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You'll feel intimidated seeing me. But seriously, how old are you? 10?

When you met him, he liked certain things about you, you probably  had a great conversation together and he saw you had a lot in common with him. He thought he was in love with you right away. He told you and you both got together.

Fast forward to 2 weeks. Like a lot of relationships, the girl's feelings start getting the best of her when the guy's feeling for her starts dying. Like most human beings with a penis, he started getting bored. To add to these problems maybe you were the kind of girl that sat through conversations and he got bored with talking to you. He decides to take a break. Bringing my own experiences into this, I'd say he probably wanted a short break but kept procrastinating on when to call you. He's procrastinating because he knew he did you wrong and thinks you're pissed at him, the harder he procrastinated, the harder it is to call. After three months, he gets his guts right and decides to call you.

The same boring thing is still affecting him but this time he's careful to take shorter breaks, he's now taking 2 weeks instead of the regular 3 months.

That's what I make of it.

Let's explore another probability, a simpler one too:

He got in trouble went to jail and escaped after 3 months but he's still on the run and can't call you every time because the cops are still hot on his heels, tapping his phone lines.

Pick option 1 or 2.

I am a fan of Hoffenheim and this thread makes me sad.

I think the Stoch guy should have started ahead of Malouda but what do I know. The game was actually good compared to our last few games, I thought we were unlucky to miss the chances we missed.

I didn't object to surrogacy in any part of my post, did I? I only asked for people (women?) to try to balance their procreative liberty that allows them the right to have kids at any time they want, with anyone they wish and using any method they see fit with their procreative responsibility. Chikena.

TOYOSI20:
U gat it Babe, always, its nothing but love trust me!!

B.T.W. Is the New Blue Print III Album out yet??

Blueprint not Blue print.

Surrogacy is very controversial even in 'modern' societies because it goes against the traditional methods of reproduction and childbirth. You also need to be specific as there's a big difference between gestational surrogacy and traditional surrogacy. In gestational surrogacy, the surrogate is just the one who carries the pregnancy, the real mother gets pregnant and transfers the embryo to the surrogate. I'm not sure about the medical facilities in Nigeria but if I had to guess, I'd say gestational surrogacy is not so common because of the limited and not-so-developed healthcare system in Nigeria, like every third world country. I'm not saying it's completely non-existent but I'm guessing its for the rich ones.

In a place like Nigeria where there is so much pride in having your own child, traditional surrogacy is also not likely to be popular. You have to realize that polygamy is still legal in Nigeria so why would a man pay a woman to have his child when he has a better choice - marry that fertile 18 year old from the village.

Anyway, both forms go against the traditional methods and arena likely to be accepted in Nigeria.

I'm assuming what you want is a commercial surrogate, that's someone you pay, this may be your best choice because I don't see Nigerians being as altruisitic as that. Finding a commercial surrogate would be hard and probably expensive in Nigeria. You are likely to find a cheap surrogate in places like India if you can afford the journey, it's cheap and common there.

Above all, do not involve yourself in anything that's unethical. Don't take advantage of the poor who are likely to do anything for money, that's exploitation and it's wrong. Don't also do it because you're rich enough to afford it, commercializing childbirth and commodifying pregnancy is immoral.

Goodluck.

HorneyChic:
Illmatic
It was written
I am
Nastradamus
Stillmatic
Gods son
Street disciple
Hip hop is dead
Untitled (all by Nas, yea i'm a bloody Nas fan)
Destiny fufilled - Destinys Child
Preachers son - Wycleff
All eyes on me - 2pac
Life after death - biggie
Survivor - Destinys child
Aphrodisiac - Brandy
Grass 2 Grace 2face
Touch - Amerie etc etc

Really? Nastradamus is one of the worst albums in hiphop, even the greatest Nas stans don't argue about that.

Is this what Nigerians love now? Is this what you call music? A guy screaming on top of his voice without caring about the beat, wack lyrics to boot. SAD!

*coughs*

bluespice:
a little off topic here, ras pwn are u n-guage?

I am that I am, I am, I am, I am.

Just sign up for my 7 week program and you'll find them approaching you. Money back guarantee, word to shamwow.

I think no one understands that there are three (or possibly more) sides to this. If I'm not supporting Israel does it mean I support Hamas? NO! I support the innocent citizens of Gaza who don't have anywhere to go, lose hands and legs and watch their babies die everyday. Don't let's pretend there's no middle ground here, Israel doesn't want a draw though, they want to win. They want to do this until Palestinians are completely silent.

davidylan:
No, its merely a holiday gift from HAMAS.

bawomolo:
according to the video, there were 15 rocket attacks between july and november. isn't that a violation of the ceasefire??

Did you guys watch the video well or you both have problems comprehending simple English? None of those rockets were from Hamas. Hamas is not the only paramillitary force fighting for the liberation of Gaza.

TOYOSI20:
Like i said nahh!!

foul mouth!!,

YES and I bet you'll love my foul mouth.

Just to end this: I'm concerned. Everything, good or bad, makes you who you are and makes you the person I fell in love with. On a lighter note, I see you stopped saying "Kuro lana."

TOYOSI20:
general questions yes. . . .I'd be glad to help those out there too. .  .

You sound like you're helping a random dude, it's you and I here and helping me is helping us. Anyway, no more personal questions

TOYOSI20:
Ummm. . . .like things that don't really matter,. . . . . .

and things that guys arent able to stomach. . . . .

1. How do you decide what matters and what doesn't?
2. How do you know what your man (my humble self) can't stomach?

TOYOSI20:
can't stress it enough some thing are meant to be kept secret. . . .

Like what?

My first video is Rivers of Babylon by Boney M. This version of the song was released sometimes in the late 80's and was a cover of Rivers of Babylon by The Melodians, a Jamaican ska/roots reggae group came out in the late 60's/ early 70's. My favorite = The earlier version.

[flash=430,360]http://www.youtube.com/watch/v/Nm1g8FFRArc&hl=en&fs=1[/flash]

Download
Rivers of Babylon (Melodians) - http://www.zshare.net/audio/54047964d780d2d1/
Rivers of Babylon (Boney M.) - http://www.zshare.net/audio/54047871729897c2/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zfFMZ7Y-s_c

In this video, Israeli spokesman, Merk Regev admits Hamas did not fire any rockets until Israel broke the ceasefire on November 4, 2008. From this video, it's clear to see who wants peace and who the bully is.