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Annabelle12344:
I just created this account to post this.
I'm really Disturbed.

My wedding is approaching and I'm so excited about it.
Before I met my husband to be, there's this married man I know. Right from day one he told me who was married but his family based in a different state. I told him I'm single and I can't marry a married man nor date a married man. We both laughed about it.

Years passed, he became so close to my family and everybody around me. He comes to my house, gist with my mum, siblings and my family members are very accommodating.
I had my boyfriend whom everyone knows, that I have nothing with this man.
he support me financially some times. I have been helpful as well in my own ways. most times, I helped him out with cooking, even followed him to supper market to pick beautiful clothes (wears) for his wife and children. I have known this man for about 4 yrs now, but never have I had intimat.e relationship with him. He's like a big brother to me although he deeply loved me and have asked me out severally, but i have never involved myself with him s.exuallly.

This man have been so good to me, but now, I want to get married and he's so angry with me, he appears so hurt and heartbroken. He's behaving as if I betray his love. He's acting as if nothing mean anything to him any more. He almost lost his job last week due to lack of concentration. He takes his job carelessly now,

How can I help him heal emotionally, without distracting my own marriage?

Is ignoring him at this point the best option?


How should I handle this? Pls advice

Guilty conscience.. U kept a man u know u can't Mary so close for good 4 years because of material gains, if not that u want to get married u would have still keep him and collecting money from him..

bobbyhybras:
I graduated last year but regularization of admission made me not to go for service and since January that I did that mine is still showing awaiting approval, please what should I do?

I went to my school to complained but they said the delay is from Jamb Head Quarter Abuja
My email address bobbyhybras@gmail.com

Google jamb headquarter Abuja and call them

So 1 year old baby can talk

saydfact:
Even with the simplest of design and material choose - it would go into 5m and more.

Where is it located? Hope its a dry land, if waterlogged add another 2m to that.

Location is Delta state and its a dry land..Thanks 4 the feedback

Capeverde:
I don't understand what you mean by building engineer, because the actual person building a house is a building engineer and they are of different levels.
So is your choice to either get a experience one to supervise the one you are using or get an experienced engineer then you let him do his work while you supervise your material against wastage and smugglers.

Well said...Thank u sir

@saydfact ur thread is really an eye opener, thank u 4 this..Pls how much will it cost to complete this 2 bedroom house from start to finish. No fancy designs, just moderate finishing.
I just want 2 have an amount in mind to work with even though there will surely be plus or minus later on. Thanks

Considering the current price of building materials and labour..Would appreciate help on numbers of blocks, cement & total fund this may likely consume..
Nb: Plot is on dry land

chatinent:
I'll advise you pay an expert for a comprehensive cost.

However, you should have at least ₦2m.

Thanks 4 the feedback

phorget:
Where is your location please?

Delta

Good day propertylanders,
Just got a piece of land and want to build a 2 bedroom flat and one store, no fancy designs, just the common building u see around with moderate finishing.

Pls I need help with cost estimate that will cover the whole building, numbers of blocks, etc
NB: I have plans of supervising my self cos Engineers are charging too much here.

Capeverde:
To everyone who has followed me last year in my journey,to tell you the truth am so happy that I was able achieve being a landlord last year also with the high rise in the cost of cement I know it won't be easy the present time,
I want to try to keep this thread alive because am already saving up for my next building project.
But presently am in nylon cutting production just to make more cash,I will love you guys to watch and comment it's my first video on YouTube gurus in the house correction is allowed
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ht-GJ7cDVy8

Well done op, I really enjoyed reading through ur thread I came across 2day. I need to ask u pls..Can one build without employing a building Engineer, as in supervising the project alone?

This story is false, don't give her or him shi shi...Its a SCAM. Be warned

oazeez1991:
Just apply 2hru health since u got ur medical report already, chances r it wud push 2hru shud u r convincin during d interview @ ur camp. Thou, not ol camp organize interview 4 redeployment over health issue, but most do. 2 me, it's d cheapest nd easiest route 2 redeploy aside dose insecure states wif automatic redeployment offer.

OK, thanks boss

Good day everyone,
I'm currently in camp at Ondo and wants to redeploy to another state. I have my medical report ready, buy still needs someone to assist who can be of help? and cost?

tillaman:
Erigga suppose dey there but my guy dey do honeymoon!!
My wharfi pipu make unu carry go!!

Na Erigga lead the protest

I'm into Agent banking. I have 2 outlet, Can i apply for the loan too??

sharpsharp:
Got this same text message today and no mail. SCAMMERs looking for who to prey.

Yes...They are scammers

Chai...Why not use relaxer instead..RIP child

2 corn

1) 394
2) 99303
3) 30
4) 12
5) 46 (Using BODMAS)
6) 410
7) 143547
Mary
9) 87

My answers are coming soon

TheWizPhoenix:
It's a scam, Test and Interviews where done in 2017 and those that were successful resumed in 2018. And the address is off, so it's not legit.

Yea, i didn't bother going...thanks

Runtown07:
I called a friend yesterday who work with DPR he said it is scam.

Yea..I thought as much..thanks

I called the number that send the invite & somebody picked that he is Engr bla bla..and he was describing the direction for me..with that i think its probably scam

Runtown07:
what position do you apply for

Mechanical Technician

Openatyn:
Do a screen shot

The above message is what the just send.

I got an invite from DPR today, pls i need verification if its fake..

Congrats! DPR shortlist you for an interview/opportunity briefing tomorrow at 77, NNPC Housing Complex Road, Ekpan. Time: 8:30am
Access code:xxxx

I didn't get an email, but could remember i applied sometime in 2016

I don't know if its real. Did anyone receive this?

mommaJ:
Congrats! DPR Shortlists you for an Interview/Opportunity Briefing tomorrow at #77, NNPC Housing Complex Rd, Ekpan Warri. Time: 8:30am. Access Code:xxxxx

Hello,
I got same invite today & its scheduled for tomorrow..How did urs go, is it real?

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