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Health / Re: 3Million Nigerians Living With HIV/AIDS - AHF by realBliss(m): 7:39pm On Feb 27, 2017
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Romance / Re: Ladies, What Would You Do??? by realBliss(m): 2:50pm On Feb 23, 2017
rebirthforgoody:




How do you know..
call me prophet
Romance / Re: Ladies, What Would You Do??? by realBliss(m): 4:40pm On Feb 22, 2017
rebirthforgoody:







Depending on the person involve.
your name is patients
Romance / Re: Ladies, What Would You Do??? by realBliss(m): 11:20am On Feb 22, 2017
mhizchristabel:
Can U?
why should I? unless is certain that I will marry the person
Romance / Re: Why Should I Save Sex For Marriage by realBliss(m): 10:30am On Feb 22, 2017
Lilyqueeny:


thanks
okay dear
Romance / Re: Confused by realBliss(m): 10:24am On Feb 22, 2017
WilsonMayowa:


If they wanted to be religious, sud av been doing that before not because they want to marry

desperate time calls for desperate measure
Romance / Re: by realBliss(m): 10:22am On Feb 22, 2017
happy birthday

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Romance / Re: "My Hot Bae In Her Natural Hair" (photos) by realBliss(m): 10:20am On Feb 22, 2017
she looks like Whatsapp smiles

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Romance / Re: Why Should I Save Sex For Marriage by realBliss(m): 10:19am On Feb 22, 2017
Lilyqueeny:
There are three serious reasons to save sex for marriage.








First, as believers, we are to obey what God tells us to do.


First Corinthians 6:18–20 states, “Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body. Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.” If we are in Christ, He has purchased us with the sacrifice of His life. He calls the shots, and we are to honor Him.


The second reason is that we are to fight our spiritual battles wearing the breastplate of righteousness (Ephesians 6:14 ). We are in a contest between our new nature in Christ and our fleshly desires. First Thessalonians 4:3–7 says, “It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control your own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the pagans, who do not know God; and that in this matter no one should wrong or take advantage of a brother or sister.

. For God did not call us to be impure, but to live a holy life.” Allowing your body (rather than the Spirit) to control your actions is an act of defiance against God. Godly, loving sex between a husband and wife is giving and unselfish

. Using someone to fulfill a desire of the flesh is self-centered and abusive. Even if the partner is willing, you are still helping him or her to sin and negatively altering that person’s relationship with God and others.


The final reason involves the “mystery” of marriage (Ephesians 5:31 ). When God spoke of two people being joined as one, He was referring to something we’re only beginning to understand in a real, physiological way. When two people are intimate, the hypothalamus in the brain releases chemicals that induce feelings of attachment and trust.












Sex outside of marriage creates bonds that tear apart people’s hearts instead of joining them together.
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Finally, we need to remember a few things about virginity, and the lack thereof, given God’s grace.



Those who come to Christ after engaging in
premarital sexual relationships are not virgins; however, they are fully cleansed by Christ at the moment they are saved.



God can redeem anyone, and He can heal those who have indulged their fleshly lusts. And, in the horrible case of a woman victimized by sexual abuse or rape, who may feel that she, through no fault of her own, no longer measures up to the ideal standard of “virginity,” Christ is able to restore her spirit, heal her brokenness, and grant her wholeness.
good dp
Romance / Re: For Guys Only Please!!!! by realBliss(m): 10:17am On Feb 22, 2017
you should send her the tfare, if she comes good if she didn't better for u
Romance / Re: Confused by realBliss(m): 10:14am On Feb 22, 2017
what do you expect them to do, club hard?
Romance / Re: Ladies, What Would You Do??? by realBliss(m): 10:13am On Feb 22, 2017
rebirthforgoody:
I will move on with my life.a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage..it only means you are not the one for me..

can you be in a relationship up to 9yrs?
Romance / Re: Ladies, What Would You Do??? by realBliss(m): 10:12am On Feb 22, 2017
cloudyskygrind:
If after 9 years, your man leaves you to marry another?

Would you walk away? how do you handle it?

Can you date someone that long?

Guys, what has to click in your brain to think Oh, i don't like this girl anymore after 9 years?



I can't date a girl to that extent and I won't marry her...
Romance / Re: Thread closed... Jacksparr0w127 no vex by realBliss(m): 10:09am On Feb 22, 2017
what kind of rubbish is this?
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Truly? by realBliss(m): 10:41pm On Feb 21, 2017
helinues:
I am not talking about lust.. True love..
yes I have
Health / Re: 5 Things You Do That Endanger Your Health by realBliss(m): 10:13pm On Feb 21, 2017
Angelinastto:
my daddy dash me. Thank you
you're welcomed dear
Romance / Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by realBliss(m): 3:34pm On Feb 20, 2017
Benita27:
I don't take random pms.
Thanks!.
random? okay
Romance / Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by realBliss(m): 3:23pm On Feb 20, 2017
Benita27:
You're asking for a confidential information. I think i'll pass.

pass to where, should i pm you?
Romance / Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by realBliss(m): 3:17pm On Feb 20, 2017
Benita27:
Alright!, yours is cool.
what's your dating life like?
Romance / Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by realBliss(m): 3:09pm On Feb 20, 2017
Benita27:
To love someone and be loved equally.

What's yours?.

it is an act of socializing with an opposite sex, getting to know more about him/her,to protect and care for them unconditionally..
Romance / Re: I Am Prettier Than Jessicaseth by realBliss(m): 3:04pm On Feb 20, 2017
SINZ:

You have no idea, bruh.
I do bro
Romance / Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by realBliss(m): 3:02pm On Feb 20, 2017
Benita27:
Every man to his definition. grin
what's your own definition?
Romance / Re: This Nigerian Babe Says Vitamin C Prevents Unwanted Pregnancy by realBliss(m): 3:00pm On Feb 20, 2017
so the use of postinor 2 by ladies is true
Romance / Re: Who's Gonna Be My Ist Female Friend On Nairaland? by realBliss(m): 2:56pm On Feb 20, 2017
Berlynn:

wah? undecided
you feeling yourself
Romance / Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by realBliss(m): 2:56pm On Feb 20, 2017
Benita27:
Hello!.
yaqq, e go end up for nacking on the long-run.

lol, but what's the major purpose of dating?
Romance / Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by realBliss(m): 2:54pm On Feb 20, 2017
Abbbeyyy:
When men meet ladies, the basic thing most of them want to do is to get down with them. Depending on the outcome of events, some men may decide to go into a long term relationship with them or opt in for the fling option.

Without wasting much time, there are certain pointers women should watch out for when they meet new guys as this would help them discover what the men could be up to.
The following signs would help ladies know whether a man would act like a gentle man or make attempt to sleep with them as soon as they visit them:

1. When he seems extra nice and smooth. Ladies, when you visit a man in his house for the first time and he is super nice, you should start to be on your guards. He is probably doing this so he does not get you pissed or offended in any way before he makes his move.

2. When the room is squeaky clean

Most men are used to scattering their rooms and apartments. When you see that a man has arranged everywhere and the bed is well made, then you should watch out. If it were to be a guy visiting him, chances are he would not do a single thing in that room. He wants you to be impressed so you would not use his room as an excuse when he hits on you.

3. When his friends leave you two alone

When you visit a man and his friends start to leave the room one by one, then he is up to something. This would make the sexual tension in the room to heighten. The friends might have been let in on the plan about him trying his luck the first day.

4. When he offers you alcohol, Alcohol is a form of aphrodisiac and it makes most ladies feel light headed. When a man offers you alcohol in his house when you are visiting for the first time, he probably wants to help you ‘feel free’.
Drinking alcohol would in no time reduce your tension and load you with bouts of dutch courage. When he finally makes his advances, your self-defense would have been too low to put up a fight.

.5. When he has his hands in his pocket the most time Men do this all the time when they have a bulging erection. Please do not mistake this for them being gentlemanly. Men try hiding the fact that they are aroused by dipping their hands into their pockets so you do not notice the erection.

.6. When he has loud music played Men do this so people would not hear what is happening in the room. If his house is a self-contain, then you can be sure that he wants it badly. Men feel ladies would be more comfortable if their moans were suppressed by the noise coming from a sound system.

.7. When you are asked not to visit with your friend A man knows that a lady visiting him for the first time would be edgy and may want to have someone with her. If they have a very cordial relationship, he might tease her about that.Some daring guys would make provision for such occasions and would make a friend keep the company of whoever the lady takes along.

.8. When he disappears for a couple of minutes Dear ladies, do not think he wants you to get settled well in the house. He probably got turned on by your appearance he had to take a walk. You can be sure he would have a condom with him by the time he returns.

9. When you talked dirty the night before

It would be sheer coyness by acting as if you did not know he would make a move on you when you talked dirty the night before. He would definitely want to experiment and sleep with you when you visit.

10. When he gets touchy

When a lady visits a man for the first time and he becomes touchy, he is doing this to read your body language. Ladies are easily moved by touching; if a lady shows no objection to his advances, it may be a green light for him to touch other places. He may just get lucky and touch a soft spot on your body.


I do all except 10&6
Romance / Re: 10 Signs He Could Sleep With You On Your First Visit To His House by realBliss(m): 2:52pm On Feb 20, 2017
Benita27:
Some of your points are not valid, hasty generalisation.

1: Being nice on first dates doesn't necessarily imply he wants sex. Both parties turn nice to one another.

2: Did you expect someone expecting a visitor to leave his room dirty?, i guess no cos i would do same if in his shoes.

3: By right his friends are meant to give the both of you space, any reasonable friend would leave. It doesn't mean he wants to bed you.

7: Was she suppose to visit with her friend in the first place?, is he dating the both of them. grin

hi
Romance / Re: Who's Gonna Be My Ist Female Friend On Nairaland? by realBliss(m): 2:45pm On Feb 20, 2017
Berlynn:
feeling myself
hmmmm,how?
Romance / Re: That Awkward Feeling When You're To Have The First Meeting With Your Online Guy by realBliss(m): 2:44pm On Feb 20, 2017
SyberKate:
Please help me ask those who met their Hubby online. "how awkward was your first meeting "
So This leads to my story, I have been chatting with this guy for something so I called him yesterday and I just got turned off... lipsrsealed
Every feeling disappeared from my heart.... embarassed I didn't like his voice and the way he sounded.... cry No romance and am a freak for romantic guys... kiss
This dude is cute o via the pictures of him I have seen... shocked
And am asking how awkward can meeting an online Boo be...
How is a girl supposed to behave during the first meeting...
Who has a story about how he/she met someone special online.... How did the first meeting go....
Abeg help a sister out...."

okay, you look good too...
Romance / Re: Must Read: Car Trouble (18+) A Short Sex Story by realBliss(m): 2:06pm On Feb 20, 2017
so this story is short?
Romance / Re: I Am Prettier Than Jessicaseth by realBliss(m): 2:02pm On Feb 20, 2017
SINZ:
One fake SOB comparing himself to another fake SOB.

too many fake people here

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