know how it used to be?
It used to involve idols who eat up illegitimate children. Thank God for Christianity where the lives of the children matters.

Fake idols exposed as powerless by Christianity. Do you know that these idols were bundled away to Europe and some are.still on exhibit in museums till today?

Ashirioluwa:
All I can say is that don’t give someone else child to your husband.

@QuinQQ

My friend am I man like you. But never mind me, what parts of the thesis do you disagree with and how l?

RebirthPhoenix:
Dumbest thing I ever heard,, and yes even dumber than watching APC supporters here on nairaland

Can you please which parts of it are dumb?

Danabu:
ABSOLUTE NONSENSE! ARE YOU A FEMALE WITH INTENTIONS TO TRY PATERNITY FRAUD? YOU WILL DO WELL TO CHANGE YY MIND NOW AND REPENT.

I'm a man my friend and if you calm down a bit you'd see the wisdom In what I'm saying. This is not about parternity fraud. This is about a settled family happily going along then all of a sudden embarking on a DNA fishing expedition of their children (because it is human nature). Govt ought do something to dissuade them from doing that because it doesn't do them or society any good!

Climax11:
The Poster is just a foolish person to have suggested. We should be clamoring for prosecution for paternity fraud. Any woman who brings another man's child to an innocent man should be locked up and have the keys thrown away.

You'd seem to be the one f00lish because this is NOT about parternity fraud. This is about dissuading happy, settled families from going on unwarranted DNA fishing expeditions!

DMCA:
tell am
as for me, if i no be biological papa, i no want be anybody papa

Then there is no difference between you and lower beings. I'll tag you in the post above

ARISHEM:
Who asked or hired you to speak for their Mother.

What do you mean? It is not about the mother but the child and his wellbeing and the father's peace of mind

LordReed:
You are defrauded if the person tells you this is your child when it is not. Substitution without information or with outright lies is a fraud. Why do you have to be lied to? Why are you not given the choice to accept fatherhood or not? Why do you want the state to force this paternity fraud?

You enjoy raising a child, you're the only father he knows, he carries forward your name, if he becomes something all the glory goes to you. Meanwhile people are paying millions in black market and fighting custody battles for children.
Can you tell us how exactly you're defrauded

latieph:
See where the world is heading to
Encouragement of BASTARD is what you CHEATERS are praying for

You're out to create bastards where non exists by going on a DNA fishing expedition

Chris225:
Op is pregnant and don't know who the father is

Nothing wry u go tell me

So men get pregnant in your area. Hmm
Neve mind all that, just tell us how DNA fishing expedition benefits a settled, happy family or society

Chris225:
Delulu

Ok, you're 40 years old and some stranger is introduced to you as your sperm donor. How is he dad? How does he compare to dad - the man you've known as your father from infancy??

kimjessey2019:
This one oblukus isn't working

At least you didn't call me madam. Thanks for that

Ishilove:
Rage bait

Not at all. Kindly and patiently enumerate for us benefits of DNA fishing expedition to a settled, happy family

WatchYourSix:
Op is deliberately triggering all of you ….
She knows men dont wanna a hear such nonsense

OP is not a she at all. OP is a he. Now that's settled, point out the flaws in the reasoning. Tell how DNA fishing expedition benefits a settled (and likely happy) family

silibaba:
Go and be fighting for costody of other mens children and leave us alone.

We prefer our own biology children and not almajiris. So if your wife go to the street have sex and give birth and concede it from you, you will be dancing, drinking and throw big bash for that?

Seun please deactivate all these genZ nairaland account.

My friend this is NOT about sex or adultery. This is about unending a child's and family's settled life by going on a DNA fishing expedition.
Next time know what the topic is about before telling Seun what to deactivate

DigitalTribe1:
Scam
What if the woman who gave birth to her all of a sudden start a super story and return the child(ren) to the biological father - who will the man do?

Chances of that happening is almost zero because the woman herself is probably not sure.
But things can always happen, that doesn't mean you induce them by going on a DNA fishing expedition. Your wife can also run away with your bilogical children or divorce you and have custody

WatchYourSix:
Madam .. enough of this ur upadan rage bait…

It’s not interesting anymore after the 3rd comment of first page …

are the mentions not becoming tiring … u will just exhaust yourself ..

Who are you addressing as madam?
Can you please tell us the benefit of DNA test to a man about a child he's been raising from infancy, the child, the mother, or society

StreetFight:
.
This post is hunger induced

Never mind what it is induced by, just tell us why it is wrong

nestanat1:
There is no sense in this post. You are insinuating that women should be able to choose whom they prefer to sleep with and look for a responsible father afterwards. As a man, you are only responsible for your own biological children. Any other responsibility is a choice. Silly.

joseph1832:
Another advocate of paternity fraud sited.

voortrekker966:
You mean licence to sleep around and give an innocent man the consequences of your reckless behaviour? Your heart is black, OP.

Not at all. This is Not about adultery. This about attempting to upend a child's and family's settled life by going on a DNA fishing expedition

Federalofficia:
lalami day come for you he go too beat nonsence Comot for your body, person they spread liberation all this while with energy and finance and you want spoil everything

I already tagged Lalami3232. He mindlessly keep spreading the gospel that men should upend their lives and families by doing DNA tests, but doesn't say what they should do afterwards!

WatchYourSix:
lol…..Why in the flying fvck would i be sure u are male and say u are female ??
Only women expect men to joyfully accept paternity fraud….There is no man that thinks like that… men are not wired that way…

Even women cant accept it…when it involves their sons and brothers .

I once asked a lady an hypothetical question if a nurse in the hospital she gave birth confessed she swapped her child for client who paid because she was desperate for a male child….after 3 years …..will she just forget about it……..
she said all hell will break lose… so all u are writing up there is truckload of used tissue paper

We are NOT talking of parternity fraud, or adultery, or swapping of babies, we are talking of DNA fishing expedition of a child that's already yours, and you've been raising from infancy, with no disputation anywhere that he's your child!

GenFunction:
So there shouldn’t be room for improvement?
Since there were no cars in the olden days why u no dey trek?
Why use cars?
In a bid to sound woke y’all appear the opposite.

DNA testing of children is NOT an improvement. It is just an unnecessary fishing expedition that doesn't benefit the child, the man, or society!

voortrekker966:
You mean licence to sleep around and give an innocent man the consequences of your reckless behaviour? Your heart is black, OP.

What consequences exactly? Don't people fight tooth and nail for custody of a child? Don't people pay millions for a child in black market? You have a child for free that will know you as his only father and you get all the glory if he ever becomes something! Please name those horrible consequences

WatchYourSix:
Op is deliberately triggering all of you ….
She knows men dont wanna a hear such nonsense

I am a man my friend and I'm sure you know that fully well because no woman talks like this.
Focus on the topic. Don't people fight tooth and nail for custody of a child? Don't people pay millions for a child in black market? You have a child for free that will know you as his only father and you get all the glory if hr ever becomes something!

tundebasic:
This was/is a scam that men allow women succeed with in the past (by mistake). Now, the same men are saying "no way." In our culture in the past there was no driverless cars. Cultures change, times change, knowledge change, and people change.

How is it a scam that you have a child that will know you as his only father and if he becomes anything tomorrow you get all the glory.
Who is scamming who??

MrHighSea:
Paternity test comes handy when there's doubt.

You're already sure an adopted kid is not biologically yours.

WHY??
HOW does it benefit you or the child or society??