₦airaland Forum

Voices... Deep voices.

Kokoebapluse:
Will you keep quiet?


Lucifa OK corona ni

Die

stevmatt15:
And a 13 years old can proudly wear it even though her parent bought it for her. She is even flaunting it to neighbours (boys and men)

Our great grand mothers wore beads as early as 6years and no one blinked.
There is nothing wrong with waist beads on a 13 year old, control your eyes, thoughts and tongue.
Why exactly are you looking at a 13 year old girl's waist?
It is men like you that will rape kids ans and say the kids seduced them.

To trap men and tak their souls to lucifer.
That's what you want to hear abi?

soupandeba:
Olosho spotted

Just like your mum who is the senior olosho.

No, leave her for someone who wants her.
There are people who love girls with multiple piercing.
Go and marry your choice.

You family should be ashamed of themselves.
2019 with all the problems in the world, you're still calling someone an osu

Nigerian women always acting foolish.
Your husband is gay.
You want to keep being married to him while he goes out and sleep with his boyfriends or you want to move out and get a life?
But no, you want stay there and cry, play victim, pray and do everything but get sense.

Why do people mostly men think it's a lie?
With a population of over 209.3million and 14 big states. How exactly is it not possible for 4 women to be raped every hour.
We have even more in Nigeria.
Just in September alone as at 2days ago, an activist has already handled 9 child rape cases.
Imagine how many others have handled in different states and how many that have gone unreported.

To give it a befitting burial.

See how the most of the men sees absolutely nothing wrong with this?
They rather blame the victim than say their fellow man messed up.
Women are groped daily.
Go to balogun, onitsha main market, motor parks and others as a woman, you are scared of what could happen.
An idiot could grab your breast or your ass and the moment you complain, they will abuse you and even gather to touch more.
Shame on you men.
You go abroad and keep your hands to yourselves because you know you could be arrested for these things but over here you touch women inappropriately and when they complain, you shut them down.
It's a pity.

Nigerian woman won't even do anything because at the end of the day, the policemen will mock her and tell her to go home and settle with her partner.

Of course it's from a man... Mtchwww

All these people talking trash, have you actually been to Borno State or maiduguri or even unimaid?
I graduated there over 3 years ago and was there this year for my transcript.
The university is even more beautiful than when I was a student.
There is absolutely nothing happening there, the school and students are safe.
Even in the heat if boko haram we were still in school back then in 2011/2012.
Sp stop taking panadol for another person's headache.

I'm glad you're a woman, until one day you marry a man who maltreats you and probably want sex after physically abusing you then because you're angry you refuse. He will beat you, tear your clothes and have his way with you over and over again
After all he has everlasting consent.

bukatyne:
In a Christian marriage, everlasting consent has been given on the wedding day so ideally, there is nothing like rape.

A man can be a selfish lover, a poor lover, an inconsiderate lover, bodily harm his wife, be violent etc.

However to rape his wife as we define rape, no.

@Beating: if she is tired of it, she should seek a redress. We all have the gift of self-preservation, she should use it.

No, it's not illiteracy.
I'm sure they are learned and graduates.
Nigerians hate to unlearn, that's our biggest problem. I feel sorry for the future of this country if we have youths like this

kmcutez:
I was also shocked, at some posters asking how a man can rape his wife. Very surprising to me. I’m not sure what kind of men we have in this country.

Maybe it’s due to lack of education as the illiteracy rate is high in Nigeria.

This is sad, so many Nigerians do not actually think a man can rape his spouse.
This is scary.

Seriously you don't know boobbabies are just nicknames? Smh
I am a woman and she has in no way disappointed me.
At least she owned her Bleep up unlike your randy pastor who will still keep sharing his holy penis everywhere.
What support is she going to offer? To who?
People like you who won't let her be?
Oh so she should get a support center so they will say she is seeking for relevance and all?
Has any of the victims bought and read any of her books?
They are there calling her Jezebel and all unsavory names.
She is moved on.. Let Nigerians stop calling her whenever Biodun commits adultery... Face your Gucci pastor.

Mayflowa:
Of course she disappointed me and every woman. She is making light of a potential serious case. It was very serious while she was involved in the sexual abuse by the abused of leadership position. Now she is calling her kids boobs whatever! That's the problem with Nigeria. You never fight to finish. You get tired and give up and pursue other ventures. Meanwhile in a sane society, she would tell her stories all over again. She will speak her truth and let the world know about a potential abuser in the church of God. She will offer support to all others that have been affected and form a coalition to stop this man from abusing others. That is why I am disappointed knowing she school and lives oversea.

Haven't you people seen all the posts and insults directed at this woman since Timi called out a certain pastor?
All over a sudden Ese is on everyone's lips.
Face your randy he goat community penis Gucci preachers and leave the poor woman alone.

How did she disappoint you?
Are you feeding her?
Since Timi made that post that day, people have been calling and dragging her all over again.
She made a post and all of a sudden she is a disappointment to who?
Mtchwww

Mayflowa:
Ese Walter is a disappointment. Agreed you have moved on let others also find their time to move on. Don't be forming champion. All too fresh in our memories when you were crying and rooting for any support you can find. We all try to believe you and helped to drag the pastor through mud. The pastor never issued a statement because he was afraid of the massive support around you. One would think you would be nice or sympathetic towards supposedly new victims

She was probably at fault... Because the man is a minor, because he does not climb on the pulpit and call God, because he doesn't preach against adultery and the likes, because this is the first,s3cond,fifth or even seventh sexual misconduct allegation against but yeah let's blame the woman, she is at fault.

Michaelf833:
She probably was at fault too, let's not judge in haste. God knows what transpired than we see and read about them... Let her move on .

I just had to go check her out. Damn she is good.

Onyiivic@gmail.com

Most busy body men like the poster who goes around demanding respect from women are suffering from serious inferiority complex.
I bet your uncle is not bothered about his wife kneeling or not but you are there losing sleep over it.
If your wife decides to kneel to take or give you something,how much exactly will it add to your bank account?
how tall will it make it?
will it make your manhood bigger?
will it give you more sense?
Get over your low self esteem and stop thinking that you deserved to be worshipped because you've got one small penis between your legs.

So many potential wife beaters here.
smh
What could possess a man to beat his wife?
She cheated?
Are you a saint? Haven't you?
She abused you?
Do you go about beating everyone who insult you?
And to think that alot of guys here feel it's a normal things makes me shudder.
No wonder we have alot of abused women in the country.
You can beat that conductor for abusing you.
But you can beat your wife.
You can't beat your mum or boss for being rude but can easily beat your wife.
You control your anger when your friends or strangers offend you but when your wife does,you hit her like a punching bag.
Just because this is coming from a woman,they all want to hear from the other side.
If a man had posted that the wife cheated or abused him.
They won't bother about hearing from the other party.
smh

enomakos:
Have you guys hear the man side of the story before commenting?

if the story was about a woman who cheated on her husband or sent thugs after him.
would you really want to hear from the other side before commenting?

Donpressman:
one sided story. He's the most wicked and violent man you have ever known. What will the man describe you with? Maybe a flirt and hoe I married as a wife. If you actually cheated on the man then you got what you deserve. That Mr A didn't beat his wife to pulp for cheating doesn't mean Mr B won't. Who cares! Enough of all this laws empowering women to misbehave. Inasmuch as I won't encourage such and can't do it doesn't mean someone else won't and to me it does not make it wrong or right either. Bottom line is there is a reason she was beaten that bad letz hear from the man too.

when a man cheats on his wife and he gets beaten this bad. That won't be a problem yes?

ApcSucks:
We call it oguma agala

That's what we call it too. Agbor(delta state).

Udmaster:
Delta Igbos in Benin?? The past chairman of Ohanaeze Ndi Igbo is a Delta Igbo Man,, go and ask Binis and Itsekiris why they hate being called yorubas? And don't quote me again with this ur body odour!!

There is a part of edo state called igbanke that speaks Ika,a dialect in a part of delta north.

Biafra ko. I would rather be referred to as a Nigerian from the south south region than an igbo from biafra. Most south eastern states do not even like themselves then how can you like and call me from delta,,akwaibom,portharcourt or bayelsa your brother when the Anambra is constantly at war with the Imo man who won't let his daughter marry an ebonyi.
Stop segregation and make Nigeria better mbok.