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PoliticsRe: Hollywood Actor Danny Glover Arrives In Nigeria For Ebola Movie, ‘93 Days’ by rawpadgin(m): 11:04pm On Sep 09, 2015
broxymall:
i love this guy
but too old

visit my signature
who nor go old huh
Abi u nor like to old
HealthRe: Serious Chest Problem. Please Help! by rawpadgin(m): 11:02pm On Sep 09, 2015
My friend go & see ur doctor asap

u think say life get duplicate huh
RomanceRe: HELP! Prostitute Stole My Money!? by rawpadgin(m): 11:00pm On Sep 09, 2015
U should be thankful the b1tch didn't chop off ur head
CelebritiesRe: Goodbye Innocence! Ex-disney Star Selena Gomez Finally Poses Nude.. by rawpadgin(m): 10:56pm On Sep 09, 2015
Save ur mb
here it is tongue

RomanceRe: 10 Ways To Know If He Is Serious About You, Girls Only! by rawpadgin(m): 9:44pm On Sep 09, 2015
Save ur mb ma people

here it is

Ten Ways To Know If He Is Serious About You

Have you ever wondered why all the ladies are ''in a relationship'' and all the guys are ''single''? Well, it is because men are deceiving women.

My friend once told me that he has a friend  who would buy about five rings and engage five different girls at the same time, constantly deceiving each one of them that she's the queen of his heart.
According to him, it is cheaper and easier to get a woman to do what he wants once he appears serious or committed with them.
Unfortunately, he's not alone. Many men are actors. Ladies should learn how to discern a man who really care about them and those who are players.

These are 10 ways to know if a man is serious about you or not.

1. HE DOESN'T PLAY MIND GAMES WITH YOU.
If he says he will drop in to see you,  he does. When he makes plans with you for the weekend, he sticks to them. He doesn't torment you by saying one thing and doing something else.
He's not cold one instant and warm and affectionate the other. If his ex-girlfriend calls him, he tells you about it for the sake of honesty and not in a way that makes you uncomfortable. When a man plays mind games, it's typically because he doesn't really care, or because the relationship is casual for him. If your man makes a special effort to be honest and open,that's a sign of his commitment to the relationship.


2. HE WANTS TO KNOW THINGS ABOUT YOU.
And it's not just the regular stuff like ''what are your hopes and dreams?'' or, ''What inspire you to paint?'' or '' What's your favorite rock band?''
He asked you questions about your childhood, your job, parents, etc.
He wants to know what it likes to be the elder sister or, he always asks you how you cope with your long stressful work hours. He is genuinely concerned about your career and asks you about your plans. Even the best actor cannot feign an interest in mundane details such as, ''What time did you wake up today?'' or ''Did you get enough sleep last night?'' If he's serious about you, he will find all the mundane details interesting.



3. HE CALLS YOU MULTIPLE TIMES EVERYDAY.
He calls you sometimes for no reason.
Even if you've met at a coffee shop an hour ago, he calls you after he reaches home, or from the elevator.
This behaviour is typically displayed in the first few weeks of the relationship, when everything is new and exciting.
 However, when you realize that he still calls you just to hear your voice and it's been about a year since you started going out, you should know that he is serious about you.

4. IF HE'S ALWAYS PUNCTUAL.
If he's always punctual, he's definitely into you. When a man is serious about his girlfriend, he will ensure that she doesn't have to wait for an hour at the bus stop. He says he will pick you up for dinner and 8 p.m. and calls around 7. 55 p.m. to tell you he's stuck in traffic and will be 15 minutes late, he's respectful of your feelings.
He won't ever have you hanging around the park for half an hour before he shows up. Most girls constantly find themselves waiting for their boyfriend's phone call, or for him to pick them up. If you don't find yourself in that position, you've got yourself a winner.

5. WHEN HE LISTEN TO YOU TALK.
Several girls complain that they can't talk to their boyfriends and that they just don't listen.
When you spend time with him, he really listens to you. He's all ears about your problems at work. On the rain, he's not distracted by fellow passengers, but he is listening to you  intently. You have long chats on the phone where he hangs on to every word you say.
You find yourself telling him things you've never told any boyfriend before. He's not constantly checking his cell phone for messages, when you talk about the day. If your man remembers that it's your aunt's birthday in a couple of weeks, just because you mentioned it passing, understand that he's listening to every word you're saying.

66. WHEN HE WANTS TO DATE YOU EXCLUSIVELY.
You're his steady girlfriend and he makes sure everyone knows it. He is faithful and expects fidelity from you too.
He has had the conversation about being exclusive with you. He makes sure everyone knows that he's your boyfriend, not only because he doesn't want random men hitting on you, but because he wants to send a clear signal to all the girls that he's taken. This is a big step and you should appreciate him for this.

7. HE'S TRANSPARENT ABOUT ROUTINE.
You know his routine and what his day holds for him, not because you're tyrant but because he volunteers this information. You know he's in the gym in the morning and reaches work at 10 a.m. after making a quick dash to a coffee shop. You know that if he doesn't take your call in the afternoon, he's probably in a meeting or in the loo. If he's missing for a couple of hours, there's always an explanation that's credible.
You have never wondered, ''What could he possibly be doing now?'' or ''why hasn't he called me?''.

8. HE INTRODUCES YOU TO HIS FRIENDS.
He is keen that you meet his friends and not only because he wants to show off what knockout you are, but because he's so in love with you.
He wants his friends to know you and like you. He wants you to get comfortable with them, because this paves the way for your initiation in the group. He makes an effort to be nice to your friends for same reasons. He wants you to meet his family. This move is not to be underestimated at all. If there's one thing common in men across the continents, it's the fact that they only take the girl home, If they're taking the relationship to the next level.

9. HE ASKS FOR YOUR OPINION AND RESPECTS IT.
He wants you to accompany him while he shops for clothes, because he trusts your choice.
When he is confused about his career , he talks to you and listen patiently to what you have to say. He discusses things with you to seek your opinion.

10. HE'S ALWAYS THERE WHEN YOU NEED HIM.
He may be foul tempered and may say hurtful things from time to time, but he's always there when you need him. When your uncle passed away, he was there to hold your hand. When you lost a job, he took you out for ice cream and reassured  you. He may have his faults, but if he really cares for you, he will always try to protect you. If a bitchy girlfriend keeps picking on you, he calls her bluff and shuts her up. If he genuinely worries about you because you have cramps during that time of the month, he's definitely serious about you. Just like what i will do lol.
RomanceRe: Should I Run The Girl's Package? by rawpadgin(m): 9:24pm On Sep 09, 2015
No insult huh

demn! embarassed
PoliticsRe: The Only Country In The World That Has A Lot Of Jobs. by rawpadgin(m): 9:20pm On Sep 09, 2015
grin grin grin grin

nigerian man go be like "nor worry, we go survive as long as unna dey survive grin
RomanceRe: What Would You Do If Your Sister Flaunt Her P*ssy In A Party Like This? by rawpadgin(m): 9:18pm On Sep 09, 2015
I don't have a careless sister
Jokes EtcRe: Photo: Hen That Hatched Ducklings Instead Of Chicks by rawpadgin(m): 9:15pm On Sep 09, 2015
:Dthe ducklings were adopted by the hen

that hen has been barren for a long time wink cheesy
FoodRe: Imagine This Beer Parlour Advert Reminding You Of Your Ex by rawpadgin(m): 9:12pm On Sep 09, 2015
Then that beer go rotten for their fridge
PoliticsRe: Nigerian Woman Gives Birth Moments After Being Rescued From Sinking Migrant Boat by rawpadgin(m): 9:05pm On Sep 09, 2015
So the child will now be a citizen of where huh


Mediterranean sea huh
CareerRe: When Your Degree No Longer Guarantees Success! by rawpadgin(m): 1:38pm On Sep 09, 2015
dearpreye:
Everyone must wake up and smell the coffee. This isn't 1970. Things have changed. Everyone must endeavour to learn a skill or two!
exactly
Nairaland GeneralRe: Caption This Photo Of A Man Sleeping While Standing In Lagos by rawpadgin(m): 1:31pm On Sep 09, 2015
Body nor be fire wood jooor

maybe he's a night security guard

may God bless his hustle
RomanceRe: 4 Bad Dating Habits You Should Let Go Now. by rawpadgin(m): 1:11pm On Sep 09, 2015
Riwo11:
4 Bad Dating Habits You Should Let Go Now.


Read Here »»»http://www.riseup247.com/2015/05/4-bad-dating-habits-you-should-ditch-now.html
ain't nobody gonna quick that link
RomanceRe: 4 Bad Dating Habits You Should Let Go Now. by rawpadgin(m): 1:10pm On Sep 09, 2015
Dating isn’t easy, but it doesn’t need to be very difficult either. Everyone has their own rules. It’s important that you play by your own rules and find out what is important to you. You need to know what you’re willing to put up with and what you aren’t. Don’t simply settle because other people are. Here are 4 bad dating habits that you should probably ditch now in order to make your dating life a little more successful. 

1. You keep hoping things will get better. If you've been dating a man for a while and you continue to mention things that bother you, but they never change, you are wasting your own time. Stop waiting for things to miraculously change. If expressing your feelings and needs isn’t getting the point across, get out of the relationship. You deserve to have the things you want. 


2. You play too-hard-to-get. Playing hard to get can be a good tactic to use if you want a guy to notice you. Guys love a chase. If you let him chase you, but never actually give in and let him take you out, then you’re playing too hard to get and he’ll eventually give up and move on. You can’t expect a guy to chase you until you eventually decide to give in. 

3. You break up and make up every other week. A relationship where you are breaking up every other week only to make up again shortly after is an unstable relationship. The reasons for your frequent break-ups are probably silly. This is the kind of relationship that is filled with drama. If you want to make good relationship changes, this is a habit you must ditch today.

4. You move too fast. Even if you’ve talked online and on the phone for months before having your first real life date, you do not want to move too fast when you finally start dating. You may have connected well online and on the phone, but don’t expect the real life experience to be exactly the same. You might know details about each other, but the real life experience will be a new experience. 

Don’t rush into talking about the strong feelings you have for each other. Don’t even mention all of the plans you made while talking on the phone late at night. When you decide to ditch the bad dating habits you’ve been holding onto, you will find that you will have better relationships. You will more easily end relationships that aren’t working for you when you decide that bad habits aren’t worth your time. Do you have any of these bad dating habits? Source:
Science/TechnologyRe: World’s 10 Tallest New Buildings Of 2015 by rawpadgin(m): 12:45pm On Sep 09, 2015
I stand tall among my peers, call me Burj khalifa
I love black or yellow girls, call me wiz khalifa
RomanceRe: A Nairalander Opinion On "Reasons Why Guys Dont Date Girls with pics by rawpadgin(m): 8:51am On Sep 09, 2015
cool
RomanceRe: #bigliesyoutellyourself Trending On Twitter...drop Yours by rawpadgin(m): 8:47am On Sep 09, 2015
I will never take alcoholic drink again

i will never two-time again
RomanceRe: Quick Answer. Photo. by rawpadgin(m): 8:42am On Sep 09, 2015
Raiden:
Ab0ki, I didn't drag you into this thread...
:Dab0ki huh
that's not the name ur girlfriend was screaming wen i was banging her from behind last night
RomanceRe: Quick Answer. Photo. by rawpadgin(m): 8:33am On Sep 09, 2015
How is my being single ur business huh
FashionRe: Things to know before getting a suit (photos) by rawpadgin(m): 8:30am On Sep 09, 2015
Well, for me i prefer small suits

check my dp to see what am talking about
CelebritiesRe: Pat Attang: The New Booty Queen Of Nollywood Releases New Photos by rawpadgin(m): 8:24am On Sep 09, 2015
pyyxxaro:
I just de imagine the way this yeye yansh go take melt when she don reach hell fire embarassed
grin grin grin F grin ;DL
CelebritiesRe: List Of African Cities With The Highest Number Of Millionaires. by rawpadgin(m): 8:20am On Sep 09, 2015
Aiit
CelebritiesRe: Iyanya Shows Off His Ripped Abs On Instagram by rawpadgin(m): 8:11am On Sep 09, 2015
IVORY2009:
i dere u, put u pix up for comparison!
check my dp
RomanceRe: Why I Had Sex With Over 200 Younger Men – 71-year-old Great Grand Mother Reveals by rawpadgin(m): 6:54am On Sep 09, 2015
Water still dey her t0t0 huh
RomanceRe: Guys: Beautiful Wife Or Good Cook... Which Would You Choose? by rawpadgin(m): 6:31am On Sep 09, 2015
JeffreyJamez:
That clause "God fearing " has been dragged through the mud and it holds no value anymore.
it does still holds alotta value to me
RomanceRe: Some Of Our Babes Need To Change Their Mindset by rawpadgin(m): 10:50pm On Sep 08, 2015
Her parents have their own burden

so u don't ur own burden huh

foolish girl
FamilyRe: If Your Ex Boyfriend Came To Visit You When Ur Husband Travelled, But You Lodged by rawpadgin(m): 10:45pm On Sep 08, 2015
Some of tread we read here though

why are u (a married woman) still keep in touch with ur ex?

if i were ur hubby
RomanceRe: Funniest Things Men Thinks While And When Going Down On Their Woman Lol... by rawpadgin(m): 10:35pm On Sep 08, 2015
Perverted tread
RomanceRe: Now That We Have Had Sex, You Must Marry Me! by rawpadgin(m): 9:19pm On Sep 08, 2015
MISSNORA:
lol nairaland abi? I ll be off soon. Thanx dear
op stop fvcking low lives

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