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Science/TechnologyRe: Big Balls Of Ice That Fell In Jos by raayah(f): 5:01pm On May 11, 2016
It's called hail!

Very interesting, please post more pictures.
RomanceRe: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by raayah(f): 4:50pm On May 11, 2016
.The third time i broke up with him was because he beat me up and left several injury on me

Nne, This is where i paused! Look, don't joke with abusive men. Domestic violence leads to death . Enough said. Please forget that first guy completely. He even left you to marry another person. He's playing you like a fiddle. Don't fall for this stupid trap. He was with you 7 years and didn't marry you. He will not marry you now.

For the second guy, I don't think he's coming back. You shuld move on. In short, he has told you that he has no plans of coming back anytime soon. If he was serious about you, he would have come back to marry you and take you along or at least arrange plans for you to come back.

It's time for you to forget both men and look forward. tart looking to build another relationship. If you are having problem finding a man in real life. I will suggest checking out the nairaland dating section, going to church, gym, clubs e.t.c. There are many good single men out there searching for love.
PoliticsRe: All Nigerian Presidents With Their Wives, Who Is The Cutest? (photos) by raayah(f): 2:12pm On May 09, 2016
Aisha Buhari is extremely attractive and beautiful.. You can tell she's very intelligent too by the way she talks.
PoliticsRe: Iara Oshiomohle At Vintage Red Ball In London (Photos) by raayah(f): 2:09pm On May 09, 2016
Iara so beautiful, Adams is a lucky man.

She never looks happy though, she seems dull in her photos.

Does she have friends? I never see pictures of her enjoying herself.
RomanceRe: Answer This Question by raayah(f): 4:44pm On May 07, 2016
nawtyme:
Wonderful. So I am not alone?
No you're not wink
RomanceRe: Am I Handsome? by raayah(f): 4:41pm On May 07, 2016
Shouldn't you be atending summer lesson?
RomanceRe: Answer This Question by raayah(f): 4:41pm On May 07, 2016
Dead from alcohol poisoning embarassed
RomanceRe: What Would You Have Done If You Were This Lady? by raayah(f): 4:14pm On May 07, 2016
Meh, I don't believe in curses.

The man should put his foot down and tell the woman his mind. Tell her you appreciate and apologise for the hurt. Maybe offer to any money if possible. Then he should cut contact with her, block her number or change his phone number or else she might keep disturbing him.

I know 6 years is a long time, but the girl has overstepped her boundary. How can you be wishing miscarrage for someone?

Sure, it's a sad situation. But it's life, people have to move on. He can't marry someone he does not love.
RomanceRe: Why Are Blacks Criticised Over Their Hairstyle / Natural Hair? by raayah(f): 3:33pm On May 07, 2016
I wore my natural hair and everyone told me I looked beautiful, Op maybe you're just ugly?

Just kidding
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Oyibo Woman Selling Purewater On Lagos Street (Photos, Video) by raayah(f): 3:26pm On May 07, 2016
Raise awarenes how?

I hate when oyibo people do stuff like this. She's not poor, you can even see the soldier standing beside her.

All this for 'likes' on instagram and facebook.

If she wants to help, take pictures of suffering unemployed people, give them a chance to tell their own story and then share it her own social media. Maybe encourage her oyibo friends to invest in Nigeria.

Anyways, I'm happy that she's doing something, so Kudos!
CelebritiesRe: ''Marriage Is Not By Force'' - Adaeze Yobo's To Women In Abusive Marriages by raayah(f): 3:25pm On May 07, 2016
EVILFOREST:
Women Empowerment go show LADIES pepper.

Next time when they see America and Britain come up with new pranks they will decline
Can you elaborate? What's wrong with empowerring women?
CelebritiesRe: ''Marriage Is Not By Force'' - Adaeze Yobo's To Women In Abusive Marriages by raayah(f): 3:22pm On May 07, 2016
Rest in peace. I think it's time for some NGO's and the government to start educating everyone about Domestic Violence and the dangers. There should be help for both men and women who seek to flee Domestic violence.
CelebritiesRe: Toolz Puts Her Curves On Display by raayah(f): 10:29pm On May 06, 2016
She's so curvy.
RomanceRe: Ladies, I Need Your Help... by raayah(f): 10:19pm On May 06, 2016
I have a lot of stretch marks because I drastically added weight. Some on my boobs and thighs. It's basically not a big deal, no one in real life has commented on it a lot.

One time, I was somewhere and a guy said something about my stretch marks that were visible and people around told him to shut up. I was very suprised. That's the only incident in my life about stretch marks.

I don't use such creams and most women don't.
RomanceRe: She Forced Me To Leave Her & Now She Wants Me Back by raayah(f): 4:29pm On May 06, 2016
Where do you people meet crazy girls like this?
CelebritiesRe: My View Of Feminism by raayah(f): 4:13pm On May 06, 2016
Feminism is equality for both sexes.

Your first point being that men are bread wimners is insulting. A lot of women are bread winners. Secondly, women get pregnant, they nurse the young. This period of pregnancy and nursing is incredibly hectic, and seriously limits the ability of a woman to work. It's basic biology.

Name bearing is a by product of the patriarchy, it's not necessary or compulsory to change names after marriage and a lot of women are no longer doing this. Thanks to Feminism.

Your third point, in terms of physical abilities, men are stronger. In fact, employers tend to discriminate against women for certain positions especially when it comes to work that involves lifting or high physical activities.

Your point about women in politics does not make sense at all. The issue with this is that a lot of people infact believe that women are less than men. Few women run for office, because they are not taken seriously, it's become a boy's club. Feminism encourages the society that women are not less than men irrespective of their differences and should be taken seriously.


To the issue of bride price, it's another patriarchal tool used by men to tie women. It's literally selling a woman, calling her a by product. It's crap. I personally, will never let any man pay bride price for me, i'm not a commodity to be sold.
RomanceRe: 3 Things To Do If She Comes Over To Your House And Refuses To Have Sex by raayah(f): 1:44pm On May 06, 2016
How about respecting her wishes and not manipulating her to have sex?
RomanceRe: I Look cute Without Makeup....yes Or Yes? by raayah(f): 1:42pm On May 06, 2016
yes you do! I'd rate you a solid 7/10.
CelebritiesRe: “I Had Categorized All Men As The Same Useless Idiots”- Actress Monalisa Chinda by raayah(f): 1:41pm On May 06, 2016
Going to nairaland actually made me categorise most men as useless idiots.

Thank God for great Nigerian men in real life who are useful and smart.
RomanceRe: Why Are Beautiful Ladies Doing This To Themselves? (pic) by raayah(f): 1:37pm On May 06, 2016
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. I see thousands of beautiful women getting married each weekend.
PhonesRe: If you could only have six apps, which ones would they be? by raayah(f): 1:05pm On May 04, 2016
1. Onedrive: All your documents are accessible and handy on your phone. This app has saved me a lot of times

2. Whatsapp: So I can talk all day with my mom

3. Gmail app: I need constant access to my email at all times. It's probably the most important app on my phone.

4. Reddit is fun : I like reddit, it's a great source of information and news.
Car Talk2006 Hyundai Sonata - Should I Buy It? by raayah(op): 5:46am On Apr 11, 2016
Hello,

I am thinking of getting a used Hyundai, it has a pretty high mileage (230,000km), but I do not plan to use it for more than 3 years. I have a long commute to work ( 3 hours back and forth) and just need a car to drive to work only.

The car is only 200000 naira and everything seems to be working well, when i went to test it. Should I go ahead and get it as I am not used to buying old cars. Are there any problems that may arise from driving a high mileage car?
EducationRe: Photos: JAMB Candidates Protest In Lagos by raayah(f): 1:37pm On Mar 15, 2016
Jamb was so unfair this year. I appreciate you courageous students for protesting and speaking out

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