₦airaland Forum

sickstars:
I dont care whose birthday it is

Just pass me a drink

Gimmee all of em i dont care mix dem all up

Oh shhit,

Mjshexy:
The truth is bitter raayah but it's d fact. U can start by reducing it then replacing it with bottled water. Common if u don't drink u won't die

I drank water too

sickstars:
Please op can u gimme a bottle to drink

I wana drink my problems away i need a f*cking drink

I swear i need it please passss me a bottle

I had vodka, red Bull and tequila.
It was Sylvia's birthday

Mjshexy:
because am a guy & I knw wat we guys talk & decide. Am only being honest with u dear

Hmmn

Sunkyphil:
hope u dnt misbehave wen u drink

No, not really

Mjshexy:
This is not a good character, u are a lady & u need help quickly else u will destroy your life, do u knw guys don't takei girls who re drunks serious?

What makes you think so,

Sunkyphil:
do u drink everyday

No, mostly weekends!

Sunkyphil:
is it DAT bad? how drunk do you get

Pretty drunk

ipledge10:
lol even if it was a funeral,you won't drink if you don't want to

I was offered

ipledge10:
You need to help yourself. ...don't go near drinks,quite easy

But I was at a birthday party, I had to drink!

Pls help!

Tallesty1:
Lmao. The little boys here hate you too, what the adults have for you is pity, pity because most of the people that have your time on here are boys that are just sampling free 10MB+5MB from MTN on their java phones.

You like to tell them that people around you are filled with hatred.

The fact that you chose Nland where women and men enjoy equal rights to spread your feminism is prove that you're just wasting your time.

We attack ladies here, they attack us and we all laugh and laugh and laugh and fall in love and start dating while you're busy chasing after wind. The attack here is mutual, nobody takes it serious.

Go to Muslim countries, that's where your service is needed

Only young boys between the age 10 - 16 will squirm to reply you because all you do is lash out without making sense. Cococandy is the first feminist I encountered here and she makes sense most times, unlike you.

She knows that all men are not the same, unlike you.

She knows that many Nigeria men work for their marriage to succeed, unlike you. TBH, I gave up on you the very day you said that "No Nigeria man is working for his marriage to work". It is so dumb that other dumb comments got angry when I called it dumb.

Enjoy your time then, one day you will insult the hell outta your offline friend without knowing it.

What an epistle! This is the reason why I do what I do. Incoherent responses like this

Why should I go to the middle east, a lot of women are already making progress on women's rights there. In Nigeria, a lot of men are good and courteous.

Its just nairaland that is my problem.

No jobs my dear!

If there were jobs, employers would take the graduates and train them so they can be of use.

However, we have to realize that our higher institutions are outdated and need a complete reform. We need to focus on research. Give undergraduate students opportunities to learn practical stuff..

My answer still remains, there are no jobs

joseph1832:
Mr Valia, Mr Valia, Bani, Bani, etc. Good lord most of our ladies don't know there's a difference betwEen fiction and reality.

In fiction, good always conquer evil. In reality, sometimes, or even most times evil always conquer good.

Its not a wonder most of our ladies end up being emotional wrecks due to high expectations on their relationship which they base on this Telemundo series.

Its also like a woman always reading Mills and Boon.

You see when I say your post is rooted in sexism, you guys just jump up and say no. Meanwhile you just boldly proclaimed that women cannot differentiate fiction and reality. You need help! You really do.

Sanchez01:
I thought I was the only one who noticed it. She had probably dated some wicked Nairaland guys or perhaps found herself in a relationship wherein she had been abused. I read through her words and could see the outburst of anger there.

Sigh, did you read my profile?

I just hate nairaland men, really!

I like to call out their misogyny whenever I'm free!

It makes me happy seeing men online squirm and write frantic posts when I call them out online and show them how sexist they are.

My persona on nairaland is crafted for this purpose.

joseph1832:
I've been trying to tell her that anyone who watches football and play video games gain knowledge from it, but all what she saw was violence, and more violence.

I wonder what one stand to gain from watching Telemundo series

What knowledge do you gain from watching violent movies and playing violent games

Chukazu:
I never made the assumption.

you keep equating men and violent tendencies all through your write up.

you don't make such sweeping remarks because indirectly you include your very own blood.

Just like how op equated watching emotional tv drama with women's emotional health, I am merely equating violent movies and games watched and played by men to violence in men.

If he can't make such bold statements without facts, why can't I?

If he can reduce women to children who cannot differentiate between movies and real life, why can't I do the same for men?

litetias:
Feminism is rubbish.
You want same standards and equal treatment but still want men to open doors for you and to do all the hard work.
Thats called double standards

In a civilized society, you hold the door if someone is coming behind you irregardless of thir gender. If you personally decide to hold the door for women, that's your problem, it's not a law.

Men do most of the hard work that involve strength because they are physically stronger than women. The same for jobs like nursing which are female dominated because women are more compassionate and caring than men..

It says a lot if you cannot even understand the basic biological differences between men and women.

Tallesty1:
Read 1/2 of the comments to see if what I said are facts or assumptions.

I didn't say that.

Read me again "we don't expect women to become Ronaldo and Messi after watching football unlike women that expect such unrealistic love and romance from their partners after watching Tele

Read the comments again, especially the one from ladies.

The answer to your question is on this thread. Check it

For a feminist, especially the men hater type, even the early morning attention we get is a sign of internalized misogyny not wanting women to happy.

Is the op and other commentors on this thread complaining about lack of attention or unrealistic expectations that comes from these movies.



Finally Raayah, what makes you think that men do not want women to be happy? Be reasonable here pls

Another Baseless assumption, how many women have demanded that their husband change due to watching telemundo.?
Why do we assume the worse for women while assuming the best for men?

It's an ego thing! Read up on the male ego and toxic masculinity.

Chukazu:
am sure your dad is also a man, so how violent is he?

I am sure your mum is a woman, is she alsp emotionally damaged because she watches tv?

Tallesty1:
There she goes again.

Have you seen a Nigerian man that expects his woman to dribble like Messi on bed and run to him like Ronaldo whenever he calls her because he likes football? The anti-men spirit in you hardly let you see sense in a whatever a guy posts, especially if it concerns ladies.

The OP is talking about getting emotional involved with these movies/actors. Someone women automatically forget whatever they're doing once it is time to watch them.

Who likes movie addiction?

Read the OP well biko, he isn't condemn watching it, he said watch but don't expect your man to treat you that way.

Baseless assumptions.

You said women forget themselves when watching movies while men are alert while watching football.

I don't agree. Where are you getting this information from?

Like I said, this issue is a sign of internalized misogyny, not wanting women to be happy.

If you cannot do without the attention of your wife for one hour, maybe it's you that has the problem, not her.

Teddeebear:
thrash, who raped you …

is this a rape case

are you using rape to open your legs wide to every Tom and Harry.

A lady moves into another woman's home and you are sprewing thrash.


It is obvious u have a problem with men, maybe from childhood and you were hurt still hurt, let it go and get healing.

Don't hide behind what happened years ago to form some strong feminist movement u are weak, very weak so As your points, if I lick your pussiess you will squirt in 5mins

Maybe you didn't read the post, the man's family is based abroad while the woman is in Nigeria.

It's safe to say that this woman may be the victim in all this.

Why is it hard for men like you to agree that the person who erred in this situation was the man?

Why are you encouraging cheating and cheaters?

Why do you encourage indiscipline in men?

Why are you personally attacking me?

Back to my original question, what do we do about the lack of self control in men?

joseph1832:
There's no spinning here, our society is being destroyed by both men and women. Plain and simple.

Movies influence people the way they want to be influence, why do you think most movies or series come with ratings and parental control tips?

I might tell you that, should you carry out a research to ascertain the number of violent men, to the number of non violent men, I'll tell you that the non violent men are more than the violent men.

If you ask me, I think we should be more worried about love struck girls who openly their legs easily just to have men like Mr Valia in their lives.

If you think that murder, rape, armed robbery are a lesser issue than a woman falling in love, then we cannot simply continue this conversation.

Have a great day!

Teddeebear:
my point is clear, if men can't control their peniss, why can't ladies close their pussiies.

if pussiess are closed, the erectiiion will collapse automatically, as long as they are open pussiess peniss must rise.

just look at a lady moving into a married man's home and taking selfies

If we close legs, they use force and rape women. We as a society have to come together and solve this issue of lack of self control in men.

Women, both young and old Are living in fear because of the male sexual organ and their inability to control it.

Do you think castration might be the answer?

Valeree:
Funny thread. my sister inlaw is mad with the one they call Jezebel abi Dexybel. it has like up to season 10 or so, and she wants everyone to watch it.
sometimes I enjoy some of the show on zee world or joy TV but most times they spend a long time on a scene talking a particular thing and there suspenses are usually over stretched.

As in eehn, and the thing no dey end. When I was younger my mum would drag me to neighbours house that had Gen to watch telemundo.

I don't mind it to be honest, but I've never sat down to watch it alone. Not my thing.

However, what op is saying is garbage, literal garbage.

ghostwritter:
abeg relax jaré, don't inflict ur anger on d guys....It's obviouse u've got a relationship problem and u ar lashing out.
Get d message: Telemondo is good but d obsession is bad.

So is watching violent games and videos. Let us ban the one that is causing us harm first.

captainmilk:
But we're always here when you need a shoulder to cry on

I don't cry, I was born without tear ducts!

joseph1832:
So are you trying to say without, telemundo series, you can't bond with your family?

Its a man's world whether you like it or not. Human being have been engaging in violent acts since before we were born. Its in our very nature to always want to destroy each other.

Violent acts have not changed, it is only the weapons and means that have evolved.

Lemme put it to you this way, bring a kid who played Metal Gear Solid: Guns Of Patriot and bring another kid who watches Destiny or Pavitra Rishtra. Compare and contrast their IQ level, and I'll tell you the kid who played MGS: GOP will be far out class the one who watches PR.

Its always about learning. Tell me, what can you learn from watching Telemundo series?, as far as I'm concern, there's no knowledge to be gained there. Its a total and abject waste of time.

All these spinning and spinning will not hide the truth, men are violent and our society is being destroyed by men.

If you can spin it and say that women are affected by telemundo, why can't I say men are affected by violent games ( we even have proof for this)?

You can't have it both ways, its either movies influence people or not.

Now tell me, violence is ruining our society and making men murderers.

I think we should be more worried about violent movies than romance movies.

captainmilk:
Shut up joor!!! Wetin nairaland men do you??... abi dem break ur heart

I like to annoy them lol!

Teddeebear:
if girls like you stop opening legs for cheating husbands, pls who will they cheat with … …


grow up kid.

Lol!! Blame the women, men are pure angels who simply cannot control the peenis.

joseph1832:
Can you tell me how Telemundo have imparted on you since you started watching it?

I can vehemently tell you how playing video games like Metal Gear Solid, Splinter Cell, Battlefield and a host of other games have imparted on me, just like I can tell you how watching football have made be know many countries around the world, just because of the clubs I watch play football, also, watching some series helps you gain a certain amount of knowledge.

So please over to you. Like I said in my earlier, there's a difference between reality and fiction.

If you read my post, you can see that I said it gives me an opportunity to bond with my family and also a time to chill out.

Violence in video games and movies are very detrimental to our society. Over 90 percent of criminal activities including rapes, gun violence ,murder and armed robbery are committed by men.

We as a society are no longer safe because men have chosen to watch movies and play violent games.

I think these violent games and movies are a greater threat to humanity and should be banned!!!

Let us come together and ban violence.

penisilin:
Hey Sis, how many men have you successfully kept at a time? You're most likely still bedwetting when they started their love life, and here you are confusing yourself with pointless assertions and your obvious moral decadence.

Instead of you to learn a lesson, you dey form hybrid... well, maybe you don settle for alhaji as wife number 3

Common Sense Nairalander

What lesson is to be learnt in this story, please enlighten me old man