₦airaland Forum

They fake it. I was told that there is school of kabashing were you learn how to speak in tongue in Pastor oyakilome church.

Even Buhari knows that he is going back to Daura. Nigerian are not smiling again. Atiku when you become the president, don't follow the footstep of the lifeless one cos I will be at the forefront attacking you.

When children talks, you will know.

God forbid that Buhari is returned as our president.

My pride wont allow me.

Na now I know that most girls commenting above me has no atom of sense especially teresafaith and funmistiqueen. To beat this two girls dey hungry me.

If it is cheating, the man should be celebrated.

Failure is part of Buhari. Daura is a sure thing.

Fat girls. Never

The woman didn't kill the boy period.

Nonsense article.

Lightangel65:
Am not gay, if you don't love women does not mean you love men

I don't know that eunuch still exist.

Amakavula:
It's a little stressful and would hurt to tell them the truth because they might have been grooming you for long. Best tell them No in a public space.

Usually it requires some courage to approach anyone, but twice more for the same sex. I would be honest I have kissed a girl before, but I am straight and didn't really enjoy the activity or idea but was forced.

That one time we had Pharm-Lab early morning so had to study at my place overnight ( had a room off campus ) . Some how we started talking about Love, then sex and it got graphic and steamy.

She walks to the bathroom, returned half nude with a blue Short, and her Bra was gone. She asks for a shirt , before I could get up to get one, she pushes me back on my bed, laughs and starts to kiss and fundle my breasts ( had only a cropped top because of the heat )

Before I knew I was on my back with her left hand pulling down my jeans and her right cupping my breast.

I was so shocked to react, and a little embarrassed given she was this nerdy, shy and quite religious lady, hardly parties and was quite helpful through CLi course works ( one if the best in class )

Even worse was I never gave her such a vibe before, and it was akward when I stopped her. You should see her face, read that night was weird, I didn't sleep out of fear she might rape me.

Weeks later, after avoiding her for long, she asked to see me at night in my place and after begging for touching me uninvited, she proposed her undying love for me. Asked us to keep it down low, and she will love me more than a man can.

I couldn't even laugh, I was sad because I liked her but not that way. Told my then Boyfriend ( Stupid Ex) about it, he only laughed, stupid thing mtwwweeee.

But finally took her out to a Cafe under the pretense of editing my electives ( was afraid what Happened could happen again ) to break the "Sorry Chiamaka , I can't do this, I don't like women, and I have a boyfriend, I don't want it please "

O dear She was livid, never seen her that angry before , given she had helped me alot up to that night incident. Broke off our friendship . Surprisingly saw her recently she is married with twin Lolx . I am still single see this life !

I am not surprise, most girls are lesbians. The way they touch themselves in the public tell me a lot.

Lightangel65:
you are as disgusting as women disgust me, I am disappointed in men who love women, try living a year without women and your life would change, you would be more productive.
Even marriage disgusts me

Who is this gay?

Faint for what reason.

Improve on your touching skills. Touch her so well that when you open your mouth and invite her, she won't even say no.

Wetin concern her. She should be praying for her man not all guys. Their is nothing like cheating oh just having plenty of options.

Exposing of breast should be left alone for people that has watermelon breast oh.

While in school, I had sex in the female hostel. It was a daring move.

The reason why most women stay in abusive relationship is that they can't afford to live independently. This is Nigeria, not America where the man could be forced to pay alimony and equally cater for the children.

Of all the paraphilia I have heard, this is topping the list. What arrant nonsense is this.

Only Ugbo people of Ondo are the people that are not permitted to marry fair ladies.

Stupid people. Nobody is going to support a failure unless the person is a failure too.

supereagle:
Tell me something I am not aware of please.

There were two factions of Apc in Rivers state. Those loyal to Amaechi and those loyal to Magnus Abe. Go and read about what is happening in Rivers Apc chapter. When you are done, you can decide to judge it yourself.

supereagle:
If INEC did this to PDP, they will shout that the democracy is on danger.

Trust me it was the fault of APC guys.

We all know it is looted by vice chancellors.

It will still fail again.

IdreamOfUnicorn:
Let me share something to help you.
1. Guy infatuated by a girl.
2. Guy knows she’s attracted to him.
3. Girl is attracted to him too.
4. They date and have sex.
5. Guy forgets why she was attracted to him in first place and begins to change his behaviour into scarceity mode and to other unattractive behaviour.
6. Guy has ego. He must put a label. The way Girls got to put a label but it is mostly the guys who do this first not always the girls. Girls always fear “what are we?” and don’t say it and if a guy LEADS they’d be no label for a long time but not so for most guys because…
7. Guy does the “exclusive girlfriend boyfriend” talk to send message to other guys “she’s mine. Hands off” mentality. This is why girls do it too. Got to have a label. Like it’s going to stop anyone being infatuated with someone else and moving on. Scarecity mode.
“I want to know where we stand.”
But man, if you look for real, how many move from one relationship to another? Look Even married people breaking up. So even marriage can’t keep a person with you and stop them falling for someone else. Marriage is now mostly for legalities. Who gets what. Protection of assets and stability, money etc.
8. Label is now sorted and message in his mind “hands off. She’s mine! ALL MINE!”
9. Guy sees girlfriend getting guys looking at her. Like it never happened before. She’s been getting these looks long before she met the guy and he can’t think “but she’s with me. She chose to be with me thought.”
10. Guy goes on a averge chump mode and starts behaving weird. He gets suspicious. Probably worrying who text her and who she’s talking on phone and why she is using her laptop so often.
11. Girls slowly begins to see the attraction dying because she can’t remember why she fell for him because he has changed to chump mode. She just doesn’t understand why he changed like this or maybe this is who is is from day one. That he’s insecure. That he isn’t confident as she thought he was when he was playful, fun in the beginning.
He isn’t focused on building on attraction…comfort…but insecurities. His state of frame has cracked and weak.
12. Guy gets increasingly insecure because he feels she’s pulling away instead of correcting his behaviour to focus on building on attraction, sexual tension and comfort. He doesn’t realise it and instead of correcting his behaviour he increases the unattractive behaviour. He gets pissed off when guys look at her. He asks her weird privacy questions about her phone. He behaves irrational.
13. His lack of confidence turns her off and she questions if she made a right decision to be with him even more.
14. Girl wants the guy she fell for but he’s dissappeared somewhere and now looks for that which she fell for in…….someone else.
Familiar?
Jealousy is a social construct.
You’re focusing on your own insecurities. You’re focusing on things you cannot control when you can focus on the relationship.

Be confident in your self worth. Remember she is dating you.

After reading this your long epistle, I don't think I have anything to add. You have said it all.

I cried for a girl when she was so sick. When I look back, and remember it, I laugh at my naivety.

No sex then no relationship. Finish.