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I have read and watched People murder family values I have grown up to learn all in the name of Gender Equality. From waiting until Marriage before you have sex, To the roles of both parents in child upbringing and now the latest one: 'The man is not the head of the home'. Ladies una try gan!

I have first of all thought about all the points mentioned and I have decided to speak my mind.

1. First of all, The Man is the Head of the Family! Ladies accept that!

The problem that most Ladies and Men have about this point is that they don't understand the true meaning of that sentence. The Head is the most Important part of the body since it protects the Brain, the eyes and other important organs. But what most men miss is that the Head is not the only important part if the body. The hands, legs, chest, waist and the rest are also important. In fact if I am to give the Head of the family to the man, I WILL SAY THAT THE WOMAN IS THE NECK, CHEST AND WAIST OF THE BODY! SHE IS THERE TO PROTECT THE MOST IMPORTANT AREAS OF A MAN ( SORRY GUYS, BUT THAT'S THE TRUTH). A GOOD WOMAN SUPPOSED TO BE YOUR FRIEND, CONFIDANT, ASSOCIATE ETC. SHE SUPPOSE TO BE THE YING TO YOUR YANG, THE BRIGHTNESS TO YOUR DARKNESS, THE REFUGE( APART FROM GOD) YOU CAN RUN TO.

Why is that? Its because God has made her equipped for that. That's why women pray the more, they hope the more, they calm the man down more easily than any other person. That's why more women love after been hurt than men, that's why they are more 'wicked' than men when they decide to, that's why they tend to give many chances to men, e.t.c. IT IS BECAUSE THEY HAVE THE CAPACITY TO BE STRONGER MENTALLY THAN MEN.

the fact that the men is the Head of the family does not make the woman less equal, does not make her the ground or dirt to him, it does not make it inferior, it is there for organization and respect purposes. Imagine if both the man and the woman in the family are making two different decisions, which one will the child follow? What will he be taught about respecting authority? How will he understand certain issues?

But again men abuse this right and go ahead to unilaterally make decisions, instead of taking into consideration the woman aspect. Its a shame that men allow their egos and silly traditions to rule themselves.

BUT A MAN THAT TRULY UNDERSTANDS THE MEANING OF THE HEAD OF THE FAMILY WILL REALISE THAT WITHOUT THE WOMAN, HE IS COMPLETELY WORTHLESS AS THE HEAD, IN FACT HE IS DEAD AS THE HEAD, SO ALL EGO-RULED MEN SHOULD GET THAT IN THEIR HEADS.

FINALLY, FOR ILLUSTRATION SAKE, THE MAN IS THE HEAD, THE WOMAN IS THE NECK, CHEST AND WAIST( SUPPORTING THE MAN AND STILL HAVING HER IDENTITY) AND THE CHILDREN ARE THE HANDS AND LEGS WHICH GO FORTH TO SAHOW/SPREAD WHATEVER THEY LEARN FROM THE PARENTS.

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Ok, first to comment.

As a guy, I will tell you to forget the guy and move on.

As per your loneliness, discover yourself and your hobbies/likes and start doing them. Get into a good church and participate. Pray to God, read your bible and begin to relate with what is written in it. I tell you, God understands you best and loves you dearly.

Finally, take charge of your happiness. Find some reason to smile or laugh( don't laugh sheepishly in public sha). You are largely responsible for your happiness and happy people usually attracts friends.

If you were in my school, I could have tried to contact you, won't mind a friend.