₦airaland Forum

bitchcrafts:
by caring less nooni.

LOL. You're funny man. Thanks anyway

TruePass:
My paddy listen.

Marriage is like traveling on a long journey with your personal car, you have to prepared adequately. Ranging
From servicing of the car to having enough fuel. If not sorry

In as much as there are small fault u might ignore but still get to your destination, that is to tell u that No One or nothing Is Perfect.

But your girl attitude is No No.

Because in every relationship or marriage there MUST
Be a problem n hurdles on d long run.

If your partner is the type that cant say sorry no matter what u will live the life of pain, anguish n sorry even as a slave cos u will always b d one to run to her.

It will even affect your kids cos they will be cold hearted, seeing the drama between u n their mother everyday.

U will never be loved, appreciated or even care for.

Life is too short for that.

My babe makes me feel like a king, she cherish me alot
And it so easy for us to say sorry.

Sometimes will end up saying am sorry to each other trying to accept the blame.

My only problem is that she is a South African babe but she is all that I need as a wife.

I can bet she is far beautiful than that arrogant babe.

If u doubt make we post pictures.

Everyone deserves to be love.



TruePass.

I appreciate your response my dear brother. I am not here to compare pictures but you have indeed advised me as your brother. Thank you. I'll make ammendment, just that sometimes it's painful to let go someone you love. But all the same, life has got to continue

bitchcrafts:
Problem is you care too much.

Like seriously? How do I care less?

Benita27:
What makes you think that a lady who disrespects you while you're dating/engaged would change when you make her your mrs?. These are red flags but you don't want to take cognizance of any. She yells at you, never says sorry while you're made to apologise even when she's wrong, keeps malice for too long. My dear, she's a time bomb waiting to explode in marriage.

I think you've made her feel she's indispensable, so the attitude. You know what you want best.

Hmm! I'm speechless. I do take cognizance of all these you mentioned, but i was hoping a little patient could make things work, but rather keeps getting worse. Thanks Sis.

Gentlevin:
@op.....read carefully.......I onced had a nice babe I wanted to marry but now d over 3yrs relationship has ended cos I wonder y a lady will wake up one day and ignore my calls for 1 month. After 1 mth, and I asked y? she will say nothing...after talking to her, she still did not change...next yr she ignored me for 2mths....and next yr 3mths.....and when I realised this, I asked myself......I never marry this babe and she dey behave like this, what will happen wen I marry her?.... she is not willing to tell anyone why she behaves like that......bros na so I tell d babe bye bye.....love no be by force.....BUT NOW SHE IS TRYING TO COME BACK....but me I don do usain bolt style ooo. SHE NEVER SAYS SORRY WEN SHE IS WRONG.....@op....lack of communication is very bad for marriage ooooo. God don show u sign....na your choice...

Lol you're funny. But I think you understand what am saying more. I have never for once denied her communication. I Gave her my time, my attention, not to talk of money, I have even taken it upon myself to close early at work just to make sure I spend time with her, yet what I get in return is awkward. Its very painful but Ive got to move on. Thanks Man. Appreciate you

willanderson:
This is not a good look. I’d say don’t wed yet. Take your time to study her behavior and weigh your options. Like the saying goes “a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage

Thanks bro

tolufase:
If actually she is exhibiting all what u enumerated above, then she is even a girlfriend material not to talk being a wife. All what she is doing now is just a preamble of what to expect in ur marriage. You get to see her really characters when u marry her. By the way, hav u let her spend time with ur family and see how she relate to them particularly ur mum. Although their views may not neccessarily be a determinant but trust me it also help. Good luck!

God bears me witness. I never lied about anything I posted, infact I couldn't list all she's been doing because I have decided not to discuss my relationship matters with people who in turn make me a laughing object. But I have no option, am dieing inside of me. I just have to talk to someone...

Faithscharms2:
anyway I think you should threaten her to go back to her family house because you can't be under same roof with a woman who isn't talking to you..Good luck tho

Thank Sis. I'll try that if it's gonna work

Chommieblaq:
Halt every marriage plan.


An unforgiving and egoistic spouse will drive you to untimely death.
How can someone stay in same house, and will be comfortable keeping malice?
Forget what the mother tells you, at the end of the day na una two go live together abi. Thank God you notice early, if you can't cope better opt out now, 6 month is not a long time ( no one will say you wasted her time) and I'm sure you must have talked to her about this. It takes two to make a relationship work, both people will be willing and ready to compromise, but in this case e be like say na only you waka come. Well except, if you are the desperate one, then get ready to put up with that till when your eternity comes calling.

Hmm. I can't believe this is coming from a lady. U just advised me as a brother and I quite appreciate that. I am not desperate, even though am of marriage able age and Yeah I have indeed talk to her about all these severally but she's never moved with whatever I say.

We don't discuss on phone but in person.

Like I said, she has had to put up at my residence to meet up with her work.

I agree Her work activities is somehow challenging should that make her shout and behave to me in such manner?

Thanks for your tips

This post is directed to the mature minds on this forum and not the ones with fish brain.

I've had this lady and we've been dating for like Six months, I have met with the families and vice versa and we are on the verge of getting married in a few months that time.

I met her some 6 months back and I love her so much. I put every of my effort to make sure I make her happy, because she's the the type of lady I hope to settle down with. Of recent, she had to put up with me due to the fact that she stays in a remote part Lagos and work on the island, of course which had the consent of both families and some relatives. Months into our relationship, I discovered she's the stubborn and egoistic type and I have since then called her severally to address that but all to no avail.

When ever she does anything wrong to me and I correct her, she wont feel any remorse about what she's done and will hardly say sorry. she won't talk to me or reply me whenever I talk to her, or even pick my calls or call me. I will have to beg her day after day before she finally say a word. This has been going on for a while but I keep hoping she will change, coupled with the fact that her mom do calls me to plead with me to always be calm with her, but now its as if am forcing myself on this lady. How do I tell the store that I stay under a roof with a lady and she frustrate me by not talking to me and shouts at me when any conversation ensues. God sees I have put everything of my best to make sure this relationship work, but all to no avail. Her egoistic and pride attitude is killing it and me emotionally.

Nairalanders please what should I do? Mature answers only

End time ladies

Nairalanders.... Una no go kill person with laff

OAUTemitayo:
They want to Islamize the roads.
This is an attempt to prevent Christians from having right to use roads in Nigeria.
This Buhari government is just too sectional.
They want to stop CAN leadership from using the roads.
Islamisation of roads has started.

E be like say your head don turn upside down. And this is another speech that could sectionalize Nigerians. Better keep quiet if u don't know what to write

Polio is a useless guy. We need to kick him out of Nigeria. Raskssal say so

I concur with you OP. Everything is true. May God help all couple

In small doctor voice "KO NI FUN OYIN OF TO SE KOSTEY"

Omo to ba sise dede, o je ko la si ko igbadun. He who is hardworking should have time for enjoyment

kokomaster3d:
We are ready: Bittorrent get ready, IDM get ready. Glo network must explode. I don warn them

Going by ur post, I proscribe you a data terrorist

Single

Praisles:
i think what u need most now is brain surgery, tanidi oshi,awon omo irole aye ! iranu abacha

Exactly what I have on my mind. U just nailed it

sarrki:
Onirisa

You need to move oout Asap

Python is dancing over there

Lol. Human python

Lol. This question tho... But am proud of mine sha and will always be

brainpulse:
If the Nigerian army really wants to act and show its strength, all of this won't deterred them. And nothing will the UN do, Nigerian government already has video evidences of Kanu calling for arms and instigating war and genocide against other tribes.
The other thing that will happen is for Federal government to call for state of emergency then it will become red for una, you will be sleeping and waking up with the military.

You're on point man. But I guess they're playing along acoirding to their python dance slogan, hence the need for slow action

Chascop:
probably with the aid of an earphone..

Lolss

olaolulazio:
I hope it's not an English movie.. Because I'll need my bullet proof jacket on in case Odunlade speaks.

Sean, lalasticlala.. I use Diamond bank now, make I forward my detail?

Maybe that's becos u have never watched any of his English movie aside the comedy ones where the script will make him speak like an illiterate just to make pple laff. Odun speaks good and fluent English. More so he is a graduate

Buhari is indeed an elder and a knowledgeable man. He hears and pretend as if he didn't hear just to allow peace reign. May God bless my president.

abelprice:
Lazy girl alert.. .. yet she sings about boys..

No mind am, na otondo she be

When is No Bra Day? Someone should remind me

I wonder how Fayose and FFK would react to the recent Buhari news. Having ranted and run thier mouth, they should be ashamed of themselves and even Buhari doesn't need their visit. The Goodnews is that our president is alive and well be back soon Insha'Allah. May God grant him good health, and long life.

Let them begin from the Island. They are kò on d list

Police will see every reason to arrest IPOB members, but they see no reason to arrest a single Arewa youth after two months even though people were clamoring for their arrest. Yet we want one Nigeria and we keep marginalizing some sect..