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Please is this normal or am I supposed to be worried? My last few relationships are with virgins

I am this kind of person that get exposed to the internet at a very young age, I had a lot of online relationship from Eskimi to 2go to Facebook and the rest but I had my first physical relationship after I left secondary school, she was a loose girl the relationship was not a long lasting one becos I was insecure about her.

During my University days, I had couple of relationships which the last three were virgins. My current girlfriend which we have been dating for close to two years now is also a virgin( though we do have non penetrative sex mainly smooching and grinding), I meet her during my final year clearance then she was about to be admitted into the same university.

I am a bit worried, am I attracted to virgins? Though I had sex with few girls which are not virgins but the relationship lately have been with mostly virgins.

Ever wondered why that guy you were texting suddenly ghosted you through text? It might not be your fault. But what if it is?

#1 Initiating boring conversations through text.

Not exactly scary, but it’s a red flag for guys, because it means that there’s a chance that this is the best type of conversation you can offer. Stop talking about the weather, and start discussing things that you are passionate about.
Don’t waste time texting about trivial things like what you ate, unless you’re really passionate about it.

#2 Not texting as much as they do.

The same goes for when guys text you and you barely reply. They see this as a blow to their ego and they take it as a sign that you’re not interested. It affects their self-esteem and gives them a clearer picture of how much you really like them.

#3 Responding with vague answers.

When you keep sending strange emojis instead of a “yes” or “no” to a perfectly simple question, this guy might decide to text someone else who knows how to speak the human language. Guys just want a clear-cut answer to their questions and sentiments.
If they say you’re pretty, tell them thank you. If they ask you out, tell them when you’re free. Don’t overcomplicate the simplicity of texting.

#4 Ignoring their compliments.

Another thing that guys hate is when you deflect their compliments or affectionate messages. They’re reaching out to you, which means that they’re okay with being vulnerable – even if it’s through texting.
When you ignore messages like those, they get bummed out and can even see it as a sign of insecurity on your end.


#5 Using one-word answers like k, cool, and fine.

Most of the time, this happens when women are mad, because they think it’s the right way to get their point across.
Ladies, take heed of this advice, because passive-aggressive jabs like these only make things worse.

As the watermelon season is fast approaching, a Russian nutritionist has revealed that this fruit can cause weight gain and advised people who have diabetes and atherosclerosis to do without it.

Excessive consumption of watermelon carries many dangers, while some people should not eat watermelon at all, Russian nutritionist Olga Grigorian said in an interview with Govorit Moskva. She explains that the abuse of this cucurbit could cause metabolic dysfunction and lead to obesity, among other things.


“If you eat more than one and a half kilos of watermelon every day, you are almost automatically guaranteed to gain weight,” she said.

She pointed out that the person concerned would gain weight due to the increase in body fat. “And everyone knows today how difficult it is to lose the adipose component” of weight, the nutritionist pointed out.

She called on those who have diabetes and atherosclerosis to give up watermelon.

No more than 300 grams
People with allergies should reduce the doses they take. “If you have a history of allergic bronchitis or bronchial asthma, or if you experience rashes or complications from skin diseases such as psoriasis, don’t insist on watermelon,” Olga said.


She added that you should not eat more than 300 grams of this juicy and sweet flesh at one time.

“You have to understand that watermelon has a delicious taste, especially because it contains a large amount of sugar,” she noted, calling for control of its consumption.

In every complete human being they are two kidneys present which are bean-shaped organs that perform a lot of important functions.

They’re in charge of filtering blood, removing waste through urine, producing hormones, balancing minerals, and maintaining fluid balance in the system.

There are many risk factors for kidney disease. The most common are uncontrolled diabetes and high blood pressure. Did you know that kidney disease or damages had killed so many People?

“Damage to the kidneys is often irreversible, so if you don’t take good care of your kidneys you may face significant health risks which result in dialysis or kidney transplant. And you know how much it cost.

When the kidneys become damaged or affected with diseases and are unable to function properly, fluid can build up in the body and waste can accumulate in the blood system.

Therefore avoiding or limiting these foods in your diet may help decrease the accumulation of waste products in the blood, improve kidney function, and prevent further damage.

To avoid kidney health challenges stay away from eating excess of these foods.

SALT
Consuming Sodium salt overloads leads to increase in blood pressure, which puts a strain on your kidneys. The typical American diet has been evaluated, and to contain about 3,300 mg of sodium per day, which is much higher than the 2,300 mg daily maximum (about a teaspoon of salt) recommended by the government for healthy adults.

Consuming A high salt diet will alter this sodium balance, causing the kidneys to have reduced function and remove less water resulting in higher blood pressure. This puts strain on the kidneys and can lead to kidney disease or damages. Please take note of that.

DRINKING ALCOHOL IN EXCESS
Regular drinking more than four bottles a day has been found to double the risk of chronic kidney disease.

Drinking excess Alcohol causes changes in the function of the kidneys and makes them less able to filter the blood. Alcohol also affects the ability to regulate fluid and electrolytes in the body. When alcohol dehydrates (dries out) the body, the drying effect can affect the normal function of cells and organs, including the kidneys.

Please take note of that.

SMOKING
Although smoking have some benefits, unlike united state of America and other places that experiences cold weather, People smoke in order to keep their body warm whenever they is cold. But smoking in excess contributes to kidney problems.

Many People use to ask question whether smoking is bad for their health Yes, for the following reasons, Smoking can affect medicines used to treat high blood pressure. Uncontrolled or poorly controlled high blood pressure is a leading cause of kidney disease. Smoking slows the blood flow to important organs like the kidneys and can make kidney disease worse or damages the kidney.

Man divorces pregnant wife for uploading baby shower pics wearing only pant and bra

GOSSIPMan divorces pregnant wife for uploading baby shower pics wearing only pant and bra


Humans cannot curtail what these information superhighways platforms would bring upon them when the results start tickling in. In fact, the stuff we see with our eyes on various social media platforms such as WhatsApp, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Snapchat and others can never cease to amaze us.

The love/ bond a husband and wife share has vanished because of the influence of this same social media craze in the world now. A Nigerian man has angrily threatened to divorce (in fact he’s almost through) his wife for posting and sharing her baby shower photos whilst wearing only pant and brassier.

There are a lot of things some people feel normal to share on social media such as the food they eat, monies they cash out, naked photos, etc whilst there are other school of thoughts who believe otherwise.

This Nigerian man is a typical example of those who do not believe in sharing everything personal online.

Was the man wrong or right in divorcing his wife? Please share your thoughts with us.

5. Chucking the bird.



You knew this one was coming. This is one of the most popular hand signs. Chucking the bird is done by sticking up the middle finger, and most popular obscene gesture in the United States.

It's an insult now and it was insulting way back in ancient Greece when it was used as an insult then.

Many people also used it as a symbol for se*ual intercour$e. The middle finger represents the peni$ and the fingers around it represents the te$ticles. It's very common in America and it can either mean "up yours", meaning up your butt.

There are some religions that believe that sticking up your middle finger is a direct insult to God. Today in the United States, some people use this gesture more as a joke than they do as an insult. The way a person takes it would be based on the person giving them the bird.

4. High five.

Just about everybody has given somebody a high five at one point or another in their life. It's believed that the roots of the high five go back to the Jazz era in the early 20th century.

At the time black musicians would say, Hello! by giving skin and then changed it to a handshake gesture called a Dap.

In the 1970s, college basketball players would raise their arms above their heads after they would do something good and slap hands. It was then that they started calling it a high five

There are few other stories about how and where the term high five came from. Some say that it was two players during an LA Dodgers game and another story says that a man named Lamont fleets father started to high-five with one of his army buddies. The gesture became so popular that students named every third Thursday in April National High Five Day.

3. The Pledge of Allegiance symbol

Children today say the pledge of Allegiance with their hand over their heart. That wasn't always the case though. Originally, the Bellamy salute was used.

When the Pledge of Allegiance was first written in 1892, the right hand would be held at the brown similar to the military salute.

When the speech got to the part that said "to my flag" the arm would then be extended out to point to the flag with the palm facing up. The arm would remain that way for the rest of the Pledge.

Over the years, points of the Bellamy salute fell out of use. First, the military salute was abandoned, it left just the arm extended straight. The last part of the salute was changed when America got involved in war. Secondly, the solute looked too much like the one used by Hitler and Mussolini in 1942.

President Franklin Roosevelt signed a law making putting the hand over the heart the official Pledge of Allegiance flag code.

2. The corna

The corna is when only your index finger and your pinky are pointing up and you hold the rest of your fingers down with your thumb behind your palm. This gesture means different things in different places.

If you flash the sign to a man in Italy or Spain, it means that you're sleeping with his wife behind his back. If you point this sign to somebody you don't like it means that you are warding off the evil eye.

If you hold up the sign and then twist your wrist back and forth and South America, it is similar to To the American Superstition knock on wood. The sign also is used by fans of the University of Texas. They call it Hook em Horns.

It was started in 1955 by a student named Harley Clark to represent the school mascot. Finally, it's also a pretty common symbol flashed during heavy metal rock concerts.

1. The Shaka sign

The Shaka sign is when you fold your three middle fingers down while holding your thumb and pinky out, next you twist your hand around.

It's a strange gesture, however if you go to Hawaii, you will see this gesture a lot there. It means hello, goodbye, have a nice day, take it easy, good luck or the most popular "Hang loose".


While it is popular gesture in Hawaii, the origin of the gesture is a bit vague. The story goes back to when Spanish sailors first landed on the Hawaiian islands and they didn't speak the language. The Spanish would try to offer the Hawaiians a drink by mimicking a bottle in their hand. They often did that; the Spanish began assuming that they were saying hello.

It's also believed that the gesture was started by a beloved local named Hamana Kalili in the 20th century. Khalili had lost his three middle fingers. Nobody knows for sure how he lost his fingers or if he even started the gesture. Even the name Shaka is strange because it's not a Hawaiian word.

Beads are worn on the waist even around the ankle to make beautification. Women who know the importance of beads do not joke with it at all when it comes to its adornment. Those women who don't know the importance of wearing beads should please ask questions. Men who don't know why other women wear beads, should ask their fellow men what and how they feel seeing their wives wearing beads on their waists.

Benefits of wearing waist beads


1. Waist beads enable you to know your weight ratio, either you are losing or gaining weight.

2. Another vital reason is the fact that when you wear beads around your waist, you will always become a point of attraction to your husband. Waist beads give you that sexual appeal. You come to understand this when you're in the other room with your wife. This can also be observed when your wife is half-naked within your gauze.

3. Spiritual protection: Some women believe that once they wear beads, there is no any form of spiritual attack in their lives. If wearing beads on the waist can protect my wife from spiritual attacks, then it's worth wearing.


4. Royalty : Some beads represent royalty because of cost and scarcity. Most women wear this even if they are not royalty, just to make them stand out in the face of their society.

There are other important needs for beads in traditional certain. Most African countries attached meanings to wearing waistbeast. For example, in Ghana, the Ashanti tribes wear beads on the waist and are shown only to the person they are planning to get married to. The spirit behind the usage normally varies.

Some other tribes wear waist beads for preventing illegal and unwanted pregnancy, especially in some Northern part of Nigeria. Waist beads can perform amazing functions unknown to you. Please make more research and find out more.

Really

1. Do not wear a vest or sleeveless top without shaving your armpits or without a bra underneath… No man, not even your husband, will like to see you that way.


2. Do not leave cheap nail polish to wear off on its own, there’s a reason they sell nail polish remover…

3. If you can’t afford good quality weaves, don’t bother. Just pack your hair neatly.

4. Do not do artificial nails that make you look like a dragon queen, being simple is always sexy. Just try it once and you will love doing it always. Have you heard men talk about a lady being natural before? It’s because they like natural women.

5. See-through leggings or a top used as a dress when you are out in public is a hell-to-the-no!


6. Never do things for a man with a hope of getting something in return, expectations are dangerous. Do it because you simply want to.

7. Never contradict what your man says in public.

8. Never stalk the man that left you for the other woman.

9. Do not share your best friend’s personal life with every Tom, * and Harry.

10. Women should never act on distress in relationships like checking your man’s phone, nagging him to death, and acting like a paranoid freak. You will simply release him to someone else by doing so.


11. Never dish out your entire family drama on a first date. The guy just wants to know about you.

12. Stop obsessing over your body. It’s good to eat healthy and work out but leave it at that.

13. Never over-accessorize. Stop looking like a Christmas tree.

14. Never leave home without lip-gloss, your phone and most of all your dignity.

15. Never leave your used sanitary towel in the toilet for the next person to see. Women please!

16. Never wear very high heels if you can’t do the Naomi Campbell walk. You look like a drunk grasshopper.

17. Never wear short skirts and low cut tops when off to an interview. You will create the wrong impression.

18. Never think you can threaten your man into submission. You simply get him irritated in the end.

19. Respect is reciprocal. You earn your man’s respect if you respect him first. And finally,

20. Never wish to be like any other woman. There are others out there envying you for who you are… Be yourself!

Finding the perfect word to tell your partner may come to us that easily but those words of affirmation can go a long way to brighten up our day and even boost our confidence. Which man does not love to hear sweet words coming from their wives or girlfriends? They love it when you do these things. Here are 5 things men love to hear from their women:

1. I believe in you
It is nice to have support from your partner, especially when they keep on boosting your confidence by constantly reminding you how much they believe in you. These words can be very soul-uplifting for a man especially when he is pursuing his dreams.


2. You look so handsome
Ladies, compliment your man when he makes the effort to look good. Telling him he looks handsome will make him feel special and just like women like being complimented on their looks, you have to do same for your man.
3. You are not like other guys
This shows them how much you value them. A man wants a woman to look at him differently from other guys. Tour admiration is a booster.


4. I appreciate you: Men love to be appreciated for their efforts
Sometimes men do not know what to do for their women so it’s always nice when they hear their partners thanking them for their efforts. The fact that they were able to put a smile on your face makes them feel good. Appreciating them also encourages them to try again.

5. It's okay to make mistakes
Men are very competitive in nature and sometimes their failure at something can ruin their whole mood. When they do not get it right the first time, do not lash out at them. Encourage them to try again. We all make mistakes. We are all not perfect

BONUS �



The End.

12.Hacking Is Illegal And Not A Good Means Of Earning A Living:Hackers are thought to bad people because they can break in system illegally with an aim to steal,change or destroy information.

All hackers are not bad,we have different types of hackers...we have the Black hat hacker(illegal hackers),white hat hackers(their work is to solve loopholes by creating algorithms to break existing internet networks)...other types of hackers include Gray hat hacker,Blue hat hacker,Red hat hacker,Green hat hacker,Script kiddie,Social engineering hackers,Hacktivists,Cyber terrorists,State/Nation sponsored hackers, Malicious insider/Whistle-blower hackers and Elite hackers

11.king Cobra Is The Most Venomous Animal In The World:Cobra is a long Venomous snake with neurotoxins enough to kill an Asian elephant,the Cobra is also called King because it feeds on fellow Cobras...well,,cobras are not the most venomous animal in the world. The most venomous animal in the world is Box jellyfish,they are so venomous that they could kill a person within two minutes of contact with it's tentacle �

10.Yellowish Teeth Is Dirty And Unhealthy:When we smile the teeth is one of the places people look at. A white teeth is assumed to be a healthy teeth while yellowish teeth is assumed to be unhealthy and dirty..well,it's actually a myth because the teeth is naturally yellowish in color �

9.Using An Alarm Clock To Wake Up:Alarm clock are set to wake us up in the morning with the sound they make in order for us to be meet up with our schedule for the day,This method is used by so many people..but it is actually wrong because Waking u suddenly is bad�

8.Using Phone During Lighting Storm:This myth is believed by so many people but the truth is that there's no harm in using your phone during lightning storm,The radio waves in smart phones don't conduct electricity �

7.Gun Silencers:Most common in movies we watch,Silencers are used to completely reduce the noise a gun is supposed to make when fired,well..the actual truth is that Silencers only damp the noise but the gunshot will still be audible �

6.Waiting 24hrs Before Reporting Case Of A Missing Person:Waiting for 24hrs before reporting case of a missing persons is wrong and does not show any sign of genuine concern �

5.Elephants Make Loud Noise When they Walk:Elephants are the largest land mammals,due to this there's a popular saying that goes like this "You stomp like an Elephant"...this statement is actually wrong because Elephants are generally quiet,they're light on their feet and they don't make noise when they walk�

4.Brushing After Every Meal:Brushing of our teeth after every meal is not a good idea because it harms the teeth,The proper routine is to brush twice a day preferably morning and Night but I know most of us brush only once(u can't prove me wrong�)�

3.Fish Are Mute:Fish are not mute and they make sounds?�...that will probably the question in your mind but it is actually True,fish are not mute(you can Google it if you doubt)they make different sounds that cannot be heard with human ear�

2.Chameleons:Chameleons are known to Change their color in order to blend with their environment but the truth is that they can stay in a multicolored environment without changing their skin color to match any color in that environment �

Myths are things we believe because almost everyone accept it as the truth,these believes are often passed from generations.

Bellow are 12 myths people believe..but they're not true�

1.Talking while Free Falling :Talking while free falling is common in movies we watch but in as much as it looks real the truth still remains that two people can't communicate while free falling �

Ahh, the age-old question – how long should intercourse last? Or better yet, how long do women want for intercourse to last?

This is a vital question that comes to every man’s mind ever so often.

And, believe it or not, this is one of the most frequently googled questions by men and it is approximately 65,000 times a month to be exact.

That’s certainly a big number and for that reason, it would be a shame for us to leave it unanswered.


The most important thing to know is, luckily, you don’t need to worry about the actual duration of s*x, Most people don’t like it marathon and women are part of them.

But, before we venture any further, you need to know a thing or two about the bedroom fantasies girls are silent about.

Now, let’s take a look at what research says about this topic.

Scientists have researched s&xual stamina and found a large gap between how long s$x lasts and how long people would like it to last.

A study of 500 couples worldwide proved that the average s$xual intercourse lasts only 5.4 minutes – with or without a condom.


However, proved by a more recent study, most s$x therapists agree that s$x should last between 7 and 13 minutes.

Many men are bothered by the idea of ​​having short s$x but the most important thing is that extra-long s$x is not what most women want.

It’s not about quantity, it’s about quality.

Most women say they would prefer to spend extra time on pre-intimacy, which is a much greater predictor of a female orgasm than long-lasting s$x.

Fact is women need longer pre-intimacy than men, but that doesn’t mean you need to leave her without sleep and make her feel tired the next day instead of refreshed and satisfied.


However long it lasts, the most important thing is to make her feel wanted and special. And if you need a little bit more help, then check out these dating and relationship tips and tricks.

Believe us, this way you will achieve more in 3 minutes than you would in 3 hours of average intercourse.