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RomanceRe: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Raphaelda1st: 3:16pm On Jan 08, 2022
My dear, you are too young to speak of love that way... A whole LOVE oo..
Love na your mate?
Jaylynn:
And I didn't say I'm tired of relationships. I'm just not really intrigued by the whole ‘love’ thing. Forget I write them as stories... lolzz
RomanceRe: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Raphaelda1st: 3:14pm On Jan 08, 2022
Ohh .you guys were below 15?
grin
Jaylynn:
Hm. My friend wasn't 15 then. And I wasn't wink
RomanceRe: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Raphaelda1st:
But wait first, I assume you and your bestie must be age mates..
She started dating in ss2 (probably at 15years) and now the relationship is 5years (around 20years of age now)..
So as una small reach, ordinary 20years of age... you don tire for relationships and your friend dey emotionally confused??

True true, small yansh don dey shake oo
Children of nowadays angry
RomanceRe: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Raphaelda1st: 1:05pm On Jan 07, 2022
Yes na, you said you definitely understand your friend being an emotional person....I still don't understand what type of emotion puts one in this kind of mess
Jaylynn:
Lol. You asking me?
RomanceRe: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Raphaelda1st: 1:03pm On Jan 07, 2022
Stop making fallacy of generalization...
You've been dating the wrong guys babe....
Quite all right, you don't get all you want from people, but you have to learn how to live that or you help them develop what's missing..
What if you see your MR perfect but you don't have what he also wants....

Jaylynn:
Sacrifice? Hohoho. That's the very least I can do for a guy. I'm not even sure he's gonna sacrifice anything to be with me.
...and commitment? Like I really want to understand this commitment of a thing, cause from the hundred guys I've been with, they all shown nothing. Really. I feel commitment is just a word that doesn't exist in Nigeria.
RomanceRe: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Raphaelda1st: 12:58pm On Jan 07, 2022
Emotional??
What do you mean by emotional?
Everybody is f**king emotional...
But how do you guys do these things?
Personally, I can't even have feelings for my friend's ex ( that's if I'm aware they dated) talk more of falling in love with his current babe...
I'm maniacally bewildered..I give up on some people Sha...
Jaylynn:
Nah, she's just the emotional type. Even I can relate.
RomanceRe: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Raphaelda1st: 10:02am On Jan 07, 2022
If a girl is satisfied with a guy's relationship except from attention and she is distracted because of another guy who she THINKS will give her all the attention, then she's not ready for anything....
What is this Attention sef that ladies want??
If truly the guy is busy with things, there are ways you would start making him change tho...
But sincerely, what do you guys use attention for??....
It's not that the guy doesn't call, text or hangout oo, just that you need more..
SACRIFICE AND COMMITMENT IS KEY
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester United Vs Wolves (0 - 1) - Live by Raphaelda1st: 11:13am On Jan 04, 2022
You're said I wanted to single Ronaldo out?
I actually said blame the team and stop calling names....you did mention his name as a problem at first...
Why didn't you mention Sancho, greenwood or even Mc tomminay..but it was Ronaldo who came to your mind...that shows already that you have a problem with him already...so stop pretending like you want to be smart...
We are talking about Manchester united, you've brought Juventus, Madrid into it just to justify your claim
xeju:
Did I say "Ronaldo is the problem" or "Ronaldo is part of the problem"? You already agreed in your post the team is woeful but you want to single Ronaldo out, is Ronaldo not part of the team? You're turning around bush just to find way to single Ronaldo out. Plus how many midfielders can continue to pass to a striker just to tap into the net week in week out? Man utd played beta before Ronaldo arrived, maybe it's a loss of form or the team getting used to Ronaldo or the manager's, we'll never know. But looking also at juventus performance before and with Ronaldo present, shows some teams don't work with certain kind of players. No Mata how good Ronaldo, his style of play might be a curse to most teams (just like what Portugal are experiencing now) and a blessing to others with a balanced midfield, solid defence esp with Ramos at his prime and creative wingbacks/wingers(as when he was in Madrid).
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester United Vs Wolves (0 - 1) - Live by Raphaelda1st: 11:06am On Jan 04, 2022
Go and read his post and you would know why Ronaldo is his own problem at united...
Somebody who started talking about how poor he was at Juventus and how Ramos and co helped him succeed at Madrid...

Teaser4:
bro English no hard nah, he said “Ronaldo is part of the problem “… he didn’t say he’s the only problem…
PoliticsRe: Wike Critic Buhari For Signing Padded Budget But Refuse Assent To Electoral Bill by Raphaelda1st: 10:43am On Jan 04, 2022
Exactly my brother...
What benefit
Agbegbaorogboye:
I asked for the benefit it has bought the nation as against the previous you said is not good. What has been the budget performance and the targets apart from just running a calendar. I hope you realise financial years don't necessarily run the normal calendars.
PoliticsRe: Wike Critic Buhari For Signing Padded Budget But Refuse Assent To Electoral Bill by Raphaelda1st: 10:41am On Jan 04, 2022
It will be added to their 2022 achievement..
They signed the budget for 2022 before year 2022.
Agbegbaorogboye:
I don't even understand why they rush to sign the budget before January. Like what benefit does that bring the nation?
Can someone educate me plz
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester United Vs Wolves (0 - 1) - Live by Raphaelda1st: 11:49pm On Jan 03, 2022
Not a man united or Ronaldo fan but sometimes we shouldn't just say things because of the hate for somebody.
How can you say Ronaldo is part of that team's problem that can't make simple pass?
How many times did ball flow from midfielders to strikers upfront?
Very disgusting display from the team abeg, if you say generally the team (Ronaldo included) played woefully, then it's fine. But saying Ronaldo is the problem is what I don't understand....
Even Norwich , Newcastle and Watford can hold and make accurate passes than man united...
They have to solve the basics first

xeju:
Ronaldo is part of the problem
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester United Vs Wolves (0 - 1) - Live by Raphaelda1st: 8:43pm On Jan 03, 2022
Manchester united just dey tire me....
Lemme tell you guys, if man U want to start winning games they have to go back to the basic which is passing...
Imagine a team like man u cannot even hold the ball for 1minute...
If you no fit pass ball how you wan take dey do fast and pressing football....
I just tire for this team...
Well the best solution na to do overhauling, scrap out these lazy players feeling like they can't be benched...
LAZY I SAID
PoliticsRe: Pelumi Olajengbesi Resigns From Being Sunday Igboho’s Legal Team Member by Raphaelda1st: 1:13pm On Jan 03, 2022
Was he employed on social media??
Why must he tell us that he's resigning?
All these people sef
PoliticsRe: New Year: Obi Urges Nigerians To Sustain Hope In Country by Raphaelda1st: 10:13pm On Jan 01, 2022
But I don't understand people oo..
Did anybody ask him questions that you expect him to answer?
Somebody just gave a new year message filled with good WISHES and you are expecting his message to answer your imaginary questions...
If you have any questions relating to Nigeria, ask the people in charge...
Bro, whether you like it or not..provided you're in this country, you need that personal hope to keep you alive and happy...you don't have to wait for somebody to tell you
OreMI22:
I read through the new year message and did not find anything to illustrate that the bitter lessons of 2021 should not be allowed to repeat.

Did he say anything about who burnt his super-mall?

Is he going to rebuild it? What measures will be taken in 2022 to reduce the risks of arson in supermarkets?
Will he spread his risk by investing in other stores nationwide rather than a single super-store in one location?

Sustain hope in the country that bandits will finally be decisively dealt with by the federal government or that corruption, nepotism, and tribalism will no longer have a place in the governance of Nigeria?

There are too many IMPORTANT questions that Peter Obi is cleverly avoiding. Only a complete dunce will put their hope in nigeria.
PoliticsRe: Ikpeazu: Igbos Deserve Shot At Presidency, We Understand Nigeria Better by Raphaelda1st: 8:13pm On Dec 31, 2021
Bro, be civilized...
You don have to use the word "die" because you want to pass a message...
Well I ain't gonna throw it back,
One love..happy new year
Osilama1:
you can go and die since Igbos ll not get ticket from APC go and demand it from PDP...
PoliticsRe: Ikpeazu: Igbos Deserve Shot At Presidency, We Understand Nigeria Better by Raphaelda1st: 12:28pm On Dec 31, 2021
Sincerely, I have been noticing one thing about these SW guys, you people are not straightforward...sorry to say..
You accuse a particular tribe for something, but you do more than what you accuse them of..
Well, make I go tell my own governors to demand for presidency too
PoliticsRe: Ikpeazu: Igbos Deserve Shot At Presidency, We Understand Nigeria Better by Raphaelda1st: 12:26pm On Dec 31, 2021
But you guys can zone the APC ticket to osinbajo like it's your right,
But the ibos shouldn't demand for such zoning for their politicians too?
This is pure hypocrisy na
Osilama1:
nobody ll zone anything to Igbo when you people ll vote Pdp let PDP give Igbo ticket 2023 APC ticket is for osinbajo you can cry for all of care
PoliticsRe: 2021: Succession Game Ahead Of Next General Elections by Raphaelda1st: 11:20am On Dec 31, 2021
Who is insulting who?
Unknown people here on nairaland claiming to be ibos, yorubas and the rest insulting each other everyday..
That doesn't mean when you shouldn't support a suitable candidate from a particular tribe...if you continue like this it will definitely affect you relationships with others in real life..
Don't take things here too serious bro...
Reality3080:
u can't keep insulting people day n night n expect them to vote for u
PoliticsRe: Ikpeazu: Igbos Deserve Shot At Presidency, We Understand Nigeria Better by Raphaelda1st: 5:14am On Dec 31, 2021
Was it not on nairaland that several politicians and groups have given reasons why the SE isn't worthy of producing the president?
why are you guys like this..
An Igbo politician (though not a performing one) raised a matter that the SE deserves a shot for the presidency..
Then what is the reason for the attack?
Are there not underperforming governors in every region? So if other underperforming governors from other region advocates for the same thing for their respective regions, how is it a crime?
Me too I want my region to produce the president, it's not a crime!!!!!!!!!!
PoliticsRe: 2021: Succession Game Ahead Of Next General Elections by Raphaelda1st:
Will they just keep quiet and wait till election day??
You're trying to bring up tribal arguments now, I've noticed your comments on nairaland...
Politicians from different tribes especially from the SW have tried to convince others that the SE isn't a favourable region for the presidency and you expect them not to come out to demand for presidency with all provocative statements made so far, a major tribe for that matter...
C'mon now, make we no just make tribalism blind our eyes..
Bro, if you check very well more than 60% of your comments here on nairaland are against the ibos..Just go back to all your posts and see for yourself...
If an Igbo man insults a Yoruba man, it's not a valid reason why they don't deserve to produce the president vice versa..

Don't let nairaland spoil your heart with tribalism...



Reality3080:
let an igbo man go n seek for the nod from politicians,every southerner will contest
PoliticsRe: Plans To Eliminate Sunday Igboho, A Rumour, Don't Behave Like IPOB — Lawyer by Raphaelda1st: 9:50pm On Dec 29, 2021
This thread is a pure example of how the Yoruba people behave....
You guys will create a thread for ipob, use tribal comment to stylishly insult ibos, then bring comparison between subjects that doesn't make sense..imagine comparing Yoruba to a group in the east , what a shame to yorubas thinking they are hurting the ibos...
And if these same group or ibos insult them, they will start asking why ibos insult them...

Any sane Yoruba person should have said the lawyer shouldn't have involved ipob in his comments, there are ways of passing out messages without mentioning other groups, afterall the leader of the yoruba group is also in custody...
Before you quote me, I'm neither a Yoruba man nor an ibo guy...
Peace
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Who Else Dangote Refinery Sent This E-mail? (PHOTOS) by Raphaelda1st: 1:34am On Dec 28, 2021
It's real bro, don't miss the opportunity, just free those saying trash here...
Just prepare with the syllabus given to you...
Answer as much as you can..
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Dangote Refinery Test Invitation by Raphaelda1st: 12:52am On Dec 28, 2021
This one dangote refinery is sending mails to recent graduates, are they still using previous recruitment that were placed on hold?
People will finish their recruitment stages and still be ghosted...
They've hundreds of applicants waiting but here they are with a new recruitment drive.
This company dey surprise me Sha...

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