₦airaland Forum

LilMissFavvy:
Tiwa sang a love song and is making money from it, and you are taking it too seriously, SMH. It is synonymous with the human nature to always wail over what they don't have, even if such a thing is not all that important. The only women I may feel for are single women without children, those one's may feel lonely at some point. As for the women I mentioned, I bet they are all far better than the females in your family, no offense meant.

Kayyy:
The funny thing was the statistics of the Hilary/trump polls showed that trump won more middle aged white women than Clinton on a scale of 65% to 35%, so if your own gender doesn't trust you enough and gave more votes to a man that was even famed for the grabbing by the pussy statement he made then and he still had those figures, so who is marginalising who ?

LilMissFavvy:
So you do not know that Linda, Tiwa, Toke, Genevieve, etc are all living better lives than millions of married ladies in Nigeria? You don't even know the worth of peace of mind. They have children remember? They can never be lonely or sad. If they were married they would probably be stressed out because of a cheating husband or physical abuse. That's why I like saying that my main reason of considering marriage is to have one or two kids, after that, any trouble from a man, we are DONE.

edetic:
if i was to have my way, this idiot would spend the rest of his life in jail.

pocohantas:
What progress have you guys made? Can’t you see how your wives are running out of their matrimonial homes while some of you go about looking for women that can ENDURE like your mothers?

Why a normal man would be looking for a woman that can endure remains a mystery. Are you guys trained to inflict pain and misery?

romunu:
You gave her correctional slap, now they want to take you to a correctional center to correct your brain,you de vex, oga take time ooo.

cococandy:
Which part of morality and loyalty invites you to slap your wife?
I’m waiting for a response

LilMissFavvy:
You expect a wife to respect a husband that slaps her, seriously .

cococandy:
I have an example of marginalization for you. In my final year of school I wanted to run for president of my department but was told point blank that only the guys would be put on the ballot for president while the ladies would be on the ballot for Vice President. It was a small department.
Tight knit guys. Organizers in bed with each other.
So of course I didn’t run or even agree to be up for the vice presidency because I was already discouraged.

Now before you ask “why didn’t you stand up for yourself? Why didn’t you take it up with student council? Why didn’t you do this or that?”

My first question is why did gender matter in that election if female marginalization no longer exists like you want me to believe?
Why was being male a benefit to the guys who wanted to run and me being female a deterrent to me?

DoggoneDogg:
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All these fools you listed don't even half of what Genevieve Nnaji, Omotola, Funke Akindele & co earn.

Don't be fooled.

Na hospital bills dey always expose dem. Have you ever seen an actress beg for hospital bills

Even Mr. Ibu couldn't foot his bills.

cococandy:
Oh I gave you an example and suddenly it doesn’t apply.

The people who don’t know y’all’s gaslighting techniques na the people I dey pity.
If it’s happening right in front of you, you will still deny and try to make anyone who talks about it out to be a liar.

Relative to your present world, can your sisters inherit your father’s property that is located in the family compound passed down from great grandfather to grandfather to your father?
Because if yours can, in many parts of Nigeria, others cannot. Even though there’s no law that prevents women from inheritance, it still happens which means the law is not the problem but the underlying mindset and beliefs about women’s place in society.

Is that relative enough for your present world? Or do you need more examples so that you can gaslight your way out of acknowledging the truth?

DoggoneDogg:
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Music is not the only form of entertainment. Take note.

cococandy:
In a country where a woman who loses her husband starts to fret about if he didn’t leave a will while a man who loses his wife wouldn’t have to worry about such things even if the wife earned everything they own, you are asking me how women are being marginalized.

Many of you are being deliberately obtuse.

cococandy:
The people you’re addressing are too dumb for this conversation.
As if outlawing gender based marginalization automatically means everyone’s mindset has changed and men in authority will stop their discrimination against women.

It’s like talking to goats. They won’t get it

DoggoneDogg:
It is a FACT that female entertainers make more money than their male counterparts. Men are not complaining because entertainment is more or less a female thing.

However, in fields related to men like football & contact sports for example, you women STILL claim to be marginalized.

This is pure hypocrisy & manipulation.

This is exactly why female achievements are not regarded as credible because there is that lingering notion that she may have gotten it by cheating.

pocohantas:
The good thing about this thread is, suddenly MOST Nigerian women are doing well educationally and career-wise.

Suddenly, most NL guys would know rich independent women.

I am very grateful for this thread. I don’t want to see anyone say Nigerian ladies are dull and jobless again.

BRATISLAVA:
A thread for men, by men of women.

Wonderment.

Kobojunkie:
Oh, now I am a woman? ROFLMAO


Ignorance is indeed a disease!

Justbehave:
Never you argue with a woman. You can never win.

Kobojunkie:
I think I am beginning to understand you more and more. You can't help but seek out the delusions as a way of helping you escape the truth in front of you.

Binded by Mutual commitment? Where did God tell you that one? You have graduated into making God a liar now?

According to God, a man and woman separate from their parents, agree(agreement/contract) to cleave and then become one. - Genesis 2 vs 24 and Matthew 19 vs 3-4. God defined it as a contact between 2 individuals... the union being the resulting marriage. You think God made a mistake or lied?

Vinnie2000:
When She said LEAVE, does not necessarily means to Abandon!
It MEANS to have lesser associations with Dem!
Let's Say, If you and your Friends are Private Sch teachers, suddenly You get a Job as SA to ur State Gov, do you think after 1 or 2 years,
Do you think ur Relationship with Dem will be Strong?

Even Cristiano Ronaldo of Today, do you he is dat Close to his Sporting Lisbon friends of 2003?
No! He has Moved on!

I Learned sth new 2day: Men are more Emotional beings as Women whom some of us Criticize!

Kobojunkie:
?Marriage,in every shape or form it comes in, is a contract between 2 individuals- a business deal meant to benefit them and their shared goals. If you don't even know this, you have no business with the business.

Elliotwaveforec:
When you become rich, stop living among the poor; go to where those as rich as you are live. If you live among them, you'd eventually go back to their poverty level. You can help them from afar off o.

A friend living in a slum bought a car, the next guests he got were robbers.

If he had bought the car in the midst of those who had better cars, would he have been a victim of robbery?

Vinnie2000:
Correct, Dats it!
I See so many Emotions-driven or maybe Poverty mentality caused criticism of What the pastor said!!

But Really, We humans have an unpredictable and jealous mind!
When A Close Person is Progressing Astronomically and we re Stagnant, Envy tends to Creep in!!

All dis Nairaland Critics will learn Sha, wen dey get Rich!!

Kobojunkie:
All the words mean the same exact thing, did you know that. So I am not really sure what you are trying to say.

Kobojunkie:
It is a contract for crying out loud!
What? You didn't realize this since it entails you picking out a partner to your exact fit, some of you believing you could even mold a slave out of one if you could? Marriage has always been a business contract and when it ends, no one wants to be left carrying the bag.

Kobojunkie:
That is foolish talk!

So all those law suits out there are what? "Undignified"? Nonsense!

DrFunmisticGlow:
Don't be greedy. Take the 50and walk out of his AIDS infested ass with your dignity intact

dollynnn:
On top relationship that both of us will still be served breakfast last last?

BadRadio:
c'mon son... u can do better

pocohantas:
Her height sef done increase. You sure say she no wear heels so?

The man died a very unfortunate and useless death. This is painful to watch.

cococandy:
What happened to his father?
The father can’t fight for him?