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omooba969:
Let's assume the husband is cheating, can you please enlighten me on what can be achieved if the wife tends to follow your advice?

**Just curious to see things from your perspective.

Cheating right back isn't meant to achieve anything but break the marriage. For a man who chooses to disrespect his vows, that's the best he would get. If they decide to mend things, at least it'll be based on the fact that they're both willing to forgive each other since they both cheated. That is, starting afresh on a 50/50 we both cheated basis. You get my point?

omooba969:
Let's assume the husband is cheating, can you please enlighten me on what can be achieved if the wife tends to follow your advice?

**Just curious to see things from your perspective.

I'll just make things easier and use myself as an example. It's not so much what I'd gain but how it would make me feel. I'm beautiful and have men who still want me. If I can be faithful to him, why can't he? The only thing that would keep me from paying back is that I don't have an ex I still love. If I had an ex I still love, then I'd sleep with him again and again and again and it would be the sweetest revenge ever.

Since I don't have someone from my past that I still have feelings for, then I won't be able to cheat back cos for me to sleep with someone, I must love them. In that case, I'll just make him believe I'm cheating. You know, like give my chykers attention. I'll do things to make him insecure. Life is not that hard o.

To be honest, if my husband cheats on me, the chances that I'll leave the marriage is high. In short, I'd leave. This is more likely what I'd do than anything else.

Hemanwel:
It's always been my personal philosophy that, "I will not marry my wife because I love her, I will love her because I married her". So, I will do the chores because I love her - whether she brought something to the table or not. I have helped my wife do the laundries including her undies. Unfortunately, she's late now.

You're a good man. Your kind is rare.

Penboy:
If you're caught, you'll leave the house.

Life no suppose hard

No need to be caught. Do it in such a way that he would know. A woman who makes her own money, good money wouldn't give a fkkk about whether the marriage works or not.

MVLOX:
Make I laff small...... Back to the matter, NO I am not getting nothing form else where, definitely not because there are no women available, as there are lots of them flock around even with my marital status and most definitely not because I live broad.... But YES t is simply because I don't want to. I am too busy working and planning on how to take care of my very large family of 4 children and a wife....

PS: I got married as a virgin, that should help you see that sex has never been a priority..... Besides all men are not the same .... Some are just rare...

Your wife is lucky. Thumbz up.

MVLOX:
As a man you could do all this and still not get the right response.... What I have noticed about many women is that immediately you start something which is actually not suppose to be your usual role, they would always want more even when they Dem selves don't want to make their own needed improvement and put in the work.... For me in particular I haven't had any intercourse with my wife for more than a year and honestly it's not something I am even thinking of doing at all again.... There are more important things to life than sex.....

You're getting it from somewhere else. If no, that's because there's no woman available for you to fckkk, perhaps you're abroad, and not because you don't want to.

Hemanwel:
It's a good thing that this kind of threads are created for the married to refresh their marital responsibilities, so as to keep the fire burning in their love lives.

However, as a man, father, and a husband, these are my personal experiences in marriage:

When you say do house chores together... would you assist with house chores because she supports you financially? Would you be able to assist with chores if she doesn't contribute 1naira to the home?

Do nothing. If he's losing interest, it means he's gonna cheat that is if he hasn't already started cheating.

What to do: Again, do nothing but this one thing. Start paying attention to your toasters. Start giving them greenlight. You know all those guys that like you but you ignore them cos you want to be faithful to your husband, start giving at least one of them attention.

Never get anxious or nervous that your husband is losing interest.

If your husband cheats on you, don't sweat it. Just cheat right back. No dey give yourself headache. Nothing dey this life.

Nothing decent about her

I paid for name modification as well. He didn't ask for supporting docs. I only did capturing. Turns out it was fake cos when I went to the bank to open a current account with my name, they told me I have to use the name on my NIN. Meaning the correction the NIN guy (3rd party) did, didn't reflect.

blackgold2018:
it seems you are damaged.

It seems you're toxic.

blackgold2018:
in as much I support the DNA test be done.

But I hate it when women call their follow women names.
You are really an evil hypocrite

Nobody cares what a nonentity hates or likes.

Kyng1:
I already got more drugs today, and I'm hoping it will work. I'm only scared for my wife not to contract it because she's pregnant. If it's really chicken pox, I heard it's extremely transferable.

You're a mad man. A mad man and an ingrate. As if cheating on your wife isn't enough, you do so with reckless abandon. What an ingrate! Olojukokoro.

Wumi Olosho. Apokojaiye

YORUBA. Best tribe in Nigeria.

ordovicianonly:
You sounded like a thief . You are shameless and foolish to type this trash . So it is wrong for the op to have a kind heart to allow them go when they have a baby who is crying? You are the thing we Yorubas call Oloriburuku Alayebaje Eyan ofo

It's wrong for the Op to let them go. I don't pity the Op one bit cos he was very foolish. Very, very foolish indeed. You don't employ kindness in this type of situation. He should have confirmed the alert before letting go. Business is business, no emotions. Please let's learn not to confuse stupidity with kindness

toujurs:
I read the part you said, you refunded your wife stolen money.

Money you didn't steal, but you beared the loss, for your wife.

And i asked myself, Can a woman even do this. For her man.

The sacrifices men make in this life, honestly Most women currently in marriage, don't deserve it.

A d.

You're very stupid. Very very stupid indeed. So you didn't read the part where he said he told his wife to allow them go because he took pity on the couple cos of their "child?". How come you skipped this part, cos you want to be biased?

yesloaded:
I bought 2 for 3.1kg

Normally 1 big panla is more than 1kg sir

I have seen 1 weigh 2k g (not kidding)

Ok thank you.

yesloaded:
She no scam you

I bought 1kg of hake(Panla) at 4350 from supermarket. Last week bought at 4200

How many whole fish did you get for 1 kilo please? I asked someone to buy me 3 kilos of Panla, and she brought one big fish and one medium sized fish..that is, two whole fish for 3 kilos (big & medium)

ojotobiloba1:
Got my syinix 50 smart since 2019..going to five years now and no single issue

Maybe you've not owned a LG tv before that's why you saying this. I have 50 inches Syinix tv and all I can say is God will punish the manufacturers.

1. Stupid tv does not have subtitle.
2. You cannot select any series episode of your choice to watch on this stupid tv. You either start from the beginning episode 1 or continue from where you stopped.
3. Rewind and Forward is slow and frustrating on this stupid tv.
4. Picture quality is wack.
5. There's nothing Smart about this tv, it's like using a torch light phone.
6. Anyone who gives me this tv as a gift, will smash it on their head and tell them I know they wish me bad luck.
7. This stupid tv shuts down on its own, though it notifies you if you're on Netflix and you can halt it. But on YouTube, it doesn't so it just goes off.
8. The remote is slow and dumb.
9. This tv will frustrate your life and I know I'm close to smashing my phone on the floor out of frustration.
10. The remote has suffered in my hands due to oversmashing.

Irupetepete:
don't know why Panasonic just went off the radar like that, those people had mad tech back in the days... Their pr needs to up their game, even Sony...
Who be iphone when Sony still dey do better phone then? Sony and Panasonic didn't really follow the tech trend if not for their play station and camera

The best phone I've used is a Sony phone though currently using an iphone. Will go back to Sony once my phone is due for replacement.

YorubaNiBaba:
Destroy anything destroyable, any bastard wey dey complain should go to his/her c*rsed region and build anyhow

GBAM!

obaidan:
looool....This boy na novice....u see when they tell u to be full mature as a man before u get married...maturity is not that u now have erection and u can f.Vck.......are u intelligent enough to know that the kind of job u do is one that ur wife will not like. is the woman u are following d type that will later see that u are a disgrace after u have upgraded her.
Generally women dont want their men totally subservient to another man.

WORD.

The affection I have for my fiance keeps sizzling out on a daily. I hate the fact that he lets his friends make decisions for him. I truly cannot marry a man who doesn't take charge. Any little thing, "Tunde said or suggested...". I find that irritating to the extent that I feel like I don't want to marry him anymore.

Error401:
Rest on IMOLE.
I am not a fan of Nigerian streets songs. But Mohbad was such a talent. His deep voice and his meaningful lyrics made him different.
He was promising

You spoke my mind. I don't do Naija street but Imole stood out for me. I'm so touched by his death. Till now, I still wish it's all a dream.

Solofresh2:
Good.But when a woman wants you, she won't even bother about the house

Gbam! If only you knew the number of women getting married to the first man that proposes to them. That's why most marriages are crashing these days. Most women marry the available and not the desired. Any woman who loves you wouldn't give you such a condition to meet. Smh.

Taking care of me when I'm ill. Genuinely caring for me during these times.

ba7man:
Meanwhile.....somewhere in Arise TV premises.

Searching for greener pastures.

Emaprince:
please who be buba girl?

I don't know these our local celebrities like that.

Not a celeb. Regular tiktoker/ content creator looking for fame. She got it.

BRATISLAVA:
Again?

Do these people ever learn? It seems they all want to be Kim Kardashian. This has to be deliberate. Adult women making videos still, in 2023?

They'll never learn.

Nothing to learn, It's deliberate. Even more deliberate was buba girl's. Buba girl looked into the camera when she wanted to stop recording and I noticed the movement of her hand towards her camera as she stopped recording.

Almost made the mistake of marrying from akwa ibom. God forbid.

If you're my partner, and my enemy is not your enemy just forget the relationship.

pappilo:
Why would your friend quit a stable audit job where he/she earns $2100 net per month for a remote sales job where there is no job security?

This makes no sense to me.

Makes a lot of sense.
1. He's paid in dollars so depreciating naira no go affect am.
2. $3,500 is more than $2100. This one is pretty obvious.
3. He's a professional. When you're a professional, you can stop practicing for as long as you want and resume once you're ready. So even if he loses the remote job, he can always go back to 9-5 when he feels like.