₦airaland Forum

ronald4lif:
How do you get the facts in a situation like this? Are we with the husband in Nigeria to get the fact and not make assumptions but fact?

When t[b]here's a question seeking public opinion people react to it based on the possibilities of the likely reason(s) or relate to it with the most common occurence. Is it uncommon for Nigerian diaspora to have a wife in Nigeria while married abroad?[/b].

Most of what the OP said, if true, is pointing to the fact that the man has something he's hiding away from her. This is not the first time he's acting in such mannerism when he travels. Who stays for a day and running to weeks without speaking to their wife for just 5mins? Is he the only busy person in Naija or the first person to set up a business. Please.

Just because its common for Nigeria men with foreign wife to cheat don't mean you should make the assumption that the man is cheating on his wife . Like I said before there could be a genuine reason for not calling his wife regularly. You should know that not all villages in Nigeria have regular network or electricity to charge his battery.
You live in the West and how would you feel if you travel to visit family in Nigeria and could not call your foreign wife regularly because of bad network or no electricity and then someone advice your wife the reason you cant call is because you are cheating back home or you got a new wife because most Nigerian men cheat on their foreign wife.
We should be careful the kind of advice we give here so we don't destroy peoples marriages

ronald4lif:
You could help her with a better advise, not just counter others opinion.

I am not going to make any assumption till I get the facts. You should be careful the kind of advise you give here. Besides how do you know that the husband has a 2nd wife or girlfriend. There could be tons of reason why he could not call. I just hate it when people like you stereotype Nigerian men with foreign wives.

ronald4lif:
You've every right to be suspicious of him. All comments above me explained everything that needed to be explained. We're Nigerians and we know ourselves very well. Your husband is seeing another woman, be it his other wife or just girlfriend.

Insist on going with him to Nigeria when next he want to visit. This way you could just get privy to some hidden information that could be very helpful in exposing his dark secret.

people like you destroy marriages with wrong advice. You don't have the facts of the case and you already arrived to the conclusion that her husband is married or cheating on her.

ireneony:
your husband have a wife in Nigeria.
shikena! take it or leave it!

people like you destroy marriages with wrong advice. You don't have the facts of the case and you already arrived to the conclusion that her husband is married or cheating on her.

M4gunners:
One thing you have to know is that we the Delta Igbos are much different from the Ibori that is ur side i guess.Pat Utomi don't know what he want for himself for now.The only Man that can do better job then was Tony Obuh who was also in the primary but to Okowa also in PDP. Stop hating bro/sis Okowa will delivered.

What has Okowa done for the Delta Igbos for the past 16 years in politics? Absolutely nothing!!! You are just in support of him because he is from your tribe. I don't play tribal politics bro. Delta state deserve better than Okowa who is just another Ibori Stooge like Uduaghan. Look at other states like Edo making progress with limited resources. PDP has nothing new to offer Deltans.

M4gunners:
If u have any problem with Okowa please i suggest you keep that aside for now because Okowa is not Ibori not even his Deputy then.In your view that means Benjamin Elue should have also been jailed i guess? The APC you wish had someone like Tinubu then as governor,what do you call him now change abi?

Benjamin Elue and Uduaghan should also be in jail too. Please don't tell okowa is the best the Delta Igbos can offer. There are many good Delta Igbos who will make great governor. People like Dr Pat Utomi. Okowa is a criminal and part of the Ibori dynasty. PDP in Delta state is still under the control of Ibori "boys". Deltans don't need another Ibori boy as governor and we need real change in Delta. Besides what has Okowa achieve for his people in the past 16 yrs in politics. We need real change in Delta State and I wish Delta will be wise enough to vote for change. I do believe before the 2019 election pdp influence in Delta state will reduce because there will be no more support from the federal government to rig election for them

sagbar:
This man is not happy since the time he lost March 28 election.

do you know how humiliating it is to lose an election as the incumbent. Its a big disgrace to an incumbent candidate.

Slizbeat:
Dear Zahra, I can see that a very big knot in your head has slacked and probably dropped, the reason why you blab and rant like an uneducated baboon upon the millions being spent on you to study in UK.


I still don't get how stupid you could be to go online to publicly insult and castigate Our Amiable President for a very Heroic display he showed.


Remember, you Father GMB never congratulated GEJ for the 2011 Victory, instead he incited Hate crime and that led to the death of over 3000 Nigerians of which lives he can never create.


A man who would have simply annulled the election as GCFR and start a new one or simply inflate figures by manipulation but didn't because after considering the damage YOUR FATHER'S STATEMENT MADE IN 2011, He couldn't afford to let that happen. Now to me, that is something worthy of note and deserving the term HEROIC ACT.


If the youths of this days can't learn how to STFU and be more constructive in their criticism, then I guess the Change this country needs will never come. CHANGE doesn't come with GOVERNMENT, it Starts with you. No one can change you if you don't change yourself and by saying so, I mean your attitude towards people around, both friends and foes.


I therefore beg you in the name of God to please shut up and applaud the President for what he has done because we who are not blindfolded know that YOUR FATHER WOULD NEVER HAD DONE SUCH AND SO MANY DEATHS WOULD HAVE BEEN RECORDED WHILE YOU WILL BE OUTSIDE THE COUNTRY WATCHING.


I apologize for the insult above but I think you too deserve it for the while. HUMILITY seems like STUPIDITY, the difference between them is that the Former is being displayed by HEROES while the latter is being displayed by HATERS.


#STOPTHEHATE
#LEAVEGEJALONE
#BEHAVELIKEAUKTRAINED

Another useless post in nairaland. The young lady is no longer on twitter and she deleted her twitter account before the election.

Igbowife1:
Anambra. In his fathers house but parents deceased. I never met them.

It seems like you don't trust your husband. If he hasn't cheated on you before then you have to trust him.

M4gunners:
You must be high on something. Did Ifeanyi sands like Ibori in ur ear?The first Igbo speaking Man to take over affairs of Delta State. He will definitely do well.

must everything be about tribe to you? Ifeanyi Okowa was part of Ibori kitchen cabinet. If Nigeria was a civilized country, he would have be locked up in jail along with Ibori because he was the SSG during Ibori tenure and also a commissioner through out Ibori tenure. Besides that he hasn't done much for the Delta Igbos. There are many good Delta Igbos who can perform better than Ifeanyi Okowa as governor.

all4gud:
This little brat is back again to insult her elder. You are a disappointment to you generation

that is not her account. She is no longer on twitter

May19:
Pls I hope u are not referring to APC as opposition?

Wake up its 8:00AM already!

anything other than PDP will be fine for me in Delta state. PDP has destroy delta and have produce the worse governor like Ibori and his brother Uduaghan. We deserve better in delta state

That might not be her real account but a fake one created by someone

Flets:
Rivers and Imo is going to PDP

You need to be on ground to understand how much APC is loathed in those states.

APC wont get 30% of total votes irrespective of how much they rig.

people in those states don't hate APC and they don't love PDP. They only voted based on the candidates personalities that was why GEJ won those states. Wike is not love by most rivers people because he is a thug and besides that another tribe should rule this time around in Rivers. Rochas has done well than the previous governor and is one of the best Igbo governor. Your hatred for Rochas is because he is in APC, you would have been praising him if he was still in APGA

The Bayelsa Development Forum, BDF, has said it is making an elaborate plan to host President Goodluck Jonathan to a “heroic welcome reception”, as he prepares to return to the state.This is contained in a statement issued on Saturday by the Secretary-General of BDF, Ebimo Anderson.Mr. Jonathan became the first Nigerian incumbent president to lose an election after he was defeated by Muhammadu Buhari of the All Progressives Congress, APC, in the March 28 polls.The organization said it has already sent a written letter to the Bayelsa State government to intimate it of its plan to host the welcome reception for Mr. Jonathan.It said it also requested the support of the Bayelsa State Governor, Seriake Dickson, to enable it effectively mobilize Bayelsans across the state to turn out en-mass for the event.While applauding what it said were the achievements of the Jonathan administration in national cohesion and economic development, the forum said the president’s record of service to the nation will not easily be forgotten.

“As Ijaw people and proud Bayelsans, even though, we are deeply pained by the loss of our son at the polls, we are grateful to God and Nigerians for entrusting one of our own with the responsibility of leading this great nation at a time when it was thought impossible that a minority from the South-South will hold the highest office in the land,” Mr. Anderson said.“We are indeed glad that President Jonathan did not disappoint us as a nation by his sterling leadership and in the process making history.”The statement further thanked Governor Dickson for standing by Mr. Jonathan, all through his presidency and called on Bayelsans to ignore every propaganda and campaign of calumny against the governor allegedly being perpetrated by a senator, Heineken Lokpobiri, on social media.

http://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/180588-aftermath-presidency-bayelsa-group-plans-heroic-welcome-for-jonathan.html

I wish the opposition will win my state Delta State. We really need change in Delta State. Its really sad there is no strong opposition candidate in Delta state that can defeat PDP. Ifeanyi Okowa is another Ibori boy and might be worse than Gov. Uduaghan. We are tired of Ibori and his cronies ruling us for the past 16 years in Delta state

Real love is the most expensive thing because its priceless

APC is winning rivers

stonemind:
I don't agree with you on rivers and IMO state

if the election is free and fair, Rivers and Imo will fall to APC

barcanista:
APC will win "Rivers, Imo, Adamawa and Plateau"? Hahahaahahaha


I no blame una, after APril 11 we go know.

just like you predicted GEJ was going to win lagos and SW. You have a history of having wrong predictions so I will agree with the OP.

RockMaxi:
Political mis-calculation by Ribadu. The ripple effect of the result of March 28 presidential election may terribly work against him.

he made a very wrong choice. I believe he would have won the APC ticket if he had remain in the party.

ozoigbondu:
Why should he use APC platform

PDP in Adamawa is not in a good condition right now. The Ex PDP governor was remove from office and the acting governor is not happy he didn't get the pdp ticket. It will be hard for him to win when pdp in his state are fighting each other. All the heavy weight in Adamawa like Atiku are no longer in pdp. Besides that APC won that state in the last election so it might be hard for Ribadu to win. He should have remain in APC and I believe he would have gotten the APC ticket since he was a chieftain in ACN in his state. I really want him to win but his pdp party is not in a good condition right now to win Adamawa

ozoigbondu:
Ribadu for Adamawa state........he merits it for he has proven himself in EFCC and most importantly a new generation politician

I just wish he used the APC platform for his governorship election. He deserve better than pdp

I hope APC wins Imo and Rivers

Sunday Oliseh world cup goal against Spain in 1998. Its one of the best goal in France 98

APC is winning rivers.

APC should not allow politicians from pdp defect to their party. They should be careful because this people are AGIP ( Anybody Government in power).

The Igbos should continue to vote clueless leaders like Gov Ochendo of Abia state who is the best Igbo governor and also from pdp.

Slynonny:
They should learn what happened in Rivers when lawmakers tried to impeach Amaechi.
He went into the assembly complex and knacked them Akpako.
They can only try but will definitely meet the same fate.
Fayose is going no where.
His Ekiti State Governor till 2018 so deal with that.

pdp is no longer in power to intimidate the opposition. The problem with Rivers and Akwa Ibom is that the federal government used the police to intimade the state legislators. If Fayose is guilty he will be impeached and there is nothing he can do about it but go to court